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over a year ago
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"Has anyone any advice on how to gently ease my very sexy wife into playing with a lady. She enjoys the social side of swinging at the moment "
.....she says on you're profile msg she doesn't play at all, and is only helping you to find someone. ...looks like in this case, no means no  |
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"Has anyone any advice on how to gently ease my very sexy wife into playing with a lady. "
Yes: don't. If she really wants to play she will I'm sure be able to "gently" get there herself without the need of any easing on your part.
Talking about it together is fine, important even, but ease reads too much like trying to get someone to do what the really do not want to do. |
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"  she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! "
.....ah but sometimes no means yes...  .. |
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... .."
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
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Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?  |
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick? "
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.."  |
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"Has anyone any advice on how to gently ease my very sexy wife into playing with a lady. She enjoys the social side of swinging at the moment "
How about respecting her choices? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.." "
....is that a philomena begley song?....can't say I know it? |
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.." ....is that a philomena begley song?....can't say I know it? "
It could well be... Maybe even Susan McCann? What about Gloria? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.." ....is that a philomena begley song?....can't say I know it?
It could well be... Maybe even Susan McCann? What about Gloria? "
........are you name dropping mac?  |
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.." ....is that a philomena begley song?....can't say I know it?
It could well be... Maybe even Susan McCann? What about Gloria? ........are you name dropping mac? "
I was trying but I can't remember any others
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By (user no longer on site)
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" she's straight and she doesn't have a high sex drive and you want her to play with a lady??? Seriously get a grip! .....ah but sometimes no means yes... ..
"Anyone for the rape game? No?
That's the spirit! "
Don't. .....................stop
Don't. ....................stop
Don't. ...................stop
Don't. ..................stop
Don't. .......... .....stop
Don't. ...............stop
Don't ...............stop
Dont...............stop
Dont stop dont stop dont stop.....aaaaaahh....like that mick?
I was afraid you were going to sing "don't stop beleeeeivin.." ....is that a philomena begley song?....can't say I know it?
It could well be... Maybe even Susan McCann? What about Gloria? ........are you name dropping mac?
I was trying but I can't remember any others
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....did you shag any of them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Has anyone any advice on how to gently ease my very sexy wife into playing with a lady. She enjoys the social side of swinging at the moment "
As others have said, you can't 'ease' her into it. She'll either do it because she wants to, or she won't because she doesn't want to. It's good that you're open enough with each other to discuss you meeting other people, so maybe she'll change her mind at some point. But it's entirely her choice.
Do you think she'll mind you've posted this? |
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"If you didnt like anal could she gently ease you into it so to speak lol
...or ease it into you! 
I was being polite 
I expected no less! "
If I was his wife I wouldnt even use lube on him |
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"Has anyone any advice on how to gently ease my very sexy wife into playing with a lady. She enjoys the social side of swinging at the moment "
If she ain't bi-curious or bisexual she won't play with women and no point trying unless she turns to you and tells you she wants to try playing with a lady |
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"If you didnt like anal could she gently ease you into it so to speak lol
...or ease it into you!
I was being polite
I expected no less!
If I was his wife I wouldnt even use lube on him "
Phwooarr! Filthy bitch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you didnt like anal could she gently ease you into it so to speak lol
...or ease it into you!
I was being polite
I expected no less!
If I was his wife I wouldnt even use lube on him "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you didnt like anal could she gently ease you into it so to speak lol
...or ease it into you!
I was being polite
I expected no less!
If I was his wife I wouldnt even use lube on him
Phwooarr! Filthy bitch! "
awe well maybe a little spit just to ease it in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for the honest replies. First time using this Forum. Realise now how really lucky I am . The wrong choice of words can really bring out the worst or best in us .Its nice to see things from everyones perspective. I agree now that everything is best left as it is. What will be will be . |
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