"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
Maybe sometimes the pros are just better but their hands are all soft and from what I've been lead to baleve rough hands enhance the experience |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
I guess you'd need to try a few to find out   |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
.....a good sports masseuse....you feel 3inches taller when he or she is done.....
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I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers...  |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
No I wouldn't look on here either....my massage dream would include soles and arches, not many could oblige  |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me?
No I wouldn't look on here either....my massage dream would include soles and arches, not many could oblige "
That's a full body massage....take out stress of the foot and soles... x |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers... "
Tbh I've never had a tantric massage, I believe it's something rather intimate and something I wouldn't practise with someone of a swinger site unless you know that person very well but then it might turn into something else altogether and that's not what I'm looking for. However I might have a wrong understanding of it... |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
I like to massage a ladies tummy from the inside
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
I like to massage a ladies tummy from the inside
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"It's just the thought of an oily coating all over my body is not appealing as it goes everywhere and to parts that don't need to be oiled, they're working fine without. "
Holistic massage use grape seed oil. Much thinner and less oily.
Although considering other thread, I'm thinking coconut oil may be best, as long as no latex condom, so Mates Skyn and a Bounty and away we go! |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me?
No I wouldn't look on here either....my massage dream would include soles and arches, not many could oblige
That's a full body massage....take out stress of the foot and soles... x"
Odd how I felt that feet and soles were outside the full body massage but hopeful that there is a take out stress factor therein? x |
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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me?
Maybe sometimes the pros are just better but their hands are all soft and from what I've been lead to baleve rough hands enhance the experience"
Promises promises
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"I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers...
Tbh I've never had a tantric massage, I believe it's something rather intimate and something I wouldn't practise with someone of a swinger site unless you know that person very well but then it might turn into something else altogether and that's not what I'm looking for. However I might have a wrong understanding of it..."
No...you hit the nail on the head there actually..  |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me?
Maybe sometimes the pros are just better but their hands are all soft and from what I've been lead to baleve rough hands enhance the experience
Promises promises
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You know I'm a pro B  |
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"I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers...
Tbh I've never had a tantric massage, I believe it's something rather intimate and something I wouldn't practise with someone of a swinger site unless you know that person very well but then it might turn into something else altogether and that's not what I'm looking for. However I might have a wrong understanding of it..."
There is an element of truth in that yes. For many here they see tantric ad a prelude to fucking. In its origins it isn't base sexual.... It has a controlled high sexual mind over body aspect to it. I appreciate what you say and mean about it being in an intimate position with the other person....However it's less about intimate but more about trust and mindfulness. Complete strangers did tantric with each other because it is so much about the mind, detachment of the pure physical aspect of it and moving into another level of mental and spiritual. Few here have an understanding of that....its all about physical...Most don't realise they are spiritual beings and so never tap into that most powerful part of their being. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Foot massage is a great stress reliever and I don't care who it's from I am a slut like that
I hate people touching my feet. I'm always afraid they'll accidentally touch the end of my knob.  "
The dreaded short leg syndrome |
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By *oghunter33 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers...
Tbh I've never had a tantric massage, I believe it's something rather intimate and something I wouldn't practise with someone of a swinger site unless you know that person very well but then it might turn into something else altogether and that's not what I'm looking for. However I might have a wrong understanding of it...
There is an element of truth in that yes. For many here they see tantric ad a prelude to fucking. In its origins it isn't base sexual.... It has a controlled high sexual mind over body aspect to it. I appreciate what you say and mean about it being in an intimate position with the other person....However it's less about intimate but more about trust and mindfulness. Complete strangers did tantric with each other because it is so much about the mind, detachment of the pure physical aspect of it and moving into another level of mental and spiritual. Few here have an understanding of that....its all about physical...Most don't realise they are spiritual beings and so never tap into that most powerful part of their being. "
Intimacy doesn't only mean physical, there's an emotional, a mental, a social, and a spiritual intimacy. It is easier to be physically intimate with someone than to be intimate in any of the other four areas. Some might consciously seek the physical only.
While I believe you that complete strangers can venture into a tantric experience, it's not something that appeals to me to try out with a stranger. It's more something I'd try in a relationship. Also trantic is just one approach, even though a very recognised and ancient one, to get to a higher spiritual level. |
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"Sometimes it seems that half of the fabbers on here are pros in hot oil massage...while a good massage is something nice, if I need one I wouldn't look for one on here....is it just me? "
No, I don't think so! But if you accept that a nice back rub is also enjoyable (but not a massage) & go from there... |
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"Foot massage is a great stress reliever and I don't care who it's from I am a slut like that
I hate people touching my feet. I'm always afraid they'll accidentally touch the end of my knob. "
Cummere ya sexi thang....
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"I guess it comes down to personal preferences. A good full body massage can be a great bit of foreplay if done in that manner as is tantric or there can be a well being/healing massage. Sports injury massage is for a different purpose altogether and needs to be done by a fully trained physio or further injury can be caused by aggravation of injury.
Sex on here can be hit and miss as with massage. There are professionals too if one prefers...
Tbh I've never had a tantric massage, I believe it's something rather intimate and something I wouldn't practise with someone of a swinger site unless you know that person very well but then it might turn into something else altogether and that's not what I'm looking for. However I might have a wrong understanding of it...
There is an element of truth in that yes. For many here they see tantric ad a prelude to fucking. In its origins it isn't base sexual.... It has a controlled high sexual mind over body aspect to it. I appreciate what you say and mean about it being in an intimate position with the other person....However it's less about intimate but more about trust and mindfulness. Complete strangers did tantric with each other because it is so much about the mind, detachment of the pure physical aspect of it and moving into another level of mental and spiritual. Few here have an understanding of that....its all about physical...Most don't realise they are spiritual beings and so never tap into that most powerful part of their being.
Intimacy doesn't only mean physical, there's an emotional, a mental, a social, and a spiritual intimacy. It is easier to be physically intimate with someone than to be intimate in any of the other four areas. Some might consciously seek the physical only.
While I believe you that complete strangers can venture into a tantric experience, it's not something that appeals to me to try out with a stranger. It's more something I'd try in a relationship. Also trantic is just one approach, even though a very recognised and ancient one, to get to a higher spiritual level. "
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Hi I love giving and receiving tantra many on here could verify. It doesn't have to be a sexual experience many people on here are liberated and hence more willing to try it out. The experience can be mind blowing . A lady I knew in the past would not allow external orgasm as that somewhat displaces the idea of full body orgasm with a quicker short term fix hard to explain but I feel I am legitimate and many others would feel the same |
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Its not just about the masseurs skills, it depends on what type of massage is done (indian head, tantric, hot stone, soft and deep tissue massages, healing energy massages etc) its also about the quality and type of oil used and its healing and relaxing properties. Its also about enhancing the other senses ie incense, water /eastern mantra music, candles, blindfold and even ties. All join together to stimulate each of the senses and provide a much more sensually enjoyable experience in my experience. |
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