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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Who's brave enough to put their face pic up for all to see for a few mins. I know some have but for the one's that dont like me would you do it.anyone that says yes here.i will put mine up first.

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By *amdublinMan  over a year ago

Paris

put ur pic firts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Why would we do that?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not a hope in hell,too many people demanding one with no photos on there profile..

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Why would we do that? "

So that someone can rob it and use it!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Why would we do that? "
just thought id throw it out for something different to talk about

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway

No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No way....jaysus the whole place would block me

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By *isdirtygirlWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"No way....jaysus the whole place would block me "

Ha ha im with you there pal... fab would lose its users if i show mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I would never do it myself just testing the waters that's all nice to see the honest trusting people on here I do love you all.OTF

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Who's stupid enough to put their face pic up for all to see for a few mins??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who's stupid enough to put their face pic up for all to see for a few mins??"
ok keep your hair on its just a topic

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always appreciate the quirk of a new thread, OP but only an unlucky few get to see my mug

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy "

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy

"

Well to be fair he has spent an entire two weeks here building up rapport with people ..... Who am I to be wasting his precious time

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy

Well to be fair he has spent an entire two weeks here building up rapport with people ..... Who am I to be wasting his precious time

Miss Mcjoy "

Two weeks is a half alifetime to men lol a world cup lasts for four weeks

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy

Well to be fair he has spent an entire two weeks here building up rapport with people ..... Who am I to be wasting his precious time

Miss Mcjoy

Two weeks is a half alifetime to men lol a world cup lasts for four weeks"

Hahaha that's true

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No chance!! Just been asked for face pics by a profile that's been here two weeks, after one message!!!

Was called a time waster and blocked when I refused to send the photos!!!

Miss Mcjoy

Well to be fair he has spent an entire two weeks here building up rapport with people ..... Who am I to be wasting his precious time

Miss Mcjoy

Two weeks is a half alifetime to men lol a world cup lasts for four weeks

Hahaha that's true

Miss Mcjoy "

And the Euro's are only round the corner. He probably had one eye on them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction "

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy "

Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?"

One or two weeks

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?"

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy "

if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't "

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

"

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not "

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. "

i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

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By *ease_EMan  over a year ago

DDD12


"No way....jaysus the whole place would block me

Ha ha im with you there pal... fab would lose its users if i show mine "

Don't believe you

X x

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture "

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think. "

What most will agree on though is for fun to happen physical attraction needs to be there. I coukd talk every day for a month to a woman and think she's the bees knees, then swap pics and I might not be her cup of tea at all or visa versa! End of the day this is a site where vast majority want sex and that won't come without physical attraction first and foremost for most. I even see alot of women and couple profiles ask for a face pic with first message

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By *cjoyCouple  over a year ago

Galway


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think. What most will agree on though is for fun to happen physical attraction needs to be there. I coukd talk every day for a month to a woman and think she's the bees knees, then swap pics and I might not be her cup of tea at all or visa versa! End of the day this is a site where vast majority want sex and that won't come without physical attraction first and foremost for most. I even see alot of women and couple profiles ask for a face pic with first message "

They certainly do. And that's their choice, and it's totally up to the individual to decide if they will send the pic or not.

It's very much each to their own, no one person or profile is doing it the correct way. We are all doing what works for us here.

What works for me is getting to know people a little ...... The forum is the best place to get to know people

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think. What most will agree on though is for fun to happen physical attraction needs to be there. I coukd talk every day for a month to a woman and think she's the bees knees, then swap pics and I might not be her cup of tea at all or visa versa! End of the day this is a site where vast majority want sex and that won't come without physical attraction first and foremost for most. I even see alot of women and couple profiles ask for a face pic with first message

They certainly do. And that's their choice, and it's totally up to the individual to decide if they will send the pic or not.

It's very much each to their own, no one person or profile is doing it the correct way. We are all doing what works for us here.

What works for me is getting to know people a little ...... The forum is the best place to get to know people

Miss Mcjoy "

good stuff

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think. What most will agree on though is for fun to happen physical attraction needs to be there. I coukd talk every day for a month to a woman and think she's the bees knees, then swap pics and I might not be her cup of tea at all or visa versa! End of the day this is a site where vast majority want sex and that won't come without physical attraction first and foremost for most. I even see alot of women and couple profiles ask for a face pic with first message

They certainly do. And that's their choice, and it's totally up to the individual to decide if they will send the pic or not.

It's very much each to their own, no one person or profile is doing it the correct way. We are all doing what works for us here.

What works for me is getting to know people a little ...... The forum is the best place to get to know people

Miss Mcjoy "

be careful though! Words and opinions of people can sometimes be takin out of context through a screen

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By *ichael McCarthyMan  over a year ago

Lucan


"Brill feature on kik to swap face pics. Ur pic Is only there a few seconds and then gone. I feel why alot look for face pic early is to see if there is an initial attraction

Yes I understand that but I don't think demanding face pics in a second message is going to get him very far with too many couples here. That's all.

Miss Mcjoy Genuine question. Would u prefer to waste time and chat a one or to, then see pic to realise there is no attraction?

I have never considered it waste of time to talk to someone. If a person cannot hold a conversation with me then I have zero interest in doing anything else with them.

What a person looks like is only one factor that I consider when deciding who to meet.

Miss Mcjoy if a person had a lovely personality but u didn't physically fancy them would you have sex with them? I personally know I couldn't

No I wouldn't have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to ..... But it's more than just physical attraction that I take into consideration.

My point still stands that it's never a waste of time to talk to someone

Miss Mcjoy

it's not a waste of time but physical attraction is vital to me hoping they have a nice personality to but personality means nothing of I don't physically fancy them. That's all I'm trying to get across and a few pics exchanged could see if that's there or not

That's very true for most people, and totally your perogative.

I still don't think I should be expected to send my face pictures out to a person who is not meet verified and has no experience here.

I have no issues with sending our face picture to anyone that we may be interested in meeting with, once we have built up a little bit of rapport first and once they are verified. i personally feel people get a little over paranoid on here. Talking to people over time over certain things very few are willing to give the benefit of the doubt.off topic but was talking to a man here once who told me he had to hide a veri as women were mailing that woman to know what he was like etc. If that's true it's extremely sad. What's the worst could happen with a picture, honestly? My picture, anyone's picture

I'm not paranoid in any way shape or form but i don't feel the need to advertise that I'm a swinger to every troll that signs up here wanting to see what we are all up to. There's no point expecting others to be discreet with your pics/info if your going to throw it around all over the place yourself!

What's the worst that could happen ....... that's different for everyone I think. What most will agree on though is for fun to happen physical attraction needs to be there. I coukd talk every day for a month to a woman and think she's the bees knees, then swap pics and I might not be her cup of tea at all or visa versa! End of the day this is a site where vast majority want sex and that won't come without physical attraction first and foremost for most. I even see alot of women and couple profiles ask for a face pic with first message

They certainly do. And that's their choice, and it's totally up to the individual to decide if they will send the pic or not.

It's very much each to their own, no one person or profile is doing it the correct way. We are all doing what works for us here.

What works for me is getting to know people a little ...... The forum is the best place to get to know people

Miss Mcjoy be careful though! Words and opinions of people can sometimes be takin out of context through a screen "

Ah here, I can't read all of that!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Can you send us a few facepics mac......next doors cat is shiting on our lawn......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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