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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi ya all. Being a bi lady on fab, i have experienced a lot of approaches for FFM. Whilst I can't speak for all ladies, i just thought I'd share what I believe is bad practice..and what not to do
Don't in first message to lady, ask for FFM
Don't need to tell lady FFM is on your fuckit list. Duh!!!
Just cos I have veris from sexy ladies, don't assume that is a green light for ffm with a guy neither of us have met (no point in looking at my profile, my veris now hidden for that reason)
Guys don't do all conversing for your lady friends
Guy saying I should message their lady friend because they are interested in a ffm.
Guy says his lady friend has never been with a lady, but wants her first time being a ffm..I not a guinea pig wanting an audience
Ladies don't ask me for ffm just to please your guy, you need to be willing participant
And never in your right mind think it is ok to share my pics with another lady without my consent...and don't try to make it right by sharing their pic with me..aagh
Never ever set up a 3 way chat on kik with another lady I don't know without so much as asking me
So what would be my advice then...
Don't make FFM your only goal. Have fun one to one with ladies, impress them and hopefully they will have sexy lady friends
If you are a couple,let the ladies chat
Can i just end with saying...this is my tuppences worth and I'm sure some ladies will beg to differ
And no guys have been hurt in this research...or maybe just their egos..
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By (user no longer on site)
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I so hate when a guy mails aski g u bi right well i have a fuck buddy who really would love to try it . When i get those kinda mails there deleted straight away  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I so hate when a guy mails aski g u bi right well i have a fuck buddy who really would love to try it . When i get those kinda mails there deleted straight away "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys should be made read this when they join "
...and yet we had two guy's yesterday. ..setting up gangbangs for their "friends"....and a woman? ...looking for another woman to keep her boyfriend company. ..While she went to work. ..ha ha.....when you're dealing with that kind of mentality. .....do you really think they're gonna read this thread. ..? Or more importantly. ...will any of it sink in.....the old joke.....whats the difference between an irishman and a computer. ..?...you only have to punch the information into a computer once....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Guys should be made read this when they join ...and yet we had two guy's yesterday. ..setting up gangbangs for their "friends"....and a woman? ...looking for another woman to keep her boyfriend company. ..While she went to work. ..ha ha.....when you're dealing with that kind of mentality. .....do you really think they're gonna read this thread. ..? Or more importantly. ...will any of it sink in.....the old joke.....whats the difference between an irishman and a computer. ..?...you only have to punch the information into a computer once.... "
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Personally, i don't see anything wrong with guy arranging gangbangs on ladies request or ladies seeking lady for their guy. Just think the dynamic of FFM needs the 2 ladies to connect on a level and that connection only possible when 2 ladies converse |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"Guys should be made read this when they join ...and yet we had two guy's yesterday. ..setting up gangbangs for their "friends"....and a woman? ...looking for another woman to keep her boyfriend company. ..While she went to work. ..ha ha.....when you're dealing with that kind of mentality. .....do you really think they're gonna read this thread. ..? Or more importantly. ...will any of it sink in.....the old joke.....whats the difference between an irishman and a computer. ..?...you only have to punch the information into a computer once.... .
Personally, i don't see anything wrong with guy arranging gangbangs on ladies request or ladies seeking lady for their guy. Just think the dynamic of FFM needs the 2 ladies to connect on a level and that connection only possible when 2 ladies converse "
Very good thread op!
Although I disagree with you're last statement there. When I meet a man I've to connect too, so his girlfriend can't organise the meet, beside that I would feel being regarded a free escort.
Given that it's sex (and not just drinking a coffee) and the amount of weirdos on here, I believe it's not a good idea to organise anything for someone else without their consent, everyone should have a say and all parties involved being on here represented in a profile. All those surprise stuff is a nice idea but given the nature of the beast, not a good idea. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO. "
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful "
Thanks Red Not a nice feeling
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
Thanks Red Not a nice feeling
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Although have to say some good can come of it. A guy suggested a sexy lady for ffm. I met her and we had FF fun without the M..And now we ladies are fab friends |
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I enjoyed reading all these comments and well said OP.. i had a 3 sum with a girl i was seeing, she wanted to experiment with 2 guys "we are straight guys" so we talked about it and what she wants etc. So i mentioned it to a very close friend that i completely trust and suggested i run it by him and if he is interested then i give them both each others numbers and they can spend some time texting and calling etc to get to know each other a bit.. then if she/he still up for it then we make a plan..and they did so we did and it was a great night.. laughing and joking..a bottle of wine..and great sex. I moved to sputh africa before we could try the ffm side of it..that was a bummer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful "
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile. "
What's the female equivalent of a circle jerk? That's what this is  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile. "
Yes, I meet couples and obviously when a couple contact me it is for a FFM obviously. My response to a fellow fabber here was in relation to a guy meeting her for coffee and asking about a FFM. The very sexy lady he was meeting should have been getting all his attention on her instead of thinking of her as a F in a FFM.
And in my post, this is only my opinion. I love FFMs, but don't appreciate guys who I have never met, who only want to meet me if part of FFM. My opinion just. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile.
Yes, I meet couples and obviously when a couple contact me it is for a FFM obviously. My response to a fellow fabber here was in relation to a guy meeting her for coffee and asking about a FFM. The very sexy lady he was meeting should have been getting all his attention on her instead of thinking of her as a F in a FFM.
And in my post, this is only my opinion. I love FFMs, but don't appreciate guys who I have never met, who only want to meet me if part of FFM. My opinion just."
I guess some guys do have it on the brain and in their desperation to make it happen are probably prone to forgetting common decency and decorum. Silly sausages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile. "
Tact for one; manners.
If you are meeting a single off of the site, you're meeting them and them alone; it's not a job interview. To ask someone such a thing before really getting to know them is, bluntly, disrespectful.
I genuinely don't wish to sound rude but you have your cleavage out in your profile pic, could I send a first message asking you all sorts about your breasts and not be disrespectful?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile.
Tact for one; manners.
If you are meeting a single off of the site, you're meeting them and them alone; it's not a job interview. To ask someone such a thing before really getting to know them is, bluntly, disrespectful.
I genuinely don't wish to sound rude but you have your cleavage out in your profile pic, could I send a first message asking you all sorts about your breasts and not be disrespectful?
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If you did I wouldn't feel disrespected as I'm not a precious little flower. We have that profile picture to get attention, same reason most people choose their profile picture. I probably wouldn't reply if that's all you had to comment on, but disrespected? Certainly not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
Thanks Red Not a nice feeling
Although have to say some good can come of it. A guy suggested a sexy lady for ffm. I met her and we had FF fun without the M..And now we ladies are fab friends "
Now that's what I call Karma |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile. "
I was lead to believe this was a coffee meet to see if we, as in him and me get together. If I'd known prior to meeting him I could have made an informed choice. Yes I love mffs but ones of my choosing not anyone else's. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile.
Yes, I meet couples and obviously when a couple contact me it is for a FFM obviously. My response to a fellow fabber here was in relation to a guy meeting her for coffee and asking about a FFM. The very sexy lady he was meeting should have been getting all his attention on her instead of thinking of her as a F in a FFM.
And in my post, this is only my opinion. I love FFMs, but don't appreciate guys who I have never met, who only want to meet me if part of FFM. My opinion just."
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By (user no longer on site)
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Be yourself - talk to the person the way you de like to be talked to normally with respect. Chatting to a person on here doesn't always have to be about sex.
It's all about the communication, giggles and sometimes a smile works wonders
Real people on here deserve respect, and honesty
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be yourself - talk to the person the way you de like to be talked to normally with respect. Chatting to a person on here doesn't always have to be about sex.
It's all about the communication, giggles and sometimes a smile works wonders
Real people on here deserve respect, and honesty
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Couldn't have put it better myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile.
I was lead to believe this was a coffee meet to see if we, as in him and me get together. If I'd known prior to meeting him I could have made an informed choice. Yes I love mffs but ones of my choosing not anyone else's. "
Yeah fair enough, I didn't think of it like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A must read for the guys. It's such a turn off. I had a first coffee meet and was asked this, ehhhhhh NOOOOOOO.
Oh that bad..imagine actually being lucky enough to meet a sexy lady like yourself for a coffee and asking about FFM. Not very respectful
How is it disrespectful to ask that? You have on your profile that you're interested in FFM, and this is a swinger's site, so I don't get why you would feel disrespected or offended if someone asked you about an interest you expressed on their profile.
I was lead to believe this was a coffee meet to see if we, as in him and me get together. If I'd known prior to meeting him I could have made an informed choice. Yes I love mffs but ones of my choosing not anyone else's.
Yeah fair enough, I didn't think of it like that "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I so hate when a guy mails aski g u bi right well i have a fuck buddy who really would love to try it . When i get those kinda mails there deleted straight away "
Plenty more delete along with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's 1 or 2 that seriously need to read this.
You talkin single didgets or are you talking in dozens lol"
Only 1 or 2 that I've actually met. Dozens of I count messages only. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Don't normally rant but aaghh. Guy I met once on here, on second meet told me to come straight upstairs and I found him with another lady. Ordinarily I would have f**ked him off, and left the house but lady in question was a sexy lady I met for a coffee and had planned to have fun with anyway. So a bit surprised, I joined in..well me and sexy lady played. Other lady couldn't stay long so we had a quick play, he watched then joined in and without going into detail she got his attention for short period before she had to leave. I stayed on thinking he would come around again to give me the attention he promised me all day. So I tried, but he kept chatting and after an hour I realised that was it, he wasn't going to rise to the job so to speak. I dressed but I was visibly annoyed at this stage well more disappointed and in so many words I told him so. And I mean in a calm way..just that this was my meet and to gatecrash with a so called ffm but only pleasure one was not good enough. He was shell.shocked saying he thought we bonded..ahem..anyway that was a while ago and not a peep from him for a few months, then out of the blue messaged me tonight asking about another meet. I called him huffy and he said he was waiting for an apology cos he thought we were bonding that night and then I turned into a maniac... Ahemmm well i replied in my usual polite way telling him how it was him who let me down.. said lets just leave it..he hasn't replied funny enough but aagggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Guys only arrange a ffm with all parties aware and have enough stamina to pleasure both ladies..rant over  |
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"Don't normally rant but aaghh. Guy I met once on here, on second meet told me to come straight upstairs and I found him with another lady. Ordinarily I would have f**ked him off, and left the house but lady in question was a sexy lady I met for a coffee and had planned to have fun with anyway. So a bit surprised, I joined in..well me and sexy lady played. Other lady couldn't stay long so we had a quick play, he watched then joined in and without going into detail she got his attention for short period before she had to leave. I stayed on thinking he would come around again to give me the attention he promised me all day. So I tried, but he kept chatting and after an hour I realised that was it, he wasn't going to rise to the job so to speak. I dressed but I was visibly annoyed at this stage well more disappointed and in so many words I told him so. And I mean in a calm way..just that this was my meet and to gatecrash with a so called ffm but only pleasure one was not good enough. He was shell.shocked saying he thought we bonded..ahem..anyway that was a while ago and not a peep from him for a few months, then out of the blue messaged me tonight asking about another meet. I called him huffy and he said he was waiting for an apology cos he thought we were bonding that night and then I turned into a maniac... Ahemmm well i replied in my usual polite way telling him how it was him who let me down.. said lets just leave it..he hasn't replied funny enough but aagggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Guys only arrange a ffm with all parties aware and have enough stamina to pleasure both ladies..rant over "
You should of left when you realised he had invited a third person.
In the end he got what he wanted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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You should of left when you realised he had invited a third person.
In the end he got what he wanted. "
Ordinarily I would have for sure, I would never go through with unplanned company. But this was different, I had met this lady a week before and we hit it off and had been planning ffms so after initial shock I was happy for 3 of us to have fun. Me and said lady continue to meet and have fun.
Yeah he did get what he wanted. My rant here was he thought I owed him an apology..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't normally rant but aaghh. Guy I met once on here, on second meet told me to come straight upstairs and I found him with another lady. Ordinarily I would have f**ked him off, and left the house but lady in question was a sexy lady I met for a coffee and had planned to have fun with anyway. So a bit surprised, I joined in..well me and sexy lady played. Other lady couldn't stay long so we had a quick play, he watched then joined in and without going into detail she got his attention for short period before she had to leave. I stayed on thinking he would come around again to give me the attention he promised me all day. So I tried, but he kept chatting and after an hour I realised that was it, he wasn't going to rise to the job so to speak. I dressed but I was visibly annoyed at this stage well more disappointed and in so many words I told him so. And I mean in a calm way..just that this was my meet and to gatecrash with a so called ffm but only pleasure one was not good enough. He was shell.shocked saying he thought we bonded..ahem..anyway that was a while ago and not a peep from him for a few months, then out of the blue messaged me tonight asking about another meet. I called him huffy and he said he was waiting for an apology cos he thought we were bonding that night and then I turned into a maniac... Ahemmm well i replied in my usual polite way telling him how it was him who let me down.. said lets just leave it..he hasn't replied funny enough but aagggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Guys only arrange a ffm with all parties aware and have enough stamina to pleasure both ladies..rant over "
OMG that's awful. What an a..hole |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have being trying for ffm hear for a while hear' finding it very very difficult we ended up getting it twice over a weekend in Prague y is it so difficult here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is just my experience and opinion. I think ffms work better when the females arrange it. Any I've had its been me or some of my female friends who suggest it. All of us know the guy in question and trust him. I think the main point of the thread was most girls objections to meeting a guy for the first time and him looking for an mff straight away. |
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"We have being trying for ffm hear for a while hear' finding it very very difficult we ended up getting it twice over a weekend in Prague y is it so difficult here? "
..been a fabber for many years...yet to experience mff...i gave up ages ago...no longer ask...tho i think I'm too laid back to get ordinary meets at times never mind mff... |
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I've only ever had two mmf's. Once when I was part of a couple here and the extra fem was really there for my gf's benifit and I joined in for about 25% of the action (I wasn't complaining though)
The second time was a mmff where we were all single but the other guy had to leave early which meant I had to finish the job (again not complaining)
I've never actually had a proper mff. It's on the cards though. |
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"We have being trying for ffm hear for a while hear' finding it very very difficult we ended up getting it twice over a weekend in Prague y is it so difficult here?
Time to head back to Prague! "
I had more luck in prague with a lovely english cpl than i have had on irish soil but the last meet i had on irish soil was definitly worth the wait |
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"We have being trying for ffm hear for a while hear' finding it very very difficult we ended up getting it twice over a weekend in Prague y is it so difficult here?
Time to head back to Prague!
I had more luck in prague with a lovely english cpl than i have had on irish soil but the last meet i had on irish soil was definitly worth the wait "
Was that the one involving waving in Windows? |
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"We have being trying for ffm hear for a while hear' finding it very very difficult we ended up getting it twice over a weekend in Prague y is it so difficult here?
Time to head back to Prague!
I had more luck in prague with a lovely english cpl than i have had on irish soil but the last meet i had on irish soil was definitly worth the wait
Was that the one involving waving in Windows? "
No i refuse to pay for something that you can get for free and more enjoyable |
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FFMs!! do they exist in the world of FAB?? We've been here about 7 yes and yet to have one. Single bi fems!! The elusive unicorn lol. Not sure how many we've met now at parties, m&gs who've been keen to play with a cpl only to make excuses once you try to arrange something.
Don't want to sound cynical at our lack of luck in this score. But if you don't ask you don't get and sometimes when you do you don't anyway lol.
Furthermore my interpretation of swinging is 3somes or moresomes. To me 2somes are two people having casual sex so I don't understand why someone would be offended at being asked if theyve had FFM on a swinging site.
Just my tuppence worth x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out |
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out "
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly "
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
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Haha. Our FF who's the m |
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m "
Haven't thought past the FF stage |
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
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Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m
Haven't thought past the FF stage "
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m
Haven't thought past the FF stage "
what about fffs ha that would be fun |
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m
Haven't thought past the FF stage what about fffs ha that would be fun"
You'd be welcome I'm sure |
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When you chatt on fab and you click that's the start always have respect be polite and a little dirtying without being rude lol and the rest will follow on the 1st coffe discuss everything if you feel comfortable then just sit back and enjoy then all of the 2 of your fantasies can be fulfilled !!!!! |
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"Hi ya all. Being a bi lady on fab, i have experienced a lot of approaches for FFM. Whilst I can't speak for all ladies, i just thought I'd share what I believe is bad practice..and what not to do
Don't in first message to lady, ask for FFM
Don't need to tell lady FFM is on your fuckit list. Duh!!!
Just cos I have veris from sexy ladies, don't assume that is a green light for ffm with a guy neither of us have met (no point in looking at my profile, my veris now hidden for that reason)
Guys don't do all conversing for your lady friends
Guy saying I should message their lady friend because they are interested in a ffm.
Guy says his lady friend has never been with a lady, but wants her first time being a ffm..I not a guinea pig wanting an audience
Ladies don't ask me for ffm just to please your guy, you need to be willing participant
And never in your right mind think it is ok to share my pics with another lady without my consent...and don't try to make it right by sharing their pic with me..aagh
Never ever set up a 3 way chat on kik with another lady I don't know without so much as asking me
So what would be my advice then...
Don't make FFM your only goal. Have fun one to one with ladies, impress them and hopefully they will have sexy lady friends
If you are a couple,let the ladies chat
Can i just end with saying...this is my tuppences worth and I'm sure some ladies will beg to differ
And no guys have been hurt in this research...or maybe just their egos..
FFMs are class in the right company "
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m
Haven't thought past the FF stage what about fffs ha that would be fun
You'd be welcome I'm sure "
Hell yeah |
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"As a single bi female, I have been lucky enough to play in ffms both arranged with my lady friend or meeting sexy couples. For me meeting a couple is daunting, like meeting 2 strangers, so the couples I met, were mainly as a result of myself and lady chatting to feel comfortable and establishing a connection. That worked and all 3 in ffm had fun..class when it works out
Exactly
Lets tag team MsHoney, whatya think
Haha. Our FF who's the m
Haven't thought past the FF stage what about fffs ha that would be fun
You'd be welcome I'm sure
Hell yeah "
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