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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of people have.....friends request without chatting will result in a block.....its probably a good idea to read the profile. ...btw.... we just ignore unsolicited one's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have.....friends request without chatting will result in a block.....its probably a good idea to read the profile. ...btw.... we just ignore unsolicited one's"
Me too. Just leave them sitting there - then another can't be sent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of people have.....friends request without chatting will result in a block.....its probably a good idea to read the profile. ...btw.... we just ignore unsolicited one's
Me too. Just leave them sitting there - then another can't be sent"
....sshhh...don't tell everyone. .  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not going to hava bitch about it just thought one of the reasons for the site was to meet people u don't normally meet outside the front door ?? yeno can't do that if you just keep gettin blocked yeno  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not going to hava bitch about it just thought one of the reasons for the site was to meet people u don't normally meet outside the front door ?? yeno can't do that if you just keep gettin blocked yeno "
..maybe if you sent a msg first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Were all here for fun ?? some people jus take it abit serious even when you txt them first "
...dunno what to say. . Maybe the reason why they block you has nothing to do with the friends request? ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people block you for sending friend requests bit silly when ur on a site to meet people in the first place "
Why do you want to be their friend before meeting them? You can message, meet & chat without being Fab friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you're not getting it. A lot of people have very private photos for friends only. Don't send a friend request unless you've been talking to them for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you're not getting it. A lot of people have very private photos for friends only. Don't send a friend request unless you've been talking to them for a while. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people block you for sending friend requests bit silly when ur on a site to meet people in the first place "
Did you chat to the person first? A lot of people don't accept random friend invite due to friend galleries containing pictures that they want any tom dick or harry. I would find it awful rude to get a friend off someone who hadn't chatted or asked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OP you're not getting it. A lot of people have very private photos for friends only. Don't send a friend request unless you've been talking to them for a while. "
This^^^ |
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"OP you're not getting it. A lot of people have very private photos for friends only. Don't send a friend request unless you've been talking to them for a while. "
Oh surely you don't mean there are pervs out there trying to see your private photos by becoming/trying to become "friends"!!
Pervs on FAB?? Would never happen!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block every person that sends unsolicited friend request! Why? Well lets see
1) we have havent spoken to the person = you are not our friend
2) we have it in our profile dont do it you get blocked if you took a second to read you will know = you are careless possibly thinking with your dick meaning possibly low unintelligent interaction!
3) if you dumb enough to read but sent friend request anyways well self explanatory really
I always say we are all people not just pieces of meat so respect ,attraction are part of it no because we are here we automatically have to fuck everyone that comes or be friends with anyone!
To be honest OP no insult intended you sound like someone that doesnt it get it! I might be wrong but thats my opinion mr swing |
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"I don't understand why people block you for sending friend requests bit silly when ur on a site to meet people in the first place "
Don't worry it's not just a thing that guys do, a lot of females and couples do it too.. The amount of friend request I get, it's not even funny. I don't mind but I'd rather we chat first then add but just adding me without talking is just (WTF). So I guess you can understand why some people might block you so! |
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"What annoys me most is when you write to a couple and your night e an polite then bang message read an deleted an old reply In my opinion that's just pure ignorance !!!!! "
Just annoying... there are a lot of fake couples too!!
It's a bit irritating but one gets used to it and just moves on!
C'est la vie! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yip move on is right,manors are free in life a simple "thanks but no thanks" goes along way  "
.....I know you're not really supposed to talk about platinum membership on open forum. ..but we find it very handy...anyone who doesn't reply. .or refuses to meet us...or generally gets shirty...we just press the special platinum button. ....and they spontaneously combust....oh dear. ..I suppose I'll get a ban and a punishments now.....I hope its not another mmmf with those three bbc's again. ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I get were use are cummin from and i read every profile b4 I txt or send an add was just thinking everyone on this was less privet thanks for the comments peeps ?? |
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"Yip move on is right,manors are free in life a simple "thanks but no thanks" goes along way "
On FAB, a delete = Not interested!
A "thanks but no thanks" reply = Not interested, not interested!
No need for it to be said twice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People don't have an obligation to be your friend or sexual partner because they are on a swing site.
The vast majority of people are friendly, intelligent people but they also have lives outside of fab and can be busy.
A bombardment of messages from someone you haven't met and page views every five minutes can be overwhelming and (I'm sure) downright creepy and can lead to blocks.
Best of luck going forward. |
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"I get were use are cummin from and i read every profile b4 I txt or send an add was just thinking everyone on this was less privet thanks for the comments peeps ?? "
With all the fakers here on needs to be more private!!
Sending a Friends request means one gets to see PRIVATE photos, same as just saying "I want to see your photos!"
Some profiles just love to have a long list of Friends showing "just to look good!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always say we are all people not just pieces of meat so respect ,attraction are part of it no because we are here we automatically have to fuck everyone that comes or be friends with anyone!
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here, here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My point is general manors, I was brought up to say please and thank you, its nice to be nice, I've been told many a time I'm too polite "
..completely agree....in the real world good manners are essential. . But apparently some people on here take "no thanks" as a personal slight. ....and get nasty. ...we had one guy...who wasn't suitable for us at all...he was straight. .and lived very far away. ...we politely said no....which led to a torrent of abuse....just saying. ..
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"My point is general manors, I was brought up to say please and thank you, its nice to be nice, I've been told many a time I'm too polite ..completely agree....in the real world good manners are essential. . But apparently some people on here take "no thanks" as a personal slight. ....and get nasty. ...we had one guy...who wasn't suitable for us at all...he was straight. .and lived very far away. ...we politely said no....which led to a torrent of abuse....just saying. .."
... and the reason why people "appear" to have no manners!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand why people block you for sending friend requests bit silly when ur on a site to meet people in the first place "
Your nearly on the right track get too know people on the forums have a laugh and bit of banter with them and when you send them a msg they might remember you from the forums don't send them a friend's request straight away get to know them first by msg and if your getting on ask them can you send them a friend's request best of luck op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have sent a polite message for coffee or chat and was blocked immediately. Some people on this site want money to meet people and have several profiles so I think that is why you are blocked. They may be escorts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent a polite message for coffee or chat and was blocked immediately. Some people on this site want money to meet people and have several profiles so I think that is why you are blocked. They may be escorts "
.....you mean male and female escorts are on here? ....really?...wow..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got a friend request a few days ago from a lady's profile, had a look at look at the profile, Notting showing, sent a nice massage would you like to chat, my massage was never read,so who in there right mind are going to let people in to private photos with out willing to chat, fakes, timewasters making this place very difficult and disappointing..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent a polite message for coffee or chat and was blocked immediately. Some people on this site want money to meet people and have several profiles so I think that is why you are blocked. They may be escorts "
Maybe you weren't they type and that's why they blocked you just move on simples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My point is general manors, I was brought up to say please and thank you, its nice to be nice, I've been told many a time I'm too polite "
Not replying isn't bad manners. Some couples/women get tonnes of messages on here. Replying "no thanks" to all the ones they're not interested may not be feasible for them if they're busy. No reply = no thanks, so don't take it personally or presume people don't have manners just cos they don't reply. |
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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago
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I don't block people for sending me a friend's request
I just won't accept it.
Am not interested in their pics.
Bad manners to assume it will be acceoted and not even an exchange in mails etc
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't cost me a thought to block someone that ignores our profile.if they can't respect what we say on our profile,what are the chances of them showing any respect should we meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get were use are cummin from and i read every profile b4 I txt or send an add was just thinking everyone on this was less privet thanks for the comments peeps ?? "
This is probably one of the daftest comments I've ever seen, less private? Just because its a swing site it doesn't mean that people want every tom, dick or harry seeing very private and personal photos of them, unless you've lived under a rock you'll know that t'internet isn't the safest place to have nude pics of yourself on public display |
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