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It's tough here!!
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over a year ago
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
I know how you feel man...but to be fair,reading and answering all mails would be a full-time job for the women of Fab 
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke."
Perhaps they expected to be knee-deep in clunge by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
To be honest I've been here a week and found it no bother buddy. Dry your eyes off and have another go  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men hugely outnumber women here, unless you stand out from the crowd, or from Leitrim, you're going to struggle to get noticed.
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Very true!"
Stop putting words in my keyboard!! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke.
Perhaps they expected to be knee-deep in clunge by now"
Yeah the green tick entitles you to round the clock clunge lol |
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"hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke."
Where does it say I've met more than alot of people, I'm verified, doesn't say how many, it's one by the wsy |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke.
Where does it say I've met more than alot of people, I'm verified, doesn't say how many, it's one by the wsy"
there are guys on here 6 months without meeting and they don't complain about it being tough they just get on with it. nobody is going to get you more meets and whinging about how tough it is a sure way to stop getting meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
Ye get used to it. I won't lie I can be perhaps crude with some messages but ive tried making an effort with my first mail and more often then not i literally get blocked or ignored or it just doesn't ever get read. I have more success when iam straight to the point but after a message or two the same thing happens an the message goes unread. Ye just have to accept that the women here are being hounded by so many men that it's very hard to get and keep there attention when they get new offers by the hour. Frustrating but that's fab |
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!
Ye get used to it. I won't lie I can be perhaps crude with some messages but ive tried making an effort with my first mail and more often then not i literally get blocked or ignored or it just doesn't ever get read. I have more success when iam straight to the point but after a message or two the same thing happens an the message goes unread. Ye just have to accept that the women here are being hounded by so many men that it's very hard to get and keep there attention when they get new offers by the hour. Frustrating but that's fab "
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OH Crikey... now Mick will be adding the Percussion Section of the Orchestra! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!
Ye get used to it. I won't lie I can be perhaps crude with some messages but ive tried making an effort with my first mail and more often then not i literally get blocked or ignored or it just doesn't ever get read. I have more success when iam straight to the point but after a message or two the same thing happens an the message goes unread. Ye just have to accept that the women here are being hounded by so many men that it's very hard to get and keep there attention when they get new offers by the hour. Frustrating but that's fab
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OH Crikey... now Mick will be adding the Percussion Section of the Orchestra!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
Be honest,when you joined 5weeks ago,what were you honestly expecting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem here is guys seem to think there 'entitled' to meets here.
Why should anyone meet you just because your on a website.
You would expect a woman to hook up with you just because you happen to be in the same pub, so being on the same site is the exact same.
No disrespect intended op.
But your post smacks of a sense of entitlement that just shouldn't be there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem here is guys seem to think there 'entitled' to meets here.
Why should anyone meet you just because your on a website.
You would expect a woman to hook up with you just because you happen to be in the same pub, so being on the same site is the exact same.
No disrespect intended op.
But your post smacks of a sense of entitlement that just shouldn't be there.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem here is guys seem to think there 'entitled' to meets here.
Why should anyone meet you just because your on a website.
You would expect a woman to hook up with you just because you happen to be in the same pub, so being on the same site is the exact same.
No disrespect intended op.
But your post smacks of a sense of entitlement that just shouldn't be there.
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There's a difference between expecting ppl to be polite and reply and expecting women to drop their knickers because u messaged them. Guys can do no right here alot of the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem here is guys seem to think there 'entitled' to meets here.
Why should anyone meet you just because your on a website.
You would expect a woman to hook up with you just because you happen to be in the same pub, so being on the same site is the exact same.
No disrespect intended op.
But your post smacks of a sense of entitlement that just shouldn't be there.
There's a difference between expecting ppl to be polite and reply and expecting women to drop their knickers because u messaged them. Guys can do no right here alot of the time. "
OK to he fair if you throw your toys out of the pram because women don't reply then you'll not last long here.
Women can receive literally hundreds of mails A DAY here.
They have the absolute deck in their favour and can literally pick and choose whoever they want.
Downside being that they can't possibly reply to 100 mails saying sorry but I'm not interested so usually end up bulk deleting.
And if you can't see the cold reality of that without having a whinge, may I suggest maybe plenty of fish or tinder or something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem here is guys seem to think there 'entitled' to meets here.
Why should anyone meet you just because your on a website.
You would expect a woman to hook up with you just because you happen to be in the same pub, so being on the same site is the exact same.
No disrespect intended op.
But your post smacks of a sense of entitlement that just shouldn't be there.
There's a difference between expecting ppl to be polite and reply and expecting women to drop their knickers because u messaged them. Guys can do no right here alot of the time.
OK to he fair if you throw your toys out of the pram because women don't reply then you'll not last long here.
Women can receive literally hundreds of mails A DAY here.
They have the absolute deck in their favour and can literally pick and choose whoever they want.
Downside being that they can't possibly reply to 100 mails saying sorry but I'm not interested so usually end up bulk deleting.
And if you can't see the cold reality of that without having a whinge, may I suggest maybe plenty of fish or tinder or something?"
I get and understand that. Just pointing out that some guys can do no right and it's not much to expect a reply but i totally understand aswell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for positive replies, there is no sense of entitlement from me, not expecting loads if rides just because I signed up, an odd reply saying not interested "
That's what I was getting at though.
I've been out to lunch with female friends from here. And over an hour of a lunch they would show me they've racked up 10 or 20 mails.
If they were to reply to say not interested to them it would be a full time job and noone wants that lol.
If I get a mails saying sorry not my type then yeah it's nice but if I hear nothing back or a mail goes unread or is deleted then it just means they're not interested.
Either that or you've accidentally mailed your swinger aunty who recognises you lmfao |
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"Thanks for positive replies, there is no sense of entitlement from me, not expecting loads if rides just because I signed up, an odd reply saying not interested
That's what I was getting at though.
I've been out to lunch with female friends from here. And over an hour of a lunch they would show me they've racked up 10 or 20 mails.
If they were to reply to say not interested to them it would be a full time job and noone wants that lol.
If I get a mails saying sorry not my type then yeah it's nice but if I hear nothing back or a mail goes unread or is deleted then it just means they're not interested.
Either that or you've accidentally mailed your swinger aunty who recognises you lmfao "
Jesus, hope not!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
......you think you have a tough time. ....you want to be in our profile for a day....its a fuckin war zone here..!!!...INCOMING !!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!......you think you have a tough time. ....you want to be in our profile for a day....its a fuckin war zone here..!!!...INCOMING !!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hold on you are here 5 weeks and you're verified so you've met more than a lot of people. the amount of people who join get verified then complain they cant get a meet is becoming a joke.
Perhaps they expected to be knee-deep in clunge by now"
Who they , what do you mean by that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for positive replies, there is no sense of entitlement from me, not expecting loads if rides just because I signed up, an odd reply saying not interested "
I am odd and not interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for positive replies, there is no sense of entitlement from me, not expecting loads if rides just because I signed up, an odd reply saying not interested
I am odd and not interested"
That hard , shur he mite have no interest in you to |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
Maybe show your verification and add more pics.
Then just do what the rest of us do and have a bit of banter on here or forums. Let people see you having a laugh and know you're sound. And work at it like everybody else. Moaning about it on here doesn't help I'm afraid, total turn off for me  |
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"Thanks for positive replies, there is no sense of entitlement from me, not expecting loads if rides just because I signed up, an odd reply saying not interested
I am odd and not interested"
Thanks for reply, but wasn't interested in you in the first place, thanks again |
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!
Maybe show your verification and add more pics.
Then just do what the rest of us do and have a bit of banter on here or forums. Let people see you having a laugh and know you're sound. And work at it like everybody else. Moaning about it on here doesn't help I'm afraid, total turn off for me "
Thanks for reply, wasn't moaning it was a straight forward question, no need for people to get upset about it, thanks |
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!"
You reckon? Try looking for a normal, sane man. |
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"Jasus it's tough here, trying to get some meets, get into a conversation with ladies then mails go unread, am normal, not rude, nothing wrong with me!!!! So any ladies help!
You reckon? Try looking for a normal, sane man. "
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Why are you looking for a sane man?? |
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