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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
Something tells me that's as much effort as many of them can manage!!
Can you imagine what the sex would be like if they think "fancy a fuck" turns us on!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
eveything single lady and alot of couples seem to be plagued by this.
the site may have to change access rights to message services behind a pay wall maybe or only after photo verification?
but sure a photo can be jinked in two mins so proves nothing.
there seems to be loads of blokes and there was I thinking I had found something incredibly rare and secret last year!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way!
eveything single lady and alot of couples seem to be plagued by this.
the site may have to change access rights to message services behind a pay wall maybe or only after photo verification?
but sure a photo can be jinked in two mins so proves nothing.
there seems to be loads of blokes and there was I thinking I had found something incredibly rare and secret last year!
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I have unverified unable to mail but photo verified still class as verifield on here which is very silly. These people have never met anyone and probably have no intention of ever meeting anyone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In fairness I get decent mails and I know I'm a bit soft but I reckon the single lads get dogs abuse some I know deserve it but most are polite and straight to the point. wouldn't expect more from the mails unless was a connection. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In fairness I get decent mails and I know I'm a bit soft but I reckon the single lads get dogs abuse some I know deserve it but most are polite and straight to the point. wouldn't expect more from the mails unless was a connection. "
But how do you possibly gain an interest in someone from a stupid mail like "wanna fuck"!!! Its impossible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Other sites will only let you send a message if your either paid up or meet verified, would be great if the admin looked into something like this. Also I've noticed people on here an hour and have veris on their profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness I get decent mails and I know I'm a bit soft but I reckon the single lads get dogs abuse some I know deserve it but most are polite and straight to the point. wouldn't expect more from the mails unless was a connection.
But how do you possibly gain an interest in someone from a stupid mail like "wanna fuck"!!! Its impossible."
Honestly I rarely get them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In fairness I get decent mails and I know I'm a bit soft but I reckon the single lads get dogs abuse some I know deserve it but most are polite and straight to the point. wouldn't expect more from the mails unless was a connection.
But how do you possibly gain an interest in someone from a stupid mail like "wanna fuck"!!! Its impossible.
Honestly I rarely get them "
How?? Why?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single guys do get a rough time on here. I have noticed that the standard of messages we get has actually improved.
Putting effort into messages pays off. Not every time but it has a better chance of success.
And context helps. Wanna fuck works with friends who know you.
Put effort into your messages and you will find people who are interested |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In fairness I get decent mails and I know I'm a bit soft but I reckon the single lads get dogs abuse some I know deserve it but most are polite and straight to the point. wouldn't expect more from the mails unless was a connection.
But how do you possibly gain an interest in someone from a stupid mail like "wanna fuck"!!! Its impossible.
Honestly I rarely get them
How?? Why?? "
I think you could be getting them because your profiles new again and all the blocks and ones you've previously told piss off to don't realise not to bother.  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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We joined fan about 5 years ago and one of the first threads I responded to was one just like this...I said that perhaps it would be a idea to use filters or even block all males and contact ppl that interest you...and the response was ...nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We joined fan about 5 years ago and one of the first threads I responded to was one just like this...I said that perhaps it would be a idea to use filters or even block all males and contact ppl that interest you...and the response was ...nothing"
If I did that I'd never talk to anybody here!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We joined fan about 5 years ago and one of the first threads I responded to was one just like this...I said that perhaps it would be a idea to use filters or even block all males and contact ppl that interest you...and the response was ...nothing
If I did that I'd never talk to anybody here!! "
Well then you can't complain about the messages you receive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At lot of guys on here get the wrong impression. They see single ladies, browse through their pictures, read their verifications and think all they need to say is "fancy a fuck" etc because they think the lady is easy. Most of them would probably stand you up if you agreed to meet. Personally (I have been verified on another profile) I believe these same lads make it more difficult for the rest of us. My one hate on this is when you send a face pic and don't get a response or worse still get blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way!
eveything single lady and alot of couples seem to be plagued by this.
the site may have to change access rights to message services behind a pay wall maybe or only after photo verification?
but sure a photo can be jinked in two mins so proves nothing.
there seems to be loads of blokes and there was I thinking I had found something incredibly rare and secret last year!
I have unverified unable to mail but photo verified still class as verifield on here which is very silly. These people have never met anyone and probably have no intention of ever meeting anyone... "
I put effort into my msgs be polite and complimentary trying to get verified but get nothing back ya can't win I even text you Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As already suggested, block all mail and message men you're interested in."
Sadly I'd say some women don't want to put the effort in either. They'd rather sit back and wait for others to message them.
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We'll u always try my best n put effort into a message . One thing I don't say is want to fuck ! Were all here to enjoy ourself but I act as a gent always n show respect always . If a lady says no I just thanks good luck to u . No point in being bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If youre interested in a guy youre going to reply wether he just says hello or sends a long message so maybe there chancing their arm first see if youre interested and then put more effort in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have unverified unable to mail but photo verified still class as verifield on here which is very silly. These people have never met anyone and probably have no intention of ever meeting anyone... "
It is a real catch 22!
everyone has to have a start but there has to be a way to control to lunatic fringe!
more advanced mail box filters maybe? |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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"Why don't you just filter up, search and send your own first mails?
Problem solved!"
Can I compliment this reply. Unfortunately, due to filters, single guys, my age, cant mail, even tho I assure you we are far more mature and mannerly!... Plus we can usually string more than a few lines together!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
Say,is it really so bad? Don't get me wrong I can't simply believe that there are such Idiots around.
I wonder how such men talk to a woman in a pub  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen a lot of profiles from women that say straight (insert age) woman looking for men women and couples. Or another good one 'will fill in later).
I've been off and on here for 5 or 6 years and the amount those profiles is amazing. |
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way!
Say,is it really so bad? Don't get me wrong I can't simply believe that there are such Idiots around.
I wonder how such men talk to a woman in a pub "
Believe it. They're around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As already suggested, block all mail and message men you're interested in.
Sadly I'd say some women don't want to put the effort in either. They'd rather sit back and wait for others to message them.
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we second that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way!
Say,is it really so bad? Don't get me wrong I can't simply believe that there are such Idiots around.
I wonder how such men talk to a woman in a pub
Believe it. They're around. "
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
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I fully understand where you are coming from!
I fully understand the amounts of crappy messages the ladies and couples get, and the crap they have to put up with!
I fully understand why many do not reply to guys.
I fully understand why Bulk Deleting goes on.
It is into this arena that guys who do take time to read profile, write nice messages, have to enter!
Will the recipient even read it among all the crappy messages they got that day?
NEVER have I sent a message to a lady without first having read her profile at least twice and NEVER have I sent a message that comes even close to a "Wanna fuck?" message!
When I came here first I used to compile a nice message.
Of the quite a few sent, there were 2 replies!
You will NOT find 1 female here that I have sent a crappy message to!
Nor will you find 1 female or couple that I have sent a nasty response to if given a "No" response to a message sent!
I have put my name down for a few Meet & Greets, got no response and simply accepted the no response 'as is'. NEVER have I contacted the OP as to why!
Ladies/Couples get a lot of crap!
Guys sending nice messages have to wade through the same crap in the hope their nice message might even get read!!
That is FAB and the way it is! All we can do is put up with it and try to carry on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And guys if I can't see any pictures on your profile or you dont send me one attached to the mail to get an idea then I won't even bother properly read your message or the rest of your profile... I rarely send a first message. If someone catches my eye I may wink at them. I don't plan on blocking mails frm everybody. Also why do couples send friend requests and messages when I say on my profile I'm straight and don't say I'm interested in couples.. I'm sure it's not just me that gets this but are people really that ignorant like that they won't even read that much like. RANT MOOD!!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyone needs a rant now and then Roxie!
You have done well without even using expletives!
The best rants are done over a beer! so see you at the next cor party and i'll bring the bottles! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"everyone needs a rant now and then Roxie!
You have done well without even using expletives!
The best rants are done over a beer! so see you at the next cor party and i'll bring the bottles!"
Oh im actually on the VIP guest list for that one!!!!! ( )
I won't be ranting that night though.. I'll be too busy using my lips for better things!! U can still bring the bottles though..   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh im actually on the VIP guest list for that one!!!!! ()
I won't be ranting that night though.. I'll be too busy using my lips for better things!! U can still bring the bottles though.. "
Wow the VIP list,fab royalty or what!
Deal and done!
bubbles, vinous or beer?  |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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If you also look most of the guys that are posting here are outside your preferred age range.
Sadly it takes some people a while to cop on or they get fed up post a rant about cant get a meet and leave the site.
I send proper messages to people. Some reply and some dont even read them. Its just life in fab and you get used to it eventually.
Hopefully things will get better for you Roxie. If not there is always the block button.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh im actually on the VIP guest list for that one!!!!! ()
I won't be ranting that night though.. I'll be too busy using my lips for better things!! U can still bring the bottles though..
Wow the VIP list,fab royalty or what!
Deal and done!
bubbles, vinous or beer? "
Yeah of course it's my first party apperance in Cork!!! Red carpet affair!
Surprise me!!! I might not drink it though if it's not the right one!!! Lol
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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago
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Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc! |
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"Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc! "
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That has been debated to death!
No reply is the same thing a a "No" reply.
Nice messages just get swamped by the crap ladies get so in effect "the baby gets thrown with with the bath water!"
Just a matter of getting used to it and eventually not bother sending them.
Just the way things go on FAB!
Otherwise it's not too bad!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc! "
The problem I find with this is that when respond to a person they start to make small talk. That's nice but I have already said "sorry, I'm not interested". I have enough to be talking to in the people I am actually interested in meeting. Even if they are being polite if I say I'm not interested it means I'm not interested in anything. I don't do bull shit and I won't pretend dot the sake of it!! I sound like a proper bit*h now but anyways that's how it is.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc! "
Ah seriously lad. If your self esteem can't handle it, quit it, seriously, if you get upset by that maybe you should think about what that says about yourself no? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy sex will always attract men , why is this such a fucking surprise. Every time a fisherman casts a line into the water he doesn't expect a catch, fuck sake most like the peace and quiet and to admire their rod . My fucking advice if you don't want men messaging you don't have a fucking profile on a fucking sex website that's fucking free . It's a fucking no brainer . Use filters to allow only the few chosen cream of the sexually dysfunctional crop to appease you and then fucking complain when they don't fucking show up to meets. Every man on here isn't aware of the other fucking four hundred of us we all have to fucking try if not what's the fucking point |
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"Easy sex will always attract men , why is this such a fucking surprise. Every time a fisherman casts a line into the water he doesn't expect a catch, fuck sake most like the peace and quiet and to admire their rod . My fucking advice if you don't want men messaging you don't have a fucking profile on a fucking sex website that's fucking free . It's a fucking no brainer . Use filters to allow only the few chosen cream of the sexually dysfunctional crop to appease you and then fucking complain when they don't fucking show up to meets. Every man on here isn't aware of the other fucking four hundred of us we all have to fucking try if not what's the fucking point "
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I couldn't have put it better!
The damn Bream are sneaky!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Easy sex will always attract men , why is this such a fucking surprise. Every time a fisherman casts a line into the water he doesn't expect a catch, fuck sake most like the peace and quiet and to admire their rod . My fucking advice if you don't want men messaging you don't have a fucking profile on a fucking sex website that's fucking free . It's a fucking no brainer . Use filters to allow only the few chosen cream of the sexually dysfunctional crop to appease you and then fucking complain when they don't fucking show up to meets. Every man on here isn't aware of the other fucking four hundred of us we all have to fucking try if not what's the fucking point "
ah yes, it's the woman's fault  Relax a bit, you might live longer
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Easy sex will always attract men , why is this such a fucking surprise. Every time a fisherman casts a line into the water he doesn't expect a catch, fuck sake most like the peace and quiet and to admire their rod . My fucking advice if you don't want men messaging you don't have a fucking profile on a fucking sex website that's fucking free . It's a fucking no brainer . Use filters to allow only the few chosen cream of the sexually dysfunctional crop to appease you and then fucking complain when they don't fucking show up to meets. Every man on here isn't aware of the other fucking four hundred of us we all have to fucking try if not what's the fucking point "
If you gave as many fucks in real life as u did in this post u would have many more than 2 verifications.... get a fucking grip. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah gees it's not every man's fault and surely your own inner voice can filter the chancers and not label all single men the same. "
You need a special label all for yourself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well sure if you've taken the time to block me then why not forget about me all together obviously there isn't a sexual spark between us and this isn't boards is it |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
Waterford |
"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. No pictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
I saw a similar thread on the UK forum a few hours ago.
While you shouldn't have to tolerate it, you have to accept that sites like this will attract lots of males who have absolutely no tact and can't grasp the concept that the ladies on here are looking for more than just a cock. They sign up to chance their arm in the hope of getting a ride out of it.
Us genuine single males know that whether online or not, we have to put in an effort and work for a meet or we'll be judged on the actions of the idiots, and we accept this without getting childish about it or letting it 'bruise our egos' if we aren't what a particular lady is looking for . |
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I saw a similar thread on the UK forum a few hours ago.
While you shouldn't have to tolerate it, you have to accept that sites like this will attract lots of males who have absolutely no tact and can't grasp the concept that the ladies on here are looking for more than just a cock. They sign up to chance their arm in the hope of getting a ride out of it.
Us genuine single males know that whether online or not, we have to put in an effort and work for a meet or we'll be judged on the actions of the idiots, and we accept this without getting childish about it or letting it 'bruise our egos' ."
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It's only a rant Wouldn't let it bruise anything! |
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"Easy sex will always attract men , why is this such a fucking surprise. Every time a fisherman casts a line into the water he doesn't expect a catch, fuck sake most like the peace and quiet and to admire their rod . My fucking advice if you don't want men messaging you don't have a fucking profile on a fucking sex website that's fucking free . It's a fucking no brainer . Use filters to allow only the few chosen cream of the sexually dysfunctional crop to appease you and then fucking complain when they don't fucking show up to meets. Every man on here isn't aware of the other fucking four hundred of us we all have to fucking try if not what's the fucking point "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a similar thread on the UK forum a few hours ago.
While you shouldn't have to tolerate it, you have to accept that sites like this will attract lots of males who have absolutely no tact and can't grasp the concept that the ladies on here are looking for more than just a cock. They sign up to chance their arm in the hope of getting a ride out of it.
Us genuine single males know that whether online or not, we have to put in an effort and work for a meet or we'll be judged on the actions of the idiots, and we accept this without getting childish about it or letting it 'bruise our egos' .
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It's only a rant Wouldn't let it bruise anything!"
I really should have done the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't see your profile foxy roxy ?
Because ur blocked Mr fuckity fuck fuck.. "
I do love that block button and how the forum allows you to view such specimens as this one to add to the block list |
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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago
co Galway |
"Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc!
Ah seriously lad. If your self esteem can't handle it, quit it, seriously, if you get upset by that maybe you should think about what that says about yourself no? "
Lad nothing bothers me on this site or in the real world! Replying to the op about guys making an effort etc! She made fair point and i was talking about on the other hand guys put in effort and get no reply! But thank you for your outstanding advice! |
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By *onedbodMan
over a year ago
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"Well not all of us single guys send those sort of messages which you refer too! Annoying though when send a nice friendly message to a female and get no reply! Even if she's not interested wouldn't hurt to say thanks for message but not interested in meeting etc!
The problem I find with this is that when respond to a person they start to make small talk. That's nice but I have already said "sorry, I'm not interested". I have enough to be talking to in the people I am actually interested in meeting. Even if they are being polite if I say I'm not interested it means I'm not interested in anything. I don't do bull shit and I won't pretend dot the sake of it!! I sound like a proper bit*h now but anyways that's how it is.. "
No you don't sound like a proper b... At all! Your honest and too the point! Well said!! |
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"I've been on (mostly) and off here for the last 5 years or so and I have never seen so many single males on here. You would think these single men would be putting in a little extra effort to meet a lady. All I get is messages with maybe one or two words. Horny, wanna fuck. Nopictures. No verifications. And ZERO effort. I'm actually thinking it's going to be easier to just block any male that doesn't put effort in than try reply with a polite no and get shit for it..
Has anyone else noticed this?? Somebody please tell these men a little effort goes a long way! "
I would never send a message like that. The problem on here is the most profiles you look at seem intimidating, you think that you are not "hardened "enough to send as message, I.e. not experienced enough. Seems like you have to be very straight out and up front to have any chance. Alot of us here are not that way |
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I don't think you have to be up front & very straight out but a well written first message which shows you've read the profile always helps. I've only just started answering the messages even though we're here a few years. Mr always dealt with that side for a few reasons. We got a lot of messages last night & I did try to reply to as many as possible even though they clearly hadn't read the profile. Others really caught my eye & drew me in because they were well written & personal to our profile. So don't be intimidated by some profiles, a little bit of respect goes a long way & will be recognised by some. Carmel x |
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