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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk........"
....maybe he's a guilt ridden Catholic. ...?...have a mass said for him....then block....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on"
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't worry about it. There are loads of guys on here who will have sex with a married woman behind her husbands back. Literally loads.
I have never done that, but if I said I would meet for coffee I would. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk............maybe he's a guilt ridden Catholic. ...?...have a mass said for him....then block.... "
can think of better things to spend my money on than a mass card for the bugger lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't worry about it. There are loads of guys on here who will have sex with a married woman behind her husbands back. Literally loads.
I have never done that, but if I said I would meet for coffee I would."
well coffee isn't a mortal sin as far as I know..... I know it's not for everyone but why make arrangement and then back out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but......."
....its rotten when it happens. ...fortunately only happened once with us.....planning etc....all for nothing. ....we feel you're pain..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can never tell with these people, there is a chance they would have backed out either way. Some people go looking hard for an excuse when the time comes. Some people just want to masturbate over the idea of it.
So it might not even really be because you are married that they backed out. Might just be they would have backed out anyway. |
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Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but......."
Oh no I wouldn't  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but...........its rotten when it happens. ...fortunately only happened once with us.....planning etc....all for nothing. ....we feel you're pain.. "
lately I have had mor failed coffee meets than successful ones..... it's a pain..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but.......
Oh no I wouldn't "
Hey guess what he said? I even said it to him last night .... will you turn up? what did he say? ........of course I will I am not a messer........ffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with "
Oh I will give him points for at least having the manners to mail me to say he not coming..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with "
You're a wise lady, Slutty!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but.......
Oh no I wouldn't
Hey guess what he said? I even said it to him last night .... will you turn up? what did he say? ........of course I will I am not a messer........ffs"
Lots of single guys on here are full of shite, the whole fantasy of being with a married woman or a couple or at an orgy is great in their minds but once it comes down to it they bottle it.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can never tell with these people, there is a chance they would have backed out either way. Some people go looking hard for an excuse when the time comes. Some people just want to masturbate over the idea of it.
So it might not even really be because you are married that they backed out. Might just be they would have backed out anyway."
why are people like that on here in the first place then? |
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with
Oh I will give him points for at least having the manners to mail me to say he not coming....."
Probably the same across the country. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!! "
yes indeed tomorrow is another day and I have some much anticipated fun in store (I hope) lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with
You're a wise lady, Slutty! "
Aww schucks  don't tell anyone |
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By *tanonieMan
over a year ago
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"Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!!
yes indeed tomorrow is another day and I have some much anticipated fun in store (I hope) lol"
Tomorrow's another day indeed hun 
fecking idiot he is his losse hun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!!
yes indeed tomorrow is another day and I have some much anticipated fun in store (I hope) lol
Tomorrow's another day indeed hun
fecking idiot he is his losse hun "
Indeed, I am looking forward to tomorrow lol......  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Silly man, his loss. Now he'll never know what I know....time spent with you is pure fun, no matter how it's spent x
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oh my darling girl same can be said in reverse x |
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By *ceryMan
over a year ago
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"Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!!
yes indeed tomorrow is another day and I have some much anticipated fun in store (I hope) lol"
Your batteries still working
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!  |
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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago
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"Another fantasist that hasn't got the balls to follow thru, block and move on
oh he is blocked, I am annoyed cos I turned down another guy for coffee....who is to say he might have stood me up too but......."
And
Who is to say the second guy, would of turned up, and had great fun together.
Miss Doubtfire.....
I would of turned up x x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !! "
Its because its a woman saying it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it"
Is your name hammer? Coz you've hit the nail on the head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it"
Agreed!
They'd slaughter a man... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hypocrisy is great. A man would be told to stop cheating and serves him right to have a meet canceled.
No pity or a single fuck would be given. No cheer ups or any of that Bull. It's scandalous really. |
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it
Agreed!
They'd slaughter a man..."
Too darn right... and taking huge pleasure doing so too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well you will get the moralistic crowd saying it's because you are cheating etc etc but your profile clearly states you are married and also entitled to be here.
We're all here to have some fun, so the last minute "excuse" that you are married shouldn't have been an issue.
Reckon he's just another guy who hasn't the balls to go through with actual meet. At least it wasn't a no show.
I know it's annoying but what can you do except just move on... Tomorrow is another day!!
yes indeed tomorrow is another day and I have some much anticipated fun in store (I hope) lol
Your batteries still working
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Must check them for tomorrow maybe lol...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years back I'd a hotel meet cancel late in the day, we'd met for coffee and all had been good.... shit happens... however I'd turned down a meet with another lady I'd been chasing awhile (and had already met for coffee) so was well pissed!
plus it was a morning meet and i'd gone to the hotel the day before to check in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !! "
well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it
Agreed!
They'd slaughter a man...
Too darn right... and taking huge pleasure doing so too!"
It really grinds my gears too.... |
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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
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"I'm glad to see the tolerance here for once regarding a married person meeting without their partners knowledge. There's been so many who have been judged because of this in the past. Great to see Fab getting all grown up about this subject !!
Its because its a woman saying it
Agreed!
They'd slaughter a man...
Too darn right... and taking huge pleasure doing so too!
It really grinds my gears too...."
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway......."
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Your batteries still working
Must check them for tomorrow maybe lol......
Yes one should have a torch with them at all times!! "
yes torch indeed........ lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
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this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah guess a guy would have got hammered if he was the OP start this off. But awful pity not more women like Layla further down southeast here. But there's likes & dislikes for all of course |
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though......"
One can't blame you either!
..and all because of this guys actions! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though......"
But it's not like you haven't had successful meets before and will again... i think it's that you had turned down another coffee is what's really bugging you it would me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though......"
Lol after saying the majority are wasters |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though......
But it's not like you haven't had successful meets before and will again... i think it's that you had turned down another coffee is what's really bugging you it would me!"
no that's not what's bugging me at all...what's bugging me is that he was all on for meeting till push came to shove.... Like I said I don't hide the fact that I am married yet that was his excuse for not meeting today... Why waste both our time ???? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well who knows what goes on within marriages and it's not fair to judge... and yes you are right that its nice that people not being judgemental..... I am starting to think that the majority of "single" guys are wasters anyway.......
Unfortunately, as a side effect, it is the likes of this guy that makes it harder for other guys to get coffee meets!
this is true and I have always tried not to be grouping all guys in the same boat, starting to think I may need to change my thinking though......
One can't blame you either!
..and all because of this guys actions!"
good job I am an optimist I guess... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the op was a married single man he'd be told get over it, women are allowed change their minds, they don't owe you a meet .....
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.....they fuckin well do..if they arrange it....man up...and show up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If the op was a married single man he'd be told get over it, women are allowed change their minds, they don't owe you a meet .....
.....they fuckin well do..if they arrange it....man up...and show up..."
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Well my 2 cents worth in this topic is, it is hard enough to get into chat with a woman because of the shear volume of messages women get, so if a guy is lucky enough to get a response then if a meet is arranged then he should show. It's not Manley not to. But I believe there are a lot of kids on this site with fake profiles that are just messing people around. And they should be named and shamed as in a previous post above they just ruin it for everyone else. Now I need some cheering up after writing that |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. "
Oh dog hunter, that's a severe line I have to say that there are too many no shows on the site for arranged meets and that makes it harder for those of us that will meet everytime! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Oh dog hunter, that's a severe line I have to say that there are too many no shows on the site for arranged meets and that makes it harder for those of us that will meet everytime!"
But he wasn't a no show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All i can say with the amount of complaints by single guys not be able to get a meet. As far as I'm concerned this thread is an example of what not to do!if you chat to someone and get to know them be honest with them and say no thanks early don't waste anyone's time! |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Oh dog hunter, that's a severe line I have to say that there are too many no shows on the site for arranged meets and that makes it harder for those of us that will meet everytime!
But he wasn't a no show"
Last minute cancell though! Listen I know things can pop up and people can't make it, and I don't know all the details but it does happen a lot on here! |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. "
I'm inclined to agree with DH, it was just a coffee meet and he let the op know. I've had that done to me.  |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. I'm inclined to agree with DH, it was just a coffee meet and he let the op know. I've had that done to me. "
The dirty fecker, how dare he |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Oh dog hunter, that's a severe line I have to say that there are too many no shows on the site for arranged meets and that makes it harder for those of us that will meet everytime!"
Not everyone can be mild...just pointing out the obvious. If the op were a man everyone would say 'get on with it'
We all had meets we had to cancel for what reason whatsoever.
And that it makes it harder for those ones who will meet is just sheer utter rubbish. |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Oh dog hunter, that's a severe line I have to say that there are too many no shows on the site for arranged meets and that makes it harder for those of us that will meet everytime!
Not everyone can be mild...just pointing out the obvious. If the op were a man everyone would say 'get on with it'
We all had meets we had to cancel for what reason whatsoever.
And that it makes it harder for those ones who will meet is just sheer utter rubbish."
Do you think dog hunter? I have being told by OP's that they are nervous about meeting for the first time due to the number of no shows! Maybe this one is genuine, I don't know the details, but each to their own. |
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Fantasist is the right word. But no balls to follow through. The 'married' issue was concocted to justify his wimpy withdrawal.
I guess make sure your next meet is well verified. |
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Do you think dog hunter? I have being told by OP's that they are nervous about meeting for the first time due to the number of no shows! Maybe this one is genuine, I don't know the details, but each to their own."
The OP was messaging the guy for weeks and arranged a coffee meet... he knew for weeks the lady was married and he left it to last minute to tell her he wasn't meeting because she was married!
Basically... why the hell didn't he say so earlier and not be wasting time pissing about then the OP could have arranged coffee meet with someone else. |
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The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. .... |
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"The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. ...."
Fair fucks to her if she does they're hard work  |
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"The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. ....
Fair fucks to her if she does they're hard work "
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"The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. ....
Fair fucks to her if she does they're hard work "
..shudup you ya jezabel ya... |
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"The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. ....
Fair fucks to her if she does they're hard work ..shudup you ya jezabel ya... "
Dam I haven't met one of those either what have I being missing |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. "
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"Well my 2 cents worth in this topic is, it is hard enough to get into chat with a woman because of the shear volume of messages women get, so if a guy is lucky enough to get a response then if a meet is arranged then he should show. It's not Manley not to. But I believe there are a lot of kids on this site with fake profiles that are just messing people around. And they should be named and shamed as in a previous post above they just ruin it for everyone else. Now I need some cheering up after writing that "
Totally agree bout the name and shame thing too but that could be open to abuse.... |
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"The guy made a date for a coffee meet....he cancelled. ..fair enough. ..shit happens. ..he couldn't leave it at that...he messaged again. .with a bit of moralizing ...I would have fucked him from a height. ...its none of his goddam business. ...if she has three husbands. ...."
I didn't waste my energy fucking him from a height I just blocked him... He can do his moralizing elsewhere lol |
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Do you think dog hunter? I have being told by OP's that they are nervous about meeting for the first time due to the number of no shows! Maybe this one is genuine, I don't know the details, but each to their own.
The OP was messaging the guy for weeks and arranged a coffee meet... he knew for weeks the lady was married and he left it to last minute to tell her he wasn't meeting because she was married!
Basically... why the hell didn't he say so earlier and not be wasting time pissing about then the OP could have arranged coffee meet with someone else."
That's exactly what I meant.... It's not like I hid the fact that I am married.... |
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"Fantasist is the right word. But no balls to follow through. The 'married' issue was concocted to justify his wimpy withdrawal.
I guess make sure your next meet is well verified."
Well I know some people won't meet non verified people but if we all did that, where would we be? All of us were non verified at some stage.... |
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"So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk............maybe he's a guilt ridden Catholic. ...?...have a mass said for him....then block.... "
Dont forget to light a candle ?? |
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with "
Sorry but i have to ask the craziest question im most likely going to ask today.. but who in their right mind you stand you up? I mean if they stiod you up id love to see what they class as a better offer.. |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it. "
Yeah, to be fair people are allowed change their mind too, even at the last minute....he shouldn't be unfairly slated for that, if it was one of his first meets, coffee or otherwise he might of just got cold feet about the whole thing, don't be so hard on the poor lad....he did what he could to cancel it properly....wouldn't happen with me mind you ...I've sure I've even turned up to meets and thought this isn't really my thing, you're not really my type, but hey I'm here now...let's do what we arranged anyway there's no backing out now....but the truth is you can back out whenever you want, no questions asked...sure it's not nice to mess around with people and just stand them up for the laugh....but to cancel a meet before a meet for any reason, that's allowed, I wouldn't even block somebody for that, shit happens. |
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"To be fair at least he actually messaged.. Amount of times I've been stood up and they've gone unlos and not replying to texts
Anyway, he's an idiot. Plenty more hot guys here to play with
Sorry but i have to ask the craziest question im most likely going to ask today.. but who in their right mind you stand you up? I mean if they stiod you up id love to see what they class as a better offer.."
aw thank you lol |
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Yeah, to be fair people are allowed change their mind too, even at the last minute....he shouldn't be unfairly slated for that, if it was one of his first meets, coffee or otherwise he might of just got cold feet about the whole thing, don't be so hard on the poor lad....he did what he could to cancel it properly....wouldn't happen with me mind you ...I've sure I've even turned up to meets and thought this isn't really my thing, you're not really my type, but hey I'm here now...let's do what we arranged anyway there's no backing out now....but the truth is you can back out whenever you want, no questions asked...sure it's not nice to mess around with people and just stand them up for the laugh....but to cancel a meet before a meet for any reason, that's allowed, I wouldn't even block somebody for that, shit happens."
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"I don't really see the big deal here. It's a feckin coffee meet he cancelled and he let know you before and he stated the reason. Obviously he had second thoughts which is fair enough. So just get over it.
Yeah, to be fair people are allowed change their mind too, even at the last minute....he shouldn't be unfairly slated for that, if it was one of his first meets, coffee or otherwise he might of just got cold feet about the whole thing, don't be so hard on the poor lad....he did what he could to cancel it properly....wouldn't happen with me mind you ...I've sure I've even turned up to meets and thought this isn't really my thing, you're not really my type, but hey I'm here now...let's do what we arranged anyway there's no backing out now....but the truth is you can back out whenever you want, no questions asked...sure it's not nice to mess around with people and just stand them up for the laugh....but to cancel a meet before a meet for any reason, that's allowed, I wouldn't even block somebody for that, shit happens."
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"So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk........"
Guys like this make it harder for us guys who really do want to meet. |
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"So yet again I had arranged a coffee meet today with a guy I been mailing for a while, he said he not a time waster if he says he gonna be there he will be there.....lo and behold, I got a mail saying he couldn't make it... guess I should be glad that he at least messaged to say that much, but he sent a further mail saying he wasn't comfortable with the fact that I am married, now my profile states the fact that I am married and hubby doesn't know about this, so why suddenly decide that he couldn't meet me because of that? I think it's one of the most pathetic excuses for backing out that I have heard here, seems to be so many guys on here lately talk the talk but don't walk the walk........
Guys like this make it harder for us guys who really do want to meet. "
yes thats for sure, but I will still give guys the benefit of the doubt....I am an optimist lol.... |
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Guys like this make it harder for us guys who really do want to meet.
No they don't.they make it easier."
it's up to each of us to make what we can of the site. |
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