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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok hands up ppl. How many of you have been totally won over by how nice a person was etc but when you saw them in person there was no physical attraction? Or perhaps the opposite you may have met someone purely out of lust for how sexy they looked but upon meeting thought there personality sucked? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Elaborate guys. If for example you were mad about someone based on their personality and then there was no physical attraction when you met then how did you deal with it? The other person naturally was expecting things to go well i imagine |
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"Elaborate guys. If for example you were mad about someone based on their personality and then there was no physical attraction when you met then how did you deal with it? The other person naturally was expecting things to go well i imagine "
Maybe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're getting mad for someone from a little online chat, then you're mad.
Happens quiet often if you ask. Quiet normal to imo. "
Maybe if you're easily pleased...? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're getting mad for someone from a little online chat, then you're mad.
Happens quiet often if you ask. Quiet normal to imo.
Maybe if you're easily pleased...?"
I respect your opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're getting mad for someone from a little online chat, then you're mad.
Happens quiet often if you ask. Quiet normal to imo.
Maybe if you're easily pleased...?
I respect your opinion "
Thank you. I wish I could say the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're getting mad for someone from a little online chat, then you're mad.
Happens quiet often if you ask. Quiet normal to imo.
Maybe if you're easily pleased...?
I respect your opinion
Thank you. I wish I could say the same."
Thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason. "
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol "
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh! "
You wouldn't believe how often it happens. I actually thought i was ok lookin until i joined this site lol Some women will actually block you for making an effort. I don't bother anymore. I was advised to send women long messages when i first joined and it is total rubbish. Ppl wonder then why some guys have an attitude here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyways it's almost impossible to get a good pic of yourself. Selfies result in double chins or screwed up faces. A lovely lady told me one night on a social night that my pics made me look way more horrible than I actually do. Lol.
We should do a glamour photo shoot for the men so we all have gleaming face pics. Who wants to do be the photographer. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Anyways it's almost impossible to get a good pic of yourself. Selfies result in double chins or screwed up faces. A lovely lady told me one night on a social night that my pics made me look way more horrible than I actually do. Lol.
We should do a glamour photo shoot for the men so we all have gleaming face pics. Who wants to do be the photographer. "
I was ditched by a girl here before because although she liked me. I wasn't "sporty" enough for her. Anyway we better suck it up before violins are played for us lol |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh!
You wouldn't believe how often it happens. I actually thought i was ok lookin until i joined this site lol Some women will actually block you for making an effort. I don't bother anymore. I was advised to send women long messages when i first joined and it is total rubbish. Ppl wonder then why some guys have an attitude here "
Giz a look at yer mug then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh!
You wouldn't believe how often it happens. I actually thought i was ok lookin until i joined this site lol Some women will actually block you for making an effort. I don't bother anymore. I was advised to send women long messages when i first joined and it is total rubbish. Ppl wonder then why some guys have an attitude here
Giz a look at yer mug then "
Anyone that wants to see my mug can mail me ha |
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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh!
You wouldn't believe how often it happens. I actually thought i was ok lookin until i joined this site lol Some women will actually block you for making an effort. I don't bother anymore. I was advised to send women long messages when i first joined and it is total rubbish. Ppl wonder then why some guys have an attitude here
Giz a look at yer mug then
Anyone that wants to see my mug can mail me ha "
I want to see out of curiosity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My face normally kills most conversations I start lol. Getting along ok then face pic then blocked lol. Or as someone said once don't you have a brown paper bag face pic. It does happen humans have eyes for a reason.
Tell me about it. This place completely destroyed my confidence lol The min i show a face pic iam immediately blocked lol Its kinda hurtful but funny at the same time lol
I can't understand why someone would block over a face pic.
Very harsh!
You wouldn't believe how often it happens. I actually thought i was ok lookin until i joined this site lol Some women will actually block you for making an effort. I don't bother anymore. I was advised to send women long messages when i first joined and it is total rubbish. Ppl wonder then why some guys have an attitude here
Giz a look at yer mug then
Anyone that wants to see my mug can mail me ha
I want to see out of curiosity "
Me too |
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I think I'm ok looking but on a couple of occasions I've been asked for face pics, have obliged and heard nothing more from the person making the request. Which did kinda make me go 'ouch' but I guess everyone has their own tastes and preferences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd probably opt for personality over looks everytime. Have ended social meets with very hot women, because of their arrogance. Which would turn me off someone, quicker than a politician running to vote on a pay rise. I don't think I've ever met anyone that physically could have the same affect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think after being here so long I wouldn't make a decision about anyone until I met them in person. Pics can lie, and also people can be great conversationalists on text and not in person. So I've learnt to never agree to play with someone until we've met in person and both parties are happy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'll often make an effort with a long opening message and all i get back is "send a face pic or i won't reply" and then i send one n get blocked or if iam lucky she might send one r two replies before never even bothering to open the 3rd and on she goes to the next guy. Wish i was a woman here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think after being here so long I wouldn't make a decision about anyone until I met them in person. Pics can lie, and also people can be great conversationalists on text and not in person. So I've learnt to never agree to play with someone until we've met in person and both parties are happy!"
Well if only there was more like you lolli. People I have chatted to wouldn't even meet for coffee to say hi and chat. If someone offered me a coffee meet I'd love it. Hopefully great company and I love coffee ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think people always mean to be rude when they block after seeing a face pic.
Theres a sort of panic when its realised the person isn't for you.
Some people find it easier to block than to explain.
Doesn't mean the sender is ugly - just not for them |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"I'll often make an effort with a long opening message and all i get back is "send a face pic or i won't reply" and then i send one n get blocked or if iam lucky she might send one r two replies before never even bothering to open the 3rd and on she goes to the next guy. Wish i was a woman here lol"
Ah stop the sob story I told ye ...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'll often make an effort with a long opening message and all i get back is "send a face pic or i won't reply" and then i send one n get blocked or if iam lucky she might send one r two replies before never even bothering to open the 3rd and on she goes to the next guy. Wish i was a woman here lol
Ah stop the sob story I told ye ... "
My confidence is none existent. I can't help it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think after being here so long I wouldn't make a decision about anyone until I met them in person. Pics can lie, and also people can be great conversationalists on text and not in person. So I've learnt to never agree to play with someone until we've met in person and both parties are happy!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't bother much anymore meeting and what's not. But it was in the forums and the chat rooms I made my impression last time I was here. Fab isnt for the faint of heart and put it this way. How many times does a profile get viewed on pof and no one messages you. Can't float everyone's boat that's just life |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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So at the start I used to reply back and say sorry not my type. ... then u get replys questioning your type ...what is your type ...would you nit try me. .I'll make u wet.. etc etc etc etc. .... then they get abusive. .Some .not all
So it's easier to block sometimes. .. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And if a woman wasn't attracted to a pic. What would you like to happen?
I won't meet anyone I'm not attracted to, so I politely say so.
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Well it's just polite to say sorry but not my type i guess n some women do an are nice about it n even tho it sucks u kinda appreciate them being nice about it. Others just have this self righteousness about them. Kinda annoying to that someone can judge u to not be there type based on ur face lol Like it's kinda like sayin sorry but how can i be friendly with u when u look like that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And if a woman wasn't attracted to a pic. What would you like to happen?
I won't meet anyone I'm not attracted to, so I politely say so.
Well it's just polite to say sorry but not my type i guess n some women do an are nice about it n even tho it sucks u kinda appreciate them being nice about it. Others just have this self righteousness about them. Kinda annoying to that someone can judge u to not be there type based on ur face lol Like it's kinda like sayin sorry but how can i be friendly with u when u look like that lol "
Although I agree mostly. Some people are not here for friends |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"And if a woman wasn't attracted to a pic. What would you like to happen?
I won't meet anyone I'm not attracted to, so I politely say so.
Well it's just polite to say sorry but not my type i guess n some women do an are nice about it n even tho it sucks u kinda appreciate them being nice about it. Others just have this self righteousness about them. Kinda annoying to that someone can judge u to not be there type based on ur face lol Like it's kinda like sayin sorry but how can i be friendly with u when u look like that lol "
I have to like the face . End of . I'm not everyone's type and neither will u be.. sooner u realise that then your fab journey be happier |
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"And if a woman wasn't attracted to a pic. What would you like to happen?
I won't meet anyone I'm not attracted to, so I politely say so.
Well it's just polite to say sorry but not my type i guess n some women do an are nice about it n even tho it sucks u kinda appreciate them being nice about it. Others just have this self righteousness about them. Kinda annoying to that someone can judge u to not be there type based on ur face lol Like it's kinda like sayin sorry but how can i be friendly with u when u look like that lol
I have to like the face . End of . I'm not everyone's type and neither will u be.. sooner u realise that then your fab journey be happier "
Exactly. Why start messaging and bring friends when you know sex isn't gonna happen.
I have to be attracted to the face too, not Hollywood looks, just attractive to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally get that. Maybe i have high standards cause anyone i Fancy doesn't Fancy me n those that show interest are ppl i don't Fancy lol"
so you tell people you don't like them when show face pics. The irony
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally get that. Maybe i have high standards cause anyone i Fancy doesn't Fancy me n those that show interest are ppl i don't Fancy lol so you tell people you don't like them when show face pics. The irony"
Haha no. Ill actually happily chat to anyone and be polite once there polite to me. Iam just sayin in general i tend to not Fancy those that Fancy me. |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"And if a woman wasn't attracted to a pic. What would you like to happen?
I won't meet anyone I'm not attracted to, so I politely say so.
Well it's just polite to say sorry but not my type i guess n some women do an are nice about it n even tho it sucks u kinda appreciate them being nice about it. Others just have this self righteousness about them. Kinda annoying to that someone can judge u to not be there type based on ur face lol Like it's kinda like sayin sorry but how can i be friendly with u when u look like that lol
I have to like the face . End of . I'm not everyone's type and neither will u be.. sooner u realise that then your fab journey be happier
Exactly. Why start messaging and bring friends when you know sex isn't gonna happen.
I have to be attracted to the face too, not Hollywood looks, just attractive to me."
Exactly.. I'm not a model. ..and don't fancy models...but every single person has their own type as such ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I totally get that. Maybe i have high standards cause anyone i Fancy doesn't Fancy me n those that show interest are ppl i don't Fancy lol so you tell people you don't like them when show face pics. The irony
Haha no. Ill actually happily chat to anyone and be polite once there polite to me. Iam just sayin in general i tend to not Fancy those that Fancy me. "
I chat to anyone that messages me too (mostly). The problem with that is that they think it will end in sex even if you tell them right at the start that we're not a match |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I totally get that. Maybe i have high standards cause anyone i Fancy doesn't Fancy me n those that show interest are ppl i don't Fancy lol so you tell people you don't like them when show face pics. The irony
Haha no. Ill actually happily chat to anyone and be polite once there polite to me. Iam just sayin in general i tend to not Fancy those that Fancy me.
I chat to anyone that messages me too (mostly). The problem with that is that they think it will end in sex even if you tell them right at the start that we're not a match"
I can understand that to lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well take a look at the status on some profiles. There is one for instance up right now. It's horrible nasty and vicious. The problem with these posts is they simply shine a light on the darkness inside some folk. Far more unattractive than anything physical |
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"Well take a look at the status on some profiles. There is one for instance up right now. It's horrible nasty and vicious. The problem with these posts is they simply shine a light on the darkness inside some folk. Far more unattractive than anything physical "
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