Hi just wanted to post a little bit about the site. While I understand most people's caution towards single guys. I find it very hard to get started on here. I would consider myself a genuine polite guy. Shy at first but definitely a genuine nice guy and I act accordingly. So I don't know if that's what people look for as a simple polite hello never gets me a reply. And then most people say they will only meet verified people, but how can you get verified if nobody will meet you or chat to you..HELP ME |
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But you ARE verified?
It might also help if you update your profile, you've not changed your age in three years, it looks a little bit lazy or sloppy.
Best of luck  |
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I'd say (if you're not already) be more social on the forums and in chat. It's the best way for people to get familiar with you. Go to a m&g....lots in cork and limerick. READ THE FORUMS and take the advice that's been posted by other members...(this topic and other helpful topics have been covered over and over and over)......don't be that guy that asks for help then doesn't listen.
Hope that helps and good luck x |
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"But you ARE verified?
It might also help if you update your profile, you've not changed your age in three years, it looks a little bit lazy or sloppy.
Best of luck
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What? I was being helpful  |
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"I'd say (if you're not already) be more social on the forums and in chat. It's the best way for people to get familiar with you. Go to a m&g....lots in cork and limerick. READ THE FORUMS and take the advice that's been posted by other members...(this topic and other helpful topics have been covered over and over and over)......don't be that guy that asks for help then doesn't listen.
Hope that helps and good luck x"
Thank you yes that does help. I will most certainly have a look around the forums etc |
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"Thanks for the reply. It must be just me then hahaha. Appreciate the tips. When nothing happens I stay off it for long while intimidating give it another go. Must see what needs updating thanks  "
I'm sure it's not just you. But if you want to be more successful on here, you'll need to put in some time and a little effort. It's no good going off site and hoping things will happen for you without trying. |
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"Thanks for the reply. It must be just me then hahaha. Appreciate the tips. When nothing happens I stay off it for long while intimidating give it another go. Must see what needs updating thanks
I'm sure it's not just you. But if you want to be more successful on here, you'll need to put in some time and a little effort. It's no good going off site and hoping things will happen for you without trying. "
OK cool. I'll certainly try harder. Thanks again for the tips. I hope they work this time  |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??"
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site "
... and here over a year? |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?"
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things "
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months! |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!"
You seem to attack everytime you comment letrim. I think you need to go to your happy place for the rest of the day. :P |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!"
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab. |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab. "
Not policing the Forum.. your first post asks how to get verified when you're already verified.
I then posted asking will people trust your veri if it's hidden.
Plus, if you don't use the site you won't get anywhere.
I've only advised you!!
Constructive advice!! |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab.
Not policing the Forum.. your first post asks how to get verified when you're already verified.
I then posted asking will people trust your veri if it's hidden.
Plus, if you don't use the site you won't get anywhere.
I've only advised you!!
Constructive advice!!"
In fairness you're being very snarky and argumentative, not giving constructive advice. If you don't have a happy place PLEASE borrow someone elses!!! |
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I'm in a similar position , used the site for awhile took part in the forums wasn't really happening for me. I ended up in a normal relationship so knocked it on the head for awhile but thats over now so I'm back |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab.
Not policing the Forum.. your first post asks how to get verified when you're already verified.
I then posted asking will people trust your veri if it's hidden.
Plus, if you don't use the site you won't get anywhere.
I've only advised you!!
Constructive advice!!
In fairness you're being very snarky and argumentative, not giving constructive advice. If you don't have a happy place PLEASE borrow someone elses!!!"
Thank you. I'm glad I wasn't the only person who noticed |
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"I'm in a similar position , used the site for awhile took part in the forums wasn't really happening for me. I ended up in a normal relationship so knocked it on the head for awhile but thats over now so I'm back"
How are you finding it this time around? |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab.
Not policing the Forum.. your first post asks how to get verified when you're already verified.
I then posted asking will people trust your veri if it's hidden.
Plus, if you don't use the site you won't get anywhere.
I've only advised you!!
Constructive advice!!
In fairness you're being very snarky and argumentative, not giving constructive advice. If you don't have a happy place PLEASE borrow someone elses!!!
Thank you. I'm glad I wasn't the only person who noticed "
You're ok hun. Lots,on here (including me) get frustrated with the same posts all the time. But you're taking the hits in stride and (hopefully) following the aadvice given. Chin up, tits out and have a thick skin and you'll be fine xxx |
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"Well you are verified, even though you said you weren't.
With so many dodgy verifications around will people believe it if you have it hidden??
I didn't know it was hidden. I'm not completely up to speed with the workings of the site
... and here over a year?
Joining it and using it are 2 completely different things
Ahhh if you don't use it then it's no wonder you don't get meets!
Don't know what is wrong with all the women here who won't send messages to someone who hasn't been on in months!
point taken which is why I'm looking to do it better this time around. No if your finished trying to be funny and have nothing constructive to say I'll let you get back to your policing of fab.
Not policing the Forum.. your first post asks how to get verified when you're already verified.
I then posted asking will people trust your veri if it's hidden.
Plus, if you don't use the site you won't get anywhere.
I've only advised you!!
Constructive advice!!
In fairness you're being very snarky and argumentative, not giving constructive advice. If you don't have a happy place PLEASE borrow someone elses!!!
Thank you. I'm glad I wasn't the only person who noticed
You're ok hun. Lots,on here (including me) get frustrated with the same posts all the time. But you're taking the hits in stride and (hopefully) following the aadvice given. Chin up, tits out and have a thick skin and you'll be fine xxx"
Leave my tittys out of this it's a very delicate subject  |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c."
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised "
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public. |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public. "
I've just been in and it says I can't show the verification from someone who has left fab. Didn't know that person had gone off the site |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public.
I've just been in and it says I can't show the verification from someone who has left fab. Didn't know that person had gone off the site "
I'd put something explaining that on your profile. |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public.
I've just been in and it says I can't show the verification from someone who has left fab. Didn't know that person had gone off the site
I'd put something explaining that on your profile. "
OK cheers will do |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public.
I've just been in and it says I can't show the verification from someone who has left fab. Didn't know that person had gone off the site
I'd put something explaining that on your profile.
OK cheers will do"
In fact revamp your profile text, no one wants to hear how unsuccessful you were last time. Be optimistic.
Don't make your kik name public. You'll just get bots and weirdos messaging you.
Learn how your filters work and use them as you wish.
Learn how your privacy settings work.
And good luck. |
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"Your profile says you're straight, and your verification is from three years ago, from a man.
That would raise red flags with some people.
Just my 2c.
Isnt there a comment with it?? It was a mmf that was organised
No, you've the verification summary public but the veri itself is private. go to manage verifications and you can make it public.
I've just been in and it says I can't show the verification from someone who has left fab. Didn't know that person had gone off the site
I'd put something explaining that on your profile.
OK cheers will do"
Your profile is certainly better than the one you started with this morning!
Better luck this time around! |
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