it seems like my account/ name has become somewhat undesirable due to the word of a certain person in here. I have over the years met loads of people in person an hope that these people will come forward to vindicate my my actions.
On friday last i was invited to a event where a past fab partner attended. she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked.......I am unsure how to proceed but hope this thread may stop any further action.
i thankfully have some friends who willl help me to sort this out if it escalates.
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"it seems like my account/ name has become somewhat undesirable due to the word of a certain person in here. I have over the years met loads of people in person an hope that these people will come forward to vindicate my my actions.
On friday last i was invited to a event where a past fab partner attended. she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked.......I am unsure how to proceed but hope this thread may stop any further action.
i thankfully have some friends who willl help me to sort this out if it escalates.
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"Lost?
I am guessing she outed him to work colleagues and friends which if it true is a really shifty thing to do to anybody "
Oh, I see. Maybe he meant disgusting instead of disguisung?
If it is as you say CJ, that's wrong. |
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over a year ago
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At this stage I feel it's important to inform u that there is a woman on here with the user name _oxic1998, just to clear things up since u choose the word toxic to head ur thread that this lady had no involvement in this exposure of ur fab life as rumours on here go round like wildfire |
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Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP. |
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"At this stage I feel it's important to inform u that there is a woman on here with the user name _oxic1998, just to clear things up since u choose the word toxic to head ur thread that this lady had no involvement in this exposure of ur fab life as rumours on here go round like wildfire "
Glad you said that - I had assumed it was her he was talking about  |
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"Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP."
Er, isn't it the truth that he's worried about?  |
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Got all excited this morning.....a few messages in my in box and a thread about me 
Then read it
Ahh well......thankyou to those that were looking out for me.
Never met the op but I hope she didn't cause too much hassle for you  |
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"Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP.
Er, isn't it the truth that he's worried about? "
There is also the truth that negative publicity is sometimes good publiciy and people like to make up their own minds...maybe a silver lining. Don't worry about it...oh people forget that only 2% of fabbers actually use the forums. Too much emphasis is placed on it by many formites. |
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"Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP.
Er, isn't it the truth that he's worried about?
There is also the truth that negative publicity is sometimes good publiciy and people like to make up their own minds...maybe a silver lining. Don't worry about it...oh people forget that only 2% of fabbers actually use the forums. Too much emphasis is placed on it by many formites. "
2% of fabbers reading the forums isn't relevant. Its work colleagues she has outed him to |
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"Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP.
Er, isn't it the truth that he's worried about?
There is also the truth that negative publicity is sometimes good publiciy and people like to make up their own minds...maybe a silver lining. Don't worry about it...oh people forget that only 2% of fabbers actually use the forums. Too much emphasis is placed on it by many formites. "
His problem has nothing to do with the forum. This person outed him to some friends of his and he's worried about his secret life being revealed in the real world. |
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One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here....  |
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here.... "
It was an unfortunate title being as there is a fabber with that name |
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here....
It was an unfortunate title being as there is a fabber with that name"
I know, that's what I meant, people just presumed it was Toxic, the girl he was talking about..... never presume until you have the facts... |
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here.... "
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here....
It was an unfortunate title being as there is a fabber with that name
I know, that's what I meant, people just presumed it was Toxic, the girl he was talking about..... never presume until you have the facts..."
I had assumed it til someone posted on here that it wasn't her. |
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"Leave it is best as mentioned....but got to laugh though as some giving advice themselves are venonous.
If threats or rumours given leave it....the truth is always the truth no matter how it's cloaked. It'll stand the test of time...so don't worry about it OP.
Er, isn't it the truth that he's worried about?
There is also the truth that negative publicity is sometimes good publiciy and people like to make up their own minds...maybe a silver lining. Don't worry about it...oh people forget that only 2% of fabbers actually use the forums. Too much emphasis is placed on it by many formites.
2% of fabbers reading the forums isn't relevant. Its work colleagues she has outed him to"
I see that now...It is confusing as in first paragraph he says his profile/name has been affected...sounds like here on fab it has become affected...He also goes on to say he has fab friends who he hopes will help him...so it would seem it had to do with his presence on fab.
So my mistake. |
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"Sorry to hear about your situation just work as you would normally do around your work friends and friends that's all you can do and just let it blow over "
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That's a shitty thing to happen to the OP, and while it may be too late for him, it has given me an idea.
This is something we can collectively do as a swinging community (and it's probably something a lot of us do anyway)
If you're presented with information that someone you know is a swinger, for reasons of gossip, or something more malicious, simply reply with:
"So what?"
It's 2016, the country is a more open minded and tolerant place. The person spreading the gossip is then totally disarmed.
"Sure whatever they're into, they're doing no harm"
then turn it back on them, ask them how THEY know....
"If you know what they're at, then you must be at it yourself, or at least interested, and if it's good enough for you, why isn't it good enough for them?"
The less people that give a fuck, the better off we are. |
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here....
It was an unfortunate title being as there is a fabber with that name
I know, that's what I meant, people just presumed it was Toxic, the girl he was talking about..... never presume until you have the facts...
I had assumed it til someone posted on here that it wasn't her. "
Well at least you admitted to your mistake on here, that's something to be admired. Xxx |
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"That's a shitty thing to happen to the OP, and while it may be too late for him, it has given me an idea.
This is something we can collectively do as a swinging community (and it's probably something a lot of us do anyway)
If you're presented with information that someone you know is a swinger, for reasons of gossip, or something more malicious, simply reply with:
"So what?"
It's 2016, the country is a more open minded and tolerant place. The person spreading the gossip is then totally disarmed.
"Sure whatever they're into, they're doing no harm"
then turn it back on them, ask them how THEY know....
"If you know what they're at, then you must be at it yourself, or at least interested, and if it's good enough for you, why isn't it good enough for them?"
The less people that give a fuck, the better off we are. "
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"One shouldn't presume that the title of this thread is about a person...
If you look up what the word actually means, it means - dangerous, venomous, harmful.... and if you don't believe me, look it up for yourselves people & stop being sooo presumptious that he had actually named the girl as being Toxic because it's not the case here....
It was an unfortunate title being as there is a fabber with that name
I know, that's what I meant, people just presumed it was Toxic, the girl he was talking about..... never presume until you have the facts...
I had assumed it til someone posted on here that it wasn't her.
Well at least you admitted to your mistake on here, that's something to be admired. Xxx"
My second thought was what a nit wit the woman doing the telling was. She's outed herself as well as the OP. |
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"Am I correct in thinking that what was said happened in the world of Fab & not outside it??
This is Fab & people gossip....... "
I gather not now as I was corrected about that assumption. Seems to have been 'work' colleges....some fab links. |
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"Am I correct in thinking that what was said happened in the world of Fab & not outside it??
This is Fab & people gossip....... "
I read it as they both happened to be at a work event. Used to play together on fab and she told all the work people. It is a bit confusing. |
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I read it as they both happened to be at a work event. Used to play together on fab and she told all the work people. It is a bit confusing.
Yep, that's the way I read it as well. "
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I read it as they both happened to be at a work event. Used to play together on fab and she told all the work people. It is a bit confusing.
Yep, that's the way I read it as well. "
....fuck me...she told the muggles?...has anyone informed the ministry of magic?.. |
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over a year ago
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She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x"
Leave it...jealousy will backfire in time...It'll just eat away slowly. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Leave it...jealousy will backfire in time...It'll just eat away slowly. "
Whatever that means |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x"
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban? |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Leave it...jealousy will backfire in time...It'll just eat away slowly.
Whatever that means"
She may have been jealous. ...so if I were him I'd just leave it....and as you say relax more and be himself. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x"
Quote: " she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked......"
Didn't see anything about him liking cock being mentioned. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?"
indeed not worth it for one second. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Quote: " she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked......"
Didn't see anything about him liking cock being mentioned."
Nor did I - I'm guessing someone has jumped to that conclusion as OP has bi on his profile. This whole thread is very confusing |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Quote: " she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked......"
Didn't see anything about him liking cock being mentioned."
He has bisexual on his profile |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?"
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Quote: " she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked......"
Didn't see anything about him liking cock being mentioned.
He has bisexual on his profile"
He doesn't say she mentioned that tho. He only says she told what had happened between him and her |
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think thats quite enough speculating now, this is why threads like this are NEVER a good idea . Public declarations and getting folks mixed up in your private matters is never going to end well . And what about that much lauded word on profiles here DISCRETION . Seriously , its a pack of gossipy ould wans on a bingo bus here at times .  |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip "
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Quote: " she decided to inform a friend and in fact loads of friends of my fab exploits. I am generally ok with my extra curricular but for the world and my fellow colleagues to know my preferences is disguising.
she basically told a woman what we had done and what she liked......"
Didn't see anything about him liking cock being mentioned.
He has bisexual on his profile
He doesn't say she mentioned that tho. He only says she told what had happened between him and her"
He also says that work colleagues knowing his preference is disguising (presume he meant disgusting)
Anyway we can all speculate but only he can clarify what exactly was said |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way."
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th |
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"think thats quite enough speculating now, this is why threads like this are NEVER a good idea . Public declarations and getting folks mixed up in your private matters is never going to end well . And what about that much lauded word on profiles here DISCRETION . Seriously , its a pack of gossipy ould wans on a bingo bus here at times . "
He put it out there on a public forum, of course people are going to talk and speculate about it, if you don't like it then don't read it |
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"think thats quite enough speculating now, this is why threads like this are NEVER a good idea . Public declarations and getting folks mixed up in your private matters is never going to end well . And what about that much lauded word on profiles here DISCRETION . Seriously , its a pack of gossipy ould wans on a bingo bus here at times . "
....lol...you seem to blend in quite well with the gossipy ould wans... |
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"do you know the guy ? because I do , and I dout your contribution to this thread was what he had in mind when he posted ! "
Well then he should have made it clear what he was on about!! |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th"
Well I've know some who have been banned because a few kept complaining and reporting and eventually got them banned. There is little if any recourse to defend...you get a generic message 99% of the time as they don't want to get into dispute. So best to leave it. |
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"do you know the guy ? because I do , and I dout your contribution to this thread was what he had in mind when he posted ! "
Be should probably have posted something clearer in that case, or kept it to himself if he didn't want people talking about it. |
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"do you know the guy ? because I do , and I dout your contribution to this thread was what he had in mind when he posted ! "
....if you post a thread,what you have in mind as a contribution, and what you actually get. .can be totally different. The joys of being on the forums I suppose. |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th"
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban "
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?"
For being complete cunts, most likely! |
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"do you know the guy ? because I do , and I dout your contribution to this thread was what he had in mind when he posted ! ....if you post a thread,what you have in mind as a contribution, and what you actually get. .can be totally different. The joys of being on the forums I suppose. "
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely! "
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely! "
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely! "
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel) |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)"
This thread is a vendetta???? |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)"
....mods removing comments is sometimes an indication that the person who made the comments has been sanctioned. .not a removal of evidence. . |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)"
What case are you talking about?  |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
What case are you talking about? "
Glad its not just me that can't work that out |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????"
......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta... |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta... "
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive"
......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state.... |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state...."
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it"
......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance... |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance... "
Ahhh horseburger. I think I've only had those in France and Spain before |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance...
Ahhh horseburger. I think I've only had those in France and Spain before"
....and mickey D's..... |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance...
Ahhh horseburger. I think I've only had those in France and Spain before....and mickey D's..... "
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance...
Ahhh horseburger. I think I've only had those in France and Spain before....and mickey D's..... "
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"That's a shitty thing to happen to the OP, and while it may be too late for him, it has given me an idea.
This is something we can collectively do as a swinging community (and it's probably something a lot of us do anyway)
If you're presented with information that someone you know is a swinger, for reasons of gossip, or something more malicious, simply reply with:
"So what?"
It's 2016, the country is a more open minded and tolerant place. The person spreading the gossip is then totally disarmed.
"Sure whatever they're into, they're doing no harm"
then turn it back on them, ask them how THEY know....
"If you know what they're at, then you must be at it yourself, or at least interested, and if it's good enough for you, why isn't it good enough for them?"
The less people that give a fuck, the better off we are. "
Have to agree with you there Mingo. Our kids (grownup) were questioning us about 'swinging', as in they had an idea we were so we just said yea we love it in a joking kinda way and they've left it alone since |
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Well if his work colleagues had any doubts to his old FB's stories they won't have any more. Doesn't he know you can read the forums without logging into fab |
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"OP needs to come back and clarify a few things.
This is what happens when you don't proof read your posts.
Yes exactly, have to agree here. "
Ah but we got a thread with eighty posts as a result of the ambiguity. |
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"OP needs to come back and clarify a few things.
This is what happens when you don't proof read your posts.
Yes exactly, have to agree here.
Ah but we got a thread with eighty posts as a result of the ambiguity. "
84 posts now!! |
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"She outed him for liking cock, bitch, but at least now you don't have to hide it anymore, see it as a good thing instead of a bad thing, you can finally be your true self, fuck the haters, you wouldn't want them in your life anyway if the don't accept who you are, oh also name and shame the bitch that outed you x
Name and shame her? And add to his woes with a ban?
A ban is hardly a life altering event, its a few days away from a forum, can't understand why people are so afraid of bans, get a grip
4 and it's a strike out...permanent....so yes be careful. There are other ways if he so wishes to go down that route but public is not the way.
So what if its 4, just don't get 3 worthwhile ones and don't do a 4th
Not nessiarly 4 and ur out I have known some get lifetime on their first ban
For what?
For being complete cunts, most likely!
Well actually not....but maybe you know more than me but it seemed a clear vendetta in this case when you read the said comments on the forums (many posts get removed to remove evidence I think and prevent further fuel)
This thread is a vendetta????......yeah. ...the horse's head in the bed was a clincher for us......definitely a vendetta...
You're complaining about just one horses head? Don't be so sensitive......but it wasa cute little pony....and the owner was still holding on to the reins... ....poor child was in an awful state....
On the bright side - what a big bed you have that the owner and the horse can fit in it......and loads of burgers for the bbq....pop in if you get the chance...
Ahhh horseburger. I think I've only had those in France and Spain before....and mickey D's.....
And tesco"
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