had potential to attend a small gathering recently which was being organised by a well verified swinger. conversed on fone on a couple of occasions as well as 28 messages over and back only to be let down at the last minute with a text message.
the gathering went ahead but put alot of effort into conversing and doing everything right to ensure one got an invite. manys a talk here about timewasters etc but when its a well verified person who is doing the letting down then maybe people should look at themselves and try and encourage people rather than act like they are God almighty with all this "power". anyone any thoughts. |
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"had potential to attend a small gathering recently which was being organised by a well verified swinger. conversed on fone on a couple of occasions as well as 28 messages over and back only to be let down at the last minute with a text message.
the gathering went ahead but put alot of effort into conversing and doing everything right to ensure one got an invite. manys a talk here about timewasters etc but when its a well verified person who is doing the letting down then maybe people should look at themselves and try and encourage people rather than act like they are God almighty with all this "power". anyone any thoughts."
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"had potential to attend a small gathering recently which was being organised by a well verified swinger. conversed on fone on a couple of occasions as well as 28 messages over and back only to be let down at the last minute with a text message.
the gathering went ahead but put alot of effort into conversing and doing everything right to ensure one got an invite. manys a talk here about timewasters etc but when its a well verified person who is doing the letting down then maybe people should look at themselves and try and encourage people rather than act like they are God almighty with all this "power". anyone any thoughts."
Onward and upward mate. Consider it their loss. |
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just frustrating like..
im no adonis but have plenty of experience in organising me own meets and trying to get in the scene more but its the effort over and back etc.
cest la vie tho.
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"had potential to attend a small gathering recently which was being organised by a well verified swinger. conversed on fone on a couple of occasions as well as 28 messages over and back only to be let down at the last minute with a text message.
the gathering went ahead but put alot of effort into conversing and doing everything right to ensure one got an invite. manys a talk here about timewasters etc but when its a well verified person who is doing the letting down then maybe people should look at themselves and try and encourage people rather than act like they are God almighty with all this "power". anyone any thoughts."
The simple solution is to organise you own party and than then gives you total control over the situation. |
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"had potential to attend a small gathering recently which was being organised by a well verified swinger. conversed on fone on a couple of occasions as well as 28 messages over and back only to be let down at the last minute with a text message.
the gathering went ahead but put alot of effort into conversing and doing everything right to ensure one got an invite. manys a talk here about timewasters etc but when its a well verified person who is doing the letting down then maybe people should look at themselves and try and encourage people rather than act like they are God almighty with all this "power". anyone any thoughts."
I think you upset some of the clique with those comments. |
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If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
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"If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
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couldn't have put it better...BUT as far as I can gather this may have been an mmmf meet so perhaps the lady had the final say and I wouldn't disagree with that either if that's what happened. |
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"If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
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"If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
couldn't have put it better...BUT as far as I can gather this may have been an mmmf meet so perhaps the lady had the final say and I wouldn't disagree with that either if that's what happened."
Oh completely. Who ever arranges the meet has final say end of story be they malevolent female. I suppose it just depends on what we find an acceptable length of time to string someone along before dropping them. Hard to judge without knowing time lines etc |
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"If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
couldn't have put it better...BUT as far as I can gather this may have been an mmmf meet so perhaps the lady had the final say and I wouldn't disagree with that either if that's what happened."
If it was a case of an mmmf then the lady has the right in my eyes to go with whom she feels comfortable with and you just gotta move on and try again later |
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"If was a case of we will keep you on the list until someone better comes along its a fairly shit thing to do and that spounds like the case. Don't go name dropping as you will earn yourself a ban and frankly it's not worth a ban for someone who fucks people about. Experienced swinger or not its a pain in the ass trying to make the time for meets only to be dropped on a whim.
Take note a lot here will say it's sour grapes on your part because you're not a fab legend. Chin up fella, there plenty of great people her willing to take the chance but even more who will you to shreds at every chance
couldn't have put it better...BUT as far as I can gather this may have been an mmmf meet so perhaps the lady had the final say and I wouldn't disagree with that either if that's what happened.
Oh completely. Who ever arranges the meet has final say end of story be they malevolent female. I suppose it just depends on what we find an acceptable length of time to string someone along before dropping them. Hard to judge without knowing time lines etc"
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