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over a year ago
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If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? |
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? "
I think it does for some! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This has happened a lot to me. More so down to some people's arsey behaviour in the forums and then seeing they are a veri for someone I'm currently talking to. It more so makes me cautious than puts me off. We all see people differently I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? "
Oh Snowflake  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense.  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense. "
But that's making a lot of assumptions about the person without finding out for ur self each person is individually and unique in their own way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? "
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense.
But that's making a lot of assumptions about the person without finding out for ur self each person is individually and unique in their own way "
Yea that's my point. It's like my brain is messing with my sex life..  |
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense. "
The Forums seem to be the same, if one has a bit of banter with someone and another person doesn't like that someone then "by association" they don't like you.
It's just FAB but even in real life it is the same.
If someone you like is having a drink in a pub with someone you don't like... do you join them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The verification is there to verify if the person is real or not.
Whether person X met person Y and did or did not get along, should have no bearing whatsoever since each relationship is unique between any random person X and Y.
So, in this case I am afraid we are letting ourselves be a little bit too Irish... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense.
The Forums seem to be the same, if one has a bit of banter with someone and another person doesn't like that someone then "by association" they don't like you.
It's just FAB but even in real life it is the same.
If someone you like is having a drink in a pub with someone you don't like... do you join them?"
Yea it's the same thing really.. Just as well I'm Fabulous and everyone loves me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The verification is there to verify if the person is real or not.
Whether person X met person Y and did or did not get along, should have no bearing whatsoever since each relationship is unique between any random person X and Y.
So, in this case I am afraid we are letting ourselves be a little bit too Irish..."
It's also used to see if they're a nice person, somewhat trustworthy and good in the sack  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense.
But that's making a lot of assumptions about the person without finding out for ur self each person is individually and unique in their own way
Yea that's my point. It's like my brain is messing with my sex life.. "
My brain rules my sex life 
I see a veri as saying we met they turned up and are what they describe in their profile anything after that has to be experienced as a meet with one person will not dictate how future meets will turn out |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"The verification is there to verify if the person is real or not.
Whether person X met person Y and did or did not get along, should have no bearing whatsoever since each relationship is unique between any random person X and Y.
So, in this case I am afraid we are letting ourselves be a little bit too Irish...
It's also used to see if they're a nice person, somewhat trustworthy and good in the sack "
But ur nice ,trustworthy stallion may be someone's else's mule |
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The Forums seem to be the same, if one has a bit of banter with someone and another person doesn't like that someone then "by association" they don't like you.
It's just FAB but even in real life it is the same.
If someone you like is having a drink in a pub with someone you don't like... do you join them?
Yea it's the same thing really.. Just as well I'm Fabulous and everyone loves me "
Do you give classes??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The verification is there to verify if the person is real or not.
Whether person X met person Y and did or did not get along, should have no bearing whatsoever since each relationship is unique between any random person X and Y.
So, in this case I am afraid we are letting ourselves be a little bit too Irish...
It's also used to see if they're a nice person, somewhat trustworthy and good in the sack "
No, that is a subjective category and as such can be only categorised by yourself.
One man's terrorist is other man's hero - kind of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The Forums seem to be the same, if one has a bit of banter with someone and another person doesn't like that someone then "by association" they don't like you.
It's just FAB but even in real life it is the same.
If someone you like is having a drink in a pub with someone you don't like... do you join them?
Yea it's the same thing really.. Just as well I'm Fabulous and everyone loves me
Do you give classes?? "
I'm afraid not.. It's just natural. You either have it or you don't |
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The Forums seem to be the same, if one has a bit of banter with someone and another person doesn't like that someone then "by association" they don't like you.
It's just FAB but even in real life it is the same.
If someone you like is having a drink in a pub with someone you don't like... do you join them?
Yea it's the same thing really.. Just as well I'm Fabulous and everyone loves me
Do you give classes??
I'm afraid not.. It's just natural. You either have it or you don't "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done it in the past (I admit) and have since been proved wrong in my assumptions on people after meeting them in person. Since then I don't judge from verifications at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them?
Yep"
+1 Guilty...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had someone say it to me this morning about a girl he was chatting to. Said he knew a few guys she had met and he hated them so wouldn't meet her..at first i was like oh no but when I thought about it I was kinda like oh I think I've done that before.
I'm not sure why.
It's like I don't like that person but they did so they must be the same and I won't like him either.. Like your mind playing tricks on you if that makes sense.
But that's making a lot of assumptions about the person without finding out for ur self each person is individually and unique in their own way "
I agree here I have to say!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them?
Yep
+1 Guilty... "
I don't think it's anything to feel guilty about though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd imagine most me dont give a toss as there glad of a meet
Yet I must say Ive been warned off meeting a few and advised if I did dont verify etc
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Why wouldn't u verify them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't say it's happened, but I'd like to think not. Unless it was someone who only played bareback"
This or even worse someone with bareback pics on thier profile , few about recently . Safety first guys ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent |
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"I'd imagine most me dont give a toss as there glad of a meet
Yet I must say Ive been warned off meeting a few and advised if I did dont verify etc
Why wouldn't u verify them? "
Either they know something about them that they don't want to go public with or its bitterness and jealously.
I'm fairly sure that somewhere along the way someone has gotten in someones ear and warned people off me. That just means one of them is a cunt and the other is easily led. Either way I dodged a bullet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent "
Oh hello how you doing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent "
How? How is that possible? You're like prime real estate here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd imagine most me dont give a toss as there glad of a meet
Yet I must say Ive been warned off meeting a few and advised if I did dont verify etc
Why wouldn't u verify them?
Either they know something about them that they don't want to go public with or its bitterness and jealously.
I'm fairly sure that somewhere along the way someone has gotten in someones ear and warned people off me. That just means one of them is a cunt and the other is easily led. Either way I dodged a bullet."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent
How? How is that possible? You're like prime real estate here "
We can share what a hottie
Mrs swing xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent
How? How is that possible? You're like prime real estate here
We can share what a hottie
Mrs swing xx"
I know.. It's a dam shame he's not getting any action |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From what I seen he's actually hotter in person. You would love him V I just wish I lived in Dublin again. "
Dam miss car , wonder is he coming Saturday |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From what I seen he's actually hotter in person. You would love him V I just wish I lived in Dublin again.
I'd Defo consider the drive "
Road trip I'll pick you up on the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years I've had play partners who in turn had played with people I just couldn't stand. One persons scum bag is another's best friend. Verifications don't show you how you will get on with someone so I wouldn't let it stop me deciding if I wanted to play with them |
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By *orguyMan
over a year ago
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I was supposed to meet a well verified woman off FAB who cancelled at the last minute saying her child was sick.
Next day she had a new veri on her profile from the day before when we were supposed to meet.I called her out on this and she was very ignorant and blocked me...
A few months later at a social in Dublin she met a lady friend of mine who had verified me and was extremely rude to her because she had verified me.
Now that is totally wrong and this ignorant woman should not have done that because this lady had verified me. |
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By *eise68Man
over a year ago
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Happened to me , it was a couple that asked for a meet. One of the verifications was from a person I did not actually like. A person to be avoided. But I still went ahead with the aranged meet. Various discussions on Kik and texts followed ,
Gave out personal details to the couple , as in address. They cancelled ten minutes before the meet. Reason being they met someone earlier , and in their words , sorry too wrecked now.
So maybe you are right. I don't think I will entertain a profile with verifications from someone else I would avoid |
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"Have to say I check veris and makes me have 2nd thought about people.
It's messes with your mind whether you don't like the other person or I'm like really him I'm better looking than him lol...
No wonder my sex life is non existent
How? How is that possible? You're like prime real estate here
We can share what a hottie
Mrs swing xx
I know.. It's a dam shame he's not getting any action "
You guys are too kind x |
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? "
I'm guilty of this. It's a complete turn off for me. |
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"If you were chatting to someone and it all seems to be going ok but then you look at veris and they are from someone you don't particularly like..
It's not actually what they said, just the person who did the verifying?
Would it put you off them? "
Why would it? Your liking the person your talking to not someone who gave a veri |
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