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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire

Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've a girlfriend, a stunner in exactly the same situation. I can't understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think the problem is they are actively looking for a boyfriend. You'll never find what you're looking for if you're always looking for it so to speak. A good relationship happens naturally. Tell her to stop looking, he'll come when she's ready.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"I've a girlfriend, a stunner in exactly the same situation. I can't understand it. "
I'd love to see her find someone nice, the dating sites are full of men just after sex! Not many decent guys out there who are looking for more than a shag!

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure"
surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've a girlfriend, a stunner in exactly the same situation. I can't understand it. I'd love to see her find someone nice, the dating sites are full of men just after sex! Not many decent guys out there who are looking for more than a shag!"

That's exactly what my friend says. All up for nsa only.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites?"

You just said they're all looking for sex on dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites?"
I sure have and on one at the minute tbh i think whats happened is for example you meet a guy out they like you take your number so all is goin good then what happens is the chance is that guy has 1 or more app on his phone like a dating app my motto is theres always a message in the inbox.

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites?

You just said they're all looking for sex on dating sites "

that's what she's found, just wondering if you've had similar experiences?

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites? I sure have and on one at the minute tbh i think whats happened is for example you meet a guy out they like you take your number so all is goin good then what happens is the chance is that guy has 1 or more app on his phone like a dating app my motto is theres always a message in the inbox."
I was on tinder when I was single and saw loads of attached men that I knew on it, it put me off. However I did meet my current boyfriend on plenty of fish but I had to kiss a few frogs before I met my prince!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok

.im giving a male perspective on this...and I'm leaving the site this year as I am sick of 'The chase'...aswell..so ill experience some of their issues I'm sure

..women in modern times have become empowered, this is great, equality shouldn't be earned, it should be a given...im all for it...but my experience is that whilst single ladies are often empowered to a point, they still feel the need to play hard to get, be coy, keep guys guessing and often...at the end of a very long string, either because they don't wish to commit, or emotionally they are afraid to actually verbalise how they feel, the fear that telling a guy how you feel may make him run for the hills. Most of this I accepted when I was a young man in student bars...but for ladies of the same generation to still live in emotional terror...well..i find it unattractive but exceptionally common...so tell your friends, if they meet a nice guy...frickin tell him...men have had to do this for centuries and accept the consequences...its increasingly common that people find it difficult to be honest about their emotions face to fave it seems

Somewhat suicidal this as I'm sure many will take what they want out of black and white as usual...but..hey...fortune favours the brave..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd be a hopeless rosemantic but I gave up years ago after a spell on pof. Maybe the dating sites you pay a fortune for to help you find someone work I don't know. Watched how to do single last night it sorta has it nailed

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites? I sure have and on one at the minute tbh i think whats happened is for example you meet a guy out they like you take your number so all is goin good then what happens is the chance is that guy has 1 or more app on his phone like a dating app my motto is theres always a message in the inbox.I was on tinder when I was single and saw loads of attached men that I knew on it, it put me off. However I did meet my current boyfriend on plenty of fish but I had to kiss a few frogs before I met my prince!"
Im on that now and alot of the men from are on it claiming to want a relationship but they dont really .And thats fine if they dont but what annoys me is they have diwn seeking a relationship just be honest and say not seeking a relationship so i can avoid

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tried a dating site but full of people from here. I've kinda given up on meeting someone tbh. However I'm not deflecting the blame, it would take a certain man to be able for me. I'm a complex woman

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!"

I met Mr Jasper,on POF, nearly 2 yrs ago...I had been on POF,for about 2yrs,before that...Had all but given up hope,then JP msg'd me,an we went on a date,an the rest is history as they say...I was goin to cancel my POF acc,that day he msg'd,im glad i didnt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Surely every man is looking for the one girl who they want to spend the rest of there life with nsa is grand for a bit of fun but it can't be what ya want for ever?

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!

I met Mr Jasper,on POF, nearly 2 yrs ago...I had been on POF,for about 2yrs,before that...Had all but given up hope,then JP msg'd me,an we went on a date,an the rest is history as they say...I was goin to cancel my POF acc,that day he msg'd,im glad i didnt "

Aw, that's so sweet looks like it was faith! I had so many doggy dates and I was beginning to loose hope too. It's so disheartening when men just try to use you. There are a lot of beautiful women that they are missing out on by acting like dicks! My boyfriend worships me like a queen....so I worship him in the bedroom

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Surely every man is looking for the one girl who they want to spend the rest of there life with nsa is grand for a bit of fun but it can't be what ya want for ever?"
so are you looking for your Mrs right?

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By *ean0001Man  over a year ago

Dublin West

Spent time on a couple of dating sites only to be stood up and messed around multiple times so my experience is there are as many female messers out there as there are males.

Most not interested in me as I have a couple of kids and they didn't want the baggage as some told me.

I got so fed up in the end I gave up and deleted my profile from them all.

You have to get lucky I suppose and I just didnt. Might try again when my kids are a bit older and I am less in daddy mode.

I think it's hard for people to meet others these days.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure surely there are men out there wanting more! Have you tried dating sites?

You just said they're all looking for sex on dating sites that's what she's found, just wondering if you've had similar experiences?"

Yep, 99% seem to just want sex. Basing that on stints on PoF and Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!

I met Mr Jasper,on POF, nearly 2 yrs ago...I had been on POF,for about 2yrs,before that...Had all but given up hope,then JP msg'd me,an we went on a date,an the rest is history as they say...I was goin to cancel my POF acc,that day he msg'd,im glad i didnt Aw, that's so sweet looks like it was faith! I had so many doggy dates and I was beginning to loose hope too. It's so disheartening when men just try to use you. There are a lot of beautiful women that they are missing out on by acting like dicks! My boyfriend worships me like a queen....so I worship him in the bedroom "

Damn straight girl,if they keep you happy,you gotta keep them happy...Although,i think im more sex mad than him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surely every man is looking for the one girl who they want to spend the rest of there life with nsa is grand for a bit of fun but it can't be what ya want for ever?so are you looking for your Mrs right?"

Ya if she comes along I'd jump at the chance

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!

I met Mr Jasper,on POF, nearly 2 yrs ago...I had been on POF,for about 2yrs,before that...Had all but given up hope,then JP msg'd me,an we went on a date,an the rest is history as they say...I was goin to cancel my POF acc,that day he msg'd,im glad i didnt Aw, that's so sweet looks like it was faith! I had so many doggy dates and I was beginning to loose hope too. It's so disheartening when men just try to use you. There are a lot of beautiful women that they are missing out on by acting like dicks! My boyfriend worships me like a queen....so I worship him in the bedroom

Damn straight girl,if they keep you happy,you gotta keep them happy...Although,i think im more sex mad than him "

I'm the same, I'm horny all the time, especially in this weather, I jump on him every chance I get, the minute he touches me I'm on it like a car bonnet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!

I met Mr Jasper,on POF, nearly 2 yrs ago...I had been on POF,for about 2yrs,before that...Had all but given up hope,then JP msg'd me,an we went on a date,an the rest is history as they say...I was goin to cancel my POF acc,that day he msg'd,im glad i didnt Aw, that's so sweet looks like it was faith! I had so many doggy dates and I was beginning to loose hope too. It's so disheartening when men just try to use you. There are a lot of beautiful women that they are missing out on by acting like dicks! My boyfriend worships me like a queen....so I worship him in the bedroom

Damn straight girl,if they keep you happy,you gotta keep them happy...Although,i think im more sex mad than him I'm the same, I'm horny all the time, especially in this weather, I jump on him every chance I get, the minute he touches me I'm on it like a car bonnet "

Bahaha,im on at him,every chance i get...We dont get to see each other that often,cos of work n kids,but a woman has needs

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I don't believe there's a shortage of decent blokes maybe your friend is just looking in the wrong places or going after the wrong type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've a girlfriend, a stunner in exactly the same situation. I can't understand it. I'd love to see her find someone nice, the dating sites are full of men just after sex! Not many decent guys out there who are looking for more than a shag!"

Looks like Selma Hayek you say. Sounds promising

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By *entleman36Man  over a year ago

dublin

There are decent blokes out there, its just women on dating sites are picky who they respond too.

Women say they want a decent man but they go by looks, what a guys job is, kids/no kids, if a guy is separated or not

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think a lot of this has to do with disco not playing slow sets any more

It all went down hill from there

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bring back the slow sets ..

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire

Maybe looks for a ride but when it comes to a relationship it's all about personality!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe looks for a ride but when it comes to a relationship it's all about personality!"

I agree wit ye there...Personality over takes anything,when in a relationship...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Going on a girlie night out on Saturday and I'm 'wing woman' for one of my best friends. She is absolutely stunning, looks like Selma Hayek. She's looking for boyfriend material now, she's sick of being single but is finding it hard to meet a decent man. Is this a common problem? Are men happier with casual sex or do they prefer a relationship? She's such a catch, intelligent, sweet, energetic and creative but she can't find her Mr Right!"

Bring her in here, at least she can have some wild fun whilst looking?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Maybe looks for a ride but when it comes to a relationship it's all about personality!"
...give her my number...I'm a decent fella... Who just happens to be a manslut

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By *unlinguyMan  over a year ago

South Dublin


"I've a girlfriend, a stunner in exactly the same situation. I can't understand it. I'd love to see her find someone nice, the dating sites are full of men just after sex! Not many decent guys out there who are looking for more than a shag!"

Introduce her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a single gf who is exactly the same. Gorgeous, independent, funny and just the loveliest girl you could meet. The weirdest thing is she hasn't had a bf in over ten years and she really wants to settle down.. Tick tock!

However....: when she meets someone online I watch her quickly turn into a bunny boiler . Checks constantly if he's online... Obsesses over every message and doubts every thing they say.

I try to tell her to chill out but I think she's just a victim of the modern online dating world. You meet one or two who pretend to be nice and turn out to be users... Then you assume the rest are the same.

That's why I like fab.... No ne

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Sorry hit send! Lol

No need to lie or lead anyone on. Just be honest and hope you met someone wand same thing as you.

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

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"I have a single gf who is exactly the same. Gorgeous, independent, funny and just the loveliest girl you could meet. The weirdest thing is she hasn't had a bf in over ten years and she really wants to settle down.. Tick tock!

However....: when she meets someone online I watch her quickly turn into a bunny boiler . Checks constantly if he's online... Obsesses over every message and doubts every thing they say.

I try to tell her to chill out but I think she's just a victim of the modern online dating world. You meet one or two who pretend to be nice and turn out to be users... Then you assume the rest are the same.

That's why I like fab.... No ne"

There many other ways to get dating going rather than the internet. It's a known fact that sites such as tinder and p o f are pick up sites for NSA fun, you might be lucky to find the one but the chances are rather small. Also it's known for attracting all sorts of people. With the social media era in full swing, loads of people seem to have lost the wisdom of socialising in a conventional way....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a single gf who is exactly the same. Gorgeous, independent, funny and just the loveliest girl you could meet. The weirdest thing is she hasn't had a bf in over ten years and she really wants to settle down.. Tick tock!

However....: when she meets someone online I watch her quickly turn into a bunny boiler . Checks constantly if he's online... Obsesses over every message and doubts every thing they say.

I try to tell her to chill out but I think she's just a victim of the modern online dating world. You meet one or two who pretend to be nice and turn out to be users... Then you assume the rest are the same.

That's why I like fab.... No ne

There many other ways to get dating going rather than the internet. It's a known fact that sites such as tinder and p o f are pick up sites for NSA fun, you might be lucky to find the one but the chances are rather small. Also it's known for attracting all sorts of people. With the social media era in full swing, loads of people seem to have lost the wisdom of socialising in a conventional way...."

So you've seen the couples or even groups that are together but all on their phones as well?

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

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"I have a single gf who is exactly the same. Gorgeous, independent, funny and just the loveliest girl you could meet. The weirdest thing is she hasn't had a bf in over ten years and she really wants to settle down.. Tick tock!

However....: when she meets someone online I watch her quickly turn into a bunny boiler . Checks constantly if he's online... Obsesses over every message and doubts every thing they say.

I try to tell her to chill out but I think she's just a victim of the modern online dating world. You meet one or two who pretend to be nice and turn out to be users... Then you assume the rest are the same.

That's why I like fab.... No ne

There many other ways to get dating going rather than the internet. It's a known fact that sites such as tinder and p o f are pick up sites for NSA fun, you might be lucky to find the one but the chances are rather small. Also it's known for attracting all sorts of people. With the social media era in full swing, loads of people seem to have lost the wisdom of socialising in a conventional way....

So you've seen the couples or even groups that are together but all on their phones as well? "

Maybe to join a boxing club is the way to go, it's rather tricky to type with the gloves on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a single gf who is exactly the same. Gorgeous, independent, funny and just the loveliest girl you could meet. The weirdest thing is she hasn't had a bf in over ten years and she really wants to settle down.. Tick tock!

However....: when she meets someone online I watch her quickly turn into a bunny boiler . Checks constantly if he's online... Obsesses over every message and doubts every thing they say.

I try to tell her to chill out but I think she's just a victim of the modern online dating world. You meet one or two who pretend to be nice and turn out to be users... Then you assume the rest are the same.

That's why I like fab.... No ne

There many other ways to get dating going rather than the internet. It's a known fact that sites such as tinder and p o f are pick up sites for NSA fun, you might be lucky to find the one but the chances are rather small. Also it's known for attracting all sorts of people. With the social media era in full swing, loads of people seem to have lost the wisdom of socialising in a conventional way...."

Oh I know. She just can't seem to find anyone when we are out. She's got lots of lad friends and I think they just see her as a friend rather than prospect.

Early 30's and seriously worried she won't meet anyone. It's the main focus of any night out now. I'm happy to be wing women now and again but I don't chase ever. I don't see the point.

I think maybe guys just think wow she's Gorgous and don't approach her... Or they have a radar for women that want more and avoid!?

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By *ildaremaleMan  over a year ago

athy

I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at!

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By *ildaremaleMan  over a year ago

athy


"I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at! "
bring back the slow set!!

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at! bring back the slow set!!"
Aw that's so cute, that's usually when I went to the toilet to fix me lippy

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By *ildaremaleMan  over a year ago

athy


"I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at! bring back the slow set!!Aw that's so cute, that's usually when I went to the toilet to fix me lippy. "

Did u make out for a dance and kiss?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Im in the same boat ladies looking mr right and so far men only want casual sex i blame social media. Makes me think romance is dead.Its a sign times have changed for sure"

Snap

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By *oupleuncut OP   Couple  over a year ago

dun laoghaire


"I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at! bring back the slow set!!Aw that's so cute, that's usually when I went to the toilet to fix me lippy.

Did u make out for a dance and kiss? "

Nah,I was the one snogging in dark corners and copping a feel!

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By *ildaremaleMan  over a year ago

athy


"I have been looking for a relationship in the past tried dating sites but never meet the one so gave up on it. As someone already said u'll never find something ur looking just let it happen so that's what I'm at! bring back the slow set!!Aw that's so cute, that's usually when I went to the toilet to fix me lippy.

Did u make out for a dance and kiss? Nah,I was the one snogging in dark corners and copping a feel!"

The lucky guy ??

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By *hocko87Man  over a year ago

dublin

A lot of guys put themselfs down saying she won't want me , she far to nice n don't even try to make contact . I was chatting to a real tall young lady n she said d same guys r afraid to ask her out cos she's so tall n she very nice looking lady .

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