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does any of your friends outside of fab know you are on this
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi guys,i am just wondering do many of you tell your friends that you are on this site? it just seems in our society that there is a bit of a stigma attached to things like this,what do you think? personally i havent told anyone i am on this,opinions please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A very select few know. My sex life is my own business.
Plus I think the secrecy adds an element to this...so society can stick it's stigma where the sun don't shine and go swing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her  |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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The Parish Priest , Sister Augustus, the woman in the post office, some bloke I was yapping with at the bar on Sat night.. Can't remember his name .. Emm let me see ... My employer ( for when I need time off) .. My mother in law .. And the ladies in the local guild of the ICA ... Pretty sure Im leaving someone out though ... Oh yeah Santa Claus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her "
Oh lordy...those bubbly moment's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My friends know. Family don't only as I wouldn't dicuss sex or relationships with them anyway! Although I came on to my cousins girlfriend recently while d*unk and told her "
I'd of loved to of seen that lolli was she interested ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was drinking bubbles al day and was feeling very adventurous!!! She was defo interested but she resisted. And she was gorgeous! Kept telling her to dump my cousin, she's only with him a wet day lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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like i dont see why there should be any problems with people on here,i would love to discuss it with people i know but hey maybe a guy is better keeping his micky buisness to himself ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A very select few know. My sex life is my own business.
Plus I think the secrecy adds an element to this...so society can stick it's stigma where the sun don't shine and go swing "
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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Everyone who knows me is aware about my libertine mindset in all matters of life. If they don't know for sure they guess it . But it doesn't bother me either way. Luckily I don't need to hide anything.
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"I was drinking bubbles al day and was feeling very adventurous!!! She was defo interested but she resisted. And she was gorgeous! Kept telling her to dump my cousin, she's only with him a wet day lol "
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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago
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Nobody knows we are here, or anything about is swinging. We like it that way, I don't think that we know one person who would understand.
Besides the fact that it's something only we know about makes it more exciting- it's our little secret  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure that for a lot of people, the kick is in the element of secrecy.
Personally, I've never seen the need to discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it. |
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"I'm sure that for a lot of people, the kick is in the element of secrecy.
Personally, I've never seen the need to discuss my sex life with people who aren't involved in it."
That's my take on it also. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I pretty much don't care who knows. Though in the end of the day, I don't really discuss my sex life with family or mates regardless. I don't make any attempt to hide it. When family ask would I not meet someone nice to share time with, I usually say I do, frequently, lots of nice people and leave it at that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ya few of my friends know I'm on this !!
Never know what nut job your gonna have misfortune of meeting
So I send a location just in case
And with good reason !!
Couldn't give monkeys if Society knows not like we doing anything wrong
We r all adults after all or meant to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I told my 2 best friends...
Both attached...
Both very naughty girls...
One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...
I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place"....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my family and friends know but we don't flaunt anything at all. If they ask a question we give generally answers and them them if they are truly interested I tell them to do their research. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told my 2 best friends...
Both attached...
Both very naughty girls...
One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...
I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place".... "
....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I pretty much don't care who knows. Though in the end of the day, I don't really discuss my sex life with family or mates regardless. I don't make any attempt to hide it. When family ask would I not meet someone nice to share time with, I usually say I do, frequently, lots of nice people and leave it at that. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah i told mine after i joined as some one else recognized me and threatened to tell them . so was easier coming out .
no one bothers so long as im safe and i always let someone know where im going . |
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"Yeah i told mine after i joined as some one else recognized me and threatened to tell them . so was easier coming out .
no one bothers so long as im safe and i always let someone know where im going . "
thats it its no harm that sumone knows where your going and that your safe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I told my 2 best friends...
Both attached...
Both very naughty girls...
One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...
I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place".... ....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there.. "
Ahem..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told my 2 best friends...
Both attached...
Both very naughty girls...
One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...
I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place".... ....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..
Ahem..... "
....you absolute tart...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told my 2 best friends...
Both attached...
Both very naughty girls...
One wants to know all the gory details the other was shocked said how could you that's gross...
I wouldn't mind only I've had to save her skin a few times at like 3 am collecting by her from "some guys place".... ....hmmm....are you sure you weren't already there..
Ahem..... ....you absolute tart... "
Served with plenty of cream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's funny that society in general is easier on cheaters than swingers.
A cheater can be forgiven for breaking the rules, their behaviour rationalised and accepted. But because a swinger chooses to be ethically non monogamous they are dangerous to society and not to be trusted.
I have told no one because we live in a small rural area where you can't fart without word going round the local post office about your rich diet or need for less fiber |
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All my close family and friends know, anything that is personable to me is to them and vice versa. Mind you, nobody outside of that, for example work colleagues or acquaintances - the way I see it, it's like if you were gay,bi or lesbian...whomever you are comfortable knowing those details about you.
We need to be more liberal and understanding about people, their sexual it and their qurks.
It would make for a very boring world if we were all happily married heterosexuals |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"hi guys,i am just wondering do many of you tell your friends that you are on this site? it just seems in our society that there is a bit of a stigma attached to things like this,what do you think? personally i havent told anyone i am on this,opinions please "
Most of my friends in Ireland know I am a swinger and regularly meet couples and go to parties
Most of my friends in France know too as I regularly attend the swingers clubs in Cannes, Mougin and Nice, sure don't I take all my second dates with me.
But your question was, "do they know I am on Fab?" No, probably not, I think  |
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