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a lonely heart, looking too find love.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Looking too meet my soul/sex partner, anyone intrested, needs too give me up too 10 great reasons that would woo me no end, and genuine please, i tryed dating sites, but no luck, so i said well i wud try fab,
So look forward too hearing from ye, may the best man win,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shouldn't you be trying your luck on a dating site not a swinging site? "
I guess it takes all sorts, there may well be lots of folk after soulmates here, good luck to you says I. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im sure people join a swing site for NSA sexual encounters...if they fall in love along the way then all good however just my opinion but a dating site be best for a lonely heart looking for love |
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If you're looking for soul mate who's into swinging then you've a better chance here than in a dating site. That said, the amount of people here looking for a relationship, monogamous or otherwise would be slim.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good luck OP, regardless of where people think you should and shouldn't be, there have been plenty of people who have met their other half on here.
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Some even got married so there is hope!!  xx |
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By *s2b3cMan
over a year ago
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"Looking too meet my soul/sex partner, anyone intrested, needs too give me up too 10 great reasons that would woo me no end, and genuine please, i tryed dating sites, but no luck, so i said well i wud try fab,
So look forward too hearing from ye, may the best man win, "
Very unrealistic I think, I don't know how a stranger can give you 10 great reasons to woo you, knowing nothing about you.
The way you've worded it would be a massive turn off in my opinion, you'd probably have more look coming on to ask for a chat. Let things happen naturally and still have those intentions in mind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Its gud too get inspiration from other sites too, be it an american site, their more openminded too, not afraid too express themselves, we have alot too learn yet i think!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its gud too get inspiration from other sites too, be it an american site, their more openminded too, not afraid too express themselves, we have alot too learn yet i think!! "
Not sure what direction your thread taking...however I would have to say most people in the Irish swing community we have met are certainly not afraid to express themselves..are very open minded and have very little to learn  Most not all are here for sex not love, very slim chance of meeting the man or woman of your dreams but good luck if you do |
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"Oh i am new too this, sorry!!,
Any help wud be much appreciated,
We live and learn "
The point about how you worded it is well made.
If a guy put up a similar request and looked for ten ways for a woman to "woo" him, he'd be told to make more of an effort.
I'd say some men are reading it and thinking "why should I?"
Interact with people here and go for social meets. Don't wait for it to come to you....go out and grab it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can find love in the strangest places - I don't see why it can't happen here
Good Luck "
I agree!! Some people have found love here & gotten married so it is possible!! Never say never as they say....!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh i am new too this, sorry!!,
Any help wud be much appreciated,
We live and learn
The point about how you worded it is well made.
If a guy put up a similar request and looked for ten ways for a woman to "woo" him, he'd be told to make more of an effort.
I'd say some men are reading it and thinking "why should I?"
Interact with people here and go for social meets. Don't wait for it to come to you....go out and grab it!"
Grab it by the willy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can find love in the strangest places - I don't see why it can't happen here
Good Luck "
I've found love here , lots of couples do . Best of luck OP . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your quest might have the opposite effect though. Most people here for genuine honest good fun and different sexperiences
Your post might put guys off totally or you could get ALOT of weirdos. I'm just saying what lots are thinking hun and having a face pic as your avatar pic isnt a great idea. You can send it privately as a message. This is a swing site open to alot of people seeing this so you genuinely need to be careful with your privacy.
Good luck |
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"Your quest might have the opposite effect though. Most people here for genuine honest good fun and different sexperiences
Your post might put guys off totally or you could get ALOT of weirdos. I'm just saying what lots are thinking hun and having a face pic as your avatar pic isnt a great idea. You can send it privately as a message. This is a swing site open to alot of people seeing this so you genuinely need to be careful with your privacy.
Good luck "
Yep, she'll be inundated with guys just telling her what she wants to hear to try and get a ride, which will make separating the genuine ones out even harder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you baby? Thats great
How did it all come about if u dont mind me asking? "
These things tend to just happen when you least expect them . I wasn't actively looking for anything .
My advice OP would be just to relax have some fun and see what happens . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yep thanks, yep doing all three, havent met anyone yet, but some replied privatly here, i guess their shy, thts grand too, but got three guys that have giving me list already, so keep em coming i say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep thanks, yep doing all three, havent met anyone yet, but some replied privatly here, i guess their shy, thts grand too, but got three guys that have giving me list already, so keep em coming i say "
Just be careful - some men will tell you what you want to hear |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok well gotta go now for a bit, work too do, more too life than fab too, but keep messages coming, negative or positive, i can take em like a pinch of salt, everyone has opinions, so have gud day, will reply when i can, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol probably,
so u have your weekend sorted so with socials anyway,
Well i hope i get some more replys anyway, either that are the guys are drying up like prunes, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best of luck. Some right assholes on here though so I can't imagine meeting Mr right. Chances are he'll pretend to be Mr Right but really he only wants the ride. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck. Some right assholes on here though so I can't imagine meeting Mr right. Chances are he'll pretend to be Mr Right but really he only wants the ride. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best of luck and I do hope it work's out for you op. It is rare but not impossible for people to fall on fab in a positive way. It will have to be a fine balancing act on your part to keep your guard up but your heart open, there are some amazing people here that may be looking for a soul mate too, not common but who knows weirder thing's have happened but in the meantime have a fab time here... enjoy the journey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thnxs all for you concern, nice too know their are nice genuine guys and gals on here,
Dateing is like picking out a nice cream cake in a bakery, lol hard too choose, but great choice, so hope i will find my cream cake |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck. Some right assholes on here though so I can't imagine meeting Mr right. Chances are he'll pretend to be Mr Right but really he only wants the ride. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Best of luck. Some right assholes on here though so I can't imagine meeting Mr right. Chances are he'll pretend to be Mr Right but really he only wants the ride. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks very much, i have few offers already, but on fab itself, they wrrite messages and contacts, just gotta meet them now do coffee and interview them, haha, see if we click, or wot |
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