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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am supposed to meet this evening. But I can't get them to verify by a phone call which is fairly simple. So I won't be stood up this evening because I won't be going anywhere 
On a side note nerves can get people sometimes so go easy on her  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes. Two were verified. Had kik and one gave their number. Arranged drive to where I should be. And same story. No show and suddenly kik and texts aren't answered Grrrr. Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yea. I know nerves can play a part but it's not that hard to text someone to say that. I think it's rude to not let someone know if your not going to show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all  "
Anything is better than being where you are supposed to be and no reply. At least if you got a sorry can't come last minute, you can walk out early being stud up. I was sent on this wild goose chace in Laois one night. Never again. I am ashamed to say what happened lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome at FAB. Happens to couples too. And lots of lads out there who are wild tigers in their texting but when it comes to be on a meet they shrink to scared hiding pussy cats |
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?"
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them!  didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
Ha oh dear |
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
Ooooooops!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
Ha oh dear "
Ouch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
Ha ha I love it.
I can do coffee Friday afternoon briefly between meetings  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
Ha oh dear
Ouch "
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
Karma!!
I mean who would bail on u miss! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
Ooooooops!
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Pml |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
I can smell the burn from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you. "
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here "
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yea. I know nerves can play a part but it's not that hard to text someone to say that. I think it's rude to not let someone know if your not going to show "
I have had to cancel due to snow, being a biker and re arranged for later date, also had a meet cancel me 2 hours before due to illness, bu never had a no show |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one ) "
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
Hahaha "
Ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told u I couldn't make them n if u want I appreciate another meet "
Your profile says you can't understand why you can't get verified.
Any clearer now friend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch "
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!! "
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee"
Would be a good watch let me in too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three You missed calls from me at 18:11, 18:23 and 18:27 10 Jun.This is a free Call Alert from O2. To disable this dial 901, press *, then option 4 and option 5.fingers pointing back at you.
I'd most definitely not stand you up "
I don't get this bit. Where did the bit with the times come from? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee
Would be a good watch let me in too "
Gonna get a bit crowded on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee
Would be a good watch let me in too "
But absolutely, the more the merrier!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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No trying to be a grumpy old git but why do ye keep falling for the verifiacations thing...if they haven't a good few comments just ignore...everyone knows the verifiacations is horse shite... |
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three You missed calls from me at 18:11, 18:23 and 18:27 10 Jun.This is a free Call Alert from O2. To disable this dial 901, press *, then option 4 and option 5.fingers pointing back at you.
I'd most definitely not stand you up
I don't get this bit. Where did the bit with the times come from?"
Someone posted that time comment and removed it Loncav. There were no missed calls or whatever thats about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ... "
What?!! Waiting on me is a waste of time?? I was the one waiting and got stood up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three You missed calls from me at 18:11, 18:23 and 18:27 10 Jun.This is a free Call Alert from O2. To disable this dial 901, press *, then option 4 and option 5.fingers pointing back at you.
I'd most definitely not stand you up
I don't get this bit. Where did the bit with the times come from?
Someone posted that time comment and removed it Loncav. There were no missed calls or whatever thats about. "
Thanks. I didn't understand that at all. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee
Would be a good watch let me in too
Gonna get a bit crowded on here lol"
Some one bring ice I think we will need |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ... "
Wrong poster lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No trying to be a grumpy old git but why do ye keep falling for the verifiacations thing...if they haven't a good few comments just ignore...everyone knows the verifiacations is horse shite..."
A few verifications is the only way to go from different people |
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol"
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will "
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort |
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
What?!! Waiting on me is a waste of time?? I was the one waiting and got stood up "
.....apologies op....I misread the posts.. |
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"Haha thanks just seems there's a lot of messers on site?
Yeah messers is right, you being one of them! didnt i arrange to meet you twice for a coffee when you were here last time? And twice the txts ran cold on the day when time and place was to be confirmed. Ye can point your finger to blame others,but theres another three fingers pointing back at you.
I can smell the burn from here
I'm just gonna sit back and munch on some popcorn, want some CJ?
(Oops, I'll need my 3D glasses for this one )
Salted I hope
here have a bud and push over on that couch
Could I squeeze in between you both & I'll have a heineken thank you!!
I'm a Bud drinker - put me down for a space on that settee
Would be a good watch let me in too
Gonna get a bit crowded on here lol
Some one bring ice I think we will need "
Giz a cup of coffee then and push up on the couch seeing i missed out twice with itsmeok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No trying to be a grumpy old git but why do ye keep falling for the verifiacations thing...if they haven't a good few comments just ignore...everyone knows the verifiacations is horse shite...
A few verifications is the only way to go from different people "
And not all from the one (hidden) profile
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
What?!! Waiting on me is a waste of time?? I was the one waiting and got stood up .....apologies op....I misread the posts.."
lol!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort "
Ah here....
I might as well get the BBQ out so!
Who's for a hotdog? |
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort
Ah here....
I might as well get the BBQ out so!
Who's for a hotdog? "
Only if there's mustard and onions  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are ladies having the same probs. I been stood up 3 times in two weeks Loosing faith in fab "
We know the feeling, we've been stood up more times than not. That said, there's some great people here too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
What?!! Waiting on me is a waste of time?? I was the one waiting and got stood up .....apologies op....I misread the posts.."
Hahahahaha should of went to specsavers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or are ladies having the same probs. I been stood up 3 times in two weeks Loosing faith in fab "
We know the feeling, we've been stood up more times than not. That said, there's some great people here too. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort
Ah here....
I might as well get the BBQ out so!
Who's for a hotdog? "
I'll have a rib eye since ur cooking I'll grab some corn on the cob and butter this could get juicey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort
Ah here....
I might as well get the BBQ out so!
Who's for a hotdog? "
On the way with more beers, I'll take s hot dog if there's any left. Quite a big gathering now |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by."
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will
Fooey u best stick a few more pls of popcorn in the microwave it's all confused now it take a while to sort
Ah here....
I might as well get the BBQ out so!
Who's for a hotdog?
I'll have a rib eye since ur cooking I'll grab some corn on the cob and butter this could get juicey "
I'll have a few sausages with ketchup please, thank you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by."
She decide that while u were traveling ffs bitches be crazy |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?"
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked  |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked "
Not a man in this world I'd get out of my cosy bed for lol |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Not a man in this world I'd get out of my cosy bed for lol"
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Not a man in this world I'd get out of my cosy bed for lol
I agree..... if I'm in my bed I'm staying there!! "
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around "
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Not a man in this world I'd get out of my cosy bed for lol
I agree..... if I'm in my bed I'm staying there!! "
Yer no fecking fun |
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier "
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here? "
What are knickers |
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over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier "
I think if you arrange to meet someone from a swinging site there is an expectation that you'll have sex with that person but with ordinary dating sites that expectation isn't there so women are more likely to meet you if they feel there is no pressure..it happens naturally rather than feeling contrived like it does with this place  |
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over a year ago
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked "
exactly, a guy did that when his arranged meet changed her mind. I stayed in bed of course |
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Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Not a man in this world I'd get out of my cosy bed for lol
I agree..... if I'm in my bed I'm staying there!!
Yer no fecking fun "
Oh but I am... purely for the right people |
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here?
What are knickers "
Lol Cj.... you wouldnt know... you dont wear them i assume |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here? "
Why yes. And then after they make you a sandwich before cleaning your apartment before they leave |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here? "
You can't really get a look in on this site never mind getting a woman to drop her knickers... You'd have way more of a chance to get a reply and a conversation going on those apps than here, so even if you don't get sex from it you are at least getting some conversation back rather than being ignored... You know |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
She decide that while u were traveling ffs bitches be crazy "
Sounds like a blind booty call, and she was in the background somewhere...
I've only ever done one 'blind booty call' and on my way I kept telling myself that I'm an eejit!
All was good though! |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
dublin |
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
I think if you arrange to meet someone from a swinging site there is an expectation that you'll have sex with that person but with ordinary dating sites that expectation isn't there so women are more likely to meet you if they feel there is no pressure..it happens naturally rather than feeling contrived like it does with this place "
That's very true... But in my case iv always chatted about sex before hand if I was into the person... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here?
What are knickers
Lol Cj.... you wouldnt know... you dont wear them i assume "
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked "
Well wasn't a booty call...It was to be an all nighter and morning till midday today..(easy to judge without facts) I had gone to bed early...also it wasn't you and as a woman you think quite differently. ..also women can pick and choose from the catalogue. ..guys have a flyer to look at and need to take a chance/risk more often. Distrust just increases and veris hold less value than given credit to. |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here?
Why yes. And then after they make you a sandwich before cleaning your apartment before they leave "
Aww the dream... Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier "
Actually I agree too...
POF generally more reliable if meet arranged.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or are ladies having the same probs. I been stood up 3 times in two weeks Loosing faith in fab "
No, I've been on and off the site a few years and never been stood up.
Hope your run of bad luck is over |
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over a year ago
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I been lucky and never had a no show, a few cancellations that couldn't be helped.
Really can't understand why if someone changes their mind, they just can't say so, before the other person leaves to meet them. Just good manners |
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here?
You can't really get a look in on this site never mind getting a woman to drop her knickers... You'd have way more of a chance to get a reply and a conversation going on those apps than here, so even if you don't get sex from it you are at least getting some conversation back rather than being ignored... You know "
I don't really get it...
I mean, every post you've put on this thread has been totally negative of this site, whereas you've stated that POF and Tinder are the best thing since sliced bread.
So why is it that you're still here if you can't get anyone to chat let alone have sex with? (which you've no problems getting on the other two places) |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Well wasn't a booty call...It was to be an all nighter and morning till midday today..(easy to judge without facts) I had gone to bed early...also it wasn't you and as a woman you think quite differently. ..also women can pick and choose from the catalogue. ..guys have a flyer to look at and need to take a chance/risk more often. Distrust just increases and veris hold less value than given credit to. "
Im well aware it wasnt me cos id not ask anyone to meet me late at night unless id met before. Im not judging you either so i dont know why you think that and ive no idea why veris are involved in this.I do however think the lady didnt treat you in a proper manner and was very rude to allow it get that far. But youve said yourself you took a risk/chance in going to the meet and it didnt turn out the way you wanted it to. This stuff happens when ye take chances like that. |
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By *m233Man
over a year ago
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hasn't happened to me but then again I'm finding it difficult to meet anyone from this site ..pof is way easier then this place you'd think it would be the other way around
I know, I think the same... Tinder and Pof way easier
Can i ask you why you say that? Whats easier about it? Are the women quicker to drop their knickers on pof and tinder than on here?
You can't really get a look in on this site never mind getting a woman to drop her knickers... You'd have way more of a chance to get a reply and a conversation going on those apps than here, so even if you don't get sex from it you are at least getting some conversation back rather than being ignored... You know
I don't really get it...
I mean, every post you've put on this thread has been totally negative of this site, whereas you've stated that POF and Tinder are the best thing since sliced bread.
So why is it that you're still here if you can't get anyone to chat let alone have sex with? (which you've no problems getting on the other two places)"
Your dead right, bit on the negative side but look..that's how it is for me... If it's different for you congrats
I don't seem to be alone in my thinking either
The site is obviously still good and I certainly haven't explored all aspects of it like parties etc.. So there is more to it for me to see..
For now..the better chances of getting a reliable meet for me is coming from other places |
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"I been lucky and never had a no show, a few cancellations that couldn't be helped.
Really can't understand why if someone changes their mind, they just can't say so, before the other person leaves to meet them. Just good manners "
That's wgat I'm meaning. Takes 10 seconds to text |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
She decide that while u were traveling ffs bitches be crazy
Sounds like a blind booty call, and she was in the background somewhere...
I've only ever done one 'blind booty call' and on my way I kept telling myself that I'm an eejit!
All was good though! "
I've had 2 booty calls from here. One was ok but never met again. The other was amazing and we still meet occasionally. This site works how you want it to. Sometimes you chat for a short time, sometimes you chat forever. At the end of the day it's about sex. Unfortunate he was stood up but it's happened to almost all of us. Maybe they lost their nerve and just tried to ignore it. Not acceptable but it happens. It's not ok to do it to someone but just because it was a booty call doesn't make it better than if it was better planned. |
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"I been lucky and never had a no show, a few cancellations that couldn't be helped.
Really can't understand why if someone changes their mind, they just can't say so, before the other person leaves to meet them. Just good manners
That's wgat I'm meaning. Takes 10 seconds to text "
Hey huni maybe you had a lucky escape lol
Their loss though!!!!!
I've met you, they don't know what they are missing |
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"I don't understand people who don't respond at the last minute. It's irritating to cancel last minute but better than no contact at all
Got stood up late last night... when arrived at agreed place...got the silent reply to 4 messages. I was curteous about it finally turned back home and went back to bed. I then just asked what changed her mind....got a message back this morning saying...you're not my type.... and blocked. It's happening more frequently if forums are anything to go by.
'Went BACK to bed'? - what time did you go to meet her?
Thats a booty call that went bad not a meet. why do people leave their homes at all hours at night for sex? Holy jesus, if i was asked that, id wonder who'd turned the person down before i was asked
Well wasn't a booty call...It was to be an all nighter and morning till midday today..(easy to judge without facts) I had gone to bed early...also it wasn't you and as a woman you think quite differently. ..also women can pick and choose from the catalogue. ..guys have a flyer to look at and need to take a chance/risk more often. Distrust just increases and veris hold less value than given credit to.
Im well aware it wasnt me cos id not ask anyone to meet me late at night unless id met before. Im not judging you either so i dont know why you think that and ive no idea why veris are involved in this.I do however think the lady didnt treat you in a proper manner and was very rude to allow it get that far. But youve said yourself you took a risk/chance in going to the meet and it didnt turn out the way you wanted it to. This stuff happens when ye take chances like that. "
The reference to veris was to show verified people don't make them any less messer. (An early post seemed to imply that if verified they are ok). There is never ever a guarantee that someone won't change their mind suddenly either as we do hear that quite often in defense of women who do this stating it's their choice as if it's ok to do that. It's also one reason why more and more choose to only go to meet people a socials. And yes anything we do here has its risks too....its part of the activity. |
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"Ha ha ha this is all going a bit Pete Tong! ! haha I know I'm getting pasted but it was genuine "
Few observations
1 your profile says your new to fab. Your not. It's clear these events were on your previous profile.
2 you didn't turn up not once but twice. Clearly there was contact after your first no show because she agreed to give you a second chance
3 you didn't turn up the second time either
4 you claim you had a good reason but seriously it takes 5 seconds to text. Even if your two budgies were having coronaries not texting either time is just rude. Thats been polite.
5 for whatever reason you delete your profile then rejoin.
6 and here's the amazing part. You then after that post on a thread giving out about no shows
7 and finally when you are recognised and pulled up on pretty shitty behavior you then ask for a third meet.
Like what planet are you from exactly? |
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"Ha ha ha this is all going a bit Pete Tong! ! haha I know I'm getting pasted but it was genuine
Few observations
1 your profile says your new to fab. Your not. It's clear these events were on your previous profile.
2 you didn't turn up not once but twice. Clearly there was contact after your first no show because she agreed to give you a second chance
3 you didn't turn up the second time either
4 you claim you had a good reason but seriously it takes 5 seconds to text. Even if your two budgies were having coronaries not texting either time is just rude. Thats been polite.
5 for whatever reason you delete your profile then rejoin.
6 and here's the amazing part. You then after that post on a thread giving out about no shows
7 and finally when you are recognised and pulled up on pretty shitty behavior you then ask for a third meet.
Like what planet are you from exactly? "
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"We're waiting op..... (arms folded, foot tapping).....
Gimme directions....waiting on an explanation. ..apparently waiting on you would be a waste of time. ...
Wrong poster lol
Exactly. I've never not turned up when I say I will "
I can vouch for that huni.. Saying that I had the pinny, feather duster and 4 horny ladies waiting on u last Sunday morn and where were u...... hahaha |
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