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over a year ago
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What do you consider cheating? Where do you draw the line?
1) Your partner on here with an account you don't know about?
2) Your partner sending/asking for pictures from someone else without you knowing?
3) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from facebook.
4) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from here.
5) The moment they kiss
6) Not until they actually have sex with someone else.
7) Not until they have done all of the above with multiple people.
For me I would say intent to cheat starts at 1, but its not cheating till 5 or 6. Although in certain circumstances I would consider 2 cheating, for example if they swore blind to me when directly questioned about it that they didnt send/ask for pictures. |
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There's nothing more heartbreaking than finding out the person you love is cheating on you. You are never the same person again and the pain you feel is almost physical. I would hate to think I could be capable of inflicting that pain onto someone I care about. If you fall out of love then it is kinder to just walk away and leave the relationship with the persons respect and your own dignity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of them. The moment they show any interest in someone (and in my case I don't know about it) then it's cheating. If you're not happy with someone say something. It's not worth the long term hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sometimes we fall for the person someone could be, rather than who they are. We see the best in them and their potential.
Normally when we are breaking up, or we get cheated on, it's because the person can never be the person we think they can be.
Sometimes they are broken, sometimes they are just playing a game, whatever the reason they are not who we thought in our heads.
So try not to be too heart broken if someone cheats on you. Just accept they are not the person you thought they were. Feel proud that you gave them a chance to be that person, and try go out and give someone new that same chance, to be the awesome person you know they can be, a person that will rock your socks off and make you happy.
anyway. thats all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Cheaters at Number 1 for me...
Don't care if it's a swinging site and people stuck in a "sexless" marriage! It's still cheating in every way and people I think turning a blind eye to knowingly get with married people are just as bad.
Be more of a bigger person to walk away from a relationship instead of lying and cheating |
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"Cheaters at Number 1 for me...
Don't care if it's a swinging site and people stuck in a "sexless" marriage! It's still cheating in every way and people I think turning a blind eye to knowingly get with married people are just as bad.
Be more of a bigger person to walk away from a relationship instead of lying and cheating "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd say most men and maybe women have opened an account of some sort out of curiosity though. When I was married I was disgusted to find my other half watching porn ( he wouldn't watch it with me) and I felt intimidated at the time. I think people need something maybe of their own not entirely to cheat but for them to feel like them and not just a couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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theres an assumption that everyone here is somehow attached ..as if a swinging mindset is reserved for cheats , liars and those playing without permission . But .. spare a thought for those of us genuinely single , who do not like to wittingly or unwittingly aid and abet people to cheat . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's cheating from the start, doing anything behind somebodies back is cheating, but people are people, and everyone has a different perspective on what's ok, there's probably more cheating people on here than non-cheating...maybe half and half actually meeting...I wouldn't say people should start splitting up long term relationships and families because they are hanging out on a swinging site for what might be a month, a year, five or ten....people had affairs and cheated long before the internet came about, and they didn't always split up, you could say and hear that cheaters are always cheaters, what should they do, come clean about the swing sites and split up, play around, get with somebody and do it all over again and again...it's in their nature.....their head works that way and thinks it's rationally fine. |
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People dont intentionally set out to cheat. Circumstance happens that make them cheat.its nothing got to do with statistics or robotic behaviour . Its down to individuals who probably still love their partner but want to experience something else or different. I think the lovely Sandra Minx Mark summed it up very well last week. |
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"People dont intentionally set out to cheat. Circumstance happens that make them cheat.its nothing got to do with statistics or robotic behaviour . Its down to individuals who probably still love their partner but want to experience something else or different. I think the lovely Sandra Minx Mark summed it up very well last week. "
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"...individuals who probably still love their partner but want to experience something else or different....
...and then set out to cheat."
I am not a cheater but from what i see here..its the judgemental people who have the issue with the said cheater. Go figure that one. This site is great for finger pointing and passing judgemental remarks. Some are bitter towards it and some have a more understanding view of it.It depends of toleration of anothers behaviour. Will it affect you? Probably not..Will it hurt you?,again,probably not. Its usually those who've been cheated on have a strong opinion. I dont care if someones been cheated on or is the cheater. Im here for sex and not to pussyfoot around underlying emotions.
I appreciate your opinion but if its no direct bearing on you i dont get it. Sorry n all but thats just me. |
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"...individuals who probably still love their partner but want to experience something else or different....
...and then set out to cheat.
I am not a cheater but from what i see here..its the judgemental people who have the issue with the said cheater. Go figure that one. This site is great for finger pointing and passing judgemental remarks. Some are bitter towards it and some have a more understanding view of it.It depends of toleration of anothers behaviour. Will it affect you? Probably not..Will it hurt you?,again,probably not. Its usually those who've been cheated on have a strong opinion. I dont care if someones been cheated on or is the cheater. Im here for sex and not to pussyfoot around underlying emotions.
I appreciate your opinion but if its no direct bearing on you i dont get it. Sorry n all but thats just me. "
well said !!
Simply none of anyone's fucking business nor do I care. Funny thing is Ive found that it's the judgemental ones that have always turned out to be the bad eggs, the most dishonest and the poorest of character. (And that's from my own experiences) That and threads like this are just the usual boring drivvle 
I don't pass judgement on anyone. I'll form an opinion and that opinion I keep to myself and it's a pity others can't just do the same. |
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"Yes it's a sex site
But for me if your moral compass set the wrong way it's not attractive trait for me "
your moral compass? So mine is pointing a different direction to yours does that make me immoral or inhuman?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"...individuals who probably still love their partner but want to experience something else or different....
...and then set out to cheat.
I am not a cheater but from what i see here..its the judgemental people who have the issue with the said cheater. Go figure that one. This site is great for finger pointing and passing judgemental remarks. Some are bitter towards it and some have a more understanding view of it.It depends of toleration of anothers behaviour. Will it affect you? Probably not..Will it hurt you?,again,probably not. Its usually those who've been cheated on have a strong opinion. I dont care if someones been cheated on or is the cheater. Im here for sex and not to pussyfoot around underlying emotions.
I appreciate your opinion but if its no direct bearing on you i dont get it. Sorry n all but thats just me.
well said !!
Simply none of anyone's fucking business nor do I care. Funny thing is Ive found that it's the judgemental ones that have always turned out to be the bad eggs, the most dishonest and the poorest of character. (And that's from my own experiences) That and threads like this are just the usual boring drivvle
I don't pass judgement on anyone. I'll form an opinion and that opinion I keep to myself and it's a pity others can't just do the same."
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"What do you consider cheating? Where do you draw the line?
1) Your partner on here with an account you don't know about?
2) Your partner sending/asking for pictures from someone else without you knowing?
3) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from facebook.
4) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from here.
5) The moment they kiss
6) Not until they actually have sex with someone else.
7) Not until they have done all of the above with multiple people.
For me I would say intent to cheat starts at 1, but its not cheating till 5 or 6. Although in certain circumstances I would consider 2 cheating, for example if they swore blind to me when directly questioned about it that they didnt send/ask for pictures."
Awww I knew this would come back and bite you in the arse! . Your wonky carrots thread last year wasnt so wonky after all  and in all fairness darling,she was never your partner,she was someone elses.  . The psychoanalytic bullshit is still prevalent though
Nice to have you back again Nosafe
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I've never hidden the fact that I'm attached, I'm not on here to be judged,nobody knows other peoples circumstances,if people don't want to meet attached people that's fine,but I don't need a lecture about it |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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Cheating is the most decisive topic on here and people's opinions range from stone them to sure its only natural. Every knows my opinion that id rather have foreknowledge and the chance to refuse or carry on. But this thread isn't about if its right or wrong. Its about what constitutes cheating or when its classed as such. I think cheating begins at the point the person decides to do it. You dont have to do physical to cheat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never hidden the fact that I'm attached, I'm not on here to be judged,nobody knows other peoples circumstances,if people don't want to meet attached people that's fine,but I don't need a lecture about it"
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never hidden the fact that I'm attached, I'm not on here to be judged,nobody knows other peoples circumstances,if people don't want to meet attached people that's fine,but I don't need a lecture about it"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've never hidden the fact that I'm attached, I'm not on here to be judged,nobody knows other peoples circumstances,if people don't want to meet attached people that's fine,but I don't need a lecture about it"
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's amazing the amount of men on this site that post in these thread posts, that have such 'High morals' and would never meet a married or attached woman, yet I have received plenty of mails from them. I clearly state on my profile that I am married. No one knows my reasons for being here, and very few find out. My pussy, my business!!!  |
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People that choose to play on a site like this, know what they doing. Why give them the third degree? To be fair most outside a swingers site would not get there head around couples playing. Live and let live. It's no ones business what anyone does. If you not in favour of playing with a attached person move on to the next. No need to point out any thing. You shut your front door at night let them shut there's. |
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over a year ago
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"People that choose to play on a site like this, know what they doing. Why give them the third degree? To be fair most outside a swingers site would not get there head around couples playing. Live and let live. It's no ones business what anyone does. If you not in favour of playing with a attached person move on to the next. No need to point out any thing. You shut your front door at night let them shut there's. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We won't meet married or attached people. ..we think you're all vile and disgusting. ....spawns of satan really. ...unless of course you're a 6ft tall woman with 38dd+...and a penchant for mild bdsm....or a bi bbc...the rest of you. ..are go straight to hell... |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"People that choose to play on a site like this, know what they doing. Why give them the third degree? To be fair most outside a swingers site would not get there head around couples playing. Live and let live. It's no ones business what anyone does. If you not in favour of playing with a attached person move on to the next. No need to point out any thing. You shut your front door at night let them shut there's. "
Swinging and cheating aren't the same thing. It's no ones business what adults do together. Can hardly say that about a cheater |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Oh great, it's moralist Monday! What a way to start a fabulous week...seriously guys it's getting boring those threads. I think everyone who's a saint and on here deserves a big shiny medal! "
I try not intentionally hurt anyone ever. Do I get a medal? |
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"People that choose to play on a site like this, know what they doing. Why give them the third degree? To be fair most outside a swingers site would not get there head around couples playing. Live and let live. It's no ones business what anyone does. If you not in favour of playing with a attached person move on to the next. No need to point out any thing. You shut your front door at night let them shut there's.
Swinging and cheating aren't the same thing. It's no ones business what adults do together. Can hardly say that about a cheater"
yes I get that hal I'm talking outside the swinging world, I have vanilla friends that would not see the difference. |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"People that choose to play on a site like this, know what they doing. Why give them the third degree? To be fair most outside a swingers site would not get there head around couples playing. Live and let live. It's no ones business what anyone does. If you not in favour of playing with a attached person move on to the next. No need to point out any thing. You shut your front door at night let them shut there's.
Swinging and cheating aren't the same thing. It's no ones business what adults do together. Can hardly say that about a cheater yes I get that hal I'm talking outside the swinging world, I have vanilla friends that would not see the difference. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's amazing the amount of men on this site that post in these thread posts, that have such 'High morals' and would never meet a married or attached woman, yet I have received plenty of mails from them. I clearly state on my profile that I am married. No one knows my reasons for being here, and very few find out. My pussy, my business!!! "
Oh I know the feeling...
Like the guys who publicly on the forums call curvy women fatties with saggy tits then mail for a meet.... |
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"It's amazing the amount of men on this site that post in these thread posts, that have such 'High morals' and would never meet a married or attached woman, yet I have received plenty of mails from them. I clearly state on my profile that I am married. No one knows my reasons for being here, and very few find out. My pussy, my business!!!
Oh I know the feeling...
Like the guys who publicly on the forums call curvy women fatties with saggy tits then mail for a meet...."
...we like you're saggy tits annie....take no notice of them fuckers..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What do you consider cheating? Where do you draw the line?
1) Your partner on here with an account you don't know about?
2) Your partner sending/asking for pictures from someone else without you knowing?
3) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from facebook.
4) Your partner meeting up for a non sexual meet with someone from here.
5) The moment they kiss
6) Not until they actually have sex with someone else.
7) Not until they have done all of the above with multiple people.
For me I would say intent to cheat starts at 1, but its not cheating till 5 or 6. Although in certain circumstances I would consider 2 cheating, for example if they swore blind to me when directly questioned about it that they didnt send/ask for pictures."
It's all cheating as the ballad said it starts the min they kiss or fuck.say the person that has a couples acc. here meets women on the side for months but other side has no clue until he's caught. This is big time cheating what u think, ? |
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I'm a cheater. Does this make me a bad person? I don't think so.
I love my partner family home and life. I would never want to hurt him and never intend too.
However I also need sex and the excitement and satisfaction that brings me. I know this is a selfish way to be putting my own needs before others. Have i always been like this ? No but for now it's who I am.
I would never lie to a potential meet tho, I always disclose my status. |
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"It's all cheating as the ballad said it starts the min they kiss or fuck.say the person that has a couples acc. here meets women on the side for months but other side has no clue until he's caught. This is big time cheating what u think, ?"
I think its so strange when this happens, they are on a sex site, they can have sex with other people, but still cheat. I mean it could be a couple who are together and are cheating on a bf/gf at home, but are swing partners, but are also cheating on each other as swing partners.
bizarre situations can happen on here. |
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"It's all cheating as the ballad said it starts the min they kiss or fuck.say the person that has a couples acc. here meets women on the side for months but other side has no clue until he's caught. This is big time cheating what u think, ?
I think its so strange when this happens, they are on a sex site, they can have sex with other people, but still cheat. I mean it could be a couple who are together and are cheating on a bf/gf at home, but are swing partners, but are also cheating on each other as swing partners.
bizarre situations can happen on here."
There are very few coupes here in the greater scheme of things and what you might call bizarre is actually pretty normal, let us not forget where we are. If it was your GAA club it would be bizarre, all of the above is in fact normal here. People just like how comfortable the high horse feels and make an issue out off it |
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"I'm a cheater. Does this make me a bad person?"
No, for some people leaving a relationship is not possible. I always say "i would just leave", but that is with the reality of me never having a gf that I have been properly tied to (mortgage/family/something else).
I like to think I would last a long time in a sexless marriage, but have I ever been in one? no.
So don't take mine, or other peoples comments about not cheating to heart, we are living under a different set of circumstances.
I don't think anyone on here would rule out never ever being with a married person. Just they might say its not something they have done, or forsee happening in the immediate future. |
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"There are very few coupes here in the greater scheme of things and what you might call bizarre is actually pretty normal, let us not forget where we are. If it was your GAA club it would be bizarre, all of the above is in fact normal here. People just like how comfortable the high horse feels and make an issue out off it"
Just replying because of the high horse comment aimed at me.
How about you admit that although this isn't a gaa site, it's also not the famous cheating site you are implying it is.
Swinging = Couples sharing their husband/wife with another couple/single/attached-single. (granted singles also hook up on here with each other etc)
Nothing wrong with attached-singles at all.
But if you think its normal for an attached-single to start a swing couple and then cheat on that swing-couple they are part of? You think that's what this site was made for? |
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"It's amazing the amount of men on this site that post in these thread posts, that have such 'High morals' and would never meet a married or attached woman, yet I have received plenty of mails from them. I clearly state on my profile that I am married. No one knows my reasons for being here, and very few find out. My pussy, my business!!!
Oh I know the feeling...
Like the guys who publicly on the forums call curvy women fatties with saggy tits then mail for a meet.......we like you're saggy tits annie....take no notice of them fuckers..... "
Thanks guys... 
Ps...nice saggies  |
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"It's amazing the amount of men on this site that post in these thread posts, that have such 'High morals' and would never meet a married or attached woman, yet I have received plenty of mails from them. I clearly state on my profile that I am married. No one knows my reasons for being here, and very few find out. My pussy, my business!!!
Oh I know the feeling...
Like the guys who publicly on the forums call curvy women fatties with saggy tits then mail for a meet.......we like you're saggy tits annie....take no notice of them fuckers.....
Thanks guys...
Ps...nice saggies "
.....what kept you?...we thought you were losing you're edge. . |
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"I'm a cheater. Does this make me a bad person? I don't think so.
I love my partner family home and life. I would never want to hurt him and never intend too.
However I also need sex and the excitement and satisfaction that brings me. I know this is a selfish way to be putting my own needs before others. Have i always been like this ? No but for now it's who I am.
I would never lie to a potential meet tho, I always disclose my status. "
So a complete stranger gets the truth but your partner not so much. Did I understand that correctly? |
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"I'd say most men and maybe women have opened an account of some sort out of curiosity though. When I was married I was disgusted to find my other half watching porn ( he wouldn't watch it with me) and I felt intimidated at the time. I think people need something maybe of their own not entirely to cheat but for them to feel like them and not just a couple "
Misscar i will watch porn with you no problem ?????? |
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"I'm a cheater. Does this make me a bad person? I don't think so.
I love my partner family home and life. I would never want to hurt him and never intend too.
However I also need sex and the excitement and satisfaction that brings me. I know this is a selfish way to be putting my own needs before others. Have i always been like this ? No but for now it's who I am.
I would never lie to a potential meet tho, I always disclose my status. "
No your not a bad person and you may think your selfish I do not!
I don't think anyone has any right to judge you or anyone else on what goes on behind closed doors of a relationship, they are hard and tough!
I believe people can and are happy in a marriage where one of the them may be on a site such as this, sex alone necessarily doesn't mean a person cheats!
Lots of people consider emotional emails/texts with somebody a person has never met a former of cheating...
Obviously people who say so flippantly leave if your unhappy has never had the heartbreak of seeing your kids lives turned upside down...
Your nobody's keeper but your own
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Thanks guys...
Ps...nice saggies .....what kept you?...we thought you were losing you're edge. .
Boss was in today...
I had to "work" "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All of them , if your not happy then walk away , get a divorce . Cheaters and liars I've no respect for them and once a cheat always a cheat . What ever happened to morals and respect .. "
Yup cos life is that simple. Respect isn't something you gain from few throw away comments in a forum. You know most consider swinging morally wrong and disrespectful to the values that make up modern society and families but yeah know...we all twist things to suit our own moral stand point or personal situation. An opinion is all you are entitled to here, respect well it's hard to scoop up from horseback |
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If a partner is lying to me about their intimate interaction with another person, the trust and respect are gone from the relationship, without those, it's not worth having in my book. |
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"All of them , if your not happy then walk away , get a divorce . Cheaters and liars I've no respect for them and once a cheat always a cheat . What ever happened to morals and respect .. "
Yup whatever happened to morals and respect. Whatever happened to a woman been a proper woman and taking a beating when her husband came home. Whatever happened to respecting the authority of the church. He's a priest for fucks sake. How dare you question him. Whatever happened to women not having sex before marriage and how dare they tempt the poor innocent mens folk.
My dear. The site for the Catholic mothers of seven is two streets down on the left. Jesus wept. Oops sorry. Another black mark on my eternally damned soul |
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"All of them , if your not happy then walk away , get a divorce . Cheaters and liars I've no respect for them and once a cheat always a cheat . What ever happened to morals and respect ..
Yup whatever happened to morals and respect. Whatever happened to a woman been a proper woman and taking a beating when her husband came home. Whatever happened to respecting the authority of the church. He's a priest for fucks sake. How dare you question him. Whatever happened to women not having sex before marriage and how dare they tempt the poor innocent mens folk.
My dear. The site for the Catholic mothers of seven is two streets down on the left. Jesus wept. Oops sorry. Another black mark on my eternally damned soul "
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By *eanbanMan
over a year ago
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"There are very few coupes here in the greater scheme of things and what you might call bizarre is actually pretty normal, let us not forget where we are. If it was your GAA club it would be bizarre, all of the above is in fact normal here. People just like how comfortable the high horse feels and make an issue out off it
Just replying because of the high horse comment aimed at me.
How about you admit that although this isn't a gaa site, it's also not the famous cheating site you are implying it is.
Swinging = Couples sharing their husband/wife with another couple/single/attached-single. (granted singles also hook up on here with each other etc)
Nothing wrong with attached-singles at all.
But if you think its normal for an attached-single to start a swing couple and then cheat on that swing-couple they are part of? You think that's what this site was made for?"
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