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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
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I managed to work that one out for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
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That's why me on top always delivers multiple orgasms
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
I managed to work that one out for myself "
So did I that's another reason why I put up my thread 'man enough....' the other day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This first sentence..
'A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control'
...is contradicting the rest of the article.
It says we cant control our ability to orgasm, and then goes on to tell us what positions you can use to control our ability to orgasm. |
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By *excockMan
over a year ago
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
That's why me on top always delivers multiple orgasms
Cat "
I think you on top would give anyone multiple orgasms!
Amazing new pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wish my clit would bring the rest of me when it migrates.
On a related note, someone once told me I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen. I took it as a personal insult |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Clit size is a strange one alright some tiny some pretty big.
I plan to carry out a completely unscientific study on this and need as many female volunteers as possible.
Pms welcome |
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
That's why me on top always delivers multiple orgasms
Cat
I think you on top would give anyone multiple orgasms!
Amazing new pics "
Lol.. Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Is all in the brain the way you breath bla bla bla I be here for ages if u atractive to the person and if both spend time to discover each others body's then everyone can have an orgasm for those who think they can't orgasm try tantra or just relax more |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A common misconception is that the ability to orgasm is within a person’s control – dependent upon their confidence, sexual openness or ability to trust.
Furthermore, many people also suggest that it is the size of a penis or the sexual prowess of a partner that determines whether climax will be reached during intercourse.
And so, people who struggle to orgasm often feel as if it is their own fault.
But, scientists discovered that a person's ability to reach orgasm is largely dependent upon their own anatomy – and as such, is beyond their control.
For men, the signals between their brain, spinal cord and penis must be functioning properly.
And for women, the migration of their clitoris during sex dictates whether they can orgasm.
Study author Dr Jason Siegel, of Mayo Clinic, said 'This gives us a more scientific and anatomical basis for why people aren’t achieving orgasm than just the societal feelings of penis size or G-spot placement.
Contrary to popular belief the best positions to ensure female orgasm involve front entry of the penis, rather than rear entry.
The position commonly known as 'doggy style' was not found to stimulate the vaginal wall as much as other positions.
Researchers noted the results from MRI scans of couples having sex.
Rather, women were more likely to experience vaginal stimulation in the 'missionary' and 'cowgirl' positions (where the woman is on top but facing forwards, away from her partner).
Dr Siegel said: 'If a woman is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it seems like it tends to be more successful if the front wall of the vagina is more stimulated.'
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Go DoubleUB & all your research info!!
I would totally be in agreement re this research... The positions they say are optimal for reaching orgasm work best for moi |
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"My orgasms are like buses, you could be waiting ages for one and then three come together
Id love to be there when yr buses come in" Aw sweet, it can get a bit wet though |
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"My orgasms are like buses, you could be waiting ages for one and then three come together
Id love to be there when yr buses come in Aw sweet, it can get a bit wet though " you could soak my face Mrs curvy anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wish my clit would bring the rest of me when it migrates.
BRILLIANT!
On a related note, someone once told me I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen. I took it as a personal insult "
Someone here says you have "A lovely little clit" and nothing wrong with the way it works!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hold up a second, has anyone ever had an MRI here? I can't imagine being able to achieve any orgasm in one of those machines!! "
Indeed, someone who had one recently told me it involved keeping very still for an extended period. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Besides maybe best position for lady to come missionary and cowgirl also brill for seeing each others expressions which is an aphrodisiac in itself. Love a ladies face as she cums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"...Love a ladies face as she cums.
Maybe she was trying to hold a fart in? "
....yeuch!
But....now that I think about it........maybe that wasn't brown nail varnish on the sheets...... |
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"Wish my clit would bring the rest of me when it migrates.
BRILLIANT!
On a related note, someone once told me I had the smallest clit he'd ever seen. I took it as a personal insult
Someone here says you have "A lovely little clit" and nothing wrong with the way it works!
" works nd ymmy |
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"My orgasms are like buses, you could be waiting ages for one and then three come together
Id love to be there when yr buses come in Aw sweet, it can get a bit wet though "
The wetter the better, Deeeeelish |
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