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Always wanted to have a woman dominate me and use a strap on on me,but I am struggling to find a woman willing to help mein Belfast.
Anyone out there with any experience?
Any men experienced this, and what was your reaction? |
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"Always wanted to have a woman dominate me and use a strap on on me,but I am struggling to find a woman willing to help mein Belfast.
Anyone out there with any experience?
Any men experienced this, and what was your reaction?"
Same here mate, very hard to find a girl that's up for it |
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As much as i would like to try it sometime, have tried butt plugs, along with other things up there.
Unless you guys have been praticing, i think a female with a strapon is more than just wishful thinking.
Dont think it is as easy as popping it straight up there, it can be sore to start with. |
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Belfast is full of kinky people. But you are looking in the wrong place. Go to a fetish club. Remember that kink is better with people you know. Most female tops have a long list of people throwing themselves at their feet (literally). The stereotypical used male sex slave isn't a one night stand. It's someone who has grown into the role, often over a period of years. A realistic expectation for you is to go and make friends. Make as many friends as possible. Not just with women. With other guys too. (It pays to be nice because you never know when you might be required to suck some dudes cock)
If you are genuinely interested in being dominated and someone finds you cute, useful or sincere they might consider you. But not on your first night. Probably not on your first 6 months. If you try to pretend to be something you are not, you will be ignored, If you go looking for sex, you will be ignored, if you go expecting people to be impressed, you will be ignored.
Kinksters are really friendly to genuine people. But tourists or horny strangers are not treated with the same warmth.
It's fun. And the most amazing feeling when you connect with someone through kink. But it's hard work too. And i have my doubts about the effort some people on this thread are actually willing to put in |
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"Belfast is full of kinky people. But you are looking in the wrong place. Go to a fetish club. Remember that kink is better with people you know. Most female tops have a long list of people throwing themselves at their feet (literally). The stereotypical used male sex slave isn't a one night stand. It's someone who has grown into the role, often over a period of years. A realistic expectation for you is to go and make friends. Make as many friends as possible. Not just with women. With other guys too. (It pays to be nice because you never know when you might be required to suck some dudes cock)
If you are genuinely interested in being dominated and someone finds you cute, useful or sincere they might consider you. But not on your first night. Probably not on your first 6 months. If you try to pretend to be something you are not, you will be ignored, If you go looking for sex, you will be ignored, if you go expecting people to be impressed, you will be ignored.
Kinksters are really friendly to genuine people. But tourists or horny strangers are not treated with the same warmth.
It's fun. And the most amazing feeling when you connect with someone through kink. But it's hard work too. And i have my doubts about the effort some people on this thread are actually willing to put in"
Sounds like you are speaking with plenty of experience. |
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"Belfast is full of kinky people. But you are looking in the wrong place. Go to a fetish club. Remember that kink is better with people you know. Most female tops have a long list of people throwing themselves at their feet (literally). The stereotypical used male sex slave isn't a one night stand. It's someone who has grown into the role, often over a period of years. A realistic expectation for you is to go and make friends. Make as many friends as possible. Not just with women. With other guys too. (It pays to be nice because you never know when you might be required to suck some dudes cock)
If you are genuinely interested in being dominated and someone finds you cute, useful or sincere they might consider you. But not on your first night. Probably not on your first 6 months. If you try to pretend to be something you are not, you will be ignored, If you go looking for sex, you will be ignored, if you go expecting people to be impressed, you will be ignored.
Kinksters are really friendly to genuine people. But tourists or horny strangers are not treated with the same warmth.
It's fun. And the most amazing feeling when you connect with someone through kink. But it's hard work too. And i have my doubts about the effort some people on this thread are actually willing to put in
Sounds like you are speaking with plenty of experience."
yup. I'm one of those people who takes it all very seriously. It's a different way of thinking. A submissive is a massive responsibility. It's not something you just do for shits and giggles. It's the most beautiful feeling I have ever had and it's the most sobering feeling ever too. To have someone give you control over aspects of their life is humbling. You can't take a day off. You are switched on all the time. But it's worth it. Best feeling ever. |
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"I'm not in it for d mess but I've never done it before but always wanted to try it out . I know it would b full on n I know u give urself up freely to ur domme . "
No. It's not like that. It's a relationship. You don't give yourself up. You just be yourself and the other person is themselves and it happens naturally. This isn't rocket science or a kinky novel.
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"I'm not in it for d mess but I've never done it before but always wanted to try it out . I know it would b full on n I know u give urself up freely to ur domme . No. It's not like that. It's a relationship. You don't give yourself up. You just be yourself and the other person is themselves and it happens naturally. This isn't rocket science or a kinky novel.
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My guess is you'd probably want to have been fucked by a few lads before you go for a girl fucking you with a strapon, at least you'll sorta know what to expect, and she'll know you know sorta what to expect too. |
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"I'm not in it for d mess but I've never done it before but always wanted to try it out . I know it would b full on n I know u give urself up freely to ur domme . No. It's not like that. It's a relationship. You don't give yourself up. You just be yourself and the other person is themselves and it happens naturally. This isn't rocket science or a kinky novel.
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It's about trust and getting to know someone. How they tick and how you tick. I know what it involves and it's mostly time and experience. |
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"I'm not in it for d mess but I've never done it before but always wanted to try it out . I know it would b full on n I know u give urself up freely to ur domme . No. It's not like that. It's a relationship. You don't give yourself up. You just be yourself and the other person is themselves and it happens naturally. This isn't rocket science or a kinky novel.
It's about trust and getting to know someone. How they tick and how you tick. I know what it involves and it's mostly time and experience. "
In vanilla dating it's like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Bdsm is like looking for a needle in a stack of needles. They all look the same but there are only a few you can use and there are loads of other people looking through the mountain of pins too. They might be looking for exactly the same pin you are but you can't hurry or you will end up investing time and energy into the wrong needle and you will have to start again. The only way you will know it's the right needle is by holding it and examining it and if it seems right you give it a go. |
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Unless you guys have been praticing, i think a female with a strapon is more than just wishful thinking.
Dont think it is as easy as popping it straight up there, it can be sore to start with."
Not only good advice for the guys trying it but also for guys giving anal to us gals....take it easy at the start and don't ram it in there...it was only designed as an exit!!  |
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Unless you guys have been praticing, i think a female with a strapon is more than just wishful thinking.
Dont think it is as easy as popping it straight up there, it can be sore to start with.
Not only good advice for the guys trying it but also for guys giving anal to us gals....take it easy at the start and don't ram it in there...it was only designed as an exit!! "
Yep, nice and gently to start with always.
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"Feck the strap on.. any couples out there want to break me in.. 
Haha, straight to the point.
A bisex sambo..."
What can I say I'm just a nice guy lol.. she could even just sit drinking a cup of tea giving a few pointers if she wants !!  |
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