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over a year ago
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Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)  |
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"I'd say half of it is nosiness "
& the other half research 
I often get mails , from "straight" guys asking if we can meet & will my wife join in  Read the f##kin profile! If my wife was into swinging it would be a couples profile.
Some people do ask in a bit more detail about my situation, if it is someone I am planning to, or would like to, meet I will answer their questions within reason, if not they just get told "I'm not here to discuss my private life" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,"
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd say half of it is nosiness
& the other half research
I often get mails , from "straight" guys asking if we can meet & will my wife join in Read the f##kin profile! If my wife was into swinging it would be a couples profile.
Some people do ask in a bit more detail about my situation, if it is someone I am planning to, or would like to, meet I will answer their questions within reason, if not they just get told "I'm not here to discuss my private life""
That's what I usually say too, and yes, if you click with someone and intend on meeting them, you can open up a little bit more, but there are boundaries. Very rude, and it turns me off the site sometimes |
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Your marital status on this site is no one's business it's a taboo subject. You dammed if you mention it and dammed if you don't.... any questions regarding your marriage or relationship is answered on your profile if you choose to be honest any more than then that it's no one's business. |
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"Manners cost nothing 
You can say that again. I think it might be a power trip thing, like they think they can do better "
I actually think manners do cost us..we just are never aware to what extent tho.. i mean.. a woman could see someone in here she likes and is debating on messaging that person or not.. and then that person says something out of order in a forum and thats it.. the woman decides i lost all interest coz of that.. and then its over and done with qithout the offenting person being none the wiser what a lack of manners or tact just cost them.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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General nosey folk, poor manners and I imagine some see it as an ego boost ; wanting to be the other person.
A person's business is just that, theirs. As said, at least you're up front about it.
Easier said than done I know but pay them no attention. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to) "
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men "
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha"
Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha
Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too?? "
We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha
Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??
We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers"
Avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha
Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??
We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers
Avoid "
I find you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to)
I just ignore it. I did get one guy a while back actually accused me of lying. Said I was lying about my hubby knowing everything I did and that was why id only reply to his nails in the evening as he was convinced hubby worked nights. I sent him a message saying believe whatever you want, I dont really care and then blocked him. Men
Snog Hahahahahahahahaha
Do I have to direct you to the stalker thread too??
We have to create a new one for obsessive stalkers
Avoid
I find you "
Ooootay.. How about gets Hubert to kick his ass |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I meet alone sometimes as it says on the profile (Mrs) sometimes when iam chatting to someone who has caught my eye it puts me off as they assume if you are married and meeting alone your not getting enough sex at home this attitude is so juvenile It makes me wonder if some men actually ever grow up...sometimes I expect them to suggest a pissing contest with my hubby |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well guys it gets better. The man who in particular pushed me to post the thread, because of his mails earlier,has now contacted one of my veries. I blocked him so he set up a new profile and mailed asking about me calling me 'Jen' he thinks I'm someone else that he spoke to a while back. I mean ffs. He can't be that hard up for a ride. Plus is he about 300 miles away. He wanted to know if I was always this hard to break.... Dick head! Luckily my contact is a good friend so he had my back. Some people eh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well guys it gets better. The man who in particular pushed me to post the thread, because of his mails earlier,has now contacted one of my veries. I blocked him so he set up a new profile and mailed asking about me calling me 'Jen' he thinks I'm someone else that he spoke to a while back. I mean ffs. He can't be that hard up for a ride. Plus is he about 300 miles away. He wanted to know if I was always this hard to break.... Dick head! Luckily my contact is a good friend so he had my back. Some people eh "
Jesus.. He needs to get a life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well guys it gets better. The man who in particular pushed me to post the thread, because of his mails earlier,has now contacted one of my veries. I blocked him so he set up a new profile and mailed asking about me calling me 'Jen' he thinks I'm someone else that he spoke to a while back. I mean ffs. He can't be that hard up for a ride. Plus is he about 300 miles away. He wanted to know if I was always this hard to break.... Dick head! Luckily my contact is a good friend so he had my back. Some people eh "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles? "
I don't agree with naming and shaming. Report and block him. If any women want to know who he is they can message you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles? "
I think naming the profile(s) may just cause more hassle, he doesn't sound all there in the first place to be fair.
Report to admin and break the block button if you have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should I name and shame? I usually hate those statuses. Maybe just report both profiles?
I don't agree with naming and shaming. Report and block him. If any women want to know who he is they can message you. "
What Snowflake said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda
There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me "
most definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe best. Thankfully there are more sane people here than not, kinda
There are some people here who need serious psychiatric help if u ask me
most definitely "
It's so hard finding someone with that normal but with a slightly good crazy side  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!! "
It's an open forum, you can't control it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!
It's an open forum, you can't control it "
But yet people try by reporting every thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!
It's an open forum, you can't control it "
Out of the whole thread... Thats what you picked up on! Christ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!
It's an open forum, you can't control it
But yet people try by reporting every thread "
Get over it Jasper, it's getting boring. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I see a profile with a person admitting to be cheating on there other half I just avoid, none of my business what people do here, but not for me,
Another one who didn't read what I wrote!!
It's an open forum, you can't control it
But yet people try by reporting every thread "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...
..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...
..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off.. "
You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...
..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..
You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!
It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!
I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!
So tell them fck off!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally..i think the whole...fab ud full of assholes...is overplayed...mostly I find ppl in here fairly sound...
..put an effort into the convo and it usually takes off..
You obviously don't talk to as many men as us women do
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..think you answered the question rather nicely there.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!
It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!
I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!
So tell them fck off!!!!
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you go girl!! |
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"It is a swinging site,it shouldn't matter if a person is married/attached or not!!
It's not a dating site or looking for love site! And people are entitled to their views but I'm tired of the moral police and their righteous views!
I hate this label of cheaters some people use and it's nobody's business only your own!
So tell them fck off!!!!
you go girl!! "
As for the naming & shaming, why lower yourself to someones elses' level? They'd probably just see themselves as the victim anyway.
However, if you happen to mention their profile name in a mail to friends who might be open to similar abuse... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Some questions about marital status can be smart and life preserving . Finding out post meet that great verification you have is from the spouse of a very possessive ,unstable gun owning violent criminal can ruin your post meet buzz. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Some questions about marital status can be smart and life preserving . Finding out post meet that great verification you have is from the spouse of a very possessive ,unstable gun owning violent criminal can ruin your post meet buzz."
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"Why do some people ( men and women) obsess over the fact that someone is married and here. I get so many mails questioning if he knows, does he fuck me etc. It's just rude. Anyone else get the same? ( please keep comments on your views on cheating to yourself though, that's not what I'm asking a reply to) "
It's just the way some people are!!
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Some questions about marital status can be smart and life preserving . Finding out post meet that great verification you have is from the spouse of a very possessive ,unstable gun owning violent criminal can ruin your post meet buzz."
im a dangerous psychopath and I have a range of guns but iv no spouse |
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