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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why are most women on here so ignorant about the larger ladies on here ive gotten a lot of complaints from women on here over the last few months and its just not fair if there not your type just leave them alone and move on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are most women on here so ignorant about the larger ladies on here ive gotten a lot of complaints from women on here over the last few months and its just not fair if there not your type just leave them alone and move on"

Because they've tiny little willys and it makes them feel better to throw abuse at us when we won't meet them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Soz.. read that wrong..

Replace Willys with boobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But some other women can be nasty too im sure some of the ignorant men on here get pretty rough and ignorant about it too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol its ok snow.....but its just wrong

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol its ok snow.....but its just wrong"

Shaming anyone for their body is wrong.m. but they do it. Have to be pretty insecure about yourself to try body shame someone. I'm fabulous no matter what size I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are men/women here who are just plain ignorant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to disagree with 'most women'

Actually tho I don't really understand. Do you mean women have messaged you complaining about larger women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I know but if your not interested in a larger person then move on or just say not my type rather that upsetting them with abuse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have to disagree with 'most women'

Actually tho I don't really understand. Do you mean women have messaged you complaining about larger women?"

I think the women are complaining to him and he's doing a white knight routine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know but if your not interested in a larger person then move on or just say not my type rather that upsetting them with abuse"

Because they feel the need to say how repulsed they are...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

A few o my friends on here not naming names have said it fairly frequently over the last few weeks and months

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few o my friends on here not naming names have said it fairly frequently over the last few weeks and months "

Then they are shallow.

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

What an original thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No shining knight its just not right and you can report it all day long and admin do nothing to help them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few o my friends on here not naming names have said it fairly frequently over the last few weeks and months "

Tell them you don't want to hear it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A few o my friends on here not naming names have said it fairly frequently over the last few weeks and months

Tell them you don't want to hear it"

and to report to admin

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thats not how a friendship works

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats not how a friendship works"

Now I'm not really understanding what you're talking about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats not how a friendship works"

So you're a shoulder to cry on? Be careful or you'll be friend zoned

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Loncav said....tell them you dont wanna hear it...im hardly gonna say that to my friends on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thats not how a friendship works

So you're a shoulder to cry on? Be careful or you'll be friend zoned

I'm always getting friend zoned

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loncav said....tell them you dont wanna hear it...im hardly gonna say that to my friends on here"

So you post in the forums about their behaviour

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lol i like the friendzone plenty of people to go out with and have a nice time lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol i like the friendzone plenty of people to go out with and have a nice time lol"

Ok another constructive piece of advice. Tell them to block women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think it's safe to say women of all shapes and sizes get abuse on here, by both men and women. That's what the block button is for. Plenty of body shaming goes in the other direction too from what I've been told. One way or the other it's wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Loncav said....tell them you dont wanna hear it...im hardly gonna say that to my friends on here"

If my friends were moaning about a certain type of person and I didn't like it, I'd tell them.

Or is it the ones that are larger that are telling you whats been said. I did say I didn't really understand what you meant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think it's safe to say women of all shapes and sizes get abuse on here, by both men and women. That's what the block button is for. Plenty of body shaming goes in the other direction too from what I've been told. One way or the other it's wrong. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its a mix of both being honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its a mix of both being honest"

Then tell one lot to moan elsewhere and the other lot that the first lot are ignorant pigs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its a mix of both being honest"

We should just all get nekid.. that's the best thing to do to solve this

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Surely the friends who you talk about who are shaming could read this forum and in that case could know you are taking about them.

Might be a case were you lose a few friends from your list...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely the friends who you talk about who are shaming could read this forum and in that case could know you are taking about them.

Might be a case were you lose a few friends from your list..."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely the friends who you talk about who are shaming could read this forum and in that case could know you are taking about them.

Might be a case were you lose a few friends from your list..."

I think he's speaking on behalf of the 'victims' not the perpetrators/shamers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

Now that sort of comment could make me conscious of my body!

Well a certain part of it anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

Now that sort of comment could make me conscious of my body!

Well a certain part of it anyway

Yes.. I'd be very worried for certain parts of your body too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Surely the friends who you talk about who are shaming could read this forum and in that case could know you are taking about them.

Might be a case were you lose a few friends from your list...

I think he's speaking on behalf of the 'victims' not the perpetrators/shamers."

I think he said it was a mix of both. I really need stuff spelt out in simple terms for me to understand lol

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Surely the friends who you talk about who are shaming could read this forum and in that case could know you are taking about them.

Might be a case were you lose a few friends from your list...

I think he's speaking on behalf of the 'victims' not the perpetrators/shamers."

Ooops, maybe i was reading it wrong then.

Just woken up from a friday evening snooze and thought he meant friends of his were talking about others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Other direction....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

Now that sort of comment could make me conscious of my body!

Well a certain part of it anyway

Yes.. I'd be very worried for certain parts of your body too

Not sure if that's a threat or a promise lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

Now that sort of comment could make me conscious of my body!

Well a certain part of it anyway

Yes.. I'd be very worried for certain parts of your body too

Not sure if that's a threat or a promise lol "

I'll let you ponder that

OP got a bit annoyed at me for trying to hijack his thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We really going to have this debate again ?? its like a red rag to a bull

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should have hijacked the genuine question thread instead

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

I think people are allowed a preference. Being opened minded doesn't mean you have to have to hook with with everyone.

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

I think people are allowed a preference. Being opened minded doesn't mean you have to have to hook with with everyone. "

Thats true too, but there is no point in being nasty and posting to people about others.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

I think people are allowed a preference. Being opened minded doesn't mean you have to have to hook with with everyone.

Thats true too, but there is no point in being nasty and posting to people about others."

Much better ways to be nasty I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me and my wife are both large people. I guess we have been lucky because only one person has been abusive towards us. He checked our profile every few days even after the abuse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

There's a big difference between not meeting people you are not attracted to and abusing them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me and my wife are both large people. I guess we have been lucky because only one person has been abusive towards us. He checked our profile every few days even after the abuse"

You could be Pamela Anderson on here and still get abuse

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By *ootingIrishMan over a year ago

London

"We really going to have this debate again ?? its like a red rag to a bull "
I love your body carol

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

I think people are allowed a preference. Being opened minded doesn't mean you have to have to hook with with everyone.

Thats true too, but there is no point in being nasty and posting to people about others.

Much better ways to be nasty I think

And what ways would that be now???

Maybe i was picked up wrong on the openminded part, really meant more so people who wont meet the likes of sexuality, smokers or drinkers more so then attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me and my wife are both large people. I guess we have been lucky because only one person has been abusive towards us. He checked our profile every few days even after the abuse

You could be Pamela Anderson on here and still get abuse

This is true. Too skiny, too fat, too happy, too negative, too opinionated, too high a standard, standards not high enough.

Fuck all that.

I'm just happy looking at all the eye candy. Life is too short to hate so much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

They have an actual list of people they won't meet or a list of preferences?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Other direction....

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....fuckin hate one direction. ....whats this thread about again. ..fat baitches?... we don need you're stinkin baitches....to paraphrase. ..

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By *safunwituMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

They have an actual list of people they won't meet or a list of preferences? "

Suppose a bit of both, but sure thats peoples preference and thats cool.

Prefer to chat with people for awhile by mail myself before making any judgement.

Very rare i have got abuse from anyone, think theres no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Other direction....

....fuckin hate one direction. ....whats this thread about again. ..fat baitches?... we don need you're stinkin baitches....to paraphrase. ..

Had you down as more of a Belieber right enough

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd love to do some serious shameful things to your body

Opppss... inny voice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol its ok snow.....but its just wrong

Shaming anyone for their body is wrong.m. but they do it. Have to be pretty insecure about yourself to try body shame someone. I'm fabulous no matter what size I am.

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this is true, one sexy lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Personality and how you click with someone is key on here, so if someone is judging others on size, shape or anything else thats their problem.

Have to giggle sometimes when looking at some profiles stating that they are open minded.

Only to read a list of people they wont meet, but hey thats their preference.

They have an actual list of people they won't meet or a list of preferences?

Suppose a bit of both, but sure thats peoples preference and thats cool.

Prefer to chat with people for awhile by mail myself before making any judgement.

Very rare i have got abuse from anyone, think theres no need for it."

Having preferences stated on your profile saves time though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't really understand why other peoples nasty comments bother anyone. Not worth getting annoyed over ignorant, rude people

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