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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts "
if you do like this girl and you think you may have feelings for her you should not be asking people on here.if it happened to me I would certainly delete.be honest with yourself and true to her.if you find true love dont let it go so my advice is to delete.if it doesn't work out you can always come back.follow your heart.i wish you all the best. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts if you do like this girl and you think you may have feelings for her you should not be asking people on here.if it happened to me I would certainly delete.be honest with yourself and true to her.if you find true love dont let it go so my advice is to delete.if it doesn't work out you can always come back.follow your heart.i wish you all the best."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met someone not from fab she's totally honest very beautiful so do I delete or freeze been honest I'm thinking delete so I can be honest wats yr thoughts if you do like this girl and you think you may have feelings for her you should not be asking people on here.if it happened to me I would certainly delete.be honest with yourself and true to her.if you find true love dont let it go so my advice is to delete.if it doesn't work out you can always come back.follow your heart.i wish you all the best.
Thanks mate "
now go and delete yourself asap and I realy do wish you all the best. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Deleting is easy but for guys especially it's difficult to get your veri's back and therefore even more difficult to get meets. I'd advise to hide profile and revisit in 3/4 months and make your decision then. After all, that's a really long time in the real world never mind fabworld.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you obviously do not like her enough to hit the delete button , so just freeze (hide) and save yourself the pain of joining again when it all goes tits up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't delete your profile straight away, instead hide your profile for a little while.... see how it goes with her first...... by the sounds of things you only just got together with her.....
Ask yourself a question though first:
Why did you & your ex break up before?? (you don't have to answer in here)
What is different about her now that wasn't there before....
After you answered those 2 questions, you & her should have a proper chinwag as to what you both want, be honest with her. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't delete your profile straight away, instead hide your profile for a little while.... see how it goes with her first...... by the sounds of things you only just got together with her.....
Ask yourself a question though first:
Why did you & your ex break up before?? (you don't have to answer in here)
What is different about her now that wasn't there before....
After you answered those 2 questions, you & her should have a proper chinwag as to what you both want, be honest with her. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora) "
Has she got a box like a freezer? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora)
Has she got a box like a freezer? "
...she opens her legs and a light comes on? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you "freeze" then your not truly committing to the relationship though? Veris? You can get them back. Deleting cuts all ties and mentally commits to her. Freezing leaves Pandora's box open. (Queue jokes on who's Pandora)
Has she got a box like a freezer? ...she opens her legs and a light comes on?"
 well that looks like a light bulb, or a bumhole!
EUREKA! |
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"Has she got a box like a freezer? "
Agreed. If she has one of those boxes in her jeans like a Volkswagen Beetle bonnet, I'd delete, thats a keeper.
If not then keep your options open and freeze, always have a plan A & B.
Regarding the fridge light coming on when you open the door.
Ask yourself this, how do you know its not when you close the door?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From reading his posts I got the impression he's not in a relationship with the ex..... he obviously got together very recently & so he's trying to decide if he should continue dating her.....
..... I feel he should see how the dating thing goes with the ex for a few weeks first before deleting his account.....
..... I, in the opinion, feel that everybody is too quick to tell him to delete his account....
If he truly likes this person he won't be with anyone else but her so relax people!! 
He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.
That's my 2 cents worth!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From reading his posts I got the impression he's not in a relationship with the ex..... he obviously got together very recently & so he's trying to decide if he should continue dating her.....
..... I feel he should see how the dating thing goes with the ex for a few weeks first before deleting his account.....
..... I, in the opinion, feel that everybody is too quick to tell him to delete his account....
If he truly likes this person he won't be with anyone else but her so relax people!!
He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.
That's my 2 cents worth!! "
Meant to say in my opinion!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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He's not being dishonest by not deleting his profile but if this girl asked him directly if he's on an adult site & he said no then that would be a lie.
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Sorry but not being dishonest about having a profile because she never asked about it doesn't really cut it in my book (why would it even occur to her?) If you're honest about giving a relationship your best chance, you don't keep a back-up plan of which the other person is utterly unaware. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump "
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best "
Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best
Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether "
My mistake lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best "
Nope....I haven't met everyone on fab, so without sounding condescending I think most would acknowledge that and not take a hump on that....as all women on here keep telling all the men....'there's someone on here for everyone ' and then the block delete or ignore or maybe meet for a few fucks.....then they'll go to someone else or fuck a few in between. They could be accused of doing that every day by their actions.
I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.
I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.
Back to OP....go and get her and make sure she knows you're serious and don't have anything that a jealous fabber or non fabber ( they can view everything said on here remember) can use to mess it up for you deliberateor non deliberate. It's amazing what can be said over some innocent drinks with friends that can cause embarrassment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best
Ah, not "second best", more that he wouldn't dream of having a relationship but you're good enough to fuck - different leagues altogether
My mistake lol"
It's ok... I didn't see this till I'd posted my reply. Hope I haven't heaped fuel on the ambers....peace x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best
Nope....I haven't met everyone on fab, so without sounding condescending I think most would acknowledge that and not take a hump on that....as all women on here keep telling all the men....'there's someone on here for everyone ' and then the block delete or ignore or maybe meet for a few fucks.....then they'll go to someone else or fuck a few in between. They could be accused of doing that every day by their actions.
I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.
I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.
Back to OP....go and get her and make sure she knows you're serious and don't have anything that a jealous fabber or non fabber ( they can view everything said on here remember) can use to mess it up for you deliberateor non deliberate. It's amazing what can be said over some innocent drinks with friends that can cause embarrassment."
I had a go at you on another post? I don't remember but at least I'm consistant |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Delete and remove the temptation....you can always return...you'vegot friends and tthey'd reverify you and would take you long to get back into it here if that's what you wanted.
By deleting your actually showing how much you respect what she's offering and giving yourself respect too. You'll sleep better knowing that you're giving it the best opportunity.
I'm speaking from some recent experience...and I still regret it but cannot turn back the clock. She was not only amazing person but she'd put anyone on fab second place with her looks smile and figure. I'd confided the same thing with some here on fab and they saw her and I didn't heed their advice. DELETE....she maybe a one off...we're all commoners on here , I'm talking personally just in case anyone takes the hump
You've just told every woman on fab they'd be second best
Nope....I haven't met everyone on fab, so without sounding condescending I think most would acknowledge that and not take a hump on that....as all women on here keep telling all the men....'there's someone on here for everyone ' and then the block delete or ignore or maybe meet for a few fucks.....then they'll go to someone else or fuck a few in between. They could be accused of doing that every day by their actions.
I don't think we need to be trying to get all moral and high horsed and nit picking on such a serious post. I do note though you had a similar go at me about another post.
I think anyone who has met me and actually knows me would know that there was no intent in how you've interpreted a few of my comments here and elsewhere.
Back to OP....go and get her and make sure she knows you're serious and don't have anything that a jealous fabber or non fabber ( they can view everything said on here remember) can use to mess it up for you deliberateor non deliberate. It's amazing what can be said over some innocent drinks with friends that can cause embarrassment.
I had a go at you on another post? I don't remember but at least I'm consistant"
 ...its an admirable trait. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If this relationship has only started in the last couple of days then show her your profile.
Say it was the way you were before meeting her and you are ready to shut it down and have a relationship with her giving full attention to her. Better to be fully honest now rather them bumping into someone in future
You have some very nice messages there on profile and you seem a really nice guy wish you all the best whatever you decide |
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