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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
Just curious as I'm still waiting for my first but does anyone have any tips for me?
I question my limits and whats expected from me that it's making me more nervous about it.
Some advice would be really helpful.  thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with a little nerves. Just relax, be yourself and it may help to chat to the couple prior to meeting to see if ye have the same things in mind? Have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just curious as I'm still waiting for my first but does anyone have any tips for me?
I question my limits and whats expected from me that it's making me more nervous about it.
Some advice would be really helpful. thanks "
Discuss expectations and boundaries with the couple beforehand. Everyone is different. |
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I would agree that you should meet the couple socially beforehand and see how you get on.
You should perhaps also agree what you all want from it - one of the men may be bi and the other may not. This can all be done via e-mail or text if you're all a little embarrassed to sit in Starbucks and discuss where you should all put your peepees!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would agree that you should meet the couple socially beforehand and see how you get on.
You should perhaps also agree what you all want from it - one of the men may be bi and the other may not. This can all be done via e-mail or text if you're all a little embarrassed to sit in Starbucks and discuss where you should all put your peepees! "
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Best to know the detail of what is allowed and the boundaries are important. Do meet socially first, get to know the personalities of the couple, and make your judgement on what you learn from this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take a deep breath, relax and enjoy. The amount of people in the room is irrelevant, it's always about communicating needs and desires. If you can do it in an MF situation, you can do it just as well in MMF, MMMF, MFMF or even the illusive FFM. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't cross swords...he's bi...I think he's planning more than crossing them
Always sheath the swords then. "
..maybe not necessary. .if its just hand to hand combat...  |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
Dublin West |
Dont cross the streams ...
Or maybe that was Ghostbusters ...
Just relax and go with the flow. sure whats the worst that can happen.
And i find its the couples that can sit and discuss stuff in starbucks that usually are the most fun.
The second meet will usually be better than the first.. |
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By *eauhoMan
over a year ago
City Centre |
Any mmf I've had we have all had a drink and chat beforehand, so we are well aware of each others likes, dislikes, no-no's etc. It's a good way to break the ice and be comfortable with each other, after that just have fun! |
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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Don't cross swords...he's bi...I think he's planning more than crossing them
Always sheath the swords then. ..maybe not necessary. .if its just hand to hand combat... "
I actually don't want any bi fun. It'll be less complicated if it's just straight I think. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't cross swords...he's bi...I think he's planning more than crossing them
Always sheath the swords then. ..maybe not necessary. .if its just hand to hand combat...
I actually don't want any bi fun. It'll be less complicated if it's just straight I think. "
...you're making it very difficult for yourself. Straight couples looking for mmf, may not be interested because you have bi on your profile. And bi couples won't be interested in you if you're only after straight mmf.imo anyway |
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By *s2b3c OP Man
over a year ago
Dublin |
"Don't cross swords...he's bi...I think he's planning more than crossing them
Always sheath the swords then. ..maybe not necessary. .if its just hand to hand combat...
I actually don't want any bi fun. It'll be less complicated if it's just straight I think. ...you're making it very difficult for yourself. Straight couples looking for mmf, may not be interested because you have bi on your profile. And bi couples won't be interested in you if you're only after straight mmf.imo anyway"
You're actually right because I've been told before they're not interested in bi and i have also turned down a bi couple...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't cross swords...he's bi...I think he's planning more than crossing them
Always sheath the swords then. ..maybe not necessary. .if its just hand to hand combat...
I actually don't want any bi fun. It'll be less complicated if it's just straight I think. ...you're making it very difficult for yourself. Straight couples looking for mmf, may not be interested because you have bi on your profile. And bi couples won't be interested in you if you're only after straight mmf.imo anyway
You're actually right because I've been told before they're not interested in bi and i have also turned down a bi couple... "
....ok...happy hunting anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New to this too. I'm also interested in an MMF as a single guy. However, I'm finding the likelihood and chances are slim!
Overall though, I think it would be important to meet up for a drink or a coffee first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lay out the rules. Meet socially first. Only play safe and within the limits of all involved. The lady usually has the last word but that applies to all players. If you ain't comfy with something then open your mouth and say it.
Oh and last but not least. Learn to duck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In an mmf it's simple if you're the single guy.
1. Turn up.
2. Get hard.
3. Stay hard.
4. Spoil the lady
5. Don't be an asshole.
6. Don't overstay your welcome. "
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"In an mmf it's simple if you're the single guy.
1. Turn up.
2. Get hard.
3. Stay hard.
4. Spoil the lady
5. Don't be an asshole.
6. Don't overstay your welcome. "
Thats it in a nutshell.
Always be repectful to those you are lucky enough to meet, remember its them letting you join them... |
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By *ortyfunMan
over a year ago
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"In an mmf it's simple if you're the single guy.
1. Turn up.
2. Get hard.
3. Stay hard.
4. Spoil the lady
5. Don't be an asshole.
6. Don't overstay your welcome. "
They should be the mmf commandments
Perfect advice |
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"In an mmf it's simple if you're the single guy.
1. Turn up.
2. Get hard.
3. Stay hard.
4. Spoil the lady
5. Don't be an asshole.
6. Don't overstay your welcome.
They should be the mmf commandments
Perfect advice "
The 6 mmf commandments, according to John Mingo.
What are the other 4 missing ones??? |
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