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Fab verses the real world
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I met a guy on here last time I was on. Chatted for a while wasn't really that interested and then he caught me in the mood one day so I met him.
We met regular for about 3 months and sex was always fab. He really had a great cock- see my profile pic! Lol our set up was just purely about sex. I'm not even convinced I know his real name.
Truth be told he totally wasn't my type. If I seen him in a bar I wouldn't take a second glance.
So my question is... Do you think you can have great sex with someone you don't fancy ? Has me wondering today if looks really matter?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality is often what attracts me most, so after chatting to someone I didn't fancy at first sight, they can grow on me  .
And no matter how physically hot someone is, a shit personality will always be repellent. |
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By *ierycrackWoman
over a year ago
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"Personality is often what attracts me most, so after chatting to someone I didn't fancy at first sight, they can grow on me .
And no matter how physically hot someone is, a shit personality will always be repellent."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't do it. Some of the hottest people here repulse me because of there attitude to others. I love someone with strong opinions but many use the anonymous benefits of fab to be arseholes knowing because they are physical hot some will kiss ass regardless.
That said a half decent FB can keep you sane until you find the one or two |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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This is why I don't understand why people are so obsessed with face pics in the first message. I love to chat and see if the mind clicks. I enjoy sex much more if my naughty mind is on fire. While a boring good looking bloke will most likely be a sheit meet. However each on their own. |
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"This is why I don't understand why people are so obsessed with face pics in the first message. I love to chat and see if the mind clicks. I enjoy sex much more if my naughty mind is on fire. While a boring good looking bloke will most likely be a sheit meet. However each on their own. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is why I don't understand why people are so obsessed with face pics in the first message. I love to chat and see if the mind clicks. I enjoy sex much more if my naughty mind is on fire. While a boring good looking bloke will most likely be a sheit meet. However each on their own. "
Agreed, there is so much more to great sex than looks. |
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"This is why I don't understand why people are so obsessed with face pics in the first message. I love to chat and see if the mind clicks. I enjoy sex much more if my naughty mind is on fire. While a boring good looking bloke will most likely be a sheit meet. However each on their own. "
I'm with you if there's nothing behind the bod , ie a person/personally then the sex can be lifeless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world.."
And hardly limited to women!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world..
And hardly limited to women!!!"
I suppose your are right.
I met that guy knowing he wasn't my usual type in the looks department but I liked his filthy talk. So when we met it was straight down to business and it was all he promised.
Would I want to wake up to him the next morning? No I don't think so as other than sex we didn't have anything in common. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world..
And hardly limited to women!!!"
never said it was,
have a good day now, must get back to work.  |
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world..
And hardly limited to women!!!
I suppose your are right.
I met that guy knowing he wasn't my usual type in the looks department but I liked his filthy talk. So when we met it was straight down to business and it was all he promised.
Would I want to wake up to him the next morning? No I don't think so as other than sex we didn't have anything in common. "
Nothing wrong with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world..
And hardly limited to women!!!
I suppose your are right.
I met that guy knowing he wasn't my usual type in the looks department but I liked his filthy talk. So when we met it was straight down to business and it was all he promised.
Would I want to wake up to him the next morning? No I don't think so as other than sex we didn't have anything in common.
Nothing wrong with that."
Nope, sounds like a win-win, this isn't a dating site after all. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"There's such a supply if guys that girls can find a guy that has a good personality AND find him attractive. It's not either or. You can have both"
Attraction can take many roads and when someone intrigues you, you might also see him/her in a different light regarding the looks.
Or in Confucius words everything has beauty but not everyone can see it. |
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Attraction can be an in the moment thing, I met a lady on here we got along really well, our first in person meeting was the let's be friends thing, it developed into a long term casual set up where the sex keeps getting better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one  they'd probably make me do the same though lol  "
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to. |
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Depends which head I am thinking with. I prefer both naturally.
Beauty is subjective however a good personality tends to be objective. I never consider them to be mutually exclusive.
I am no oil painting so I don't judge anyone purely on looks. But a nasty personality or lack of personality is always a turn off regardless of the packaging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one they'd probably make me do the same though lol
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to. "
She only gave her own opinion to a question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 05/04/16 17:54:00]"
What he said
Looks and personality matter on an ongoing basis personally. I've turned down sex from attractive women whose personalities didn't match.
In certain circumstances, parties, role play scenarios etc the rules may bend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sexyness comes in all shapes and sizes . Having said that I 100% have to be very attracted to someone before I'd hop into bed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one they'd probably make me do the same though lol
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to.
She only gave her own opinion to a question"
Ya and I responded. All good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one they'd probably make me do the same though lol
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to.
She only gave her own opinion to a question
Ya and I responded. All good "
All great |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one they'd probably make me do the same though lol
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to. "
you say tomato I say blah blah blah  |
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and sexyness comes in all shapes and sizes . Having said that I 100% have to be very attracted to someone before I'd hop into bed"
What about over the back of a chair?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd take one for the team if I had too, I'd tell them I had a mask fetish and make them wear one they'd probably make me do the same though lol
Taking one for the team is a bit different though. The op had sex with him because she wanted to. you say tomato I say blah blah blah "
Wotevs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I prefer someone who makes me laugh. Some of the best sex I've had is with fuys who had had my rolling round the floor laughing and the crappest was with a guy who did nothing but complain about everything. It really is different strokes for different folks  |
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"what you are saying, you enjoying having sex with him, but would not like waking up to him every morning.
I guess that's part and parcel of the swinging/nsa world..
And hardly limited to women!!!
I suppose your are right.
I met that guy knowing he wasn't my usual type in the looks department but I liked his filthy talk. So when we met it was straight down to business and it was all he promised.
Would I want to wake up to him the next morning? No I don't think so as other than sex we didn't have anything in common.
Nothing wrong with that.
Nope, sounds like a win-win, this isn't a dating site after all."
This is it !
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