 |
By *dam1995 OP Man
over a year ago
mullingar |
Just wondering was out in town a few weeks back with a few lads seen a man smacking his women about anyway I stepped in and she turned on me never again whats your toughats do they like it or just dont accept help put me off standing in for a woem again |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *dam1995 OP Man
over a year ago
mullingar |
"Does anyone like a slap ?? Ffs what a stupid question!!! If a woman told u she liked to be slapped around in a public place or anywhere for that matter would u do it ?? Come on, grow up !! "
My point was when I stepped in she turned on me I was only trying to do what I thought was right why not accept help |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago
Nearby |
U asked also do they like it ?? I think u know the answer. As for stepping in , yes that's admirable but from my experience you'll always come out the worst as usually you'll be told it's none of your business .. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"always step in, show that it is not acceptable. "
Exactly... Yes she turned on you but remember ..she was being hit by her fella who she's to go home with( not everyone has a safe place to go to) if she didn't start on you she prob wouldve gotten worse behind closed doors ...yes its not always the case ..some are just nutters...and no not just saying women are the brunt of it ..men are too!
But ANY domestic violence against either sex is disgusting  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *dam1995 OP Man
over a year ago
mullingar |
"always step in, show that it is not acceptable.
Exactly... Yes she turned on you but remember ..she was being hit by her fella who she's to go home with( not everyone has a safe place to go to) if she didn't start on you she prob wouldve gotten worse behind closed doors ...yes its not always the case ..some are just nutters...and no not just saying women are the brunt of it ..men are too!
But ANY domestic violence against either sex is disgusting "
Ye it is vile and disgusting your right she did have to go home with him but women or men in a relationship should not stay in it why not accept help I wouldnt of left her der only for she attacked me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *dam1995 OP Man
over a year ago
mullingar |
"U asked also do they like it ?? I think u know the answer. As for stepping in , yes that's admirable but from my experience you'll always come out the worst as usually you'll be told it's none of your business .. "
Through iv only experienced it twice and just the way she attacked me I didnt know what way to take it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"always step in, show that it is not acceptable.
Exactly... Yes she turned on you but remember ..she was being hit by her fella who she's to go home with( not everyone has a safe place to go to) if she didn't start on you she prob wouldve gotten worse behind closed doors ...yes its not always the case ..some are just nutters...and no not just saying women are the brunt of it ..men are too!
But ANY domestic violence against either sex is disgusting "
And it's not nice to witness it. It's upsetting and disturbing. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"always step in, show that it is not acceptable.
Exactly... Yes she turned on you but remember ..she was being hit by her fella who she's to go home with( not everyone has a safe place to go to) if she didn't start on you she prob wouldve gotten worse behind closed doors ...yes its not always the case ..some are just nutters...and no not just saying women are the brunt of it ..men are too!
But ANY domestic violence against either sex is disgusting
Ye it is vile and disgusting your right she did have to go home with him but women or men in a relationship should not stay in it why not accept help I wouldnt of left her der only for she attacked me "
Most cases its not just physical abuse but mental... People think the ones hurting them are actually good for them amongst other reasons which are too long to go into detail here.. Which is prob why she didn't leave and went home with him.. Plus alchol escalates the situation anyway..As stated not just women tho.a lot more cases against men are being reported but imagine the amount that doesn't... of either sex..
The only time you should bring a hand down on anyone ..is a pat on the back in praise or helping them up..never violently ..sorry rant over..I'm vehemently opposed to domestic violence. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *umpsMan
over a year ago
city |
This happened to a friend of mine years ago... A guy was slapping his girlfriend in a public area... He stepped in, just asking the guy to leave her alone... Well she turned on him leaving him with eye surgery...
Crazy world we live in...
In my opinion... I still believe a guy should still intervene in a same or similar Situation..
. But perhaps if possible never comfort them alone.... As we heard about the guy last month..who intervened and died from doing the human instincts right thing at Harolds cross Dublin..
Perhaps best to have a local garda number or go to nearest pub for assistance...
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *-ManMan
over a year ago
Kark |
This is one of those situations where the logical thing to do is step in but the correct thing to do is hang back for a bit and see how it plays out, unless she's shouting help me of course.
It's awful I think like this but experience has made me that way, seen to many mates end up with injuries while the "happy" couple continue on with their lives. Some people are just broken beyond help and you'll never understand why |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
