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" Most of the messages I receive are from men who have profiles that say they are Straight When I ask why don,t they say they are at least Bi-curios they invariably say" o if women find out they are Bi they will have nothing to do with them" which seems to me to be totally against the spirit of swinging So is this true! or just a sign that some men are afraid to accept their own sexuality " Probably afraid to accept it maybe,,,, I get a lot of message from guys who have 'straight' on their profile,,, when I point that out they say it's because some women and couples won't meet if their bisexual or bicurious,, I simply say that's fine and thanks for message but not interested,, they come back to say they have had experiences with guys,,,, and that's fine but I wouldn't be interested in meeting a guy who says he's bisexual or bicurious and then has straight on their profile,, It's abit like them having their cake an eating it to,,, lying to themselves about their sexuality,,, lying to women that are really interested in bisexual or bicurious guys,,, or lying to women and couples who for their own reasons and preferences are not interested in meeting bisexual or bicurious guys if their really either of the above Everyone has their own preferences on here and the women and couples who aren't interested in bisexual or bicurious guys are entitled to have that preference and I think their the ones being lied to more when it comes to this subject matter and makes you wonder if ppl lie about their sexuality to get Into bed with someone what else are they lying about. | |||
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"There's also the fact that STIs are reported to be way higher amongst the MSM group..." True as is the stigma of gays,, bisexuals ect,, more so if male,,,, but with it being a swingers sex site I don't think this stigma is isolated to just those who are bisexual and males,,,, you don't have to be a bisexual male or female to carry an sti,, straight ppl carry them to,, and up to each person themselves to protect themselves. But the guys with 'straight' on their profile and meeting guys/tv's/cds then that's not right when meeting fems/cpls who Aren't into bisexual/bicurious guys,,,, be honest with your sexuality so ppl have an informed choice as to a yes or no would like to meet you | |||
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" Most of the messages I receive are from men who have profiles that say they are Straight When I ask why don,t they say they are at least Bi-curios they invariably say" o if women find out they are Bi they will have nothing to do with them" which seems to me to be totally against the spirit of swinging So is this true! or just a sign that some men are afraid to accept their own sexuality Probably afraid to accept it maybe,,,, I get a lot of message from guys who have 'straight' on their profile,,, when I point that out they say it's because some women and couples won't meet if their bisexual or bicurious,, I simply say that's fine and thanks for message but not interested,, they come back to say they have had experiences with guys,,,, and that's fine but I wouldn't be interested in meeting a guy who says he's bisexual or bicurious and then has straight on their profile,, It's abit like them having their cake an eating it to,,, lying to themselves about their sexuality,,, lying to women that are really interested in bisexual or bicurious guys,,, or lying to women and couples who for their own reasons and preferences are not interested in meeting bisexual or bicurious guys if their really either of the above Everyone has their own preferences on here and the women and couples who aren't interested in bisexual or bicurious guys are entitled to have that preference and I think their the ones being lied to more when it comes to this subject matter and makes you wonder if ppl lie about their sexuality to get Into bed with someone what else are they lying about. " This is exactly my view on the matter too. I get messages, pm's from blokes that have straight in their profiles and in their messages they want sex with me. All I can say is lads be truthful to yourselves and to others. Don't deny your sexuality, embrace it. | |||
