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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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How many chances do people give.
A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many chances do people give.
A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?"
You're right - three times!!! That's awful.
Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many chances do people give.
A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?
You're right - three times!!! That's awful.
Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would see it as a sign of disrespect to be cancelled on that many times. Move on in situations like that if you have any respect for yourself. It would have to be a solid gold excuse to go for a fourth rejection |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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I've given second chances a few times but I'd not go out of my way the second time, if they want to rearrange then they can work around my schedule (if I'm willing to risk being stood up or cancelled on again) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many chances do people give.
A friend of mine has been cancelled on by the same guy three times. I told her after the first maybe second one id have blocked him but im told im too harsh so how many chances do people give ?
You're right - three times!!! That's awful.
Cancel once, shame on you. Cancel twice, shame on me. That's my policy. "
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they cancel once my interest dwindles automatically I'm afraid but then again I've had to cancel myself on an occasion or two so I guess it's fair game either way
But 3 times well then they're just looking for a slap of the block button lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt "
Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt
Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong. "
Whoah Kaizer never cancelled 3 times  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt
Not more than twice oh wise one! You should know better  "
No way, delete and block. Plenty more out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Shit happens and life gets in the way everyone deserves the benefit of the doubt
Organise your time, finances and be realistic when you set a date for a meet... I think cancel 3 times you must be doing something wrong.
Whoah Kaizer never cancelled 3 times "
Ohhh OK, good to know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.
Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have a rule, would depend on the meet, if I knew him and what the reason was and if I believed him or not. I've had to cancel laids of times coz of work. Shit happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.
Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room. "
Ouch!
Once is allowed, as people have said, anything can happen and if it's a valid reason rescheduling shouldn't be a problem. If they fail to turn up the second time, kick them to the kerb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah I suppose, if someone cancelled on me three times, I'd be like, "yeah, they're just not that into me" and move on, now I've had to cancel a meet. Once. Flights, hotel booked the lot, and I had to cancel, but with plenty of notice, like three weeks or more notice.
Now I've had one or two meets cancel on me, in fairness they did give notice, not much but at least they didn't leave me sitting in the hotel lobby waiting on them, they just left me with the bill for the room.
Ouch!
Once is allowed, as people have said, anything can happen and if it's a valid reason rescheduling shouldn't be a problem. If they fail to turn up the second time, kick them to the kerb "
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Three times is a tad to much on the trot 