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Bringing a 3rd person on to the team
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"Hi all, Has anyone ever had a friend (who knew what you get up on here) ask about coming on to the scene along with you? If so how did it work out and any suggestions to make it workable? She's female and a few years younger than me but is very confident in her sexuality. We've spoken a lot about what myself and Liam get up to in our spare time "....there's a few mff profiles in Ireland. ..I would say that you would be fairly popular. ..lol | |||
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"I'd say that very much depends on whether you intend to just hold her hand while she is a newbie, or play with her. Swinging with established "real-life" friends is risky IMO, very easy for it all to go pear-shaped, both for the friendship and your own relationship, plus can you rely ob her to be discreet, especially if it goes sour?" This all crossed my mind but I do trust her 100%, we've known each other for a long time. How to kick start it is an issue! Bring her along maybe or set up some meets with her. Should be interesting! Very excited about it to be honest. | |||
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"I'd say that very much depends on whether you intend to just hold her hand while she is a newbie, or play with her. Swinging with established "real-life" friends is risky IMO, very easy for it all to go pear-shaped, both for the friendship and your own relationship, plus can you rely ob her to be discreet, especially if it goes sour? This all crossed my mind but I do trust her 100%, we've known each other for a long time. How to kick start it is an issue! Bring her along maybe or set up some meets with her. Should be interesting! Very excited about it to be honest. " Not worth the risk in my book, but good luck if you decide to go ahead  | |||
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"I'd say that very much depends on whether you intend to just hold her hand while she is a newbie, or play with her. Swinging with established "real-life" friends is risky IMO, very easy for it all to go pear-shaped, both for the friendship and your own relationship, plus can you rely ob her to be discreet, especially if it goes sour? This all crossed my mind but I do trust her 100%, we've known each other for a long time. How to kick start it is an issue! Bring her along maybe or set up some meets with her. Should be interesting! Very excited about it to be honest. " Just from my own experience I would leave private life and real friendships separate from fab,,,,,, both myself and my ex best female friend were on another swingsite in our 20's,,, had been best friends since I was 5 and she was 7,,,, knew everything about eachother,, fell out over something else (not about swinging) 7/8 years ago,,, she blabbed to others that we both knew including my nephew that I was on a swinger site before and that I'm bisexual and used excuse that I'm bisexual as the reason we don't talk anymore,,,,, so IMO it's not worth it OP,, but good luck in whatever you decide | |||
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"I can hold her hand if you'd like... "Ever the gent | |||
"I can hold her hand if you'd like... "Aw sweet | |||
"I can hold her hand if you'd like... "Not sure she'd be into the Right Said Fred costume tbh | |||
"I can hold her hand if you'd like... "lol got in there before me | |||
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"I can hold her hand if you'd like...
Not sure she'd be into the Right Said Fred costume tbh "How very dare you! I do naked too | |||
"I can hold her hand if you'd like...
Not sure she'd be into the Right Said Fred costume tbh
How very dare you! I do naked too "No doubt you do | |||
"I can hold her hand if you'd like... "Smarmy central | |||
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"My best friend comes to parties and m&s' with me sometimes. She's not a member of the site. She knows all about my adventures in here. Occasionally we will share a guy in FFM or I pass on a guy I think she'll like. Works well for us. " How come a non member is allowed go to parties? | |||
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"My best friend comes to parties and m&s' with me sometimes. She's not a member of the site. She knows all about my adventures in here. Occasionally we will share a guy in FFM or I pass on a guy I think she'll like. Works well for us. " the little pocket rocket?? | |||
"My best friend comes to parties and m&s' with me sometimes. She's not a member of the site. She knows all about my adventures in here. Occasionally we will share a guy in FFM or I pass on a guy I think she'll like. Works well for us. How come a non member is allowed go to parties? " ^^^^^ this,,, didn't think non members would be allowed attend organised parties ect  | |||
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"My best friend comes to parties and m&s' with me sometimes. She's not a member of the site. She knows all about my adventures in here. Occasionally we will share a guy in FFM or I pass on a guy I think she'll like. Works well for us. How come a non member is allowed go to parties? ^^^^^ this,,, didn't think non members would be allowed attend organised parties ect "Nobody unverified but not on the site? Come on down! | |||
"I think if the person is well know to the host there maybe exceptions made as I once was accompanied to a party by my wife with the prior consent of the host " exactly this. i know gingers friend and ginger brought her to a party myself and ginger held a few years ago . she was great craic and was the first and last to play. | |||
"I think if the person is well know to the host there maybe exceptions made as I once was accompanied to a party by my wife with the prior consent of the host exactly this. i know gingers friend and ginger brought her to a party myself and ginger held a few years ago . she was great craic and was the first and last to play. " This is the kind of swinger you want at at party! Someone who is eager and ready to get it on. Not people who need to get well oiled and by midnight there's still nothing happening at a party. Those kind of parties are rubbish | |||
"I think if the person is well know to the host there maybe exceptions made as I once was accompanied to a party by my wife with the prior consent of the host exactly this. i know gingers friend and ginger brought her to a party myself and ginger held a few years ago . she was great craic and was the first and last to play. " Okay that's one party. She said more than once. So must be a regular thing. That's such bullshit | |||
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"I used to host parties and m&g's so she came as a very well known and trusted friend. She hasn't time to be on here but is well known my more experienced party goers. So keep yer knickers on lads! " That explains it,,, the poor non verified members were getting all excited at the thought of if people aren't even members of the site and still able to attend parties/m&g when someone from fab organising such events then I might be still in with a chance of an invite,,,,, their hopes have just been dashed now | |||
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I'm looking to meet somebody on the scene for long term fun to meet others. I met two couples together last night and had the time of my life but I'd love a partner of my own so we can invite rather than be invited  | |||
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"My best friend comes to parties and m&s' with me sometimes. She's not a member of the site. She knows all about my adventures in here. Occasionally we will share a guy in FFM or I pass on a guy I think she'll like. Works well for us. How come a non member is allowed go to parties? " ^^^ this  | |||
"Hi all, Has anyone ever had a friend (who knew what you get up on here) ask about coming on to the scene along with you? If so how did it work out and any suggestions to make it workable? She's female and a few years younger than me but is very confident in her sexuality. We've spoken a lot about what myself and Liam get up to in our spare time "If she knows what ye get up to and is curious, it could risk the friendship by NOT helping her getting involved. She might be upset you won't help or blame a bad experience on you. I'd help her, introduce at parties etc but I'd be slow in playing with her, unless ye have rules, like only at a party etc, | |||
"Hi all, Has anyone ever had a friend (who knew what you get up on here) ask about coming on to the scene along with you? If so how did it work out and any suggestions to make it workable? She's female and a few years younger than me but is very confident in her sexuality. We've spoken a lot about what myself and Liam get up to in our spare time
If she knows what ye get up to and is curious, it could risk the friendship by NOT helping her getting involved. She might be upset you won't help or blame a bad experience on you.
I'd help her, introduce at parties etc but I'd be slow in playing with her, unless ye have rules, like only at a party etc, "We're already playing, hence the want to take it further. I agree with you too | |||
"Hi all, Has anyone ever had a friend (who knew what you get up on here) ask about coming on to the scene along with you? If so how did it work out and any suggestions to make it workable? She's female and a few years younger than me but is very confident in her sexuality. We've spoken a lot about what myself and Liam get up to in our spare time
If she knows what ye get up to and is curious, it could risk the friendship by NOT helping her getting involved. She might be upset you won't help or blame a bad experience on you.
I'd help her, introduce at parties etc but I'd be slow in playing with her, unless ye have rules, like only at a party etc,
We're already playing, hence the want to take it further. I agree with you too"The threshold has already being crossed then Don't be greedy share | |||
"Hi all, Has anyone ever had a friend (who knew what you get up on here) ask about coming on to the scene along with you? If so how did it work out and any suggestions to make it workable? She's female and a few years younger than me but is very confident in her sexuality. We've spoken a lot about what myself and Liam get up to in our spare time
If she knows what ye get up to and is curious, it could risk the friendship by NOT helping her getting involved. She might be upset you won't help or blame a bad experience on you.
I'd help her, introduce at parties etc but I'd be slow in playing with her, unless ye have rules, like only at a party etc,
We're already playing, hence the want to take it further. I agree with you too
The threshold has already being crossed then
Don't be greedy share "She'll make all those decisions herself  | |||
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