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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting."
I'd report and block. I wouldn't invest my time in going to those measures for someone like that. They don't deserve your energy. |
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"If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting."
Why even waste time on him?
Block/Ignore and move on! |
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By *ir1967Man
over a year ago
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"If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting."
Waste of energy .just move on. Bad karma is better not remedied with bad karma |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting."
I wouldn't stoop to that level, besides if you met what's to say it won't end up in a physical confrontation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're abused by a vile beast by message is it all right to set up a profile to lure him to a meet and shout at him what he said online to embarrass him. By the way it was disgusting."
You get all sorts on here, so I won't put that amount of effort in, block and move on, I am sure another prick will message you in a few days... |
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"I would accept that there are some vile people on fab, report them and move on. If there ignorant enough to throw vile abuse, they won't be bothered by you in person. Sorry for your experience"
I'd name and shame but you might want to check with admin first. Sorry to hear about your bad experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dunno about doing it in real life. ..but if you flesh it out, it would make a great plot for a murder/ mystery movie. Angelina Jolie to play the horny heroine, mark walberg the detective.... pick a bad guy. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meeting him in the flesh isn't a great idea as you've no idea who or what is behind the profile.
Run her a bath, glass of wine, candles and let her know that your her man and she's safe with you.
It's always annoying that you can't be there to see karma kick these idiots in the nuts.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Name and shame him.I think that would hurt him more and youd be helping others not be put in the same situation
X" ....naming and shaming can result in a ban...not a good idea. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the plus side
If he is reading this he will probably have to 2nd guess all future contact with fabbers in case they are the one " .....like a reverse stalker you mean. ...? (Cue twilight zone music) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the plus side
If he is reading this he will probably have to 2nd guess all future contact with fabbers in case they are the one "
Nice one!! I like it
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couple of things. Abuse is unfortunately part and parcel of fab. It's never nice but it happens, I've been told to kill myself. What did i do, the only thing I could shake my head and move on.
If you set up another profile to lure him into a meet where you think it will be him standing there letting you wag your finger at him you are very much mistaken. Best case scenario punches will be traded and you both walk away. Worst, you both end up in a squad car. Why risk it. You've now publicly told him your entrapment plot which in itself will land you in a lot more trouble than a nasty online message.
Screen shot all of the messages from people like that as soon as you get them and report to administration. If it's a threat against you speak to administration an get them to trace the ip. It's very easy to do. I hope this doesn't affect your time here but do expect more because that's just how fab is I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plus he probably won't turn up for a meet. Lots of people with Internet balls. They talk big on here but would be as quiet as a mouse in real life.
Chances are your vile beast would swallow is own shite at the idea of meeting someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all very much for taking the time to read the post and also for replying to same. Majority rules he's already blocked. What a sad little loser this chap is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all very much for taking the time to read the post and also for replying to same. Majority rules he's already blocked. What a sad little loser this chap is."
Sorry to hear such a thing happened.
No point in wasting your time and energy on such a loser.
Move on, there's plenty of good people out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Name and shame him.I think that would hurt him more and youd be helping others not be put in the same situation
X"
You can't on the forums as you'll get a ban.. |
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Great idea in theory but a terrible one in practice. You just don't know who you're meeting. He could take photos of you and put them online or even follow you home. Not to mention the possibility of physical violence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Great idea in theory but a terrible one in practice. You just don't know who you're meeting. He could take photos of you and put them online or even follow you home. Not to mention the possibility of physical violence." ...not if you beat him to a pulp with a six inch heel first. .. |
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