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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've experienced number of time wasters in the last few days, messaging back and forth for a day or two and then nothing. Not even opening my mails? Obviously these are couples and single fems I've been chatting with as I'm straight. Single males get bad press for this sort of thing, but couples and fems appear to escape the same kind of bad press? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Did you not read the Memo? There have been timewasters on all sites all the time - you could have saved your own time by reading the 35 other threads about timewasters that are on this months' Forums already! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Myself personally, I take a break from replying, just stay in the forums.. I might be logged in on my other phone, tablet, laptop but it doesn't mean I'm actually online.
I don't spend all day on here And replying to mails aren't my top priority as I'm not actually meeting atm and there are just so many times u can tell this to a person  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've experienced number of time wasters in the last few days, messaging back and forth for a day or two and then nothing. Not even opening my mails? Obviously these are couples and single fems I've been chatting with as I'm straight. Single males get bad press for this sort of thing, but couples and fems appear to escape the same kind of bad press?"
....not opening mail does not constitute a timewaster...They could be busy in real life
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've experienced number of time wasters in the last few days, messaging back and forth for a day or two and then nothing. Not even opening my mails? Obviously these are couples and single fems I've been chatting with as I'm straight. Single males get bad press for this sort of thing, but couples and fems appear to escape the same kind of bad press?....not opening mail does not constitute a timewaster...They could be busy in real life"
Or just say, this idiot again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should do yourself a massive favour and delete any and all sent messages. Checking and fretting over a message's status is pointless.
So many variables; a couple could read one and mark it unread until both get a chance to see it, a person could read it out and about and wait for a more opportune time to reply or they could just be busy etc.
I know it's one of the most common sayings on here but if someone wants to reply, they will. In the end, if they don't you could argue they're saving everyone's time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So any message/chat that doesn't lead to a positive result is time wasting?
Certainly not, but not letting someone know either way is"
Fab rules say no reply = no interest. You could argue that by not replying they are doing it correctly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'v had a few messages over and back with a guy...then discover for whatever reason we won't get on..This is usually the discovery of a personality trait or a bad attitude..I stop replying.
I don't always explain as I sense it will result in a negative response. I don't consider this time wasting. ..it's actually saving time for us both really  |
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"So any message/chat that doesn't lead to a positive result is time wasting?
Certainly not, but not letting someone know either way is
I would have thought that not replying lets you know pretty clearly."
No reply, is the same as a "No" reply be it for a Male, a Female or a Couple!
Sending a "No" reply often leads to abuse being sent be it for a Male, a Female or a Couple!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sone people on here just can't handle the word NO THANKS it's simple u just move on say thanks and goodbye leave it at that every status I see is someone getting abused it's unfair get a life or go somewhere else I say |
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