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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)
He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think there is a wrong or right decision here, regardless of the outcome, you need to do what feels right to you. Just be true and honest to yourself and others (him)
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By *oldbabeWoman
over a year ago
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Try not to confuse lust or desire with love...for me if its just lust or desire id go for it but if you bring love into the mix you could be leaving yourself open to getting hurt.....only you can decide...proceed with caution... do what's right for you..xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if you met him, then saw he had other recent veris around the same time as you met?! Would you be hurt by that? If you just fancy him go for it, just know where you stand on the fun level.
It's a hard one to call. Who knows, you might have more in common than you think both being on here.
Now i have to go find the very hot Polish guy I'm crushing on, hopefully he's around here too haha. Good luck x  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Let the go" 
If u have a crush on him I am assuming u know him from vanilla land
There's a few things u have to think about
Do u want some one that close knowing ur diaviant side
If u do meet will it spoil ur relationship with him as it is now
On the other hand ur both here can u see ur self watching him Fuck another lady
There's probably another hundred questions but I think I'd go for coffee talk to him see where he is in life what's he looking for here things like that and if u fancy a Fuck then go for it otherwise block him and get over it |
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Ah Op you only live once..id go for it. Id be always left wondering if i didnt, which is a head melt in itself. It could turn out youre not sexually compatible but like each other as friends which gaining a new friend is always good. If you are compatible then why not you could end up opening a couples profile here Use your head and not your heart xx |
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"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)
He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??
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I noticed a lot have told you to not go there, stay away etc. I think you should go for it, be adventurous, see where it takes you. If it doesn't work out to your satisfaction, like lots of things in all our lives, sure you can dust yourself down and move on.........I hope  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)
He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??
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Of course you should go for it, just because others here got their fingers burnt, does not mean a jot...
Meet the guy, have some sexy fun, keep a clear head and if you find yourself wanting more and he does not then walk away... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you been chatting to a man and find out he's the person you've had a crush on for a while now... (Feel like a teenager)
He's gorgeous and just here for fun like me, should I play even tho I like him or stay away??
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Sure i think you should go for it but keep in mind this is a sex site not POF or some other dsting site.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wonder what the alternative is....say nothing and hope to bump into him in real life and both lie about your sexual history???...hope he never figures out why a part of you seems closed off???
.nope..nothing ventured nothing gained...if you approach him and it doesn't work out then at least you tried...never fear emotion...its why we exist!!...
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On a serious note, only you can decide whether or not, you have to ask yourself if you can handle the situation. There's a good chance that you screw with your own head... 
