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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone it's Nikki here has anyone experienced the dreaded jealousy on this I experienced this . I put it down to i am only new to this and only starting. I'm quite a confident woman and i am not normally jealous at all is it for me ? As The Clash sang should I stay or should I go lol  |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Jealousy is natural (although for some it seems not), I think discuss it with your partner, as you are new then don't rush things and be clear with each other on how ye are feeling as things progress etc. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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As much as guys hate 'talking about feelings' he might want to in this case 
Oh and if you do become a bunny boiler however I've heard the best is low heat for many hours and don't forget to add lots of spices
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By *ocvix17Couple
over a year ago
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Before we started into lifestyle we did bit of research and the common thing that came up was trust, jealousy - they are normal and are not to be ignored.
We play in same room and will never do anything separate, we also always chat after meet to clear up any doubts and most important thing is the hot sex we have ( usually for days ! ) after a meet.
Both Me and Vix are not here to replace anything but more add some kink to our already filthy sex life. As a man I can honestly say the swing lifstyle is overwhelming and even though I would have been the one with the sex drive it's been Vix that has take to things much better. Alway talk talk talk ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and hubby jumped right in at first. The first few times we met as a couple but when he started travelling a lot for work we met seperately. Of course the first time both of us were very nervous but excited. Then after we realised how turned on we were by meeting seperately. Now we mostly meet alone but try for couples meets often enough. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't do it. But it can be amazing for your sex life when you are alone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its natural to be jealous when you start out in this lifestyle so long as it is controlled jealousy and doesnt start coming between yous as a couple ....Keep to your own rules and never be afraid to stop even in the middle of play if your uncomfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we first joined fab we did a lot for fourm searches about feelings good & bad. We always talk to each other before & after a meet about how we feel.
If you put jealousy into the fourm search you will find a lot of threads about it..
For me personally if I was to get jealous I'd walk away because my relationship is more important than fab. We joined fab to try new things & see if we liked it..,
Talk to each other about how you feel
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealousy is natural (although for some it seems not), I think discuss it with your partner, as you are new then don't rush things and be clear with each other on how ye are feeling as things progress etc."
What he said. It's excellent advice. |
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We've been on the scene for a few years now and we both still get the odd jealousy pang.
Best thing is the communication between partners, we always talk to each other about our feelings, before and after meets.
Its a shame that Nikki felt she had to leave, but great that she could talk to her partner and they made the decision together.
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As a couple communication is the key here. You both need to know what you want and what you don't.
Find your limits and don't push the other to do something they don't want. If both partners are on the same page then there's lots of fun to be had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like The Clash said she should go!
Didn't know they were on FAB!  ....".she" should go?.hmmmm.."
They were a real couple. Were at the Venue last night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks like The Clash said she should go!
Didn't know they were on FAB! ....".she" should go?.hmmmm..
They were a real couple. Were at the Venue last night"
......are you still mad at me over the football D?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks like The Clash said she should go!
Didn't know they were on FAB! ....".she" should go?.hmmmm..
They were a real couple. Were at the Venue last night......are you still mad at me over the football D? "
Does 'fuck off' give you a clue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Looks like The Clash said she should go!
Didn't know they were on FAB! ....".she" should go?.hmmmm..
They were a real couple. Were at the Venue last night......are you still mad at me over the football D?
Does 'fuck off' give you a clue? "
....ha ha ha... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We've been on the scene for a few years now and we both still get the odd jealousy pang.
Best thing is the communication between partners, we always talk to each other about our feelings, before and after meets.
Its a shame that Nikki felt she had to leave, but great that she could talk to her partner and they made the decision together.
Tina "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"she didnt last long "
Why? Does it really matter? These aren't the ones you should be encouraging to leave or laughing at behind their backs. The Green arrow is the best addition for filtering in a long time. It should slowly clear up the nastiness far too prevent on these genuine posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"she didnt last long
Why? Does it really matter? These aren't the ones you should be encouraging to leave or laughing at behind their backs. The Green arrow is the best addition for filtering in a long time. It should slowly clear up the nastiness far too prevent on these genuine posts."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"she didnt last long
Why? Does it really matter? These aren't the ones you should be encouraging to leave or laughing at behind their backs. The Green arrow is the best addition for filtering in a long time. It should slowly clear up the nastiness far too prevent on these genuine posts."
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