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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

On the German site jozclub and the international SDC one can get little assecories like pins or t/shirts with embroidery which allows the site members to recognise each other in the vanilla world. Would something like an insider symbol be appreciated in Ireland? If so what would you suggest?

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Nope, not a good idea in little Ireland.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Well, I suppose you could have the letter F sewn somewhere inconspicious or for the ladys maybe have the letter F stuck on a bag or something lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I give it 48 hours til Granny down the road knows what it means. Good idea - but not for here

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"Nope, not a good idea in little Ireland. "

I feared so, sometimes I start thinking whether swingers should have a coming out similar to the gay scene and maybe some political voice to emancipate swinging as something which is neither dirty nor illegal nor is it harmful to live a liberated sexuality

We got tolerance for all kind of stuff but with regard to natural human promiscuity we still behave like committing a capital crime or consuming illegal drugs

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By *edhead56Couple  over a year ago

Outside Belfast

I think good idea as weve been in hotels where we know there are other swingers but couldn't be sure at least that way you have a meet and greet on hand as it were

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

As a symbol something could be used which only insiders would recognise, similar to the anklets of hot wife's or the secret signs of free masons, very subtle but if worn by several people at the same spot like a hotel or a SPA or a nightclub where Granny doesn't go for the loud noise......

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By *ony8054Man  over a year ago

Cork


"Nope, not a good idea in little Ireland. "

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As a symbol something could be used which only insiders would recognise, similar to the anklets of hot wife's or the secret signs of free masons, very subtle but if worn by several people at the same spot like a hotel or a SPA or a nightclub where Granny doesn't go for the loud noise......"

I see what you're saying alright, just trying to find the right something that only us fabbers would know!!

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By *ale4U2Man  over a year ago

Nearby

I'm sure Sydney University would be very interested in this too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We could all wear wellies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

A necklace with an "F" on it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it "

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

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By *illf loverMan  over a year ago

waterford

Necklace is good idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I would usually just say fab in a sentence when talking to someone to see the reaction

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We could all wear wellies "

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it "

I don't think the guys will want to wear a necklace!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!! "

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred"

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention "

Can you imagine haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention "

Ha ha can you just imagine lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

Can you imagine haha"

Eyes meet and knowing winks over the fruit aisle. His wife cops the winks and he's battered with a head of cabbage

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

Can you imagine haha

Eyes meet and knowing winks over the fruit aisle. His wife cops the winks and he's battered with a head of cabbage "

Aww the poor cabbage lol!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

Can you imagine haha

Eyes meet and knowing winks over the fruit aisle. His wife cops the winks and he's battered with a head of cabbage

Aww the poor cabbage lol!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

Can you imagine haha

Eyes meet and knowing winks over the fruit aisle. His wife cops the winks and he's battered with a head of cabbage

Aww the poor cabbage lol!!! "

Just hope it never happens over the frozen food aisle. The pizzas could be frisbies

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple  over a year ago

mayo


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so! "

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A necklace with an "F" on it

God help anyone called Fiona or Fred

OK true maybe "fs". Although could be funny seeing neighbours walking around with same necklace. Or worse like bumping into someone in the supermarket and getting unwanted attention

Can you imagine haha

Eyes meet and knowing winks over the fruit aisle. His wife cops the winks and he's battered with a head of cabbage

Aww the poor cabbage lol!!!

Just hope it never happens over the frozen food aisle. The pizzas could be frisbies "

And watch out for frozen carrots being used as darts!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??"

.

Ah well... might just spend money on Lilt so.

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By *ccasional couple 32Couple  over a year ago

mayo


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??

.

Ah well... might just spend money on Lilt so. "

Cavan cola !!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??

.

Ah well... might just spend money on Lilt so. "

No, no lilt for me, I bought a bottle of lilt today & it wasn't nice at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??

.

Ah well... might just spend money on Lilt so.

No, no lilt for me, I bought a bottle of lilt today & it wasn't nice at all!! "

Glamworld has Little rocket - Lilt has Sub

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By *ohn MingoMan  over a year ago

Dublin

A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off."

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We could all wear wellies

Yes we'll all wear red wellies!!!

.

Phew... don't need a new pair so!

Mohill creamery just lost out on the sale of a new pair of dunlops !!!!!!! ??

.

Ah well... might just spend money on Lilt so.

No, no lilt for me, I bought a bottle of lilt today & it wasn't nice at all!! "

.....at least you didn't have to drink cavan Cola. ...liquid shite....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet. "

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol"

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont think it would really work.. as I always have black ring even before fab and before I heard about what it means!

So any symbol could be wear by vanila person unless it includes word Swinger in/on it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I give it 48 hours til Granny down the road knows what it means. Good idea - but not for here"

And all over the media too ...hahahahaha. .. Therewill be mini ccompetitions in the Sun and the Mail to spot the elusive fabber.... send a face pic and we'll give you a free months subscription to our exclusive online causes. .. yp great idea lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up "

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"I dont think it would really work.. as I always have black ring even before fab and before I heard about what it means!

So any symbol could be wear by vanila person unless it includes word Swinger in/on it "

Very true. Although the black ring does seem to work well in America.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

We've a couple years before we meet then so let's get the design sorted..

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol"

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging "

Wouldn't you like a King size with all the extras???? A hanging swing? A sybian? Some young male nurses at an extra cost??

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Ireland is so rich in Celtic symbols, how about the St Bridget's cross, it use to be a pagan symbol of fertility before the Irish Catholic Church embedded it in their own methodology

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I just fail to see the advantage of this...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ireland is so rich in Celtic symbols, how about the St Bridget's cross, it use to be a pagan symbol of fertility before the Irish Catholic Church embedded it in their own methodology"

But the kids make them at school, so no.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just fail to see the advantage of this..."

Nothing to see...

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"I just fail to see the advantage of this..."

It has some excitement if you are at some place e.g a hotel lobby wearing same identifier

You smile on each other and even if there is no other interaction there is that conspiricy grin on each face

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I just fail to see the advantage of this...

It has some excitement if you are at some place e.g a hotel lobby wearing same identifier

You smile on each other and even if there is no other interaction there is that conspiricy grin on each face "

Can see the significance of it now OP. Just a pity Irish society isn't as openminded as our European neighbours. Papers get one whiff of a secret identifier the fire & brimstone brigade will run riot

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And how long before lads on the pull hear about it & start utilising it?

Leave me like a superhero, unknown & living a double life please.

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid


"I just fail to see the advantage of this...

It has some excitement if you are at some place e.g a hotel lobby wearing same identifier

You smile on each other and even if there is no other interaction there is that conspiricy grin on each face

Can see the significance of it now OP. Just a pity Irish society isn't as openminded as our European neighbours. Papers get one whiff of a secret identifier the fire & brimstone brigade will run riot"

That's why it is necessary to choose something subtle which can have a complete different meaning,hence a backdoor which would allow to sue any tabloid for damages incurred, literally a claim trapp fir nosy tabloid writers

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Twas just an idea

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging

Wouldn't you like a King size with all the extras???? A hanging swing? A sybian? Some young male nurses at an extra cost?? "

Upgrade

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I just fail to see the advantage of this...

It has some excitement if you are at some place e.g a hotel lobby wearing same identifier

You smile on each other and even if there is no other interaction there is that conspiricy grin on each face "

Sounds more like a secretive sectarian society to me than a liberation of sexuality or celebration of promiscuity. It might work for you as a man or a couple but I'd fear as a single woman it will be read most of the time as 'she's game' and I don't even want to imagine what the outcome of that is.

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By *ir1967 OP   Man  over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Point taken.

The secrets society touch is to facilitate the excessive discretion requirements on this Island

I will think further how such sign could look like and if the Irish FAB society accepts it it is still up to each individual to wear it it not

Similar to hotwife anklets and other explicit symbols like key holder ladies

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging

Wouldn't you like a King size with all the extras???? A hanging swing? A sybian? Some young male nurses at an extra cost??

Upgrade"

It will be called The Last Veri

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging

Wouldn't you like a King size with all the extras???? A hanging swing? A sybian? Some young male nurses at an extra cost??

Upgrade

It will be called The Last Veri "

And my final conversation with God

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By *arfield 69Man  over a year ago

lurgan near Belfast

Why drop at a necklace

Get it tattooed on yer forehead

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why drop at a necklace

Get it tattooed on yer forehead

Lol"

I've already got sucker tattooed across that & it's nothing to do with fab

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"A few years ago in the states they tried using a black ring worn on the right hand ring finger as a symbol of being in be lifestyle. I don't think it took off.

The black ring is still worn by a lot of swingers in North America. In some clubs you could see up to 90% wearing them.

They also use an infinity symbol either by tattoo or bracelet.

That tattoo would go down well at the nursing home! Lol

There could be an old swingers home lol

I must look into setting one up

Book me a large bed

Want to go out swinging

Wouldn't you like a King size with all the extras???? A hanging swing? A sybian? Some young male nurses at an extra cost??

Upgrade

It will be called The Last Veri

And my final conversation with God"

My microphone is connected to heaven

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By *orguyMan  over a year ago

Tuam


"I just fail to see the advantage of this..."

Its a good icebreaker especially if your someplace like a nudist beach where there can be vanilla people and swingers mixed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I give it 48 hours til Granny down the road knows what it means. Good idea - but not for here

And all over the media too ...hahahahaha. .. Therewill be mini ccompetitions in the Sun and the Mail to spot the elusive fabber.... send a face pic and we'll give you a free months subscription to our exclusive online causes. .. yp great idea lol"

Maybe thats what they were doing with all the pics of Swingfields

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