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Hidden verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Relatively new to the site and I'm getting to know a good few really nice people and I'm enjoying it. But one thing I've noticed is that people that have hidden verification's tend to be more keen which obviously makes me a tad suspicious, is this something I should be cautious about?

Conor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relatively new to the site and I'm getting to know a good few really nice people and I'm enjoying it. But one thing I've noticed is that people that have hidden verification's tend to be more keen which obviously makes me a tad suspicious, is this something I should be cautious about?

Conor

it can be - if they have been here a year have 1 veri and its hidden I'd be suspicious.

Yes I know I have no veri's showing

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By *irdnBorisMan over a year ago

meath

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By *irdnBorisMan over a year ago

meath

Conor

it can be - if they have been here a year have 1 veri and its hidden I'd be suspicious.

Yes I know I have no veri's showing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say looking at your profile OP that your probably going to be popular anyway

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By *ammerandthongsCouple over a year ago

Limerick

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By *ammerandthongsCouple over a year ago

Limerick

"I'd say looking at your profile OP that your probably going to be popular anyway "

Holy fuck I just had a peak talk about a lethal weapon

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By *otLips 69Woman over a year ago

Here or There

I've mine hidden but that's my business if anyone wishes to see them I'm happy to show them all of them. It's people on here that you know are meeting not socially and only showing the veris that make them look good. Now I'm not judging but if you're on a year or more and you're seeing more than 3/4 profiles a week and only showing as if you've only seen 6/7 profiles in that year that makes me suspicious of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've mine hidden but that's my business if anyone wishes to see them I'm happy to show them all of them. It's people on here that you know are meeting not socially and only showing the veris that make them look good. Now I'm not judging but if you're on a year or more and you're seeing more than 3/4 profiles a week and only showing as if you've only seen 6/7 profiles in that year that makes me suspicious of them. "

That wouldn't really make me suspicious - or maybe it should. I'd just think it was repeat meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd say looking at your profile OP that your probably going to be popular anyway "
oh don't make me blush lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've mine hid to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind"

I think the same as this. Once i see a veri that goes way too much into detail it would put me off too. Most of the time its the same crap said over and over, so i wouldnt just the lady completely on it but if she puts that on show and replies with similar on a blokes then i would even chance my arm with her. Some veris need to be hidden.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind

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......you mean like.....shes a minx...he's a gentleman. .bring your A game. Treat them with respect. ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cock to die for? Could suck for Ireland?

Stay classy, folks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind

......you mean like.....shes a minx...he's a gentleman. .bring your A game. Treat them with respect. ?

Have u seen my veris.lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind

......you mean like.....shes a minx...he's a gentleman. .bring your A game. Treat them with respect. ?

Cringe cringe cringe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"such a gent, kept me cumming again and again. Hope to see you again. Ladies if you get a chance to meet this amazing man grab it" blah blah blah. They're all pretty much the same. I hid my verifications because I'd rather people form their own opinion of me. Don't like the idea of reviewing people, no matter how nice the things they say are...

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

Conor

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I do not bother reading verifications . They are usually boring and say the same thing.

The content of a profile should be sufficient in order to make an assessment .

Those with a detailed profile have made the effort to market thenselves and will be genuiene .

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

How do you know they're hidden in the first place?

if a person has verified someone and then left fab, all that is left is a statistic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cock to die for? Could suck for Ireland?

Stay classy, folks."
....that thought has occurred to me more than once,while viewing profiles....if I could only have that cock..I wouldn't mind if he murdered me and buried my dismembered body in an unmarked grave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind"

I fully agree. I hate the way the vast majority are explicitly descriptive and it turns me off all involved.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have had no choice but to hide my veris as a lady fabber has contacted my some of my veris and slated my character the joys of helping some one in a bad place and letting them into my vanilla life . A very big and hurtful lesson and will be slow to trust anyone on this so its ongoing thing but keeping my head down and getting on with life . And the truth always wins out i hope . On the up side my veris all good friends on this and know me well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conor

We know couples with no veris that are riding all around them lol sometimes people look into veris too much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have had no choice but to hide my veris as a lady fabber has contacted my some of my veris and slated my character the joys of helping some one in a bad place and letting them into my vanilla life . A very big and hurtful lesson and will be slow to trust anyone on this so its ongoing thing but keeping my head down and getting on with life . And the truth always wins out i hope . On the up side my veris all good friends on this and know me well "

I'm a firm believer in there's always three sides to every story...

There's your side her side and the truth!

I'm sure everyone lives by this motto

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have hidden veris cos can't be having the drama/attention they generate, either good or bad. My meets know what I am like and that the way I roll. Although still like to get veris, just keep them all to myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

The only people who know the truth are the people involved, not outsiders..... some people don't want to know the truth, they are afraid of it..... some people will believe what they want to believe & not admitting to the truth....

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice cock conor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx"
so true and well said the truth always comes out

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

Some people here can't tell the truth not to mention handle it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people here can't tell the truth not to mention handle it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some people here can't tell the truth not to mention handle it

That's true also!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx so true and well said the truth always comes out "

Give someone enough rope....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx so true and well said the truth always comes out

Give someone enough rope....

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exactly and they will hang them selves lmao its all in the veris pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached "

Millions!!??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx so true and well said the truth always comes out

Give someone enough rope....

exactly and they will hang them selves lmao its all in the veris pmsl "

It's in the veris?????

Oh that's nasty isn't it?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached

Millions!!??

At least lol according to some

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached

Millions!!??

At least lol according to some "

Lol according to me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached

Millions!!??

At least lol according to some

Lol according to me too

Don't be jealous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well I've millions and I'm not showing any here anymore unless I have to. As Red said already too much Drama attached

Millions!!??

At least lol according to some

Lol according to me too

Don't be jealous

I am... Totally. You've got me well sussed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind"
To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance...

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance..."

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance..."

I hate graphic verifications with a passion...

So I totally get you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance...

I hate graphic verifications with a passion...

So I totally get you...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives."
I have to agree. Not here to judge anyone but it definitely kills the attraction for me.

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

I don't give nor seek graphic veris as I don't like them. But I don't care how many I get or how many I have.

I've taken to showing the most recent ones to show I'm currently active but I've hidden the summary as it's nobodys business how many people I've met or in what capacity.

I just want my veris to say "yep he's legit" about me. That, after all, is their very purpose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't give nor seek graphic veris as I don't like them. But I don't care how many I get or how many I have.

I've taken to showing the most recent ones to show I'm currently active but I've hidden the summary as it's nobodys business how many people I've met or in what capacity.

I just want my veris to say "yep he's legit" about me. That, after all, is their very purpose. "

I agree...

And I like to have one saying I play/played too,only so many coffee meets a person can have!

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

"I don't give nor seek graphic veris as I don't like them. But I don't care how many I get or how many I have.

I've taken to showing the most recent ones to show I'm currently active but I've hidden the summary as it's nobodys business how many people I've met or in what capacity.

I just want my veris to say "yep he's legit" about me. That, after all, is their very purpose.

I agree...

And I like to have one saying I play/played too,only so many coffee meets a person can have!"

Fuck that, last year there was the "scandal" that all I did was coffee meets, cos that's all they could gleam from my veris.

Little did they fucking know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't give nor seek graphic veris as I don't like them. But I don't care how many I get or how many I have.

I've taken to showing the most recent ones to show I'm currently active but I've hidden the summary as it's nobodys business how many people I've met or in what capacity.

I just want my veris to say "yep he's legit" about me. That, after all, is their very purpose.

I agree...

And I like to have one saying I play/played too,only so many coffee meets a person can have!

Fuck that, last year there was the "scandal" that all I did was coffee meets, cos that's all they could gleam from my veris.

Little did they fucking know.

Oh....I remember

So was I...

But it just goes to show nobody's business but yours what you chose to divulge...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives."
....are you serious? Lol...people with lots of veris are attention seeking and have something missing from their lives?...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A lot of mine are social meets!!!

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a few offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives.....are you serious? Lol...people with lots of veris are attention seeking and have something missing from their lives?..."

Read what I wrote please. I said "some" people. I also said attention "issues" not attention seeking. I also never said something missing. I said something "lacking".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a ifew offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd wh

rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives.....are you serious? Lol...people with lots of veris are attention seeking and have something missing from their lives?...

Read what I wrote please. I said "some" people. I also said attention "issues" not attention seeking. I also never said something missing. I said something "lacking". "
....semantics. ...What's the difference? ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me Veri's double edge sword... you initially need them because lets call a spade a spade you need them to meet people... hopefully in time your personality and skills

then will actually make veri's obsolete as some undesirable attributes wield there heads with them (i am a no drama man) . For me now if i meet someone if they wish to veri or not .. it doesnt bother me and if they do i will display as i feel its rude not to after they have taken time to write it.

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By *orguyMan over a year ago

Tuam

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a ifew offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd wh

rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives.....are you serious? Lol...people with lots of veris are attention seeking and have something missing from their lives?...

Read what I wrote please. I said "some" people. I also said attention "issues" not attention seeking. I also never said something missing. I said something "lacking". ....semantics. ...What's the difference? .."

It's not semantics. It's you trying to rehash my comment in an attempt to take issue with it. It's my opinion as I stated which I'm entitled to. Have a nice day as I will not be replying tit for tat to your comments which you seem to enjoy on most threads

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"When I read other people's verifications I feel turned off reading them if they are explicit. It's like having sloppy seconds and I find it cringe being reviewed. So hidden or not I don't mind To be honest this is totally me also. Although I'm unverified as of yet I've turned down a ifew offers of meets simply for this reason. Now I know we're all here for pretty much the same thing it's a total turn off to read what other people have done together...it's pretty classless imo and I'm surprised people are happy to display what can often be really degrading. I think I'd wh

rather not know and just take the chance...

Some people just like to have lots of veris because they think it looks good and that they're popular. It's an attention issue.....show's there is something lacking in their lives.....are you serious? Lol...people with lots of veris are attention seeking and have something missing from their lives?...

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.of course you're entitled to your opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You carry on there among-est yourselves ,me I am just wondering why the OP hasn't published his own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You carry on there among-est yourselves ,me I am just wondering why the OP hasn't published his own

Does kinda go against his post

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Conor

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.....are you suspicious of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So I'm one to be suspicious of. Probably a good thing as there are so many suspect ones on here and I'd hate to mix in with the wrong crowd

However I don't go to socials for various reasons....One amongst a few reasons is to protect and control those who verify me... my 2 experiences were very off putting. I have genuine veris from very genuine ladies on genuine play meets...( I'm not a time waster)

Also i don't meet fuck and go....I'm only interested in those who can and will meet regularly.... must better experiences IMO.

But yeah avoid me I only want to meet suitable play mates

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me Veri's double edge sword... you initially need them because lets call a spade a spade you need them to meet people... hopefully in time your personality and skills

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As Jack Nicholson says in the Firm:

YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

..... be true to yourself I say, makes you a better person for it.... xxx so true and well said the truth always comes out

Give someone enough rope....

exactly and they will hang them selves lmao its all in the veris pmsl

It's in the veris?????

Oh that's nasty isn't it?????

In what way is that nasty.... I'd agree it's all in the veri's. The veries can tell a whole story. What people like...who they like...its much like the profile...but the difference is the profile is written by oneself and can say anything whereas the veri's is written by one who has met you....an affidavit in some respects. So yes I look closely at the veri's and the veri's of those who verified them too. It says alot whether one likes it or not. That'sone main reason I ddon't go to socials...There are some I wouldn't want to verify me. Someone on this post challenged one of my veries saying I was hypocritical. That's an example of someone I wouldn't be happy meeting especially given the circumstances. So yes its all in the veri's for me...and many others would agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my verifications hidden as I got sick of the flood if I put up a new one. If I go on a meet, I don't care either way if I am verified or not. If I am up to now I would display it but not now because of how people use them as a green light! Just because I meet a person, it doesn't mean I will meet anyone and I have had that said to me as I politely declined a person!

Some use for popularity, some meet for verification, some are selective in whose they display, whatever their reasons... it's their profile and we all figure it out after awhile on here. I prefer the privacy now personally. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

Also people only say nice things in their verifications and a lot of the time I've seen people give veris that would say more about the themselves than the person they are verifying making themselves look impressive or big...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

So you still agree it's nasty? I'm very surprised at that tbh.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that."

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

"
....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

"
you sound totally paranoid, narcissistic and passive aggressive.

You two obviously don't like each other. You both seem to be quite popular and level headed until you are clashing on here.

we don't need the drama from real people. We have enough crap with the fake profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

If you think I have another profile I'd advise you to report it not be making accusations on the forum...

I too have many friends that keep me informed of things I don't see...I have to say yours doesn't interest me however!

Plus I remember from when you did message me that you didn't have your summary displayed and only one verification displayed at the time we spoke...

Hope you enjoyed France...

And happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And there lies the problem some people cannot stop making it personal on this site.

This is the double edged sword to Veri's , for record this isnt directed to anyone but when people start making arguments/discussions personal they have already lost.

If people have a problem with someone be the bigger person sort it out privately... say what they wanna say with msgs option and leave it at that and off forum...

I have met the people i have connected with and have enjoyed meeting them , if they leave veri as i said i will display as rude not too .... if someone has a problem with person i have met then great because it means it saves us both time as we wont click. I will respect their decision and leave it at that no agression , no vendettas , no silly Your Loss messages and simply move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

"
.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's difficult to post anything on here without people jumping down ones throat and making it personal. That's why I rarely post here anymore and guess why others have moved on too. The English site is certainly less aggressive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page. "

I didn't think they could

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And there lies the problem some people cannot stop making it personal on this site.

This is the double edged sword to Veri's , for record this isnt directed to anyone but when people start making arguments/discussions personal they have already lost.

If people have a problem with someone be the bigger person sort it out privately... say what they wanna say with msgs option and leave it at that and off forum...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could"
or her friends can see his profile. Apparently people talk about each other on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have my veris hidden because twice in the last 3months someone has messaged most of my veris list causeing trouble and spreading rumours about me .. for anyone who asks I will happily show them .. but at the same time I shouldnt have to prove myself in that I genuine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have my veris hidden because twice in the last 3months someone has messaged most of my veris list causeing trouble and spreading rumours about me .. for anyone who asks I will happily show them .. but at the same time I shouldnt have to prove myself in that I genuine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could"

You can't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could or her friends can see his profile. Apparently people talk about each other on here. "

They do & sometimes it can be nasty rumours & lies which is pretty lousy....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are numerous practical and personal reasons as to why people wouldn't wish to publish verifications and/or a summary.

Some prefer to keep their meets and the details of them between themselves and those they chose to meet; as so long as you're having fun, what does it matter that the rest of fab knows?

Some don't like the attention and drama that can come from them. Unfortunately there are people who will judge a person merely from who they have met and, with regards to a summary, how many they've met; without differentiating social meets to play meets.

There are those who can get jealous and spiteful if they see someone meeting others and not them. Also, for example, I know of women who have received messages and attention from men who see they've met and played with other women and jump right in with the threesome suggestion.

There are those who like to just publish their most recent veris to show people they're still active.

Additionally, there's always the possibility that a person has been verified by someone who no longer is on the site and they just don't have a verification to show.

A verification, a green tick, is there to show you're genuine. It's not a cheat sheet that allows you to know the ins and outs of a person; get to know someone yourself. To be suspicious of someone who hides theirs is narrow minded, in my opinion, we're here to enjoy ourselves and if you know you're having fun then why does everybody else need to?

Just my two cents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could

You can't.

"
....go to block list....its right there. ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately thats life you cant control ...only thing you can control is how you react to it

You have choices choose wisely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There are numerous practical and personal reasons as to why people wouldn't wish to publish verifications and/or a summary.

Some prefer to keep their meets and the details of them between themselves and those they chose to meet; as so long as you're having fun, what does it matter that the rest of fab knows?

There are those who like to just publish their most recent veris to show people they're still active.

Additionally, there's always the possibility that a person has been verified by someone who no longer is on the site and they just don't have a verification to show.

Just my two cents

Pete well said and spot on. Described exactly why I don't display mine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could

You can't.

....go to block list....its right there. ...."

That's not the profile...that only shows their profile pic ...name and status....nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could

You can't.

....go to block list....its right there. ...."

In fairness you can't see much from that, just their profile avatar pic if it's shown in public, their profile name/names & the town/city they have shown on their profile......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably a Platinum + 3 member so can see everything lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could

You can't.

....go to block list....its right there. ....

That's not the profile...that only shows their profile pic ...name and status....nothing more."
....in other words. ...your home page....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd have to disagree with you there...

You can decide who's verifications you can display so that's pretty silly saying you don't go to socials for that reason...

I have amazing verifications and yes I'd agree it says a lot about a person but nobody's going to publish a nasty one are they...

Exactly why I feel veris are that important. I'm suspicious of those who hide veris and or who hide their verification break down or worse those who delete and start again because they got too many.

so my reason for not going to socials for that reason is actually quite valid IMO.

There are people on here I wouldn't want to meet...so not going to socials is one way of controlling that.

I've never deleted my profile to the disappointment of some...

I have changed my name three times in six yrs I've been on the site...

You deleted and rejoined didn't you?

Hence why being a site supporter is handy for private notes...

just my opinion obviously...

And it's nice you have all your verifications displayed and your verification summary shows how honest you are....

Sounds to me you've just made this personal.... I didn't ask you or anyone else to comment on my profile thank you.

I was speaking in general terms as how i use and view veris. I wouldn't be viewing my own to meet me

however its interesting that you're blocked and seem to comment on my profile ( which I didn't ask for). ..does this mean you have another profile set up to get around blocking?

For all those who are not blocked and can legitimately view my profile I've been away in France for a few weeks and not meeting anyone new....

I'm just back from being away

.....if someone has you blocked they can still see you're home page.

I didn't think they could

You can't.

....go to block list....its right there. ....

That's not the profile...that only shows their profile pic ...name and status....nothing more."
....in other words. ...your home page....?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Probably a Platinum + 3 member so can see everything lol"

Or has friends who can see what she/he can't....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thanks to all the lovely fabbers male and female and my friends on this for all your support and messages on this over past few weeks you all have restored my faith in swinging and you understand the etiquette of swinging . Thats it nsa fun and a fantastic lifestyle when boundaries are respected . Its good to know that others have experienced the same bullying and abuse as i have .. I do think we need to stick together and rid fab of that element. Its not tolerated in vanilla life so why should we tolerate it on this .. Its a very small world . As said thank u all u know who u are and we will have lots of no drama experiences together xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately thats life you cant control ...only thing you can control is how you react to it

You have choices choose wisely

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"Thanks to all the lovely fabbers male and female and my friends on this for all your support and messages on this over past few weeks you all have restored my faith in swinging and you understand the etiquette of swinging . Thats it nsa fun and a fantastic lifestyle when boundaries are respected . Its good to know that others have experienced the same bullying and abuse as i have .. I do think we need to stick together and rid fab of that element. Its not tolerated in vanilla life so why should we tolerate it on this .. Its a very small world . As said thank u all u know who u are and we will have lots of no drama experiences together xx

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