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"All the time, don't take it personal.
Lots of genuine reasons though that someone had to cancel.....it's happened to me several times. "
Pain in the arse tho literly last minute. O well may aswell hope the next one wont be a massive let down lol |
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so."
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
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"Nerves was it 
Family asked them to do something for them :/
Mother "will you do something for me please?"
Meet "what mam?"
Mother "will you not meet strange men off the internet for sex"  "
Hahaha |
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over a year ago
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so.
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
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At least they cancelled instead of just not showing up
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so.
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
At least they cancelled instead of just not showing up
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Thats a very good point |
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so.
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
At least they cancelled instead of just not showing up
Thats a very good point"
Always look on the bright side |
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so.
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
At least they cancelled instead of just not showing up
Thats a very good point
Always look on the bright side"
Thanks casey. This experience might make the next even more exciting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People do have lives and responsibilities outside fab, or at least you would hope so.
Would hope everyone has lives outside here. Just a pain organising plans then it falling to bits at last minute lol
At least they cancelled instead of just not showing up
Thats a very good point
Always look on the bright side
Thanks casey. This experience might make the next even more exciting "
Yes, think how exciting it will be just to have them turn up  |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
Dublin West |
Stuff happens, people have more important stuff in their lives or some just get cold feet or change their mind.
It happens, so no point in getting upset by it. If it's ment to be it usually will.
At least they didnt just stand you up as others have said. |
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Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn |
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn "
If they dont make time for you they arent worth it  |
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
If they dont make time for you they arent worth it "
Very true, actions speak louder then words. Especially when then prove themselves to be a liar over and over and I kept giving them the benefit of the doubt. More fool me |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn "
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me |
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"Nerves was it
Family asked them to do something for them :/
Mother "will you do something for me please?"
Meet "what mam?"
Mother "will you not meet strange men off the internet for sex"
Hahaha "
Ah the family emergency |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've wanted to say this since I saw the thread title but I've been scared 
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It's probably better than not pulling out on time  "
Was known as the British soldier method in my youth |
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Top 10 most common excuses 
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed |
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me"
Yep, and knowing full well I had to work double all wk to clear time for over the wkend. Not an ounce of remorse!! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me
Yep, and knowing full well I had to work double all wk to clear time for over the wkend. Not an ounce of remorse!! "
fuck that lolli id kneecap them |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Top 10 most common excuses
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed"
you can join ISIS on line these days |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Top 10 most common excuses
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed"
And then the real one
... bottled it ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me
Yep, and knowing full well I had to work double all wk to clear time for over the wkend. Not an ounce of remorse!!
fuck that lolli id kneecap them"
You'd have to meet the fooker laid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me
Yep, and knowing full well I had to work double all wk to clear time for over the wkend. Not an ounce of remorse!!
fuck that lolli id kneecap them
You'd have to meet the fooker laid "
Lol very true, he probably wouldn't show up |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
by a lake with my rod out |
"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
two weekends in a row fuck that they would be dead to me
Yep, and knowing full well I had to work double all wk to clear time for over the wkend. Not an ounce of remorse!!
fuck that lolli id kneecap them
You'd have to meet the fooker laid "
or just get within a few hundred meters of them |
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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago
Derry |
"Is this a common issue. Arange a meet today and at last minute something came up and they make a exscuse not to meet?"
Yep, all too common, sometimes for genuine reasons, other times not. How you deal with it is up to you. I see quite a few use the status updates to vent about it, which is somewhat impolite.
My own policy on that topic is not to make a priority of anyone that treats me like an option.
That said, do bear in mind that plans can get derailed for all sorts of genuine reasons and real life will always trump Fab swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Top 10 most common excuses
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed
And then the real one
... bottled it !"
Shhhhh that's not an excuse |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Top 10 most common excuses
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed
you can join ISIS on line these days "
She went Pakistan for radicalization |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn "
Wow happen to us also. No more fab meets. Parties from now on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nerves was it
Family asked them to do something for them :/
Mother "will you do something for me please?"
Meet "what mam?"
Mother "will you not meet strange men off the internet for sex" "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the time, don't take it personal.
Lots of genuine reasons though that someone had to cancel.....it's happened to me several times. "
It's also easy to sympathise with your friends on here to...there's always two sides to every story...maybe even a third... unless we're in the others shoes it's hard to fully understand. ..what's an acceptable reason to one group isn't necessarily acceptable by others. Often we assess and accept or don't accept the validity on how much effort we have gone to make it happen too, when really it has little bearing objective bearing on it. It just makes it it far more annoying when we put in more effort. |
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Their loss op happens to most just bag it bin it and swiftly move on , reckon these things happen for a reason . Been stood up midst meet its worse but found out later he was an absolute ass sooo glad I came home panties intact |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a common issue. Arange a meet today and at last minute something came up and they make a exscuse not to meet?
Yep, all too common, sometimes for genuine reasons, other times not. How you deal with it is up to you. I see quite a few use the status updates to vent about it, which is somewhat impolite.
My own policy on that topic is not to make a priority of anyone that treats me like an option.
That said, do bear in mind that plans can get derailed for all sorts of genuine reasons and real life will always trump Fab swinging"
It is becoming more common on here though to be treated as an option in the name that another might pull out. I just think we all need to understand that it can happen for many reasons. I think if you take your time in getting to know someone then they're less likely to do it without good reason....and if it happens then to say it's their loss is bullsh*t. It's actually both their loss not any particular party as so many seem to imply on here. It's supposed to be fun... so look for the silver lining as it pisses down yet again. .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its probably slightly common...shit happens, how many meetings in general day to day life do people cancel for this and that....i'm sure they'll still be up for meeting after they read the thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happens for lots of reasons... some genuine...some less so...
Recent experience includes a lady I was to meet who cancelled for child care issues... wondered what that meant.... Until she was verified same night fucking another guy...
Ces't la vie...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Happens for lots of reasons... some genuine...some less so...
Recent experience includes a lady I was to meet who cancelled for child care issues... wondered what that meant.... Until she was verified same night fucking another guy...
Ces't la vie...
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Maybe he was a lot younger lol |
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"I've wanted to say this since I saw the thread title but I've been scared
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It's probably better than not pulling out on time "
.....keep that shit away from her bellybutton. ...we don't want any unwanted pregnancies. .. |
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"Yeah nothing worse then clearing your schedule and making time for someone to let you down at the last min, worse still two wkends in a row and terrible excuses. Ah sure you live and learn
If they dont make time for you they arent worth it
Very true, actions speak louder then words. Especially when then prove themselves to be a liar over and over and I kept giving them the benefit of the doubt. More fool me "
Its there lose. Any sensible guy would jump at the chance to meet somebody like you. |
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"Top 10 most common excuses
1. I'm sick
2. I have to work
3. Family emergency
4. Car trouble
5. I forgot I have children
6. I joined ISIS
7. My satnav is busted and I can't read signs
8. Getting hair done
9. My long lost .....is being released from prison
10. I couldn't be arsed"
I joined isis hahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a common issue. Arange a meet today and at last minute something came up and they make a exscuse not to meet?
Yep, all too common, sometimes for genuine reasons, other times not. How you deal with it is up to you. I see quite a few use the status updates to vent about it, which is somewhat impolite.
My own policy on that topic is not to make a priority of anyone that treats me like an option.
That said, do bear in mind that plans can get derailed for all sorts of genuine reasons and real life will always trump Fab swinging"
You well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I must be one of the lucky ones never had a cancellation on here but then again I'm quite fussy so I usually pick the good ones lol I've cancelled though I even did a runner from a hotel I was that freaked out by him oh well ya win some ya lose some I guess |
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"I must be one of the lucky ones never had a cancellation on here but then again I'm quite fussy so I usually pick the good ones lol I've cancelled though I even did a runner from a hotel I was that freaked out by him oh well ya win some ya lose some I guess "
Wounder how he reacted when he realised you did a runner lol |
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