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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me 
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please |
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"I actually think threesome would be better. That way if you're not into it after you start you can both still have fun with the guy "
.. agree here threesome or foursome def the best way .. playing for the boys can be such a turn on  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please "
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it . "
Yeah fair point, maybe one on one would be better so if some prefer the girl to be really into it. What if I met a couple and wasn't that into it after all   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it .
Yeah fair point, maybe one on one would be better so if some prefer the girl to be really into it. What if I met a couple and wasn't that into it after all "
Then you'd still have the man to play with!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it .
Yeah fair point, maybe one on one would be better so if some prefer the girl to be really into it. What if I met a couple and wasn't that into it after all "
A nice couple will understand that and not put you under pressure , maybe find someone you like or all ready know and go for a night out see what happens . I just meant it is Much more fun for me if the lady is into me as well . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can see the point for both sides! If you have a threesum then there's the back up of having a man if you don't enjoy the lady as much as you imagined - on the flip side having the man there may be a distraction. A one on one is amazing but it's a matter of finding the right woman that your attracted to and have chemistry with, it's a toughy!
I would suggest trying to get to a social and getting a feel for the other females personalities and guage the chemistry. I know this isn't your thing but a little ground work may pay off in the long run!
Enjoy your quest and enjoy exploring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Definitely without a doubt have one to one for your first time. To have another person in the room will either make you more nervous or else distract you.
I guarantee you will have fun with the right sexy lady. Meet for coffee, share stories. Bring a few toys to first meet even. Go for it, you won't regret it. I speak from experience. When you realise you actually quite like a ladies touch, have ffms and boy, you get best of both...very hot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please "
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I've met couples and I do find them men are very distracting to me myself personally and can be impatient when in mid swing with the female have .   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely without a doubt have one to one for your first time. To have another person in the room will either make you more nervous or else distract you.
I guarantee you will have fun with the right sexy lady. Meet for coffee, share stories. Bring a few toys to first meet even. Go for it, you won't regret it. I speak from experience. When you realise you actually quite like a ladies touch, have ffms and boy, you get best of both...very hot "
Yes a one on one just appeals more. For first time anyway, I feel a guy will make it all about him if that makes sense..woohoo I have two women kinda thing when I would prefer if it was just myself and whoever she might be |
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I completely agree with what lolli has said above. There is a point for both sides, but my personal feel on it is if your really wanting to try out your bi side one on one might be easier. One on one was my first bi experience and it still stands out to me now. Because I was experimenting at the time I personally would have been awkward and self conscious if another person was watching.
There's less distraction one on one and you'll have more time to explore. Plus you only have to find chemistry between you and one other person that way not two.
There's a lot of us out there that if you explained it's that your experimenting and just trying it out, if you felt it wasn't for you all play could be stopped as in any other situation. |
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"I completely agree with what lolli has said above. There is a point for both sides, but my personal feel on it is if your really wanting to try out your bi side one on one might be easier. One on one was my first bi experience and it still stands out to me now. Because I was experimenting at the time I personally would have been awkward and self conscious if another person was watching.
There's less distraction one on one and you'll have more time to explore. Plus you only have to find chemistry between you and one other person that way not two.
There's a lot of us out there that if you explained it's that your experimenting and just trying it out, if you felt it wasn't for you all play could be stopped as in any other situation. "
Yeah the point about feeling awkward with an audience is a good one I just think if I leave fab at some stage and have never explored this a bit then I'll regret it. Tbh meeting a woman gets me more excited than meeting a man lately
No offence to the men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I completely agree with what lolli has said above. There is a point for both sides, but my personal feel on it is if your really wanting to try out your bi side one on one might be easier. One on one was my first bi experience and it still stands out to me now. Because I was experimenting at the time I personally would have been awkward and self conscious if another person was watching.
There's less distraction one on one and you'll have more time to explore. Plus you only have to find chemistry between you and one other person that way not two.
There's a lot of us out there that if you explained it's that your experimenting and just trying it out, if you felt it wasn't for you all play could be stopped as in any other situation.
Yeah the point about feeling awkward with an audience is a good one I just think if I leave fab at some stage and have never explored this a bit then I'll regret it. Tbh meeting a woman gets me more excited than meeting a man lately
No offence to the men!"
Then it's time FPT - take a step to the dark side  |
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"I completely agree with what lolli has said above. There is a point for both sides, but my personal feel on it is if your really wanting to try out your bi side one on one might be easier. One on one was my first bi experience and it still stands out to me now. Because I was experimenting at the time I personally would have been awkward and self conscious if another person was watching.
There's less distraction one on one and you'll have more time to explore. Plus you only have to find chemistry between you and one other person that way not two.
There's a lot of us out there that if you explained it's that your experimenting and just trying it out, if you felt it wasn't for you all play could be stopped as in any other situation.
Yeah the point about feeling awkward with an audience is a good one I just think if I leave fab at some stage and have never explored this a bit then I'll regret it. Tbh meeting a woman gets me more excited than meeting a man lately
No offence to the men!"
I know that feeling well 
Yeah there's times meeting a couple can feel like that, so if I was you I'd definitely be going the one on one route. But take your time finding one you feel comfortable with, and I'd definitely do coffee and stuff first to see how ye get on!!
You know you certainly won't be short on offers, and you know where I stand at this stage |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of hot ladies on this thread. A girly party be fun
You offering to organise it lilred?! I'd be there!!"
I just might, but you sexy ladies on this thread all in south of country...so maybe one of you arrange and I'll have a wee trip. You all hardly wanna come north |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lots of hot ladies on this thread. A girly party be fun
Snap! 
Ha ha..is it bad that this thread getting me a wee bit turned on "
Me too - there's some very delectable bi ladies here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One on one for your first experience would probably be best, most women will understand if there is no chemistry or if u aren't comfortable with it where with a couple u might feel pressured into continuing to play. My first experience was one on one and that's the way I would of wanted it don't think I could handle the pressure of having an audience my first time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this all my fault
You can take full credit for ant devilment which results from it
Just like to say if u need a fluffer I'd kindly oblige "
Pah! You can hold the coats |
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please .
I've met couples and I do find them men are very distracting to me myself personally and can be impatient when in mid swing with the female have . "
I have to say I (Anglo) am quite unobtrusive when we meet a single female until I am asked to join in. Anyway with a couple you can knock off two things at once, a threesome and a first girl experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could wear a dress if you wanted to try it out with me!
Oh and I've got this MASSIVE clit! 
Love sucking on massive clits "
That you do my dear, that you DO!
Careful not to choke |
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Personally I think you can't beat a sensual one on one with another female. But its hard to find proper bi sexual females. A lot are part of a couple and don't play separately.
I've never organized a female only party but if there's enough interest I will mmmmmmmmm |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Is this all my fault
You can take full credit for ant devilment which results from it
Just like to say if u need a fluffer I'd kindly oblige
Pah! You can hold the coats "
Gladly madame just hang it here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I completely agree with what lolli has said above. There is a point for both sides, but my personal feel on it is if your really wanting to try out your bi side one on one might be easier. One on one was my first bi experience and it still stands out to me now. Because I was experimenting at the time I personally would have been awkward and self conscious if another person was watching.
There's less distraction one on one and you'll have more time to explore. Plus you only have to find chemistry between you and one other person that way not two.
There's a lot of us out there that if you explained it's that your experimenting and just trying it out, if you felt it wasn't for you all play could be stopped as in any other situation.
Yeah the point about feeling awkward with an audience is a good one I just think if I leave fab at some stage and have never explored this a bit then I'll regret it. Tbh meeting a woman gets me more excited than meeting a man lately
If that's how your feeling then by all means go for it. And yes with a female only first time. Do your homework. Pick one your attracted to and chat and if it still feels right then what's stopping you?start slow and let her lead until your comfortable and that's the key word.
No offence to the men!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this all my fault
You can take full credit for ant devilment which results from it
Just like to say if u need a fluffer I'd kindly oblige
Pah! You can hold the coats
Gladly madame just hang it here "
Stop covering it up cj...stick it out...we need to see how many coats we can hang on it before issuing the party invites hehe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We had a girls night out about two year ago I'd say now and was a great night! There was another one I think last year with a hotel room booked for anyone who wanted to play afterwards. I have been asked afew times to do one again but time just gets away and didn't have a chance. Think there is defo enough interest if someone wanted to do another, even for drinks, it's a great way to get to know the other girls on site |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm always up for the girls parties...but they inevitably turn out as drinking, chatting sessions....have had more sexy fun at Ann Summer's parties
.......except for one time Oh yeah I'm still blushing when I think of that one! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Is this all my fault
You can take full credit for ant devilment which results from it
Just like to say if u need a fluffer I'd kindly oblige
Pah! You can hold the coats
Gladly madame just hang it here
Stop covering it up cj...stick it out...we need to see how many coats we can hang on it before issuing the party invites hehe"
No worries when one arm is full we can use the other should be plenty room for about twenty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always up for the girls parties...but they inevitably turn out as drinking, chatting sessions....have had more sexy fun at Ann Summer's parties
.......except for one time Oh yeah I'm still blushing when I think of that one! "
That one time at band camp?? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I'm always up for the girls parties...but they inevitably turn out as drinking, chatting sessions....have had more sexy fun at Ann Summer's parties
.......except for one time Oh yeah I'm still blushing when I think of that one!
That one time at band camp?? "
Not the flute |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm always up for the girls parties...but they inevitably turn out as drinking, chatting sessions....have had more sexy fun at Ann Summer's parties
.......except for one time Oh yeah I'm still blushing when I think of that one!
That one time at band camp??
Not the flute "
But it played such a sweet tune!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As a guy I'd even say go one on one 1St.
Me an my Mrs wanted to meet a girl and found it much easier for her to relax and enjoy meeting the girl on her own, we found a cpl with a bi girl and they got on well
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it .
Yeah fair point, maybe one on one would be better so if some prefer the girl to be really into it. What if I met a couple and wasn't that into it after all "
Or find a guy that knows/has a bi female friend. He helps set it up and the two of you can meet, if it doesn't work out then he's there to help and step in if you want. |
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"Fab has made me curious about meeting a woman, I guess it's always been in the background Fab just brought it out in me
Any advice how to go about meeting a woman? I don't go to parties or m&g's. Would it be easier to meet a couple and explore it that way? Although I would prefer one on one with a woman first. Women come forth with your experiences/advice please
I've had a few girl on girl experiences and always enjoyed them . Really up to you what you are looking for , ffm is hot too but for me only if the girl is actually bi and really into it .
Yeah fair point, maybe one on one would be better so if some prefer the girl to be really into it. What if I met a couple and wasn't that into it after all
Or find a guy that knows/has a bi female friend. He helps set it up and the two of you can meet, if it doesn't work out then he's there to help and step in if you want."
It just so happens..... |
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over a year ago
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha"
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl"
enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha "
Oh jesus sounds frightening yet promising lol |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
Oh jesus sounds frightening yet promising lol "
I'm always a sure thing hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha "
If that's what's ahead of me I might stick with cock |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
If that's what's ahead of me I might stick with cock "
ah I can go easy I'm not aways a sex demented freak haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
Oh jesus sounds frightening yet promising lol I'm always a sure thing hahaha "
Ya that's called being a nympho ash lol !! |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
If that's what's ahead of me I might stick with cock ah I can go easy I'm not aways a sex demented freak haha "
You can go easy?!! Just be careful around fireplaces.... Ooooh and watch out for fingernails |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
If that's what's ahead of me I might stick with cock ah I can go easy I'm not aways a sex demented freak haha
You can go easy?!! Just be careful around fireplaces.... Ooooh and watch out for fingernails "
Hahahaha funniest night ever that was we nearly ended up in there at one point hahahaha |
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ash the vag destroyer you can lose the hailo for a start lol Hahahaha miss been called that
then reclaim the title why did someone take it? Haha
Because you haven't been defending it you had to vacate it. there will be a competition at the Halloween social to see whos fabs "vag destroyer" you can enter if you want pmsl enter? Haha don't be putting ideas in my head I'll be going around dragging outta vaginas haha
Oh jesus sounds frightening yet promising lol I'm always a sure thing hahaha
Ya that's called being a nympho ash lol !!"
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