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"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else.." The old saying goes beauty is in the eye of the beholder.... happy fabbing. BO x | |||
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"Not this again. .!!!. If someone refuses to meet you, because you are a certain shape. .be it fat ..skinny. .or something in between. Move on!!..its their choice. Ffs. " I agree well said. | |||
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"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else.." Realistically, youll probably struggle unless you go to these social things where you try and let your personality do the work instead. Men are so plentiful in here that it is a survival of the fittest, women can pick and choose from far more of a selction than they may be able to in general life so it might be a bit of a slog for you im afraid chief | |||
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"Yes mary was called fat here before. We kid u not "WTF, she is far from being fat, judging from your pics. Even so nothing wrong with other ladies that are curvy or ample, prefer people who are comfortable in them selves. Rather than people who aren't and go as low as insulting others. | |||
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"im waiting for all the perfect people to show up and throw their two pence worth at ya o p . In honesty , swinging attracts all sorts of people and all shapes and sizes , be happy in yourself and ignore anyone seeking to project negativity on you . signed fat chick " | |||
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"im waiting for all the perfect people to show up and throw their two pence worth at ya o p . In honesty , swinging attracts all sorts of people and all shapes and sizes , be happy in yourself and ignore anyone seeking to project negativity on you . signed fat chick "Love it! | |||
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"im waiting for all the perfect people to show up and throw their two pence worth at ya o p . In honesty , swinging attracts all sorts of people and all shapes and sizes , be happy in yourself and ignore anyone seeking to project negativity on you . signed fat chick
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"Hmm... I'm still searching for all the negative posts from the perfect people "nobody's perfect my friend | |||
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"so as a Male on here who carries a few extra pounds just wondering what people's views are on fat shaming. As anyone been a victim of it or been the person that fat shamed somebody else.. The old saying goes beauty is in the eye of the beholder.... happy fabbing. BO x" | |||
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"I was fat shamed by my own mam the other day ...she told me how lucky I was that Ollie loved me so even though I am on the tubby side ...lol..." I was once asked if I thought my partner would be more attracted to me if I lost some weight ........ I gave it some serious consideration and decided f*** it and I had some cake!! | |||
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"Good question op. Doesn't matter a dam if it was asked before or not, new voices and new opinions. That's the beauty of fab. So it's pretty easy for some to say ffs get over it but they probably aren't the people sitting at home struggling to get a meet or have the support of a partner here. That said I think you are slightly misguided OP, fat shaming isn't turning someone down because of their body type. That's just human nature, we want the best we can get, simple's. It takes experience and a dash of cop on to realise body shape has little to do with being a great swinger or person in general. You can be a total snarky arse hole and a six pack or keg won't change that" Damn your pics are fine | |||
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"Good question op. Doesn't matter a dam if it was asked before or not, new voices and new opinions. That's the beauty of fab. So it's pretty easy for some to say ffs get over it but they probably aren't the people sitting at home struggling to get a meet or have the support of a partner here. That said I think you are slightly misguided OP, fat shaming isn't turning someone down because of their body type. That's just human nature, we want the best we can get, simple's. It takes experience and a dash of cop on to realise body shape has little to do with being a great swinger or person in general. You can be a total snarky arse hole and a six pack or keg won't change that" Well said | |||
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"Hmm... I'm still searching for all the negative posts from the perfect people nobody's perfect my friend"..excuse me...im perfect OK?.....IM GOOD LOOKING. .RICH FAMOUS. .GOT THAT. ..so no shit out of any of you guys !!!. Although I may have a slight anger management problem... | |||
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 either way there's someone out there for everyone's taste so happy swinging | |||
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"There will always be body shaming unfortunately here as people get too caught up in voicing their preferences and as a bi product others feel like they are victim of body shaming because they are the opposite to the opinion being expressed. I've been called fat, bbw and over weight - in person and over email. And on the flip side met peeps who said I was better then in my pics and I was tiny! All about perception really either way there's someone out there for everyone's taste so happy swinging "in my experience everyone looks better in real life then they do in there pics. | |||
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 I'm curvy and confident, walk with your head high, some people like savoury, some like sweet, each to their own, if someone doesn't fancy you let them jog on. Personally I like men with a little twinkle in their eye and a cute smile | |||
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"I've got some cushion for the pushing I'm curvy and confident, walk with your head high, some people like savoury, some like sweet, each to their own, if someone doesn't fancy you let them jog on. Personally I like men with a little twinkle in their eye and a cute smile "I have a little twinkle  | |||
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" I have a little twinkle "At least you're honest!! | |||
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so the fascination and attraction was very short lived due to them being all wrapped up in ...well ..themselves ! I have also met some very average looking people who absolutely blew me away when i got to know them , so dont ever judge on looks alone , you would be making a mistake . | |||
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"For me it was at parties and meet and greets that you can see what people really go for and im afraid it defo is looks to top it as it fit for guys and slim for ladies , i was always sitting watching and noticed that i wasnt getting many people over chatting to us , due to me being over weight, so ive decided to loose all that weight , ive lost almost 3 stone now and ive more to loose , but lets see what socials and parties bring now , id love to be proven wrong .
Mrs crazy "I'm after perving at your pics and I wouldn't say that I'd be put off. You have great tits and a nice round ass | |||
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"For me it was at parties and meet and greets that you can see what people really go for and im afraid it defo is looks to top it as it fit for guys and slim for ladies , i was always sitting watching and noticed that i wasnt getting many people over chatting to us , due to me being over weight, so ive decided to loose all that weight , ive lost almost 3 stone now and ive more to loose , but lets see what socials and parties bring now , id love to be proven wrong .
Mrs crazy "Then you'll get the comments "that's yer wan who used to sit on her own talking to nobody! She's a snob!" | |||
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"For me it was at parties and meet and greets that you can see what people really go for and im afraid it defo is looks to top it as it fit for guys and slim for ladies , i was always sitting watching and noticed that i wasnt getting many people over chatting to us , due to me being over weight, so ive decided to loose all that weight , ive lost almost 3 stone now and ive more to loose , but lets see what socials and parties bring now , id love to be proven wrong .
Mrs crazy "I thought you were lovely when i met yous at a party.Very nice and friendly couple and great craic. Not everyone on here is that shallow about looks or body type, more about personalities with myself, just a pity nothing happened. | |||
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"For me it was at parties and meet and greets that you can see what people really go for and im afraid it defo is looks to top it as it fit for guys and slim for ladies , i was always sitting watching and noticed that i wasnt getting many people over chatting to us , due to me being over weight, so ive decided to loose all that weight , ive lost almost 3 stone now and ive more to loose , but lets see what socials and parties bring now , id love to be proven wrong .
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Then you'll get the comments "that's yer wan who used to sit on her own talking to nobody! She's a snob!" "Ha ha , im far from a snob , and anyone thats met us seems to have a great laugh with us so dont think thats the problem
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"For me it was at parties and meet and greets that you can see what people really go for and im afraid it defo is looks to top it as it fit for guys and slim for ladies , i was always sitting watching and noticed that i wasnt getting many people over chatting to us , due to me being over weight, so ive decided to loose all that weight , ive lost almost 3 stone now and ive more to loose , but lets see what socials and parties bring now , id love to be proven wrong .
Mrs crazy
Then you'll get the comments "that's yer wan who used to sit on her own talking to nobody! She's a snob!"
Ha ha , im far from a snob , and anyone thats met us seems to have a great laugh with us so dont think thats the problem
Mrs crazy "I have seen u with u r nose in the air 
No really ye are great fun never but had a good laugh when we meet at socials
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"mrs crazy , I have met you and your hubby at a party , and also thought ye were attractive and lovely , whilst its commendable that you have lost some weight , and im sure you feel fantastic , I also think , that the opinions of others as to whether a person is desireable or not arent worth a fuck ! I stopped caring what others opinions of me were wheen I realised that their opinions wouldnt pay my bills . "Awwww thanks , true what ur saying , and i dont really care either , but its just something ive noticed over the last 18yrs ive been swinging , that the slimmer ladies will always get the most attention thats just the way i have seen it, im loosung weight for me not for anyone else as ive always carried weight but i just want to loose it for me now. But i suppose there is someone for everyone here
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" Awwww thanks , true what ur saying , and i dont really care either , but its just something ive noticed over the last 18yrs ive been swinging , that the slimmer ladies will always get the most attention thats just the way i have seen it, im loosung weight for me not for anyone else as ive always carried weight but i just want to loose it for me now. But i suppose there is someone for everyone here
Mrs crazy "...and that is the right reason!! Best of luck with it! | |||
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"Ya I can agrreblot nasty people here and I regularly getting here nasty shaming msg. But feck all them! Im who I am and I dont care if you not like me, I love myself! Sure I would like smaller belly, hips blah blah blah!! But true is.. if I was so annoyed with my body I would change it..and as I dont do it, it must mean I dont want changes so much! I cant like everyone and everyone cant like me!! " Are these messages mainly from newbies or verified longer term Fabbers? | |||
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"From all kinds.. getting some "compliments" time to time from newbies, not verified but long in site, verified but not so long in site, and sure from nice verfied and some while in site persons.. " why people get their kicks from the likes of this is beyond me! They must lead sad lives!! I can kinda understand the smart arsed 'one days wonders' being nasty etc... but as for the others!!! | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits "Looks great to me ?? | |||
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"Any and all body shaming is terrible. I've experienced it when I didn't reply to a message or two from a person on here. But, I will say this. It speaks volumes about the person its coming from and their mindset, and really who finds that kind of thinking attractive? Certainly not me! And lastly, it will only upset you if their opinion matters at all. If not, look at it for what it is, an "opinion" given with the intention of upsetting you to make them feel more superior !" | |||
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"at times this place is more like a kindergarten than adult site.. you can look at all the pictures you like, send messages band and forth, at the end of the day, the only way you will get a feel for a person is by meeting face to face having a good auld natter see if there is a connection. if you can make a person smile you're halfway there.. " | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits "Love it x - a real woman | |||
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"at times this place is more like a kindergarten than adult site.. you can look at all the pictures you like, send messages band and forth, at the end of the day, the only way you will get a feel for a person is by meeting face to face having a good auld natter see if there is a connection. if you can make a person smile you're halfway there.. " | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman "Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like  | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like "The cover of most magazines. Photoshop. You're welcome. | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like "a man | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome."So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also? | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?"Nah... just flexible! | |||
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"Ya I can agrreblot nasty people here and I regularly getting here nasty shaming msg. But feck all them! Im who I am and I dont care if you not like me, I love myself! Sure I would like smaller belly, hips blah blah blah!! But true is.. if I was so annoyed with my body I would change it..and as I dont do it, it must mean I dont want changes so much! I cant like everyone and everyone cant like me!! " Well you know what I say about a few extra....but we'll keep that a little secret....wouldn't want to put a dog in the ring | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?"You've an awful hairy arse... | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?
You've an awful hairy arse... "...gwan ted..with you're big hairy arse on ya... | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?
You've an awful hairy arse... ...gwan ted..with you're big hairy arse on ya... "Lol ya can't bate the old Father Fluffy bottom gambit. | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?
You've an awful hairy arse... ...gwan ted..with you're big hairy arse on ya... " | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?
You've an awful hairy arse... ...gwan ted..with you're big hairy arse on ya...
Lol ya can't bate the old Father Fluffy bottom gambit." | |||
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"Yep.. And couldn't care less. they are missing out on all my wobbly bits
Love it x - a real woman
Id love to know what a 'not real' woman looks like
The cover of most magazines. Photoshop.
You're welcome.
So if a woman in here takes pics of herself from flattering angles, in low light and in positions a contortionist would baulk at, does that make her 'not real' also?
You've an awful hairy arse... ...gwan ted..with you're big hairy arse on ya...
Lol ya can't bate the old Father Fluffy bottom gambit.
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"I'm a bit late to the party, I know, but I wanted to throw my twopenneth in. As the biggest guy that I'uve seen on here so far (19st), and having been overweight my whole life (21st at my biggest), I'd say that I have some perspective on the subject. I'm big and having been shamed many, many times in my life it still makes me sad. However, I'm also reasonable and a able to see both sides, so Fat Shamers are absolutely correct! ... What was that? I'm a prick for saying it? Nope. Scientifically, people that carry extra fat are at higher risk blah blah blah... You get the picture. It's true. I'm currently three times more likely to develop diabetes, five times more likely to have a heart attack and almost infinitely more likely to be laughed at for fat related shenanigans. All the fat shamers, ever, were right. I am a fat bastard. That's reasonable me. The little me on the inside feels like shit every time it's pointed out. Not because of the fact that it's true, but because I know it and haven't done anything about it yet. I know I'm fat. My wife knows I'm fat. My son. My parents, the neighbours, my doctor, etc, etc, etc... Fat shamers may be correct but fat shamers are not right. It's usually a horrible way for someone to feel like they've got one up on someone; pointing out someone elses' flaws. They are the same people that laugh at burn victims and disabled children (that's a generalisation due to my ebbing mood, but probably right). I've found that simply saying "Yeah, I know." or sarcastically exclaiming "FUCK ME! I hadn't realised. Thanks for telling me!" is normally enough to throw them off or stop the joke in it's tracks. Mostly, ignore it. You know what your strengths and weaknesses are. Work out a way to play to your good bits and, in the meantime, better your not-so-good bits. I also don't take my own advice. People who try and make you feel bad for how you look may have been too shallow anyway, so no loss. Most people are willing to give personality a chance despite looks. G" Great post | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... " Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings " I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... | |||
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"I'm a bit late to the party, I know, but I wanted to throw my twopenneth in. As the biggest guy that I'uve seen on here so far (19st), and having been overweight my whole life (21st at my biggest), I'd say that I have some perspective on the subject. I'm big and having been shamed many, many times in my life it still makes me sad. However, I'm also reasonable and a able to see both sides, so Fat Shamers are absolutely correct! ... What was that? I'm a prick for saying it? Nope. Scientifically, people that carry extra fat are at higher risk blah blah blah... You get the picture. It's true. I'm currently three times more likely to develop diabetes, five times more likely to have a heart attack and almost infinitely more likely to be laughed at for fat related shenanigans. All the fat shamers, ever, were right. I am a fat bastard. That's reasonable me. The little me on the inside feels like shit every time it's pointed out. Not because of the fact that it's true, but because I know it and haven't done anything about it yet. I know I'm fat. My wife knows I'm fat. My son. My parents, the neighbours, my doctor, etc, etc, etc... Fat shamers may be correct but fat shamers are not right. It's usually a horrible way for someone to feel like they've got one up on someone; pointing out someone elses' flaws. They are the same people that laugh at burn victims and disabled children (that's a generalisation due to my ebbing mood, but probably right). I've found that simply saying "Yeah, I know." or sarcastically exclaiming "FUCK ME! I hadn't realised. Thanks for telling me!" is normally enough to throw them off or stop the joke in it's tracks. Mostly, ignore it. You know what your strengths and weaknesses are. Work out a way to play to your good bits and, in the meantime, better your not-so-good bits. I also don't take my own advice. People who try and make you feel bad for how you look may have been too shallow anyway, so no loss. Most people are willing to give personality a chance despite looks. G" What an excellent post and well done in being concise and direct! Can i point out though and have said this before,people are not fat,they HAVE fat.The same as people have fingernails,they are not fingernails. well done in expressing your private thoughts. I actually think youre brilliant for having the balls to post this when others are too willing to attack. | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... " Such as calling people fat? | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? "ppl are so easily offended these days. | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days. "Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect. | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect. "true...no one is | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
A Truthful Description is Just That
If its Raining Outside do its Dry Out"That's why I said it's never just used as a description. It's used to demean people. if your not interested in being with someone who has extra weight on then don't message them. I don't go around messaging people saying oh your cock is tiny or oh your boobs are saggy even if it's the truth. I have now respect for people. | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect. true...no one is "Exactly. But you can't make people feel bad for not being what you think they should be. People who are happy with themselves don't feel the need to put others down. | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
A Truthful Description is Just That
If its Raining Outside do its Dry Out
That's why I said it's never just used as a description. It's used to demean people. if your not interested in being with someone who has extra weight on then don't message them. I don't go around messaging people saying oh your cock is tiny or oh your boobs are saggy even if it's the truth. I have now respect for people. "So have you made sense of that comment that you quoted then? Cos i have no idea what the hell he's on about | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
A Truthful Description is Just That
If its Raining Outside do its Dry Out
That's why I said it's never just used as a description. It's used to demean people. if your not interested in being with someone who has extra weight on then don't message them. I don't go around messaging people saying oh your cock is tiny or oh your boobs are saggy even if it's the truth. I have now respect for people.
So have you made sense of that comment that you quoted then? Cos i have no idea what the hell he's on about"Kinda, he removed it but I got to it first he's basically saying you should call a spade a spade even if the spade doesn't give a fuck what you think or ask for your opinion | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
A Truthful Description is Just That
If its Raining Outside do its Dry Out
That's why I said it's never just used as a description. It's used to demean people. if your not interested in being with someone who has extra weight on then don't message them. I don't go around messaging people saying oh your cock is tiny or oh your boobs are saggy even if it's the truth. I have now respect for people.
So have you made sense of that comment that you quoted then? Cos i have no idea what the hell he's on about
Kinda, he removed it but I got to it first he's basically saying you should call a spade a spade even if the spade doesn't give a fuck what you think or ask for your opinion ""If its raining outside do its dry out"...how have you deciphered that? | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
A Truthful Description is Just That
If its Raining Outside do its Dry Out
That's why I said it's never just used as a description. It's used to demean people. if your not interested in being with someone who has extra weight on then don't message them. I don't go around messaging people saying oh your cock is tiny or oh your boobs are saggy even if it's the truth. I have now respect for people.
So have you made sense of that comment that you quoted then? Cos i have no idea what the hell he's on about
Kinda, he removed it but I got to it first he's basically saying you should call a spade a spade even if the spade doesn't give a fuck what you think or ask for your opinion
"If its raining outside do its dry out"...how have you deciphered that?"Ha ha I'm used to dealing with idiots | |||
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect. "
It's shit behaviour from both sides. I've seen the dirty looks and heard the derogatory comments aimed at my sister because she is slim.
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"If a person is fat.. And someone calls them fat... Then how is that fat shaming... Isn't the truth... Coz usually it's not a truth to be truthful, it's a truth made in a derogatory manner in order to purposely hurt their feelings I think ppl should rise above playground bullying... Such as calling people fat? ppl are so easily offended these days.
Yes they are. They still doesn't give people the right to put them down. It's bullying, nothing more nothing less. It's never used to just describe someone. It's used to put them down and make them feel bad about themselves. We aren't all perfect.
It's shit behaviour from both sides. I've seen the dirty looks and heard the derogatory comments aimed at my sister because she is slim.
Very insecure individuals. "Honestly you can't win. Too skinny, awful. Too fat, awful. Big arse, awful. Small boobs, awful. It's a sad world we live in sometimes. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha "Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you."Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? " | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? "lol I'd say u have a serious gripe with this lad | |||
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"You cant win if u are fat they shame you and when you are skinny its even worse the world is strange i have got it from both sides " | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? lol I'd say u have a serious gripe with this lad "I actually dont for your info.. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? lol I'd say u have a serious gripe with this lad
I actually dont for your info.. "my apologies please forgive me | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche? "And there u have it... amen xxxxx | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx"So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then? | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?"Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!! | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!"Why not just come out and say it giving examples from the thread, and put some credence to your comments instead of playing silly playground games | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!"I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!
I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain."He's rude on any post to do with weight. .. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!
I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain.
He's rude on any post to do with weight. .."But tell me if I'm wrong but how do you mean rude. I'm a bit lost. | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!
I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain.
He's rude on any post to do with weight. .."Basically, youre unable to pinpoint any of this so called rudeness or bullying...you just have a problem with me in general. People would probably respect you a whole lot more if you just said that instead of making up garbage | |||
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"People do respect me here... I've plenty of friends on here. . Anyway... I don't need to explain myself...your posts are self explanatory .... and rude. ..good night " So rude that you cant actually even point one out. We appreciate your valuable contributions. Maybe next time youll actually have something to back up your mud-slinging with | |||
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"People do respect me here... I've plenty of friends on here. . Anyway... I don't need to explain myself...your posts are self explanatory .... and rude. ..good night " I'm sorry but to acuse someone of something then not to clarify I find childish. I'm not being personal just generalising. | |||
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"People do respect me here... I've plenty of friends on here. . Anyway... I don't need to explain myself...your posts are self explanatory .... and rude. ..good night So rude that you cant actually even point one out. We appreciate your valuable contributions. Maybe next time youll actually have something to back up your mud-slinging with" As I said ... self explanatory. ... your rudeness comes across in all your messages. .... | |||
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"People do respect me here... I've plenty of friends on here. . Anyway... I don't need to explain myself...your posts are self explanatory .... and rude. ..good night So rude that you cant actually even point one out. We appreciate your valuable contributions. Maybe next time youll actually have something to back up your mud-slinging with As I said ... self explanatory. ... your rudeness comes across in all your messages. ...." I think its quite obvious whats happened here; youve jumped in feet first not thinking beforehand. Youve now made yourself look a little foolish, so foolish that anything other than issuing an apology for your comments is just going to make you look worse and worse | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!
I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain.
He's rude on any post to do with weight. .."Id punch his green arrow to pinpoint his rudeness and what id call resentment, on any "fat" threads that have been posted over the last 6 months at least. Sorry n all but this is just another dig at people who carry weight and if im truthful with all joking aside, people have fat,they are not fat! I was a size 18/20 in my teens so i understand the issues that goes with it. Its wrong and downright disgusting to call anyone "fat" and then smile at someone because theyre slim. Whos shallow here? Jack Black isnt exactly a male stripper either. The cheek of anyone to call another person a name or label them sickens me.How dare they!  | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... " So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... " yep xxxx | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive" Says the guy who offends everyone..., | |||
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"So before I even read all the posts I knew a certain someone would be here being rude.... wonder where his bully boy pal is... probably on another post bullying someone else Rant over.. happy Friday. . Ha
Whos been in rude in this thread? Cant say ive seen any rudeness or any of this fabled 'bullying' either. Feel free to point it out wont you.
Does the word "fat"arise you from your slumber? Its probably the only thread that has come up time after time and its the only time ive seen you with an input and opinion to give about it. Now bananaman.. turn your banana sideways and smile. Capiche?
And there u have it... amen xxxxx
So i take it youre not going to pin point this so called 'rudeness' or 'bullying' that youve witnessed then?
Oh stop being a smartass for once in your life... you know who I'm talking about... as does everyone else !!!
I actually read this whole thread. I never like these ones because I think abuse in any form is wrong but I saw no rudeness or personal attacks since you posted. Please do explain.
He's rude on any post to do with weight. ..
Id punch his green arrow to pinpoint his rudeness and what id call resentment, on any "fat" threads that have been posted over the last 6 months at least. Sorry n all but this is just another dig at people who carry weight and if im truthful with all joking aside, people have fat,they are not fat! I was a size 18/20 in my teens so i understand the issues that goes with it. Its wrong and downright disgusting to call anyone "fat" and then smile at someone because theyre slim. Whos shallow here? Jack Black isnt exactly a male stripper either. The cheek of anyone to call another person a name or label them sickens me.How dare they! "X xx exactly. .. I'm crap at putting it into words.. xx | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Says the guy who offends everyone..., " Once again, feel free to take us through the thread and point out this imaginary offence. The other one has failed miserably in that task | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Says the guy who offends everyone..., " | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Says the guy who offends everyone..., Once again, feel free to take us through the thread and point out this imaginary offence. The other one has failed miserably in that task" How about you take yourself away... far far away....that be great thanks | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Says the guy who offends everyone..., " He doesn't offend me. And I can't see anywhere he's been rude on this thread | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive" Theres a difference between being ignorant and having some decorum and manners! Go for whoever you prefer but dont knock people who'd you not go for! Would you call a heavy woman "fat" in a bar on a night out? You would in your hole cos youd get battered! Dont do it here either cos ill bate you if i ever met you again. Theres no grace or elegance to your attitude. Your family must be all ripped buddy! | |||
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" So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Says the guy who offends everyone..., Once again, feel free to take us through the thread and point out this imaginary offence. The other one has failed miserably in that task" I/everyone just need to press your little green arrow and that miserably explains your offences through so many threads! | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... So someone is ignorant if they have a particular type? Im pretty sure a lot of people would take that to be quite offensive Theres a difference between being ignorant and having some decorum and manners! Go for whoever you prefer but dont knock people who'd you not go for! Would you call a heavy woman "fat" in a bar on a night out? You would in your hole cos youd get battered! Dont do it here either cos ill bate you if i ever met you again. Theres no grace or elegance to your attitude. Your family must be all ripped buddy! "And on all the posts to do with weight his attitude is clear.. | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad. "Exactly this. I think rudeness is terrible but there was none here by that lad only a bit against him. | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad. "Yeah cool. ..he's so condescending .. | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad.
Exactly this. I think rudeness is terrible but there was none here by that lad only a bit against him."When people have an agenda, all rational comment goes out the window im afraid | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad.
Yeah cool. ..he's so condescending .."Yea he is. I think a far chick broke his heart tbh he'll get over it eventually | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... " Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad.
Yeah cool. ..he's so condescending ..
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"What an excellent post and well done in being concise and direct! Can i point out though and have said this before,people are not fat,they HAVE fat.The same as people have fingernails,they are not fingernails. well done in expressing your private thoughts. I actually think youre brilliant for having the balls to post this when others are too willing to attack. "Thank you. I see where you're coming from, but most people don't understand the distinction between being something and being the product of something. I HAVE fat so therefore I must BE fat. It's not worth the typing effort to explain a concept that no one understands and almost everyone would disagree with. I do have balls, and sometimes they are large, but in this case it's simply an opinion that I felt would benefit someone. Sadly, my point was lost, I think. | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. " No argument from me on that one girl | |||
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"To be fair rain he wasn't rude anywhere on this thread. But I know what you and dirty girl are referring to. It's best off ignored if he gets to you that bad.
Yeah cool. ..he's so condescending ..
Yea he is. I think a far chick broke his heart tbh he'll get over it eventually "Yep...Miss your dead right!!! | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl "Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required | |||
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"This is turning into a witch hunt against someone who was not rude in this thread. Some of you say you hate being shamed or treated differently for maybe being bit bigger yet you wish to shame someone for their opinion. " fair play to ya. Tbh in my opinion it's women who are hard on other women. Men love a bit of meat. I carry weight from time to time and ain't nothing as inspiring as some fucker trying to milk your man boobs. Extra weight brings health problems I hope my kids get a snide comment rather than cancer | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl
Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required "Your saying your attracted to somebody who's may have the personality of a stone but the body of Thor... Erm....yawn.... | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl
Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required
Your saying your attracted to somebody who's may have the personality of a stone but the body of Thor...
Erm....yawn.... "Where did I say that? They're not mutually exclusive | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl
Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required
Your saying your attracted to somebody who's may have the personality of a stone but the body of Thor...
Erm....yawn.... "Its called a physical attraction...imagine that | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl
Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required
Your saying your attracted to somebody who's may have the personality of a stone but the body of Thor...
Erm....yawn.... "I'm not sure but I think maybe like you say people do like people's personality whether they slim or larger but I think what is meant is some like slim some like bigger physically and should not be castigated for this physical preference | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people. "Hey rhino did you figure it out yet | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet "Obviously not from his verification | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification " I actually meant that I already know him but he can't remember me | |||
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"I'm "fatter" than a lot of people on the site and I'm not as "fat" as a lot of people.... My tits are nice and perky..still even tho I'm a big girl! I'm told I'm pretty and attractive I have nice teeth and a pretty nose...lol I'm happy with myself... If you don't like what you see don't mail me.... I feel sorry for the people who only meet athletic people because it's nothing to do with the person it's just because your so insecure in yourself you can't see beyond your own shallowness!! There's a world/people out there to be explored and treasured! Size has no reverence to me, I'm more educated and cultured to be that ignorant.... You gotta love the forums for "outing" the idiots.... Why is it ignorant to have a type? I'm sure you've said no to many people for different reasons. I thought it was personal preference. Silly me, I'm uneducated and ignorant. No argument from me on that one girl
Ah ok, so you say yes to everyone. Thanks for clearing that up. Attraction isn't required
Your saying your attracted to somebody who's may have the personality of a stone but the body of Thor...
Erm....yawn....
I'm not sure but I think maybe like you say people do like people's personality whether they slim or larger but I think what is meant is some like slim some like bigger physically and should not be castigated for this physical preference"Or to put it another way; not all preferences are equal here
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" Where did I say that? They're not mutually exclusive "Again....Green arrow | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
I actually meant that I already know him but he can't remember me "Your unforgettable slutty | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
I actually meant that I already know him but he can't remember me
Your unforgettable slutty "Apparently not  | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification "You should put up another status about her | |||
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"Where did I say that? They're not mutually exclusive
Again....Green arrow "Seriously, what are you talking about?? Where did I say I'm attracted to men with the body of Thor but the personality of a stone? | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
You should put up another status about her "I've seen plenty about you and the ones your putting up | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification "No need for that, especially when you know she can't comment on the forum.
It's Friday everyone, lighten the fuck up! | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
You should put up another status about her
I've seen plenty about you "I've seen them too. Sad people | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example." Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
No need for that, especially when you know she can't comment on the forum.
It's Friday everyone, lighten the fuck up! "Why can't she? | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example." See what you have to understand in here, is that certain people revel in the chance to experience that faux-outrage thats so popular these days. As a result, words like 'rudeness' and 'bullying' appear on a regular basis where a logical person may just see 'discussion' or 'opinion'. Your logic, while flawless, will just fall on deaf ears of those who need to be offended on a daily basis | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. See what you have to understand in here, is that certain people revel in the chance to experience that faux-outrage thats so popular these days. As a result, words like 'rudeness' and 'bullying' appear on a regular basis where a logical person may just see 'discussion' or 'opinion'. Your logic, while flawless, will just fall on deaf ears of those who need to be offended on a daily basis" | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. " I would have thought so. Same with smoking. Neither of us like it, and it's something that turns us off. I've said as much but I'm polite in my replies though and most people appreciate that. Am I a smoker shamer now? Not sure... | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. I would have thought so. Same with smoking. Neither of us like it, and it's something that turns us off. I've said as much but I'm polite in my replies though and most people appreciate that. Am I a smoker shamer now? Not sure... " I'm offended | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification "I didn't know there was anything to figure out there and didn't read the whole thread....but this thread isn't about that is it, heard maybe she said something before I joined and got banned for it, but I don't know what she said and I'd definitely put her in the nice people category. | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. I would have thought so. Same with smoking. Neither of us like it, and it's something that turns us off. I've said as much but I'm polite in my replies though and most people appreciate that. Am I a smoker shamer now? Not sure... " I don't think the point is turning someone down because they are fat. The point is that it's used here to degrade someone, mostly in the forums. There's nothing wrong with having preferences. It's trying to shake people because of their weight thats the problem. | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. See what you have to understand in here, is that certain people revel in the chance to experience that faux-outrage thats so popular these days. As a result, words like 'rudeness' and 'bullying' appear on a regular basis where a logical person may just see 'discussion' or 'opinion'. Your logic, while flawless, will just fall on deaf ears of those who need to be offended on a daily basis" Your point is well taken. Thank you for reminding me. I'd clearly forgotten how forums work, for a second there. | |||
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"People are the way they are, sometimes it's not even by that much choice of their own...shame on people who shame people....saying that....I'd be all for shaming people who ain't nice people.
Hey rhino did you figure it out yet
Obviously not from his verification
I didn't know there was anything to figure out there and didn't read the whole thread....but this thread isn't about that is it, heard maybe she said something before I joined and got banned for it, but I don't know what she said and I'd definitely put her in the nice people category."I wasnt talking about the thread rhino | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. I would have thought so. Same with smoking. Neither of us like it, and it's something that turns us off. I've said as much but I'm polite in my replies though and most people appreciate that. Am I a smoker shamer now? Not sure... I don't think the point is turning someone down because they are fat. The point is that it's used here to degrade someone, mostly in the forums. There's nothing wrong with having preferences. It's trying to shake people because of their weight thats the problem. " Well I was called uneducated and ignorant for having a preference... | |||
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"Just to be clear, what are people referring to when they say "fat shaming"? I took it to mean when you get a message out of the blue that says something along the lines of: "Wow! You're f**king fat. You might as well quit now." Others seem to be saying that it's more like a reply to you, along the lines of: "No thanks. I don't do fat people." The first is fat shaming, the second is a reasonable response, despite lacking subtlety and etiquette. There's no shaming in the second example. Very good point. The second is rude but honest. So I suppose slim people getting No thanks I don't do slim people would be the same too. I would have thought so. Same with smoking. Neither of us like it, and it's something that turns us off. I've said as much but I'm polite in my replies though and most people appreciate that. Am I a smoker shamer now? Not sure... I'm offended "Sorry. | |||
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