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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? "
If the profile says not meeting, how are they timewasters? They've already told you not to send a message, they haven't wasted your time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ?
If the profile says not meeting, how are they timewasters? They've already told you not to send a message, they haven't wasted your time. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People can use the site however they choose,I go through periods of being unable to meet, real life comes first, it doesn't make me a timewaster. It's a no win, we don't answer mails we are rude, we do answer and chat but don't instantly want to meet the guy we are a timewaster.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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People have profiles on here sayin not meeting ok people who have met n need to take a break ok ... but seriously like why join have no verify's n still say not meeting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Red i seriously don't mean it like that kno the girls on here get a ton of messages n goes without saying if you not attracted to that person deleting is easier I just meant why join here n have no intention of meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Red i seriously don't mean it like that kno the girls on here get a ton of messages n goes without saying if you not attracted to that person deleting is easier I just meant why join here n have no intention of meeting "
I have no idea to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can use the site however they choose,I go through periods of being unable to meet, real life comes first, it doesn't make me a timewaster. It's a no win, we don't answer mails we are rude, we do answer and chat but don't instantly want to meet the guy we are a timewaster. "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just seems like a waste ... guess it all goes back to fake profiles "
Some people just like to chat with likeminded people, the forum is a good place for this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I said I understand people can't meet all the time seems to be a bit of confusion I meant people clearly stating not meeting .... not people that have in the past n need a break or can't cause we all have a life outside of here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I said I understand people can't meet all the time seems to be a bit of confusion I meant people clearly stating not meeting .... not people that have in the past n need a break or can't cause we all have a life outside of here "
If people join here and just want to chat to people, have a nose around or just use the forums then so be it. Shouldn't affect you really. Just steer clear of them  |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? "
I have not meeting up... doesn't mean I'm a time waster. .. It means I have personal reasons why I'm not meeting at the minute !!! |
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"People have profiles on here sayin not meeting ok people who have met n need to take a break ok ... but seriously like why join have no verify's n still say not meeting "
They are adults .. They can do what they like |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like anything else it's a preference of theirs.
Some may be returnees simply looking to keep in touch with friends, some will enjoy the banter on the forums, some will just enjoy chatting and getting to know new people and others will just want to take their time with regards to meeting or just see if the site is for them; even take a break from it all.
If you're looking to meet someone then the profiles not fitting that preference should be of no concern. Just like if some ask for face pics in a first message and you're not comfortable with it, just move on.
Time spent questioning someone's preferences could be time spent seeking someone's you fit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? "
I have met a few girl's in the past with not meeting on there profile,dont give up on them.
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By *ain4uWoman
over a year ago
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"Like anything else it's a preference of theirs.
Some may be returnees simply looking to keep in touch with friends, some will enjoy the banter on the forums, some will just enjoy chatting and getting to know new people and others will just want to take their time with regards to meeting or just see if the site is for them; even take a break from it all.
If you're looking to meet someone then the profiles not fitting that preference should be of no concern. Just like if some ask for face pics in a first message and you're not comfortable with it, just move on.
Time spent questioning someone's preferences could be time spent seeking someone's you fit "
Yes exactly. .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you've described isn't a time waster. In my opinion a time waster is someone who is almost 100% certain he can meet for coffee the next day. Says he'll text in the morning to either confirm or say he can't make it so as not to keep you waiting. Then logs off for four weeks |
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"What you've described isn't a time waster. In my opinion a time waster is someone who is almost 100% certain he can meet for coffee the next day. Says he'll text in the morning to either confirm or say he can't make it so as not to keep you waiting. Then logs off for four weeks "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? "
text arrange to meet then nothing ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not time wasting unless they say they will meet but then don't.
If you only find out after a week that they are not meeting, it's not their fault, if meeting is that important to you then start your conversations saying so.
"I am here to meet, and don't want to waste my time talking to anyone who wont meet me".
Try that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? I have met a few girl's in the past with not meeting on there profile,dont give up on them."
......good man.....encourage them why don't you. .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a site for meeting and having fun lately I'm lookin at profiles saying not meeting if people don't want to meet why are they on here ?? Would it not suit them better to call a chat line ? Does anybody else agree with me ? I have met a few girl's in the past with not meeting on there profile,dont give up on them.......good man.....encourage them why don't you. .... "
I can see a few men getting blocked if they go down that route lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People sat they won't meet up if your not verified ... how do you get verified if people won't meet up haha .
It is not allowed to ask this question  ?????
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"People can use the site however they choose"
The evergreen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had the same problem. We are a m/for couple and are looking to meet a single female only. We get chatting and arrange a meet then all of a sudden they stop chatting and hide profile. We have had picture and video collectors. We haven't even booked hotel and the other female offered to pay half. Just when we think allspice going great we keep getting dropped! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not meeting for a few weeks. Should I delete my profile?
A time waster doesn't tell you or say it on they're profile that they're not meeting, they string you along |
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