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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through 
Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe more so the fantasists with no real intention, in the hope it all actually does fall through.
Then they're able to convince themselves they could have 'had' x amount of women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through
Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it
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I had it done to me once.it's probably the same guy ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Whatever it is I'm not gonna meet him if the girl he decided to go with lets him down last minute. I mean come on
I'm sure it isn't just men that do that. Just wondered why is all. Greed perhaps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why do some men like to keep their options open when trying to get a meet? As in asking a girl to meet up but then also asking other girls to meet the same night. They complain then when it all falls through
Do others do this? I certainly don't. If I'm arranging a meet then I stick to it
I had it done to me once.it's probably the same guy ha"
Wouldn't surprise me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book. "
Okay fair enough, but this was arranged and had met before so no need to be worried about cancelling |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??
As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed"
Did he admit it or did you just guess ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??
As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed
Did he admit it or did you just guess ? "
admitted it eventually so I cancelled him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??
As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed
Did he admit it or did you just guess ?
admitted it eventually so I cancelled him "
Jesus I could quadruple book and still have no luck haha |
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"Did he tell you he had arranged something else??
As the week went on he became a bit vague about arrangements so I guessed
Did he admit it or did you just guess ?
admitted it eventually so I cancelled him "
Good on you. I think its bad manners to do this |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book. "
How does that logistically work when both turn up? 
I never did parallel booking, only in series  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have done this once or twice with guys because a lot of the time people will drop out last minute, so to be guaranteed a meet sometimes you have to double book.
How does that logistically work when both turn up?
I never did parallel booking, only in series "
The girls finish their coffee then go shopping? |
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It can be fairly hard to get a meet with one lady on here, never mind 2.
Defo wouldnt ruin my chances by trying to arrange two at the same time.
Only way i see that that would be possible is if you jad already met one and yous were both trying to get another lady to join yous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys can find enough women to arrange multiple meets? Fair play, for most guys it's hard enough to arrange one meet, let alone multiples on one night.
I would imagine that's a minority behaviour. It's hard to arrange meets in the first place, so I certainly wouldn't be keeping my options open. |
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We'll if I'm lucky enough to get a meet i attend n would never arrange another meet on d same day r nite not that I would b so lucky to get multiple meets . But I've heard of guys having one in d morning n then another in d evening d lucky sods don't think I could have d energy lol |
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This happened to me last yr . A guy asked me for coffee meet i say sure ok 12 then he goes and mails my friend whos on here too so she says 12 too so he then mails me he was stuck in a meeting and could i move it to 2 i say sorry no can do but my friend had already td me she had a meet to wit same guy . Heel of the hunt the poor guy got nothing that day |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.
If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.
If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back..."
As Boldgirl once said "wise" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to distinguish here a bit. If it's a person you've only met once or twice, it's not a very nice thing to do.
If a regular would tell me that he finally succeeded to arrange a first meet with that xy woman but it's on the same day we've planed to meet, I'd have understanding and I'd say 'go for it'! I know he'll be back...
As Boldgirl once said "wise" "
DH is most certainly that!  |
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