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Hard to find a meeting

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world

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By *eansouth86Man over a year ago

Dundee

Could be the Liverpool top I. Your pics lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do u not know alot of guys think were here to have sex wit all the guys sure we dont even need to see pix of them sure

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do u not know alot of guys think were here to have sex wit all the guys sure we dont even need to see pix of them sure

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I know is geting very sad here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sure I'll meet yas

if you's are stuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sure I'll meet yas

if you's are stuck

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ha ha I know u do good luck on the site lovely man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sure I'll meet yas

if you's are stuck

ha ha I know u do good luck on the site lovely man "
why lhankyou nice lady

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People use this site in different ways and for different reasons. Maybe new blood (meat) is needed on here for some. It'll be a quietish time soon for alot of men as mothers with school aged kids will have little time now till September. That means there'll be alot more desperate men looking too. Many will disappear only to reappear with new faced and new bodies

which may cause some excitement amongst the freer women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk

What would u'd men do if women had anything to complain about

I love a good moaner though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really"
think we the same xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Alot of guys are all talk, but then again some women are just as bad. But ya you have to be attracted to a person in some way. A connection is needed. People shouldn't get all bent out of shape if a person isn't attracted to them. I see that in the status' alot, people going mad because a person said they weren't their type. I hope you stick with it, you will find the one you're looking for in time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The shutters are going up, this holiday might turn into a migration...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Alot of guys are all talk, but then again some women are just as bad. But ya you have to be attracted to a person in some way. A connection is needed. People shouldn't get all bent out of shape if a person isn't attracted to them. I see that in the status' alot, people going mad because a person said they weren't their type. I hope you stick with it, you will find the one you're looking for in time."
I'm straight to the point if I don't like someone I just say not my type if they get offended not my problem no point in been here chating for ages if no atraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really"

Well...i had two bad experiences with M&G in Manchester and Liverpool when I first joined. Arrogant a pushy is bet way to decribe two couples and a few single men at them. Was a bit like eBay for adults...winner was highest bidder approach. So won't go to them...found one to one coffees much more relaxed and you actually get the other person's attention to get to know them without other people butting in and vying for their attention. Just my experience of M&Gs but I know many enjoy that side of fab and I'm sure they're not all like that....but it put me off properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lots people say is hard to get a meeting I'm a girl and find the same as no one I'm atractive too or man with lots of cock pictures and some just mail u say hi up for a shag. I'm wondering what's going on in this world "

As a man I'm finding it hard to find a genuine woman on here. Loads of guys posing as women to get attention and pics. I guess it works both ways

I'm just a genuine fella looking a genuine girl. Not all the women on the site. These forums are a good way of meeting new people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

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I agree socials is the way

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By *oghunter33Woman over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You's must have missed me ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. "
good for u enjoy and have fun I love to be fussy and I put this forum so guys see that's not only them having a problem finding meetings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a guy, who's doing a thesis on the swinging lifestyle, I'm finding it hard to get people to send me their pics.....

God knows why!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

I know right. Women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

the page is full of blokes and from my point of view there are some very juicy gentlemen on here. Maybe I'm not that fussy and I'm not looking for Prince Valiant on here, but I've no problem finding decent attractive men for a naughty play. good for u enjoy and have fun I love to be fussy and I put this forum so guys see that's not only them having a problem finding meetings

It's our right to be fussy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

I know right. Women

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lovely pictures

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

I know right. Women

lovely pictures

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As a guy, who's doing a thesis on the swinging lifestyle, I'm finding it hard to get people to send me their pics.....

God knows why!?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

I agree socials is the way "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast "

But I don't live in Belfast!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast

But I don't live in Belfast!

Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast

But I don't live in Belfast!

Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast?"

Ah BALLS!!

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By *iving guy95Man over a year ago

lusk

I try to to nice and respectful when I send a message ask if the might care to chat about meet for coffee if no spark no hard but don't get many messages back so I do agree it's hard to get a meeting with a nice lady on fab but you just have to keep trying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I try to to nice and respectful when I send a message ask if the might care to chat about meet for coffee if no spark no hard but don't get many messages back so I do agree it's hard to get a meeting with a nice lady on fab but you just have to keep trying "
I have to day I have not found it hard to get a meet.i have met some wonderful ladies, have great friends on here, maybe im just lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

I agree socials is the way "

For some not all. As I said not for me.

There have been issues here where some are not invited too or decline to return because one or two whom they have had issues with are going. I get that too especially in such a small island.

So coffee or lunch it is for me. I just have socials outside of the fab arena ....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi do you know anyone who wants to suck the big cock" with a picture attatched.

Aye haul on a minute and I'll ring around for you here

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

...but I like to send cock pics.

Mine is exquisite.

Mine is unique.

It's like me, it's special

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast

But I don't live in Belfast!

Do you not realise Sydney is even further away than Belfast?

Ah BALLS!!

Let's all move....

I hear Iceland does it with cream on top

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"...but I like to send cock pics.

Mine is exquisite.

Mine is unique.

It's like me, it's special

Very special

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"...but I like to send cock pics.

Mine is exquisite.

Mine is unique.

It's like me, it's special

Very special

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"...but I like to send cock pics.

Mine is exquisite.

Mine is unique.

It's like me, it's special

Very special

Oopss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...but I like to send cock pics.

Mine is exquisite.

Mine is unique.

It's like me, it's special

Very special

I concur!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk

What would u'd men do if women had anything to complain about

I love a good moaner though

Happy Moanday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex

I believe they call it sexstrating!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex

I believe they call it sexstrating!

No, that's men-struating!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex

No ...what?...quickly looks up Google for help and is enlighten by Wikipedia on the subject...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This week it's the ladies turn to let off steam....last week it was the lads! Fab can be frustrating but not as frustrating as no sex

I believe they call it sexstrating!

No, that's men-struating!

Haha I see what u did there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab has the Monday blues today

Atmosphere rock bottom

Log off

Go enjoy life

Then sitting looking at a screen

Lion over and out

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By *aster of SeductionMan over a year ago

Belfast

Bsexy i am a,ways looking for someone like you. Send a wink if i am your type and then i will mail you as i can imagine your mailbox is pretty busy on the back of this forum topic Mark x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

why don't you just do your own search on here? message the guy/guys that you might think would fit your criteria.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you're an attractive guy, who isn't a massive bellend, I'd assume that you'd be quite popular on here and thus wouldn't have any trouble finding dates etc. So if this is the type of guy you are looking for, you need to ask what makes you stand out from all the other women and why would he decide to message you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am not sure what peoples expectations are from this site? If not attracted to someone - why is that a problem? The fakes are a pain yes. But not being attracted is just the way it is....and I do get the ladies are swamped with mails but isn't it a rule of thumb that no reply is a 'not interested' and guys move on... yes some do state a no thank you and that's ever so polite and appreciated .... as hard as it is to stand out equally as hard to write a message that wont bore someone to tears (or a forum post - feel free to have a pop at that!!)

If the expectation is that you are on a site in the company of like minded people and with that out of the way find someone with a little chemistry that find each other attractive .... then it pretty much does the job... but accept not everyone will find you their cup of tea ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"why don't you just do your own search on here? message the guy/guys that you might think would fit your criteria.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

I agree socials is the way "

Plus people are way more relaxed and chilled out and flirty and really sexy looking when we're all dressed up and having fun

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

know many ppl who are not attractive but they made me feel so nice and comfortable with them...know many attractive ppl who made me feel sad and pissed off...

every one have own preferncies for ''play''partner

but ppl realy forget how they made friendship when they were 15 18 20 22 years old...the time did not judge and did not think attractive or not attractive..were talking and laughting ...now we are look on others from different view ...sooo sad...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny while people finding hard to find a meet someone is organising a social event in limerick isnt that a good way to meet people. Surely OP knows about that since she organises lots of parties at her place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Funny while people finding hard to find a meet someone is organising a social event in limerick isnt that a good way to meet people. Surely OP knows about that since she organises lots of parties at her place"
Dont think thats what op ment

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I feel a little less like a lepper now, if it's tough for OP spare a thought for the (genuine)men in here, it's hard to make a msg stand out, even harder to put across that you're not an absolute nutjob. You're opening msg is respectful and you may come accros to dull, you try a bit of comedy, it might not come across as you wished, or you go in with a bit of kink and you come accros as a sexpest. Striking the balance and saying I'm down to earth with a gd sense of humour and a healthy appetite for exciting sex is definately quite the special opening txt but the struggle goes on and sure it's a bit of fun too, sorta.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hard to find women ur attracted to also. The pool is very small

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By *effers5Man over a year ago

Dublin

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast "

Swords isn't miles away

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By *rutus83Man over a year ago

naas

Besides not wanting to see the single males cock pics what else are ye looking for so the lads can see where they fit with ye lovely lady's

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By *arkedMan over a year ago

Trim

"It's getting a bit pathetic on here. Women winging that they find no meets.

Oh DH please say you Are fussy, otherwise what hope is there for the likes of me (who you're not interested in)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a bi female on fab... I really enjoy it and as for the tasty morsels...both male and female...loads to chose from. Not tarring all with the one brush...not everything is ideal but isn't it worth it so you stay...nobody is locked into a contract here and choices are personal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Form a nice orderly queue ladies and I promise to get to each and everyone of you in turn. DoubleUB to the rescue, once again

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It can also be very hard to get a ff meet sorted on here as well!!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Hard to find women ur attracted to also. The pool is very small "

It will be now!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In all my tine on fab I think there us one thing never changes...i dont find it too difficult to get chatting, I'm an Intelligent guy, chat flows..this..i would say is common enough for a lot of male forum users..

.i don't find it difficult to find girls with a mutual attraction...im a fit guy..decent looking, lots of beautiful girls and couples about...maybe slightly less common I'd say..but still..lot of guys still nodding...

.but...

.getting people to actually hold plans they've made, free up time, commit to meets...thats the difficult bit for all of us...

.like almost everything in life..it takes two to tango...if its all left to one party...

.well...thats wherein, the problem lies...

.and yup...guilty of sitting back myself regretfully...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mmmmmmm Distracted by the Derrierre

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

U sudnt have any problem.getting a meet as your look stunning in your pics ,but as some of the fellas said before its hard for us men to get a meet I'm geuine guy looking for a meet to gave fun I mail women and alot of the time I get no reply and these women go on the forms complaining there loads if fellas if you women give us guys a chance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast "

Sure move to newry , right side of the border and still close to the south if u get homesick for the strange tayto u lot eat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mutual attraction isn't easy to find off the site, so it's not likely to be easier here. It will always be a case of quality over quantity and a fair amount of patience. Man, woman or couples the good ones are worth waiting for.

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By *entleman PoliteMan over a year ago

Mars

Well there are many different styles.

I have offered to meet for coffee/drinks = been called time waster.

offered to exchange numbers and chat after lots of mails. = never any answers.

etc....this type of crap.

for some people, when it comes to reality they get scared.

Some want face pic, body pix, date of birth and blood type but refuse to give theirs....

It is a difficult world out there. lol. but for relationships I am not sure this is the right website as this is a swingers site. Men are usually tools in the swinger's world.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

I've been to a couple of m&g's here and they were the total opposite of what you've described in England. I loved them

I agree socials is the way

Plus people are way more relaxed and chilled out and flirty and really sexy looking when we're all dressed up and having fun

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

Guess many of our experiences on fab are different...though it's a common site many choose to move in different circles and use it as a filtering system too. Never ever felt awkward at a coffee meet...never had a bad coffee meet....even skipped the coffee bit a couple times....Maybe I've been lucky with my filtering system.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

And the bean has to be of good quality too

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

And the bean has to be of good quality too

Of course... and hand picked!

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By *andyhands1Man over a year ago

limavady

Same up here in Derry, hard for an ordinary decent man to get a meet of any sort

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Same up here in Derry, hard for an ordinary decent man to get a meet of any sort "

Even harder for guys in Limavady..

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By *assboiMan over a year ago

belfast

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By *ewguy500Man over a year ago

Fermanagh Tyrone

It's hard to get a meet in Tyrone as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

looks like someone cant read how sad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

might be wrong here but i get feeling you wont be number 225

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She has no veri summary up - you surely didn't count them did you?

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

We'll I would always b a gent n always respect d ladies . But I've met a few messers in my time . It's still hard to get a meet no mater how nice u are to d ladies .

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By *addy36Man over a year ago

Mayo

"I know what you mean. I think as there are so many men then us women shouldn't complain. But it's tricky finding one you're attracted to that's relatively sane and not all talk

I'm sane and talk fuck all I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

And the bean has to be of good quality too

Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

And the bean has to be of good quality too

Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used

just don't make a mug of yourself at coffee meets!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some coffee meets can be awkward and sometimes I just don't have the time foe endless coffee meets!!

You can't beat good coffee filters!!

And the bean has to be of good quality too

Only the best selected few without a over used by date stamped clearly for all to see is used

Mmm what a great brew that would be...even having to wait while it sits and stews...smelling it's aroma...almost tasting it in advance but the wait makes it all the better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I mail u saying hi how are you would you like to meet for a coffee sometime and a chat just to gt to knw each other a bit and see if ur still interested after. I didn't gt a reply but I didn't send pic tho????

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"Well I mail u saying hi how are you would you like to meet for a coffee sometime and a chat just to gt to knw each other a bit and see if ur still interested after. I didn't gt a reply but I didn't send pic tho????"

Maybe you are "On Hold"??

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By *utieAndBootyCouple over a year ago

SoCal

We haven't had any coffee meets (though we're not opposed to them), we prefer to meet over drinks at a bar. Why make a potentially awkward meet more awkward with caffeine?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan over a year ago

Out in the sticks

"We haven't had any coffee meets (though we're not opposed to them), we prefer to meet over drinks at a bar. Why make a potentially awkward meet more awkward with caffeine? "

Because some people don't want to drink and drive...

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By *utieAndBootyCouple over a year ago

SoCal

"We haven't had any coffee meets (though we're not opposed to them), we prefer to meet over drinks at a bar. Why make a potentially awkward meet more awkward with caffeine?

Because some people don't want to drink and drive..."

Neither do we, that's what Hailo is for. But that might not be the best for everyone. To each their own!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast "

I have to agree, seems like all the women and couples here that are up for meeting are all based in the North. Must be something in the air up there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The funny thing is after puting this on forum all the hot guys pops out but then they live miles away looks like I have to move to Belfast

I have to agree, seems like all the women and couples here that are up for meeting are all based in the North. Must be something in the air up there?"

But we say the same....If you move here then the turf isn't as nice...

I was contemplating moving a while back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi do you know anyone who wants to suck the big cock" with a picture attatched.

Aye haul on a minute and I'll ring around for you here

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By *evilsAdvocate72Woman over a year ago

East

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really"

A lot of single men and women find it very difficult to get involved in those meet and greets. And if they do turn up on their own they are treated like pariahs unless they already know several people there....the odds are stacked against the singletons in that sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Struggling to find someone I'm attracted to I'm a fussy wee thing lol

I prefer socials and meet n greets before coffee meets. But alot of single guys don't end up going to these they prefer more private hook ups lol and I'm like meh boring really

Wow...found a woman who makes alot of sense on the M&G topic. My 2 experiences were a complete put off by the way couples behaved towards you at them....kinda eBay for adults approach and very cliquey. As a result I've made my way on here without using them at all and much happier. I've heard they are different over here but it put me off completely.

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By *ir1967Man over a year ago

in da sticks, london, amsterdam, madrid

Though we had plenty of meetings as a couple, as single it is indeed challenging. For me, hmm, usually no replies as many lads here. Maybe I need to change the style of the mail content

My wife told me that her box got overloaded with mails which are rather a turn off than a turn on.

The superficiality to rely on images makes matters even more complicated. Often the beauty of a person lies within and can only be revealed in a personal meeting. So called NSA sex is driven by the same instincts as marital sex, the instinct to breed, even if there is no intend of having any post encounter results, but it is the instinct which drives us in the selection of play partners. Hence a pure meat hump probably would be boring. If there is not the slightest tickle of a romance, some butterfly in ones chest, doubtful any meet could convert into arousal, never mind satisfying sex. If at all it may suffice for a mutual masturbation on each others body....but that isn't really what we want, isn't it

Conclusion, if one (women and men alike) does not take the effort to discover the potential hump beyond the shallow image of FAB, it makes it difficult to convert fantasies into realities...

Just a thought

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By *wingpeterMan over a year ago

Enniscorthy

It's great when there's a click there.makes for amazing sex but love meeting at meet and greets.think we all need one soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think i know what the problem is,you look so amazing in those pictures that actually alot of guys are starstruck of you and i wouldnt blame them!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I see your problem B, I'd a meet up for tonight and zilch

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see your problem B, I'd a meet up for tonight and zilch

.i mailed ya....but ..eh..zilch...

.it's not easy to be fair... everyone has their type and can be tricky If no one your type mails...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are we now typing about types

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we now typing about types

..sorry..dont type about types..just type about the type of thing typically you like...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I see your problem B, I'd a meet up for tonight and zilch

.i mailed ya....but ..eh..zilch...

.it's not easy to be fair... everyone has their type and can be tricky If no one your type mails..."

I did reply back. I told u that was my most favourite place

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This site is 2 things.....addictive yet dissapointing!i love having the craic, have spoken to a couple of nice people here and there but my god it's so hard to get a meet. So hard to even get verified.....site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them?

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them? "

Why does it matter to you? Iv an honest profile...I could have pretended to be single and go about it that way!thats not my style so I went with honesty. It's not everyone's cup of tea but I'm entitled to go about my life how I like right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them?

Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask.

It pisses me off because even though life is hard I try my best to live it with integrity and decency. I make mistakes but I try not to hurt people. When I do I apologise and try to learn from it. Our time on this earth is fucking short and you ate making your partners time on this earth a lie and a joke. You don't care? That's reason number uno that nobody will meet you. In my opinion you are the opposite of what swinging is supposed to be about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them?

Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask.

There is always one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No disrespect but no one has right to tell someone how to live their life and if people have problem with it, then thats those peoples problem. If people wish to express their problem with someones lifestyle then message the person that offends, that i believe shows more character in a person.... but if people wish to portray moral high grounds on forums sorry for me personally doesnt show integrity one little bit

Hmmmm sporran

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmmm sporran "

hmmmmmm Why Eye Lass

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By *ohn MingoMan over a year ago

Dublin

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

Not half as disappointing as you are aa a partner I'd say.

Charming

Wasn't supposed to be. Why are you trying to cheat? Why not let your partner be free to find someone who actually deserves them?

Hahaha the honest thief is it? Your profile is for any site member to view and your thread is public looking for feedback. Don't like it? Don't ask.

Firstly I never asked anything....it was a mere opinion.

Secondly, il get on with my life while you get back on your high horse pal. Everyone entitled to opinions here....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

Its not a case of what i see or dont see, we all have opinion and we all wish to express it... now if you expressed it in a public general form then it has some crediblility but you decided to express your opinion about this one gentleman's profile... you made it personal not a nice thing to read or see and look back over it and see if you have conducted yourself with Integrity. If you believe you have thats fine but I my honest opinion i believe you could have expressed it in a better way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. "

I can understand it and i think you understand what i am trying to say .... happy fabbing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. "

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that. "

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And normal order has been restored

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"site support is up soon and seriously contemplating knocking my fab time on the head

At least your partner will be happy about that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. "

Its simply not your business...move along.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a good few guys up your way though!! Lots of Dubs on my hotlist!!!

Slim pickings down here lol very hard to find mutual attraction!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Its simply not your business...move along."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times. "

I think your very unfair with your comments with that other poster..

We are all here for fun no strings yes if you don't want to meet attached people that's fine but it doesn't give you the right to abuse and judge somebody in a different situation to yours...

And relationships aren't to black and white as to make a statement as to have the balls to walk away was so unfair you have no idea what goes on in other peoples relationships...

Lots of different people...

Lots of different situations...

I try not to judge cause I'm pretty fucked up myself......

If you've problems with attached people just don't meet them...

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

Look folks..... I understand where Coucou is coming from and appreciate his input. Forums are here to debate and express opinions which everyone is entitled to do.

No offence was taken and there was no intent to piss anyone off in my original comment.

Appreciate those who have expressed an interest in supporting my original comment/approach to fab.

Coucou.....hopefully you can get over your shit day

happy fabbing to you all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay. "

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

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By *hocko87Man over a year ago

dublin

We'll I thought it's a lot easier for a lady to get a meet rather than a guy . I chat to lots of ladies but rarely get a meet but I never complain on here what's d point no one wants to know ur troubles . But one thing if I arrange a meet I meet but had a good few messers to b honest .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

I think your very unfair with your comments with that other poster..

We are all here for fun no strings yes if you don't want to meet attached people that's fine but it doesn't give you the right to abuse and judge somebody in a different situation to yours...

And relationships aren't to black and white as to make a statement as to have the balls to walk away was so unfair you have no idea what goes on in other peoples relationships...

Lots of different people...

Lots of different situations...

I try not to judge cause I'm pretty fucked up myself......

If you've problems with attached people just don't meet them...

Can i just say your looking "Absolutely Fabulous" tonight

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Its simply not your business...move along.

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

South

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

I think your very unfair with your comments with that other poster..

We are all here for fun no strings yes if you don't want to meet attached people that's fine but it doesn't give you the right to abuse and judge somebody in a different situation to yours...

And relationships aren't to black and white as to make a statement as to have the balls to walk away was so unfair you have no idea what goes on in other peoples relationships...

Lots of different people...

Lots of different situations...

I try not to judge cause I'm pretty fucked up myself......

If you've problems with attached people just don't meet them...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

What are you on about? Why are you trying to justify it? People who's partners know usually say so on their profile and that's obviously fine. If he was in that situation he could have said so straight away.

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Imagine this albeit unlikely scenario. I live close by to the guy. His partner funds out about his cheating. She leaves the house in a blind rage driving down the road and knocks down a family member of mine.

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK THIS HAS ESCALATED QUICKLY!!!! just to let you know I am here just for the comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

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I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hate it when rancyrackky gives thumbs up to all the ladies who defended him but when a guy does they get no recognition

Shocking behaviour lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

I think your very unfair with your comments with that other poster..

We are all here for fun no strings yes if you don't want to meet attached people that's fine but it doesn't give you the right to abuse and judge somebody in a different situation to yours...

And relationships aren't to black and white as to make a statement as to have the balls to walk away was so unfair you have no idea what goes on in other peoples relationships...

Lots of different people...

Lots of different situations...

I try not to judge cause I'm pretty fucked up myself......

If you've problems with attached people just don't meet them...

Can i just say your looking "Absolutely Fabulous" tonight

Why thank you darling

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

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"I hate it when rancyrackky gives thumbs up to all the ladies who defended him but when a guy does they get no recognition

Shocking behaviour lol"

very much appreciated pal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I hate it when rancyrackky gives thumbs up to all the ladies who defended him but when a guy does they get no recognition

Shocking behaviour lol

very much appreciated pal

Too late now its only a token gesture should have been done many posts ago lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point."

Have you ever heard the term wash woman?

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By *andyrackkyMan over a year ago

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"I hate it when rancyrackky gives thumbs up to all the ladies who defended him but when a guy does they get no recognition

Shocking behaviour lol

very much appreciated pal

Too late now its only a token gesture should have been done many posts ago lol lol "

You'll have to forgive my rudeness

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made

I find if a rapist gets berated for the choice he made then I'd have no issue with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

I hate when an individual is berated for a choice they've made

I find if a rapist gets berated for the choice he made then I'd have no issue with that. "

Ah the straw man fallacy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK..... OP I agree its hard to meet people in fab, but if your looking for extreme opinionated forum posters seems that is easy to find

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By *LICK IF U DAREWoman over a year ago

good girl gone bad!!!!!!

"The shutters are going up, this holiday might turn into a migration..."
I doubt that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On ur profile, put a description of what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point."
...you've based your point on a tv fantasy? ..lol.and you're worried about family members being run down by an enraged spouse who has just found out her partner is cheating ?..may I respectfully suggest that you do as we do,and travel everywhere by submarine. That is also a fantasy.btw. whether you agree or disagree with the posters lifestyle choice, he didn't ask for a review of his profile. ..im not quite sure. ..but that may be against forum rules. It's not a good look,sitting in judgement on someone else's life. In our opinion of course.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point....you've based your point on a tv fantasy? ..lol.and you're worried about family members being run down by an enraged spouse who has just found out her partner is cheating ?..may I respectfully suggest that you do as we do,and travel everywhere by submarine. That is also a fantasy.btw. whether you agree or disagree with the posters lifestyle choice, he didn't ask for a review of his profile. ..im not quite sure. ..but that may be against forum rules. It's not a good look,sitting in judgement on someone else's life. In our opinion of course.

It doesn't matter if he asked for a review of his profile. If it's on the Internet it's public domain. He viewed my profile about 20 times looking for something to throw back but couldn't find anything.

If you're trying to say you've never judged anyone then I'm saying you're a liar.

And that American guy brought up game of thrones so I replied.

I'm genuinely curious as to why people cheat instead of breaking up with their partners but nobody has addressed that, instead you are defending the indefensible.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If people don't want to talk about that's fine but don't tell me I have no right to talk about it because public forums are for debate and discussion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people don't want to talk about that's fine but don't tell me I have no right to talk about it because public forums are for debate and discussion. "
..it actually does matter if he asked for a review. ...fab have their own rules about that,regardless of the Internet. Of course ive judged people. But I've more tact than to post my judgement in public. As for being a liar...well you've already decided that one...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people don't want to talk about that's fine but don't tell me I have no right to talk about it because public forums are for debate and discussion. ..it actually does matter if he asked for a review. ...fab have their own rules about that,regardless of the Internet. Of course ive judged people. But I've more tact than to post my judgement in public. As for being a liar...well you've already decided that one...

You're judging me and posting it in public. What's the difference?

Fabs rules are that if someone is wondering why they are not having success then it's okay to give your opinion. If I had broken them I'd be banned but I haven't.

I'm disappointed to see so much support for someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point."

It's clear from the way you post that you've been cheated on and probably have never dealt with it properly. As someone who has been cheated on I know it's not a nice feeling.

However, the way I see it is this. I don't cheat because it's not for me. I won't sleep with people who are cheating because that's not for me either. I also won't judge those people because that's certainly not for me. How can you judge someone who you know f all about? You have no idea of their lives, relationships and what brought them to that place. If you climb down off that mighty steed for a minute. You might recognise that there are plenty who would judge you equally harshly, just for being on this site. Your morals should guide your choices and not dictate others.

Thanks for the spoiler btw!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If people don't want to talk about that's fine but don't tell me I have no right to talk about it because public forums are for debate and discussion. "

Thought we understood this... you are not talking about a opinion it has been lost now because you are character assassinating a person profile and You are making it personal

. Again it's not I am defending a person's lifestyle or agreeing with you but you have shown no integrity by making it personal on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're judging me and posting it in public. What's the difference?

Fabs rules are that if someone is wondering why they are not having success then it's okay to give your opinion. If I had broken them I'd be banned but I haven't.

I'm disappointed to see so much support for someone like that. "
...im not judging anyone. ...why would it bother me who is doing what with who?. Please don't confuse my lack of condemnation for the guy as a mark of support. The simple fact is..its none of my business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For record think in ten post time the thread will be closed due to being to big .... looking forwards to that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have the right to say whatever I like. And it's not just his life I have an issue with. It's his partner who deserves to not be lied to and cheated on.

Don't you see the hypocrisy of him saying he's being honest on his profile?

Maybe by saying it publicly it might make one or two people consider doing the right thing and for that reason alone I don't see why it shouldn't be public.

You're absolutely spot on. I could have and should have expressed it in a better way. I've had a shitty day and was in a bad mood when I saw the post. I took aim and shot.

It made me think about being hurt and betrayed.

I just think life is too short to live a lie and to force someone else to live a lie is disgusting and cowardly.

If you don't want someone have the balls to stand up on your own without them and let them be happy.

I know I sound like a preachy fucker but I can't help it at times.

We are all here for different reasons... You are out of order talking to this man like that.

Pales in comparison to how out of order he is. I might have hurt his feelings for a few minutes while he is potentially ruining someone's life. Hard to grasp how people think that's okay.

Well normal people keep their nose out of people's business... How do you know his wife didn't give him permission to be on here?

How do you know they don't have a open marriage?

When you attack someone without knowing all the facts you become a bully.... You sound like that nun on game of thrones SHAME , SHAME SHAME , SHAME

Who decides what's somebody else's business?

Who makes the rules?

And the nun in game of thrones was right by the way. Cersei fucking blew up the the sept and inadvertently killed her son. The knock on effect! Thanks for helping make my point.

It's clear from the way you post that you've been cheated on and probably have never dealt with it properly. As someone who has been cheated on I know it's not a nice feeling.

Thanks for the spoiler btw! "

No lad. I haven't been cheated on. I've been the cheat, in my late teens and early twenties. And I've done many other shitty things for which I've been judged and I've no problem with that.

The fact is that the guy was wondering why he isn't having success and I gave my opinion.

I don't have a mighty steed to climb down off just an opinion.

And I'm genuinely sorry about the spoiler. I never post got stuff online. I just got carried away in the emotions here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are not posting an opinion because you can't have an opinion on something you know nothing about. You are attacking a posters choices based on your experiences in life, not his. In your opinion cheating is wrong, that's fine you could post that if you want. But that's not what you did here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You are not posting an opinion because you can't have an opinion on something you know nothing about. You are attacking a posters choices based on your experiences in life, not his. In your opinion cheating is wrong, that's fine you could post that if you want. But that's not what you did here. "

Your post is a bit confusing but I get the gist. Of course I can have an opinion. Anyone can, on any subject they choose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your post is a bit confusing but I get the gist. Of course I can have an opinion. Anyone can, on any subject they choose. "

An Opinion would be like saying , It would be harder for a person who is married on this site and partner doesnt know to get a meet because like myself and say quite of few people in here don't condone cheating. But you might get lucky with the rest.

What you did was make a lot of personal statements about a man's lifestyle they weren't opinions

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support.

If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago.

Some of you need a good look in the mirror.

Done with this...

Happy Fabbing.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In my opinion a person who has shown they have no problem getting personal on forum with there opinions/statements against another person lifestyle on A swinging lifestyle website will find it hard to meet someone as myself and say lot others find personal attacks not a nice quality in a person but they probably do ok with the rest on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Listen guys. He put himself out there, he got judged. In judging him I put myself out there, I got judged for that. The circle of life is complete. If ye PC lunatics are stuck for something to do there are plenty of rapists and murderers in need of your support.

If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago.

Some of you need a good look in the mirror.

Done with this...

Happy Fabbing....."
......if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago.

Some of you need a good look in the mirror.

Done with this...

Happy Fabbing...........if not giving a fuck what someone else does on a sex site makes me a pc lunatic. ..well in definitely guilty. ..how you make the leap from cheaters to rapists and murderers. .only you know. ..but just remember that name calling. .lunatic..liar.etc and in general getting personal, is a sure sign you're losing the debate...After all isn't that you said we were doing. .?...feel free to ignore my post. .as you did the last one. ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago.

Some of you need a good look in the mirror.

Done with this...

You are clearly one of those who has an answer for everything. If you don't give a fuck what someone else does on a swing site then why are you giving me shit for something I've done on a sex site? Maybe there should be an IQ test to sign up here. "
....but you're the one who wanted discussion and debate? ..isn't that what forums are for?...why do you question my iq?....and what does "have an answer for everything" mean?. That's what a discussion is....you say something. .and I reply, or vice versa. There's really no need to be unpleasant . I wasn't with you, so please keep your insulting remarks out of this. ..if you don't mind...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And everybody lived happy ever after in Fab world .... the end !!!! Part two due in top book stores and bottom ones next week.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I was so wrong I'd have been banned ages ago.

Some of you need a good look in the mirror.

Done with this...

You are clearly one of those who has an answer for everything. If you don't give a fuck what someone else does on a swing site then why are you giving me shit for something I've done on a sex site? Maybe there should be an IQ test to sign up here. ....but you're the one who wanted discussion and debate? ..isn't that what forums are for?...why do you question my iq?....and what does "have an answer for everything" mean?. That's what a discussion is....you say something. .and I reply, or vice versa. There's really no need to be unpleasant . I wasn't with you, so please keep your insulting remarks out of this. ..if you don't mind..."

You didn't answer my question.

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