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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
If you feel comfortable walking around naked its a good idea to bring a wrap or long t-shirt to a party or group fun....can be annoying having to get back into clothes between fun sessions |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"If you feel comfortable walking around naked its a good idea to bring a wrap or long t-shirt to a party or group fun....can be annoying having to get back into clothes between fun sessions"
Uncomfortable* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen and read comments about others but ultimately make up your own mind. Just because one person has had a poor experience dosent mean you will.
Be very very wary of people trying to limit who you interact with. It's your body not theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!! "
Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms  |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
South Dublin |
"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!!
Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms "
Comdoms? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Trust your instinct..... if something is too good to be true, it probably isn't, bring condoms too!!
Comdoms, comdoms, comdoms. Do not be like me and spend the 10/15 minutes you allowed yourself by getting to a meet in plenty of time, to have a little drink and generally just relax ones self by running around frantically looking for a spar, chemist, any where that you think might sell comdoms. Word to the wise, stationary shops do not sell comdoms
Comdoms? "
#scarletformyself |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
When at a party always watch your belongings.... Like in life, thieves can be found in swinging too sadly. Too many forget this and leave wallets etc in the open, I know several people that were robbed because of this both at parties I've attended and other parties. But don't let a little caution ruin your fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't but I'd highly recommend having a trusted friend or what ever, know of your where abouts and planned meets just an extra security measure especially if playing alone....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't but I'd highly recommend having a trusted friend or what ever, know of your where abouts and planned meets just an extra security measure especially if playing alone......."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.
Do people actually do that????
Yes  "
Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back  |
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Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.
saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke.  |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
around |
"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.
Do people actually do that????
Yes
Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back "
Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.
Do people actually do that????
Yes
Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back
Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses. "
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
dublin |
"Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.
saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke. "
Or alternatively quit   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pack a robe or light clothing and slippers or flip flops when going to parties. you never know what the house rules regarding smoking are, and you may have to go to the back garden to smoke.
saves you having to get all dressed again if you just want a quick post coitus smoke.
Or alternatively quit "
Respect other people's preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't contact other people's meets to badmouth them. Stay classy.
Do people actually do that????
Yes
Don't bad mouth people full stop be better advice it's a small community and it always gets back
Dont believe everything you hear. Make your own opinion about someone not based on someone elses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for (fun) maybe helpful if everyone posted a useful tip. "
if your not comfortable with yourself how can you expect someone else to be always try relax and enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11  "
yep the truth will out when I answer the door in heels you only come up to my nipples |
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"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11
yep the truth will out when I answer the door in heels you only come up to my nipples "
Nipple height would do nicely ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When chatting to a couple remember that there is 2 and show respect to both. Even if the meet is going to be a solo one.
And that goes for ladies as well as the gents. I will not meet a lady unless herself likes her and is happy with me playing alone.
And to the gents i dont bite no harm in saying hi even if your not bi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't lie about your hight or body type , people will notice if you are 5 "5" and not 5"11
I'm 6'5", 6'6" with my shoes on. That tall enough?  "
Most guys here are tall...I finally found where they were all hiding |
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