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By *ubshelly OP Woman
over a year ago
Portarlington |
I guess this is more for my fellow ladies although guys you are more than welcome to join in 
Recently after checking off a lot of "bucket list" things I've been thinking I've never been involved in a mmf, basically wondering how many ladies have, how they proceeded safety wise, if the experience was worth it etc. Been my go to porn choice for a while now  |
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over a year ago
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MMF is how me and MrC got into swinging  he brought it up to see if I'd be into it. I wasn't that pushed...was more interested in MFF but the more he talked about it, the hotter it sounded. He had a friend who he'd done one with before so he knew he'd be on board. So arranged it and haven't looked back since! I'm not into seeing guys with each other. But I love two hot, strong, confident guys fucking me. I particularly like when the two of them get on well and "gang up" on me 
I've never done it with two strangers so can't advise you on that. I would highly recommend it though. We've had a fair amount of MMF experiences now, mostly through fab, and everyone we've met has been respectful, fun and played safe. |
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By *ubshelly OP Woman
over a year ago
Portarlington |
"MMF is how me and MrC got into swinging he brought it up to see if I'd be into it. I wasn't that pushed...was more interested in MFF but the more he talked about it, the hotter it sounded. He had a friend who he'd done one with before so he knew he'd be on board. So arranged it and haven't looked back since! I'm not into seeing guys with each other. But I love two hot, strong, confident guys fucking me. I particularly like when the two of them get on well and "gang up" on me
I've never done it with two strangers so can't advise you on that. I would highly recommend it though. We've had a fair amount of MMF experiences now, mostly through fab, and everyone we've met has been respectful, fun and played safe. "
I'm the same it's not the 2 guys going at it that turns me on its the thought of "surrendering" so to speak with 2 guys.
See that's were my problem lies, I've nobody in the "vanilla" world i could do this with but the thought of risking my safety with strangers scares me, catch 22 i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Where do I sign up ladies - love the mmf dynamic. Something erotic about two guys giving undivided attention to women. I have a had a few best experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just following, very interested and often thought about having mmf but like you I'd have to know, fancy and trust both guys. I'd also like them to play with each other too. Just a little fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've done mmf a few times more with someone I have met more regularly. ... I've even done the mmf blindfold that does have to have so much trust."
Mmmmmmm that would be hot! |
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I've done it a few times.
I prefer regular meets so I suggested it to two guys I'd previously met and they met up (without me) hatched a plan and took me to heaven!
So much fun!
I knew both guys fairly well so I knew I was safe.
If you have a regular, try doing it with him and one Unknown, I wouldn't suggest it with two new guys.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"MMF is how me and MrC got into swinging he brought it up to see if I'd be into it. I wasn't that pushed...was more interested in MFF but the more he talked about it, the hotter it sounded. He had a friend who he'd done one with before so he knew he'd be on board. So arranged it and haven't looked back since! I'm not into seeing guys with each other. But I love two hot, strong, confident guys fucking me. I particularly like when the two of them get on well and "gang up" on me
I've never done it with two strangers so can't advise you on that. I would highly recommend it though. We've had a fair amount of MMF experiences now, mostly through fab, and everyone we've met has been respectful, fun and played safe.
I'm the same it's not the 2 guys going at it that turns me on its the thought of "surrendering" so to speak with 2 guys.
See that's were my problem lies, I've nobody in the "vanilla" world i could do this with but the thought of risking my safety with strangers scares me, catch 22 i guess"
As others have suggested, do it with a "regular" you know and trust from here. You could even set up a couple profile together to find someone. You'll have loads of guys looking to meet, believe me! So you'll have plenty of choice and can take your time and make sure it's someone you're comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can understand your safety issues OP, not sure it's something I'd do with two random guys. I'm lucky that it's my guys fave thing to do as well as mine so because he's always there safety isn't a problem. Also if it happened that we meet a guy and the spark isn't there, we are still more than happy to just enjoy each other. It's a win win.
I can't recommend it enough, it's the hottest thing ever |
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By *ubshelly OP Woman
over a year ago
Portarlington |
"Can understand your safety issues OP, not sure it's something I'd do with two random guys. I'm lucky that it's my guys fave thing to do as well as mine so because he's always there safety isn't a problem. Also if it happened that we meet a guy and the spark isn't there, we are still more than happy to just enjoy each other. It's a win win.
I can't recommend it enough, it's the hottest thing ever "
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I was seeing a girl for some time and it was an idea we talked about during forplay etc.. it was something she wanted to try so i had a guy in mind that would not only be willing but i knew he would show the girl the same height if respect i did during the fun.. i swapped their numbers so they could text and chat for a while till she was ready.. which was not to long may i say lol.. anyway.. we arranged and he came over with a bottle of wine and we relaxed with the wine and a movie all chattin together on the couch with her in between us and after about a half hour when all the nerves were setteled down the fun started and it was amazing.. so i say try it but only when you are sure you are ready.. and pick someone who will show respect and that they will always remember its all about you |
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I've probably done more MMF's than anything else in swinging (prob about 15 MMF's to date) as i've been a single guy for most of my swinging "career". I mostly met couples who were looking to add a third, but on a few occasions it's just been three single people.
It's really a lot of fun spoiling a willing lady, plus you get to try out all those porn positions like DP and DVP (if everyone is into it)
Like anything with swinging, with the right people it can be amazing.
Go for it OP, if only I could help....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP. Nah, I advise not to fulfil this fantasy. Nothing interesting there being totally surrender to two gents that cannot get their hands out of your naked body. Kissing your neck and running their hands all over you. Also, too much work for you. Having two guys to please and having them get in you at the same time. I am sure no woman would enjoy that... hahah You'll love it. So get it right and make sure it's a safe set up for you and just enjoy what cumms... |
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All great advice on this thread. Would love a mmf too & have the same concerns/issues. Have been invited to a few but those just felt like I'd be passed around so I stay away from them. I have also asked a few of my meets but altho they state 3somes on their profile, when it came down they just wanted ffm & had no interest in Mmf.
I guess the best way (if you haven't a regular FB)is a trustworthy fabber that has verifs from known couples & has experience. |
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By *ubshelly OP Woman
over a year ago
Portarlington |
"All great advice on this thread. Would love a mmf too & have the same concerns/issues. Have been invited to a few but those just felt like I'd be passed around so I stay away from them. I have also asked a few of my meets but altho they state 3somes on their profile, when it came down they just wanted ffm & had no interest in Mmf.
I guess the best way (if you haven't a regular FB)is a trustworthy fabber that has verifs from known couples & has experience. "
Hey _hocoholic met you at b's couldn't message u |
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"All great advice on this thread. Would love a mmf too & have the same concerns/issues. Have been invited to a few but those just felt like I'd be passed around so I stay away from them. I have also asked a few of my meets but altho they state 3somes on their profile, when it came down they just wanted ffm & had no interest in Mmf.
I guess the best way (if you haven't a regular FB)is a trustworthy fabber that has verifs from known couples & has experience.
Hey _hocoholic met you at b's couldn't message u"
Yeah I remember u, we chatted lots. I couldn't think of your FabName after it  was a great night, hope you enjoyed it |
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"I guess this is more for my fellow ladies although guys you are more than welcome to join in
Recently after checking off a lot of "bucket list" things I've been thinking I've never been involved in a mmf, basically wondering how many ladies have, how they proceeded safety wise, if the experience was worth it etc. Been my go to porn choice for a while now "
Bucket list?
You're only 30 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been involved in a few mmf's. one the happened spontaneously or at least I thought it was spontaneous with a girl I was seeing and a mate of mine. Others have been with cpls. From the male perspective there can be some awkwardness but when everybody is comfortable and able to shed their inhibitions it can be incredible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is one of the best. We love them and if I (mr) had my way we would have a live in play mate. I absolutely love it. Seen herself enjoy two cocks and be taking and kinda controlled is such a turn on. Love them.
My advice is do it. Lol  |
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Have tried it a couple of times with a friend and a new meet who was known to my friend. both times the chemistry wasn't great.
If the chemistry isn't right it just won't work. Makes me hesitant to try it again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have tried it a couple of times with a friend and a new meet who was known to my friend. both times the chemistry wasn't great.
If the chemistry isn't right it just won't work. Makes me hesitant to try it again "
Don't give up! Hope you get your great MFM experience! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have tried it a couple of times with a friend and a new meet who was known to my friend. both times the chemistry wasn't great.
If the chemistry isn't right it just won't work. Makes me hesitant to try it again "
Very true. Herselfs first was amazing (her words not mine) but another one was totally different. She felt uncomfortable from the start. |
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As others have stated, best thing is to ask a male swinger you know & trust (have met regularly) to join you in finding another male to fulfill this fantasy. Asking other female swingers who have done MFM's will also be beneficial as they may point you in the direction of some suitable guys. Big thing is finding a guy who has experience and wont let you down.
Having partaken in many threesomes & Foursomes swinging and seeing and listening to the lady's response to the experience I couldn't recommend it highly enough.
Happy hunting
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences... |
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By *ubshelly OP Woman
over a year ago
Portarlington |
"I guess this is more for my fellow ladies although guys you are more than welcome to join in
Recently after checking off a lot of "bucket list" things I've been thinking I've never been involved in a mmf, basically wondering how many ladies have, how they proceeded safety wise, if the experience was worth it etc. Been my go to porn choice for a while now
Bucket list?
You're only 30 "
Never to early to start checking things off |
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences... "
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys |
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys "
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea. "
Never thought there was a difference, guess I just tend the one where I am sandwiched in the middle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys "
Correction my friend, there is no difference, MMF can be used to describe a female having sex with either two hetros or two bisexual males.. |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
South Dublin |
"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea. "
Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters |
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea.
Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters "
as long as you're first eh, elf? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea.
Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters "
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I have been involved many times...safety is not a issue as hubby has always been there but I can understand your concerns and rightly so but don't let it stop you....we find men who have experience with cpls are the best they are more comfortably around another man...go for it! |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
on the hill NordWest of |
"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea.
Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters
as long as you're first eh, elf?"
That would be a FMM so? |
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"Didn't know there was a difference in Mmf or mfm to be honest, my personal preference is straight guys (no offence intended) so mfm??"
Well if you're ever stuck for a "3rd wheel" .. just gimme a shout |
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Correction my friend, there is no difference, MMF can be used to describe a female having sex with either two hetros or two bisexual males.."
There are basically two different types of threesomes: a threesome where there is bisexual play between the two individuals of the same sex, and a threesome where there is no bisexual play between the individuals of the same sex. An acronym in which the letters signifying the same sex are placed back to back (FFM, MMF) indicates a threesome in which there is bisexual activity. An acronym in which the two letters are separated by the letter signifying the opposite sex (FMF, MFM) indicates that there is no bisexual activity. An MFM threesome does not involve male-male sexual play, while an MMF threesome does include male-male sexual activity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My experience is that not all people see it that way. My preference is to say MFM, to avoid any confusion. However when others say MMF, I do not assume bisexual play was meant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been involved in MMF and MFM it's all about giving the lady total pleasure and making sure she has a safe and enjoyable experience, my verifications r available to read if any of u ladies or couples r interested xx |
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By *lfieWoman
over a year ago
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea.
Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters
as long as you're first eh, elf?"
Then that would be an EMM. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Too many times to remember , adore MFM especialy with two sexy bi guys....
I prefer to plan in advance, so the guts get to know eachother and moi,all of us know the boundaries and personal preferences...
MFM is two heterosexual guys
MMF is two bisexual guys
Is that a generally accepted term? I always use mmf out of handiness. Maybe I should change that lest people get the wrong idea. "
You and me both John |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Count me in as it also on my bucket list, just need the right people !"
Weren't the ones that verified you for it the 'right people'?. That'll make them happy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Pfffft. I really don't think the order matters
as long as you're first eh, elf?
Then that would be an EMM. "
I like that for your OS, Elfie's Man Management. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always say mmf but we don't knowingly play with Bi sexual men "
Think Bi men might have had a lucky escape there so lol
Was lucky enough to have had a MFM with a couple who which the guy was straight. One of the most amazing nights and the lady was well spoiled and at no point did i try to jump on him.
But im just a relaxed guy who doesnt consider himself the judge and jury of the swinging world  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We always say mmf but we don't knowingly play with Bi sexual men
Think Bi men might have had a lucky escape there so lol
Was lucky enough to have had a MFM with a couple who which the guy was straight. One of the most amazing nights and the lady was well spoiled and at no point did i try to jump on him.
But im just a relaxed guy who doesnt consider himself the judge and jury of the swinging world "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mmf is easy for us as a couple and is unbelievably horny.. each encounter has its own dynamic. But overall if you meet the right guys it will be an experience you will want to repeat over and over |
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We'll if Subshelly wants to submit she has to put her trust in d 2 guys she picks . I play with a friend off of here check him out gentleman 44 I think his site name . If ur interested message him r me ?? No problem if ur not interested . |
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so its mfm for us 
