Hi, this has been on my mind ever since it happened and would like to hear your thoughts.
I was messaging a guy little while ago, getting on well and looking to meet. He asked me how many had I met from here and I said about 9 and slept with 4 (2 of those I met a few times).
He made the comment ... that's alot and haven't really heard from him since.
Now I've been on here about 7mths and was happily thinking that was a conservative number. But now it's got me thinking ... this is a sex site so what did he expect.
Has anyone else had this and look forward to your comments on my numbers... |
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That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger
A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what tthey are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite
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"That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger
A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what tthey are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite
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That's his insecurity, it's nothing to do with you. Whether you meet one person in a year or 25 a week it's your choice and no one should judge you for that. For a sex site there's an awful lot of judgment on it, yet you think you would be escaping it...obviously not  |
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If someone has a problem with who or how many people you have met then its their problem not yours. If people want to judge me and it has happened on who I met then fine it doesnt bother me, its not a case of their or my loss as it gives impression I /they are better than someone. Its a simple fine I will wake up next day, breath fresh air and move on. Life is too short for Drama  |
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"That's an insecure person who's not really a swinger
A person who will pass judgment on you for doing what they are here to do is the worst type of hypocrite.
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Hear, hear. Lucky escape I'd say. |
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I don't tell anybody anything I don't care about guys numbers it's a swing site there are people here on site with over 100 veris but we're all different on here but don't let anyone make you feel bad for meeting who ya want when you want! We're all adults here for a good time |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question."
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "
Yep been there lol |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "
It's different when you're chatting away with some one though you think you can be honest away but shur feck it Tis his loss!! |
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"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications  at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets  but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will  
Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before
Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!
I know!! Maybe he was really really allergic to coffee remnants... "
he didn't want sloppy coffees lol
What a muppet |
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"I get a lot of ... God you have a lot of verifications at the start I'd try explain that the majority are social meets but after awhile I was thinking ... Feck that its none of your business and if I want to be a bit slutty I will
Exactly.. I had one guy tell me he didn't want to meet as I had had a coffee meet the morning before
Lol! That coffee can be a hard one to better, usually best to let it wear off!
I know!! Maybe he was really really allergic to coffee remnants... he didn't want sloppy coffees lol
What a muppet"
And i don't even drink coffee |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake!
It's different when you're chatting away with some one though you think you can be honest away but shur feck it Tis his loss!!"
It's not different, it's an intrusive question. |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake! "
Being honest isn't a mistake. If you hadn't been honest - you wouldn't have figured out he has issues |
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"OP what I don't understand is why you replied to him at all when he asked that question.
We'd been chatting for a few days off fab and getting on well. Guess I'm too honest ... Won't be making the same mistake!
Being honest isn't a mistake. If you hadn't been honest - you wouldn't have figured out he has issues "
Have to agree dodged a bullet , there I would say OP . None of his business . |
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"Another thought ... you can only get better at sex when you practice
How else are you going to perfect your skills!"
its his loss op nobodys buisness but yours how many have u met best of luck mike x |
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A question for the ladies, Is this site a life sentence for women ? Once your number goes past 25 any non swinger would vanish in a cloud of dust if you are honest with him. yes/no |
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"A question for the ladies, Is this site a life sentence for women ? Once your number goes past 25 any non swinger would vanish in a cloud of dust if you are honest with him. yes/no"
25 ... fk I'm doomed to a life off loneliness
Pmsl |
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OP, no-ones business and his loss.
I don't display my summary nor my veris and if anyone asks, and gets tetchy when I don't divulge, they already lost.
Have fun OP..feck the haters |
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