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Struggling to get meets

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi all very new to this and struggling at the min to be fair am a very down to earth 38 year old nice guy no bullshit just looking for some like minded fun I understand I might not be as attractive as some people on here but like to think that my personality makes up for up but have messaged lots of women,couples on here but nothing really back apart from one or two any advice would be Great and maybe what the fuk I'm doing wrong thx for taking the time to read this and looking foward to the shitstorm!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Theres only 3 words i could advise you and they are Patience patience patience!!

Keep plodding on as people will warm to you.

You say you have a good personality so keep demonstrating it on here. We all enjoy a good laugh and a nicely placed bit of banter.

It will happen so good luck my friend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheers for that nice one will keep plodding so as u say and see what happens thx again

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Op your have been on a week and have gained the famous green tick.

I'm not having a dig at you op, but have wondered do men really think when they sign up its

Instant that you meet someone.

Yes this is a swinging site and we all on for the same thing does not mean that meets happen to newbies instantly.. .... theses constant threads about what am I doing wrong. That's the first rule. Be true to yourself and your profile and things will work out..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op your have been on a week and have gained the famous green tick.

I'm not having a dig at you op, but have wondered do men really think when they sign up its

Instant that you meet someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

patience is the key . Rome was not built in a day , your not doing badly by being verified already . Mail people you are interested in , chat in the chat room and on the forums and try to network , best of luck to ya .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Couple of things. You've only been here 7 days, most of your photos are cock shots very few will know you well enough yet to meet you. Hit the forums and say hi to people. Oh and text speak, you cut your chances in half if you can't even put the effort into typing like an adult.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

good point on the cock pix thing , most women will ask if they want to see a cock shot .

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank u for that and no I know your not I'm open to what ever people wanna say your right in saying I taughts things would move quicker and get instant meets I suppose so il be true to my myself and always carrying myself as I have done from the start

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thx for the reply's very much appericated so get rid of the cock pics u reckon I don't send them when I message anyone only my face and body one but thx again for all the reply's very much appericated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thx for the reply's very much appericated so get rid of the cock pics u reckon I don't send them when I message anyone only my face and body one but thx again for all the reply's very much appericated "

And on forum threads

"reply & quote" helps ID who you are talking to

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By *ienDePlusCouple over a year ago

dublin

Couples online - 93

Women online - 63

Transexuals online - 26

Men online - 300 plus

Couples meets today - 1

Women meets today - 1

Transexuals meets today - 3

Men meets today - 39

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Rome wasn't built in a day, that's cause I wasn't on that particular job,,,,, but saying that, this isn't a race my friend. just remember to be polite and respectful, if you're talking to couple don't presume you are always speaking to the female, and as in the vanilla world. Ladies should always be treated with respect, if you think other wise cause they're on a swingers site. This ain't the place for you. If you arrange a meet, turn up, on time. No excuses, grandmother rushed to hospital , car troubles, etc. We've heard them all, Ireland a small place and fab is even smaller again, if you are rude, nasty or just a general all round asshole, it won't take long for everyone to know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Cheers for that yeah I will always be respectful that's a promise threat people as u would like to be treated so il keep going as sure u never know see what happens thx to all for the comments

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By *ain4uWoman over a year ago

dublin

You are here a week ???

This is a swinging site... not a I want sex within a week kinda site.. If u want sex quickly... maybe a prostitute...

Or have some patience

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"You are here a week ???

This is a swinging site... not a I want sex within a week kinda site.. If u want sex quickly... maybe a prostitute...

Or have some patience "

Patience went UNLOS last week!

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By *ain4uWoman over a year ago

dublin

"You are here a week ???

This is a swinging site... not a I want sex within a week kinda site.. If u want sex quickly... maybe a prostitute...

Or have some patience

Ah that explains things so

Patience went UNLOS last week!

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By *ain4uWoman over a year ago

dublin

"You are here a week ???

This is a swinging site... not a I want sex within a week kinda site.. If u want sex quickly... maybe a prostitute...

Or have some patience

Ah that explains things so

Patience went UNLOS last week!

I done that arse ways. .. better go asleep

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"You are here a week ???

This is a swinging site... not a I want sex within a week kinda site.. If u want sex quickly... maybe a prostitute...

Or have some patience

Ah that explains things so

Patience went UNLOS last week!

I done that arse ways. .. better go asleep

I am asleep!

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By *irdnBorisMan over a year ago

meath

Your only on here a week i was on here 3 mths before i met sumone sure like unless your leaving the country whats your hurry just because its a swing site doesnt automatically mean your going to get a meet straight away you have to put in the effort to get meets and work from there

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By *sir88Man over a year ago

Donaghmede

You only I week on this ..... Have patience and you'll be there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm well verified, can accommodate, half decent looking, fit and fucking great in bed..

..I've had three meets all year..so I cant really advise...but I'd say location is important, and if your willing to let loads ppl come fuck loads other people in your home that really helps..

.im using kik and just re-meeting friends, and heading down a different route...

.this is my last day on fab...all id say is, you wont meet often unless provide a venue, drink and can take one for the team....none of which I could..

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By *ike 50Man over a year ago

North Cork

I was a late joiner and can only say great things about this place. I have chatted to wonderful people and made a few great friends. Put some effort in to meeting and treating people. And smile every day....

Happy fabbing...

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

Use full stops and paragraphs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here is my take...

Firstly ask What are ya looking for out of fab and why you joined it.

Create yer profile that best represents you and how you wish to be viewed. (Your profile is the first point of contact)

Look at other profiles and read them and if you think the person would be good match for you then send message ... if you dont think they be good match then dont waste of your time and theirs.

When sending message use your personality in it... you only have one chance to make good first impression

If ya get response enjoy the chatting and see how it leads. Take yer time dont rush if they like ya they will arrange to meet quickly enough.

If rejected dont take offence move on...

Lastly and highly recommend go to Socials the best opportunity to meet people.

Best of luck bud

Happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank u all for the comments very much appericated so patience is the key which I have lots off just assumed that I would be meeting within a few days but thank u all again and will try to get involved in the socials

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thank u all for the comments very much appericated so patience is the key which I have lots off just assumed that I would be meeting within a few days but thank u all again and will try to get involved in the socials "

But you did meet within a few days

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