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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a question for ladies,gents cpls. When someone is cruel to you for no reason at all how do you react ?? This particular person seems to have their head up their ass and thinks they have said nothing wrong im just wondering the best approach as i see this person on a regular basis. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take them aside...ask what they meant by what they said ( you may have misinterpreted).... you'll either get an apology or clarification.......you will know how to deal with the situation then..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have a question for ladies,gents cpls. When someone is cruel to you for no reason at all how do you react ?? This particular person seems to have their head up their ass and thinks they have said nothing wrong im just wondering the best approach as i see this person on a regular basis."
Best bet is to point it straight out to them but dont show them ur hurt by it. Stand tall and tell then that type of shit is not on and to wind their neck in. If that fails give me a bell and ill be sure to put them in their box for u   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alternatively. ..you could just shoot them in the face 
Would that be by a gun or lady jizz.lol....couldn't possibly say....for legal reasons. . "
Ah feck off now ur just leaving me hanging.lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
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And an opinion ur entitled to but I would take him aside and ask what he ment as an informed opinion helps us better to make a decision as to weather this individual is some one u want to continue association with.
Cold creatures usually find them selves left out in the cold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
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Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you"
I will somewhat agree with this. I often post on the forums here and am accused of being cruel etc. But I'm not. Sometimes things need saying and people turn a blind eye to the truth about stuff. And some people follow others blindly and let others lead them astray. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"that's your opinion" and "well if that's what you think" are two phrases that I feel are insensitive and yes cruel..
I would take a back step, avoid confrontation and certainly give less of myself in future.
Might seem a bit wimpy to some but like bullies, if you let them see how it gets to you it could turn nasty.
Walk away.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is he an acquaintance, colleague, friend or more? You obviously care about what he says, enough to feel hurt or annoyed by it...
I doubt you'll be content to let it fester or pass without challenging him about it. His response, whether he's apologetic for having upset you, or for being careless in what he said, might better inform your choice about whether to keep him in your life?
Trust your gut |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Block them and move on
Eh, i dont think its an online thing..."
Ignore them and move on then. Have never been caught up by/in anyone's actions towards me. Be bigger and ignore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""that's your opinion" and "well if that's what you think" are two phrases that I feel are insensitive and yes cruel..
I would take a back step, avoid confrontation and certainly give less of myself in future.
Might seem a bit wimpy to some but like bullies, if you let them see how it gets to you it could turn nasty.
Walk away.
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Really? Cruel? Im sorry, that doesnt sound cruel to me in the slightest...confrontational? Yes. Irritating? Perhaps. Cruel? Not a hope |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If the guy bothers you just distance yourself from him. Given your description of him then I can't see him changing his attitude. Challenging him just sounds like a losing battle and not worth the effort. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you"
I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for"
Maybe he's using reverse psychology to motivate you into doing more training and losing more....just a taught |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Maybe he's using reverse psychology to motivate you into doing more training and losing more....just a taught"
maybe but not with him thats for sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for"
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
Tuam |
"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Maybe he's using reverse psychology to motivate you into doing more training and losing more....just a taught maybe but not with him thats for sure"
How do you know this? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying"
I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional."
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional.
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation?"
I simply asked ppl how would they react? As i have to see him on a regular basis i.e ignore and keep walking or confront him etc |
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Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. "
Thank you Miss D |
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D"
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. "
I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional.
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation? I simply asked ppl how would they react? As i have to see him on a regular basis i.e ignore and keep walking or confront him etc "
I understand that, i just dont know in what context the initial comments like 'thats your opinion' etc were made. Can you elaborate? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. "
Or tell him ur new trained helped u lose more than him in a month than he did is however long he trained u.lol. and give him some tips. I bet he will be raging.lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done losing the 2 stone Ms.Kinky...
It's hurtful when you've worked so hard..on the bright side he said you made some changes! You should have said you didn't "your still a prick"
Least he noticed! Keep up the good work!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional.
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation? I simply asked ppl how would they react? As i have to see him on a regular basis i.e ignore and keep walking or confront him etc
I understand that, i just dont know in what context the initial comments like 'thats your opinion' etc were made. Can you elaborate?"
It was a long drawn out argument so i cant really or i would have to explain all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well done losing the 2 stone Ms.Kinky...
It's hurtful when you've worked so hard..on the bright side he said you made some changes! You should have said you didn't "your still a prick"
Least he noticed! Keep up the good work!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional.
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation? I simply asked ppl how would they react? As i have to see him on a regular basis i.e ignore and keep walking or confront him etc
I understand that, i just dont know in what context the initial comments like 'thats your opinion' etc were made. Can you elaborate?It was a long drawn out argument so i cant really or i would have to explain all"
Kinda hard to offer an informed educated opionion so im afraid |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is there any chance you could elaborate a little bit?
Personally I'd bring it to their attention.
Its a long story but this particular guy tends say thats your opinion thats what you think etc very cold creature
Do you mean 'tends to say'?
Whatever it is, is it him being cruel or you being weak? Ask yourself that first. A lot of people in here will jump to your defense as youre a woman but you need to identify first is he the problem or is it you I dont think its a nice thing of a trainer to say to an ex client i see small changes with 2 stone down .Am i being weak maybe but to me the comment was cruel and uncalled for
Sorry, im not actually understanding what youre saying...can you use inverted commas or punctuation or something? Finding it hard to get what youre saying I had a conversation with this EX TRAINER and he said i see small changes i found his comment to be cruel and unprofessional.
Ok. How does the things you mention in your initial post fit into the conversation? I simply asked ppl how would they react? As i have to see him on a regular basis i.e ignore and keep walking or confront him etc
I understand that, i just dont know in what context the initial comments like 'thats your opinion' etc were made. Can you elaborate?It was a long drawn out argument so i cant really or i would have to explain all
Kinda hard to offer an informed educated opionion so im afraid"
I dont get him either Mr B. All i can say is i found his comment on small changes cruel and i still have to see the prick |
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out"
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. |
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. "
ye i know that too as i said he thinks he has done nothing wrong clearly because the next day he was like helllo i tried to ignore him then he shouted again hellooo . |
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. ye i know that too as i said he thinks he has done nothing wrong clearly because the next day he was like helllo i tried to ignore him then he shouted again hellooo ."
Has he got the hots for you??? this is like a little boy story.He likes the girl but gives her an awful time to get her to notice him |
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. ye i know that too as i said he thinks he has done nothing wrong clearly because the next day he was like helllo i tried to ignore him then he shouted again hellooo .
Has he got the hots for you??? this is like a little boy story.He likes the girl but gives her an awful time to get her to notice him "
I seriously doubt it Miss D |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. ye i know that too as i said he thinks he has done nothing wrong clearly because the next day he was like helllo i tried to ignore him then he shouted again hellooo .
Has he got the hots for you??? this is like a little boy story.He likes the girl but gives her an awful time to get her to notice him I seriously doubt it Miss D"
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"Sounds to me like a right grumpy fooker!! hes probably miffed that you no longer train with him, so hes hardly going to shower you with compliments on how well you look. Its unprofessional of him thats for sure to pass remarks like that. Its just as well hes your ex trainer, ye dont have to listen to him anymore. move on girl and dont worry your head about it. Thank you Miss D
Laugh at him next time he says anything to you. I tell ya Miss D is it any wonder i was taken into hospital last wk with suspected bleedin on the brain.the prick stresses me out
The best way to deal with your stress is to change what stresses you and that starts with changing yourself. Does he matter to you that much that you became ill because of him? You know that old saying, to move forward you dont look back. Continue on your journey and best of luck with your personal fitness and weight loss. That twat is a begrudger and nothing more. ye i know that too as i said he thinks he has done nothing wrong clearly because the next day he was like helllo i tried to ignore him then he shouted again hellooo .
Has he got the hots for you??? this is like a little boy story.He likes the girl but gives her an awful time to get her to notice him I seriously doubt it Miss D"
Alright..all joking aside,tell him outright you no longer wish to speak to him again and politely tell him to fook off and walk away. If hes affecting you so badly,put him out of your life and your mind. Stand up to him and take control of yourself. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would let it go over your head. If a snide remark is the best he/she could come up with. It's not worth the effort to feel offended.
If you have lost 2 stone. Well done.
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By (user no longer on site)
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He sounds like my brother, I deal with him by saying "how about we stick with - if you've got nothing nice to say, say nothing". Beyond that, I now know that it's his personal issues that make him like that, so it's about him, not me.
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over a year ago
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While you may have to see him regularly it doesn't mean you have to engage with him if he makes you feel bad or uncomfortable.
Just give him the cold shoulder and live your life the way you want too.
And well done on your progress already |
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over a year ago
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I would personally gradually reduce contacts and attention towards 'them'. Just ignore how they let out their own frustration on you, it's their problem not yours. What's the point in confronting them? Adults people are usually aware of what they do/say and why. Engaging in these kind of conversations will maybe add more negativity.... and I see where you are coming from.. still why caring too much about their opinion? You know your self worth and you deserve to be surrounded by people that make you feel good! There is little you can say to change their attitude until they decide to.. ignoring them and taking the distance will make them think. They will notice the change, 'they' will eventually stop, take you aside and attempt to make up to you (That's if you'll still care) xx |
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h n Mr.B very good 