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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have met attached men in the past. Figured its not my business. But they are more likely to let you down at the last minute or get the guilts. Fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Like Liam Neeson

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Like Liam Neeson "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Taken/attached men are too difficult to meet..

Can't get away from the wife etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Loads do, so if you are taken be honest about it.

Even if a girl says on her profile she does not, don't lie, just say you are taken. She might be with a taken guy if the circumstances are right.

This is a funny aul place, some people are in swinging relationships and both of them are taken.

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By *amdublinMan  over a year ago

Paris


"Like Liam Neeson "
taken 1,2,3

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside

Not for me. Don't like the karmic retributions.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?"

They need a particular set of skills, like not letting the wife find out, if she does she will find you and she will kill you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?

They need a particular set of skills, like not letting the wife find out, if she does she will find you and she will kill you"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I dont have issues wit it not my business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Or you are forced to back out when she changed her plans

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Loads do, so if you are taken be honest about it.

Even if a girl says on her profile she does not, don't lie, just say you are taken. She might be with a taken guy if the circumstances are right.

This is a funny aul place, some people are in swinging relationships and both of them are taken."

..or alternatively. ...she might actually mean what she says on her profile. ..op....you're best bet would be to read people's profiles. ..and if they say they aren't interested in attached people. ..I'd look elsewhere. ...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dont have issues wit it not my business "

same as this. None of our business but we do like the added discretion that comes with hooking up with local attached guys.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"..or alternatively. ...she might actually mean what she says on her profile. ..op....you're best bet would be to read people's profiles. ..and if they say they aren't interested in attached people. ..I'd look elsewhere. ..."

Who knows what women mean on their profile, they are such chaotic creatures they probably don't know themselves.

But

I didn't tell him to message her, i said dont lie to her.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"..or alternatively. ...she might actually mean what she says on her profile. ..op....you're best bet would be to read people's profiles. ..and if they say they aren't interested in attached people. ..I'd look elsewhere. ...

Who knows what women mean on their profile, they are such chaotic creatures they probably don't know themselves.

But

I didn't tell him to message her, i said dont lie to her."

...im sure women know what they mean on their profile. ......I didn't tell him anything. ...I advised him to look elsewhere. ..

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By *hocoholicWoman  over a year ago

The big D


"I dont have issues wit it not my business

same as this. None of our business but we do like the added discretion that comes with hooking up with local attached guys. "

Iv the same views as both above. It doesn't bother me & Iv no preference as long as I get what I want, which is drama free fun. I'm here for myself only hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never have, never will.

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By *ingerrrrWoman  over a year ago

Meath

None of my business.. Just don't lie..

I'm taken but go to socials etc.. But then again I tell my hubby where I am and what I'm doing..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

None of my business.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my business. "
........baaaad girl !!!...

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By *ockhard and SweetcheeksCouple  over a year ago

City

Wouldn't bother me the slightest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my business. ........baaaad girl !!!... "

I may be bad but I'm perfectly good at it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Loads do, so if you are taken be honest about it.

Even if a girl says on her profile she does not, don't lie, just say you are taken. She might be with a taken guy if the circumstances are right.

This is a funny aul place, some people are in swinging relationships and both of them are taken."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I definitely dont have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *outhbelMan  over a year ago

Near Carryduff

I worked with a girl a few years back, she only went with married men, said that they were better lovers, as they were so needy ( or something like that) Then they fucked off back to the wife and gave her head peace

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I worked with a girl a few years back, she only went with married men, said that they were better lovers, as they were so needy ( or something like that) Then they fucked off back to the wife and gave her head peace"

This is also true

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Interesting enough i'd always be honest with someone here if I was planning to meet, fair is fair

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I worked with a girl a few years back, she only went with married men, said that they were better lovers, as they were so needy ( or something like that) Then they fucked off back to the wife and gave her head peace"

Wise woman!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"None of my business. ........baaaad girl !!!...

I may be bad but I'm perfectly good at it "

......you would say that. ..wouldn't you...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"I worked with a girl a few years back, she only went with married men, said that they were better lovers, as they were so needy ( or something like that) Then they fucked off back to the wife and gave her head peace"

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Done it, would do it again, great meets all I can say, the rest isn't my business

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Well with the thread on guys not willing to go halves on a room, bet most of them were single!!

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Well with the thread on guys not willing to go halves on a room, bet most of them were single!! "

Not necessarily, they're just tight arses

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I dont have issues wit it not my business

same as this. None of our business but we do like the added discretion that comes with hooking up with local attached guys.

Iv the same views as both above. It doesn't bother me & Iv no preference as long as I get what I want, which is drama free fun. I'm here for myself only hehe "

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Well with the thread on guys not willing to go halves on a room, bet most of them were single!!

Not necessarily, they're just tight arses "

Unreal.

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By *anaduABCMan  over a year ago

Dublin

Oooh matron...yizzer all so damn naughty-. - -

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have too much empathy with the partner that's being cheated on,hasn't a clue what's going on and wouldn't want it to happen to me??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just cause someone has a wife/husband does not mean they wont fall in love with you.

People have sex once and then end up having years long affair before splitting from wife and getting together.

It's not really accurate to say "Oh but married men can go home to the wife and wont get attached, and make better lovers because they are needy"

Too many long term affairs happen for that to be true..

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By *ndrew1972Man  over a year ago

Roscrea

Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing."

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?"

....judge much?

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By *orny guysMan  over a year ago

Galway

Well any ladies in the sligo area looking for nsa fun with married guy today?! Lol... May as well put it out there! Can travel! Lol

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?....judge much?"

Look. I have you blocked. DO NOT try to interact with me. I'm sure you're already aware it's cause for a ban.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?....judge much?

Look. I have you blocked. DO NOT try to interact with me. I'm sure you're already aware it's cause for a ban."

didn't realise either. ....didn't stop you all the same. ..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?"

I think that's pretty unfair...

Yes you have your opinion and your entitled to it but nobody knows what goes on in a marriage and as the guy stated he's got interests in experimenting! Doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife and family tho....

Love and life isn't so black and white you know...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I think that's pretty unfair...

Yes you have your opinion and your entitled to it but nobody knows what goes on in a marriage and as the guy stated he's got interests in experimenting! Doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife and family tho....

Love and life isn't so black and white you know..."

Well said Annie

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I think that's pretty unfair...

Yes you have your opinion and your entitled to it but nobody knows what goes on in a marriage and as the guy stated he's got interests in experimenting! Doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife and family tho....

Love and life isn't so black and white you know..."

Really well put Annie

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I think that's pretty unfair...

Yes you have your opinion and your entitled to it but nobody knows what goes on in a marriage and as the guy stated he's got interests in experimenting! Doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife and family tho....

Love and life isn't so black and white you know..."

Not sure how it's an unfair question. And not to sound snarky but I wouldn't be so sure about someone's love for someone else if they are lying especially about sex. But then love wasn't the topic/question. It was more if you're being straight forward to a possible fab partner/meet are you being that honest to your partner at home.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have too much empathy with the partner that's being cheated on,hasn't a clue what's going on and wouldn't want it to happen to me??"

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

For the most part couples are here to add something to their sex lives. Those that are in a committed relationship and meet alone without knowledge of their partners, seek something that is missing from the relationship. physically.

But in doing so loose the most important part of that commitment, which is trust.

Only they can decide if that's a fair trade.

Couples or others ,who choose to get involved with play away partners are not part of the problem or the remedy and should not be judged as so.

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By *ugby 123Couple  over a year ago
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O o O oo

Can the people annoying each other avoid each others posts please

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Everyone has their own different priorities & boundaries when it comes to meeting people which is good. I've never hidden the fact that I am married from anyone I have chatted to or met. Some were ok with it, some weren't and one individual e-mailed abuse back at me just for contacting her.

Asking a question do people here do this or do that is fairly pointless. The answer is always going to be "some do and some don't"

As for going to socials or meet & greets. I've been to the Venue a couple of times in the past, & hopefully will be there again in the future. As the Venue is a private club it's fairly safe and if you I meet someone I know then they are there for the same reason as me. I don't think I would be as comfortable going to a meet & greet or social event. Being in an open pub or hotel there is far more chance if meeting someone I know, who may be there for completely different reasons.

Married men being "needy"... Not me, I'm not here because I have a bad marriage or am not getting sex at home. I'm here because there are things I like sexually that I can't experience at home and this is the most obvious place to find people of a similar mindset.

While I'm sure some long term affairs have started through swinging I'm fairly sure they would be the exception. Most affairs are an emotional attraction that become physical. Swinging, to me anyway, is primarily a physical attraction that rarely becomes emotional.

The vast majority of people here are here to experiment or find something extra, not to find something that is missing.

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I think that's pretty unfair...

Yes you have your opinion and your entitled to it but nobody knows what goes on in a marriage and as the guy stated he's got interests in experimenting! Doesn't mean he doesn't love his wife and family tho....

Love and life isn't so black and white you know...

Not sure how it's an unfair question. And not to sound snarky but I wouldn't be so sure about someone's love for someone else if they are lying especially about sex. But then love wasn't the topic/question. It was more if you're being straight forward to a possible fab partner/meet are you being that honest to your partner at home. "

Actually the post was would you play with a "taken" man it had nothing to do with asking your opinions of honesty or partners at home.

And I think the comments Andrew made were very fair and honest...and he is honest on his profile you don't know his reasons why he's here so you don't like it just don't meet him!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

THIS ******* TOPIC HAS BEEN DISCUSSED AND DISCUSSED OVER AND OVER AND OVER... ALL WITH THE SAME STUPID RESULTS!!

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN OPINION ON IT!!!

WHY THE NEED TO KEEP REPOSTING THE SUBJECT IS RIDICULOUS!!

YES I'm married, entitled to be here!!

Why I'm here is my business!!

I've "Married" on my profile!

I respect those that don't/won't meet married guys...

If a Married lady contacts me and we meet IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS!!

NOR DOES IT NEED TO BE ANALYSED OVER AND OVER!!!!!!

RACE/COLOUR/CREED/RELIGION ETC IS RESPECTED AMONGST SWINGERS, SO TOO SHOULD BE MARITAL STATUS!

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"THIS ******* TOPIC HAS BEEN DISCUSSED AND DISCUSSED OVER AND OVER AND OVER... ALL WITH THE SAME STUPID RESULTS!!

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN OPINION ON IT!!!

WHY THE NEED TO KEEP REPOSTING THE SUBJECT IS RIDICULOUS!!

YES I'm married, entitled to be here!!

Why I'm here is my business!!

I've "Married" on my profile!

I respect those that don't/won't meet married guys...

If a Married lady contacts me and we meet IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS!!

NOR DOES IT NEED TO BE ANALYSED OVER AND OVER!!!!!!

RACE/COLOUR/CREED/RELIGION ETC IS RESPECTED AMONGST SWINGERS, SO TOO SHOULD BE MARITAL STATUS!

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"THIS ******* TOPIC HAS BEEN DISCUSSED AND DISCUSSED OVER AND OVER AND OVER... ALL WITH THE SAME STUPID RESULTS!!

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN OPINION ON IT!!!

WHY THE NEED TO KEEP REPOSTING THE SUBJECT IS RIDICULOUS!!

YES I'm married, entitled to be here!!

Why I'm here is my business!!

I've "Married" on my profile!

I respect those that don't/won't meet married guys...

If a Married lady contacts me and we meet IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS!!

NOR DOES IT NEED TO BE ANALYSED OVER AND OVER!!!!!!

RACE/COLOUR/CREED/RELIGION ETC IS RESPECTED AMONGST SWINGERS, SO TOO SHOULD BE MARITAL STATUS!

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!"

That hurt my ears reading that

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!

Well said "

Ahhh... same old crap over and over!!

Same old topic "Married Men"... slightly sexist too!!

While they're trying to keep on the right side of Married Ladies at same time!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 03/05/16 13:07:14]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"THIS ******* TOPIC HAS BEEN DISCUSSED AND DISCUSSED OVER AND OVER AND OVER... ALL WITH THE SAME STUPID RESULTS!!

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN OPINION ON IT!!!

WHY THE NEED TO KEEP REPOSTING THE SUBJECT IS RIDICULOUS!!

YES I'm married, entitled to be here!!

Why I'm here is my business!!

I've "Married" on my profile!

I respect those that don't/won't meet married guys...

If a Married lady contacts me and we meet IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS!!

NOR DOES IT NEED TO BE ANALYSED OVER AND OVER!!!!!!

RACE/COLOUR/CREED/RELIGION ETC IS RESPECTED AMONGST SWINGERS, SO TOO SHOULD BE MARITAL STATUS!

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two... "

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

There is a movie called "the lives of others ". It's about the stasi spying on their own people and its a very apt title for lots of folk on here.

There's actually one profile that encourages messages from married men and when you contact them they abuse you for been married and on fab.

That's how sad some people are on fab

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB??? "

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes"

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so! "

Bit more like groundhog day

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

Bit more like groundhog day"

Warthog day!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

Bit more like groundhog day

Warthog day!! "

ooooh best run for cover!!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

Bit more like groundhog day

Warthog day!!

ooooh best run for cover!!!"

Am in Leitrim, so am safe!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The claws of anger are far reaching...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"THIS ******* TOPIC HAS BEEN DISCUSSED AND DISCUSSED OVER AND OVER AND OVER... ALL WITH THE SAME STUPID RESULTS!!

EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN OPINION ON IT!!!

WHY THE NEED TO KEEP REPOSTING THE SUBJECT IS RIDICULOUS!!

YES I'm married, entitled to be here!!

Why I'm here is my business!!

I've "Married" on my profile!

I respect those that don't/won't meet married guys...

If a Married lady contacts me and we meet IT IS NO ONE ELSE'S BUSINESS!!

NOR DOES IT NEED TO BE ANALYSED OVER AND OVER!!!!!!

RACE/COLOUR/CREED/RELIGION ETC IS RESPECTED AMONGST SWINGERS, SO TOO SHOULD BE MARITAL STATUS!

If you don't want to meet married guys/ladies THEN DON'T!!

Well said "

.....well shouted. ...lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?"

Just be honest from the start and she can make her own decisions.some snake's on here seeing a women and lie about it for months.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is a movie called "the lives of others ". It's about the stasi spying on their own people and its a very apt title for lots of folk on here.

There's actually one profile that encourages messages from married men and when you contact them they abuse you for been married and on fab.

That's how sad some people are on fab "

Really

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB??? "

Yep....gotta save this thread for future reference

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?

Just be honest from the start and she can make her own decisions.some snake's on here seeing a women and lie about it for months. "

...and a lot of them on FAB are afraid to be honest because of these types of threads!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

Yep....gotta save this thread for future reference "

Maybe put it in the Recycling Bin??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

Bit more like groundhog day

Warthog day!! "

.. judgement day......

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

Even though you used capitals I think we're going to see another one of these threads in a week or two...

OH... is there a Time Delay on FAB???

No time delay just a loop, round and round it goes

Ahhh... not like Mission Impossible so!

Bit more like groundhog day

Warthog day!! .. judgement day...... "

Ah that is everyday so!

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By *ndrew1972Man  over a year ago

Roscrea


" You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?"

I don't come here for "random anonymous sex" To me that phrase depicts two strangers meeting in a hotel room and having sex with no conversation, effort or consideration of each other and leaves one, if not both, of them feeling use. With all of the people I have met here I have enjoyed their company socially and hope to do so again. Even if I had met them through some other aspect of my life and they weren't swingers, I still would enjoy their company and be proud to call them friends.

Do I hide this part of my life from my wife? Yes.

Am I proud of that fact? No.

Would I prefer she were involved in it with me? Absolutely, & not just to please me but for her to experience the social & intimate fun that there is to be had.

Do I hide it from my family? Yes, I doubt there are many people here who if asked by their parents/siblings/kids, "what did you do at the weekend?"would reply with "we went to a swingers party and met a lovely couple/woman/man and spent a couple of hours in their hotel room.

There are several of my friends who, regardless of my marital/sexual status, would not approve of my choice to be here.

When I referred to being honest I meant on this site. To me this site & similar sites are supposed to be frequented by open minded adults and it is the one small area of my life where I can be 100% open and honest.

Being open minded doesn't mean having to condone or partake, it just means accepting and tolerating.

Despite the bad press guys sometimes get on here I'm glad to see there are people who are willing to take a profile and post at face value and for that I say thank you.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I don't come here for "random anonymous sex" To me that phrase depicts two strangers meeting in a hotel room and having sex with no conversation, effort or consideration of each other and leaves one, if not both, of them feeling use. With all of the people I have met here I have enjoyed their company socially and hope to do so again. Even if I had met them through some other aspect of my life and they weren't swingers, I still would enjoy their company and be proud to call them friends.

Do I hide this part of my life from my wife? Yes.

Am I proud of that fact? No.

Would I prefer she were involved in it with me? Absolutely, & not just to please me but for her to experience the social & intimate fun that there is to be had.

Do I hide it from my family? Yes, I doubt there are many people here who if asked by their parents/siblings/kids, "what did you do at the weekend?"would reply with "we went to a swingers party and met a lovely couple/woman/man and spent a couple of hours in their hotel room.

There are several of my friends who, regardless of my marital/sexual status, would not approve of my choice to be here.

When I referred to being honest I meant on this site. To me this site & similar sites are supposed to be frequented by open minded adults and it is the one small area of my life where I can be 100% open and honest.

Being open minded doesn't mean having to condone or partake, it just means accepting and tolerating.

Despite the bad press guys sometimes get on here I'm glad to see there are people who are willing to take a profile and post at face value and for that I say thank you."

Ty for responding to my comment to you. Altho I disagree with some of your words I do get what you're saying. I do applaud you for being honest on here about your status...most would lie or scream "don't judge me!!!" But I think you knew where I was going with my question. Maybe someday your wife will change her mind or warm up to the idea somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No matter what dressing married men use without wife's knowledge you're using @ cheating or how you sugar coat it, you're still cheating. It's lowest of the low. So go on away home there now an eat yar dinner your faithful wife just made!!#@@@@

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No matter what dressing married men use without wife's knowledge you're using @ cheating or how you sugar coat it, you're still cheating. It's lowest of the low. So go on away home there now an eat yar dinner your faithful wife just made!!#@@@@"

Gender equalities to one side of course

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By *outhbelMan  over a year ago

Near Carryduff

Funny how there are. Morality Police on what is essentially a sex site !!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No matter what dressing married men use without wife's knowledge you're using @ cheating or how you sugar coat it, you're still cheating. It's lowest of the low. So go on away home there now an eat yar dinner your faithful wife just made!!#@@@@"

How do you know his wife is faithful?

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By *ndrew1972Man  over a year ago

Roscrea


"

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I don't come here for "random anonymous sex" To me that phrase depicts two strangers meeting in a hotel room and having sex with no conversation, effort or consideration of each other and leaves one, if not both, of them feeling use. With all of the people I have met here I have enjoyed their company socially and hope to do so again. Even if I had met them through some other aspect of my life and they weren't swingers, I still would enjoy their company and be proud to call them friends.

Do I hide this part of my life from my wife? Yes.

Am I proud of that fact? No.

Would I prefer she were involved in it with me? Absolutely, & not just to please me but for her to experience the social & intimate fun that there is to be had.

Do I hide it from my family? Yes, I doubt there are many people here who if asked by their parents/siblings/kids, "what did you do at the weekend?"would reply with "we went to a swingers party and met a lovely couple/woman/man and spent a couple of hours in their hotel room.

There are several of my friends who, regardless of my marital/sexual status, would not approve of my choice to be here.

When I referred to being honest I meant on this site. To me this site & similar sites are supposed to be frequented by open minded adults and it is the one small area of my life where I can be 100% open and honest.

Being open minded doesn't mean having to condone or partake, it just means accepting and tolerating.

Despite the bad press guys sometimes get on here I'm glad to see there are people who are willing to take a profile and post at face value and for that I say thank you.

Ty for responding to my comment to you. Altho I disagree with some of your words I do get what you're saying. I do applaud you for being honest on here about your status...most would lie or scream "don't judge me!!!" But I think you knew where I was going with my question. Maybe someday your wife will change her mind or warm up to the idea somewhat."

No problem, as you said we might not agree but at least it's nice to see there are still some adults on here who can be on opposite sides of a debate without resorting to insulting or childish remarks.

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"

You haven't hidden on here the fact that you're married but have you hidden from your wife and family that you come on this for random anonymous sex?

I don't come here for "random anonymous sex" To me that phrase depicts two strangers meeting in a hotel room and having sex with no conversation, effort or consideration of each other and leaves one, if not both, of them feeling use. With all of the people I have met here I have enjoyed their company socially and hope to do so again. Even if I had met them through some other aspect of my life and they weren't swingers, I still would enjoy their company and be proud to call them friends.

Do I hide this part of my life from my wife? Yes.

Am I proud of that fact? No.

Would I prefer she were involved in it with me? Absolutely, & not just to please me but for her to experience the social & intimate fun that there is to be had.

Do I hide it from my family? Yes, I doubt there are many people here who if asked by their parents/siblings/kids, "what did you do at the weekend?"would reply with "we went to a swingers party and met a lovely couple/woman/man and spent a couple of hours in their hotel room.

There are several of my friends who, regardless of my marital/sexual status, would not approve of my choice to be here.

When I referred to being honest I meant on this site. To me this site & similar sites are supposed to be frequented by open minded adults and it is the one small area of my life where I can be 100% open and honest.

Being open minded doesn't mean having to condone or partake, it just means accepting and tolerating.

Despite the bad press guys sometimes get on here I'm glad to see there are people who are willing to take a profile and post at face value and for that I say thank you.

Ty for responding to my comment to you. Altho I disagree with some of your words I do get what you're saying. I do applaud you for being honest on here about your status...most would lie or scream "don't judge me!!!" But I think you knew where I was going with my question. Maybe someday your wife will change her mind or warm up to the idea somewhat.

No problem, as you said we might not agree but at least it's nice to see there are still some adults on here who can be on opposite sides of a debate without resorting to insulting or childish remarks."

^^^^ exactly that. Out kind are like unicorns on here. Lol

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"No matter what dressing married men use without wife's knowledge you're using @ cheating or how you sugar coat it, you're still cheating. It's lowest of the low. So go on away home there now an eat yar dinner your faithful wife just made!!#@@@@"

...and you're sexist too!!

Married people, if they want to meet other Married people, should be tolerated too!

Off now to takeaway anyway, for my dinner (which I am!).

Intolerance off Married Men/Women being here is just as bigoted as being anti-gay, racist etc etc....

Admitting to being Married is admitting to being Married and is not dressing anything up!

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"No matter what dressing married men use without wife's knowledge you're using @ cheating or how you sugar coat it, you're still cheating. It's lowest of the low. So go on away home there now an eat yar dinner your faithful wife just made!!#@@@@

...and you're sexist too!!

Married people, if they want to meet other Married people, should be tolerated too!

Off now to takeaway anyway, for my dinner (which I am!).

Intolerance off Married Men/Women being here is just as bigoted as being anti-gay, racist etc etc....

Admitting to being Married is admitting to being Married and is not dressing anything up! "

You sure about that? Last time I checked no one came out of the womb married.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

yes am getting take away... and entitled to be here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"yes am getting take away... and entitled to be here!!!"

What ya getting in the take away?

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By *Belfast_FellaMan  over a year ago

belfast

I personally wouldn't judge people for either here without their spouse's permission or knowledge just as I wouldn't judge people who don't want to meet a married person in that position. Live and let lay...er, let live.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"yes am getting take away... and entitled to be here!!!

What ya getting in the take away?"

Lemongrass Chicken/Egg Fried Rice

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"yes am getting take away... and entitled to be here!!!

What ya getting in the take away?

Lemongrass Chicken/Egg Fried Rice"

Nice, well enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It would appear that the most judgemental intolerant people on here, are the first to point the finger at others perceived intolerance. ..whether justified or not...I suppose a narrow mind will always be just that...a narrow mind....

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"yes am getting take away... and entitled to be here!!!

What ya getting in the take away?

Lemongrass Chicken/Egg Fried Rice

Nice, well enjoy"

Was lovely.... basically throwing a dart at the Menu, so it was that OR by turning it over, a can of CocoCola!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It would appear that the most judgemental intolerant people on here, are the first to point the finger at others perceived intolerance. ..whether justified or not...I suppose a narrow mind will always be just that...a narrow mind...."
You were quick enough to point the finger yourself.If my memory serves me right.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

"

Cod supper there big lad lovely lady

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm not sure it's on the menu but I'll ask

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It would appear that the most judgemental intolerant people on here, are the first to point the finger at others perceived intolerance. ..whether justified or not...I suppose a narrow mind will always be just that...a narrow mind.... You were quick enough to point the finger yourself.If my memory serves me right. "
..im still waiting on an answer to my question? .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It would appear that the most judgemental intolerant people on here, are the first to point the finger at others perceived intolerance. ..whether justified or not...I suppose a narrow mind will always be just that...a narrow mind.... You were quick enough to point the finger yourself.If my memory serves me right. ..im still waiting on an answer to my question? ....."
No I won't marry you.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It would appear that the most judgemental intolerant people on here, are the first to point the finger at others perceived intolerance. ..whether justified or not...I suppose a narrow mind will always be just that...a narrow mind.... You were quick enough to point the finger yourself.If my memory serves me right. ..im still waiting on an answer to my question? ..... No I won't marry you. "
......ah.....you're memory only serves you right. ..when it suits you. ...fair enough. .....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

"

Your input always makes me smile and nod in full agreement...

If only everyone was as articulate as yourself the forums would be a more pleasurable place...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

Your input always makes me smile and nod in full agreement...

If only everyone was as articulate as yourself the forums would be a more pleasurable place..."

He's a fine mind on him Annie!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

Your input always makes me smile and nod in full agreement...

If only everyone was as articulate as yourself the forums would be a more pleasurable place..."

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It's not his mind I'm after

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By * dubzMan  over a year ago

sth Dublin

I am taken and be happy to meet the ladies as a taken guy and Mrs dubz encourages it also

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not his mind I'm after "

What u after Annie

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By *ndrew1972Man  over a year ago

Roscrea


"It's not his mind I'm after

What u after Annie "

His wardrobe???

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not his mind I'm after

What u after Annie

His wardrobe??? "

Better not be my money because its the one sure way of me leaving you disappointed

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By *oghunter33Woman  over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

"

very good post!

Do you think the beardy man on the cloud, will he distinguish between bad and good adultery? The swinging saints might not find open gates after all....

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By *ildmovementMan  over a year ago

south Central


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

very good post!

Do you think the beardy man on the cloud, will he distinguish between bad and good adultery? The swinging saints might not find open gates after all.... "

Is there gates

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By *j47Man  over a year ago

limerick


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

"

As u said there's always fresh opinion on these repeat threads and this has to be one of the most enlightening well thought out on I have seen posted

Just to add the fictitious bearded man on the cloud wears a dress

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I saw this topic pop up and thought I would let it run before commenting. I don't agree that it's a repeat of previous posts as there are always new points of view.

If you lie about it you're a dick and if you don't lie about it you're a dick. The biggest lie told on fab is that we are honest. Human nature is a simple beast, we all want more than we have but some of us have the balls to go for it and some don't. To the few married swinging saints on this thread I applaud you. The gates of heaven await.

Married people male and female do it for different reason's and just because a coiple might swi g makes it no less likely they will cheat but most assume it's because there is little or no sex at home. I'm sure in some cases that's true but not in most. To say that a married man or woman is needy is bullshit. It's like saying every single guy is desperate. Simply not the case as fab isn't the only place in the world that we as active swingers can get our kicks but we come here because it is a site where people assume they won't be judged on their lifestyle choices.

As a married man I cheat . I can't be trusted, I'm a scumbag. I'm the lowest of the low. I must be unclean and have a wife who is as dry as an Arabs arsehole. Why in the name of a fictitious bearded man sitting on a cloud would anyone come near me...  Well if you're narrow minded you won't nor would I entertain you. To some all of the above is true, to those who ask why I do what I do and  I'm sure their opinion differs greatly. My partner after me probing over a few years just doesn't like the TV side but if that changes and I can let that side of my persona out at home then I will leave fab immediately. Until then I am lucky to have made friends with the more open minded people on fab.

I gotta admit I do chuckle now when I see the rasp of some people attacking with venom when it comes to cheaters AKA me. It annoyed me when I first came here but now all I can say is you are missing out on a solid gold ball of fun *tips hat, throws sun glasses out the window*. I respect your opinions as long as your opinions are respectful and no I didn't take take from a meme. I'm not as dumb as I look.

PS I'm just about to ring in an order to the lemongrass in Naas if anyone wants anything. Stir fried turkey with cashew nuts for me

As u said there's always fresh opinion on these repeat threads and this has to be one of the most enlightening well thought out on I have seen posted

Just to add the fictitious bearded man on the cloud wears a dress "

.....its a robe cj...a robe....you're confusing him with scotsmen. ...They wear dresses....

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By *m158Couple  over a year ago

Cork

We're a married couple that play both as a couple and have the odd separate meet....well we try! No problem for fm but as for m it's near impossible

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We're a married couple that play both as a couple and have the odd separate meet....well we try! No problem for fm but as for m it's near impossible "

Word.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not his mind I'm after

What u after Annie

His wardrobe???

Better not be my money because its the one sure way of me leaving you disappointed "

More like I'm after Brian

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I reckon the not so Virgin Mary is reading this thread shuffling very uncomfortably in her chair right now. One way ticket to hell floating over her head, but sure that's where all the strippers go. Better craic altogether

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?

Just be honest from the start and she can make her own decisions.some snake's on here seeing a women and lie about it for months. "

That's the way I approach it and Im not married. Was just wondering but I opened a can of worms haha

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"How many women here would meet a guy in a relationship or married?

Do taken people attend the meet and greet or is it too risky?

Just be honest from the start and she can make her own decisions.some snake's on here seeing a women and lie about it for months.

That's the way I approach it and Im not married. Was just wondering but I opened a can of worms haha"

Glad to see you admit to liking shit stirring!!

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