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over a year ago
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"I'm just wondering is 18 too young for one of these sites, I feel I can attract a lot of the wrong attention, I'm just wondering on peoples opinions"
Do you think your too young?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's the wrong attention?"
i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the wrong attention? i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm just wondering is 18 too young for one of these sites, I feel I can attract a lot of the wrong attention, I'm just wondering on peoples opinions
Do you think your too young??"
I don't think I'm too young to want new experiences and use this website as a way of exploring that. I just think people might look at my age and either try take advantage of that, shy away, or just not believe this is a real 18 yr old lad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the wrong attention? i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
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You can block guys from messaging you if you go to message filters. |
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"What's the wrong attention? i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
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Well one thing you did right was to come in here to ask these lovely folk their advice. Stay if you want and see what happens but dont let a few men mails put you off. You need a thick skin here so welcome,relax and enjoy.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well ya gotta ask yourself a few question what are ya looking for? If its 3sums gangbangs parties etc you gotta ask will you have the balls to actually turn up? It's all well and good having a fantasy but it can be quite daunting in reality
Are you looking for single women? You may have better luck out in the pubs and clubs or whatever young folk do nowadays, just because this is a swing site don't be thinking that everyone is gonna wanna shag at the drop of a hat
Oh and finally, there are hundreds of single guys on here, be patient have a good profile and don't be a bollix  |
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"Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day"
Go into your filters like the lads told you and block males from contacting you.It will put an end to the messages straight away. Use your account to suit you.  |
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"Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day
Go into your filters like the lads told you and block males from contacting you.It will put an end to the messages straight away. Use your account to suit you. "
Why are u presupposing that he would be a 'bollix' ? |
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Firstly I don't think you are two young to be here, you're probably a bit younger than some people's preferences but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be here. It just means you will need some patience and maybe a thick skin too.
As for the messages you've been receiving, like others have said use your filters and that will too them.
Good luck OP |
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"Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day
Go into your filters like the lads told you and block males from contacting you.It will put an end to the messages straight away. Use your account to suit you.
Why are u presupposing that he would be a 'bollix' ? "
Im becoming more convinced youve the hots for our J  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just wondering is 18 too young for one of these sites, I feel I can attract a lot of the wrong attention, I'm just wondering on peoples opinions"
best of luck to ya lad , go for it. Do like some of the folks here said use youre filters , block whom ever you want . if they still get through, or you get nasty mail, if its that bad just block and report.dont spend youre time on here at the weekends ect when you should be out in the real world, having a natural youth.Just use it as a mickey mouse hobbie,during the week. You never know you might get lucky,and get that all illusive msg one day .Maybe an older lady might take a shine to you , Until then kid be like the rest of us and the join the oderly queue.happy hunting |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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"What's the wrong attention? i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day
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Welcome to the world of a hot lady! Ah man just laugh it off and don't read messages from men, tbh your bigger problem is many ladies have kids your age or even older |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm just wondering is 18 too young for one of these sites, I feel I can attract a lot of the wrong attention, I'm just wondering on peoples opinions
best of luck to ya lad , go for it. Do like some of the folks here said use youre filters , block whom ever you want . if they still get through, or you get nasty mail, if its that bad just block and report.dont spend youre time on here at the weekends ect when you should be out in the real world, having a natural youth.Just use it as a mickey mouse hobbie,during the week. You never know you might get lucky,and get that all illusive msg one day .Maybe an older lady might take a shine to you , Until then kid be like the rest of us and the join the oderly queue.happy hunting"
I don't spend my weekends hoping to get some luck from this site but I understand what you mean, I have a life outside this and on weekends when I'm free not working or studying I get out and socialize like your average 18 yr old lad and I have luck with that as well with women my age, I'm on hear looking for more experiences though and I do have patience waiting but I am out of preference for alot of people on here so I feel my wait is going to be a long one. Thank you for your advice and opinion. It is much appreciated along with everyone elses besides the lad who thinks I might be a bit a of a bolix haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the wrong attention? i get a lot and I mean a lot of older men and I mean near triple my age with very twisted fantasies with a guy my age and are very direct about it. Like it wouldn't even be an in anyway pleasant message to read. I feel they try take advantage of my lack of experience and it makes it hard to find any genuine people on here
Its not even a few, its a lot all the time, when I first joined it sort of threw me off because the first day there was like 15 quite graphic and not the nicest messages from not the nicest people. Its hard to find fun out of a website when I'm thrown messages like that at least 1 or 2 times a day
Welcome to the world of a hot lady! Ah man just laugh it off and don't read messages from men, tbh your bigger problem is many ladies have kids your age or even older"
I get they do and I can see that could be an issue for some , I didn't and still don't know what to fully expect from my time on fan but hopefully it will be a little better then what I have personally witnessed so far |
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Well you are straight
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Couples (MF) Couples (FF) Men Women
Sort your profile out and if you don't want men contacting you then Block them by Filters!! Take looking for men out!
...and No! I'm not one that mailed you! |
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By *-ManMan
over a year ago
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I get they do and I can see that could be an issue for some , I didn't and still don't know what to fully expect from my time on fan but hopefully it will be a little better then what I have personally witnessed so far "
Bottom line is if it's fun, stick around, if not get out of dodge ASAP. Helps to think of fab as a tool, if the tool makes your life easier then cool, if it's not find another tool that works. Best of luck either way |
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"Well I just haven't got to use this as a tool in my life yet so I'm not sure how it work. But thanks for the response"
So you take your time with the site. Ive a feeling youre like a rabbit caught in the headlights and feel very daunted here. Relax and youll be fine. Youve already taken the step to ask advice. Join in on the topics posted. Theyre a mad bunch here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"send me a face pic i will let you know then if your too young   lol only messing..relax..use your filters and enjoy it "
lol trust you jilly to lead the young lad astray lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"send me a face pic i will let you know then if your too young lol only messing..relax..use your filters and enjoy it "
Trust me haha, I've been told I have a baby face. I'm gonna use the filters now , thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just be careful who you meet "
Im being very careful and wouldn't meet anyone unless I was fully comfortable with them and would probably have to meet them publicly first. I'm staying cautious |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well I just haven't got to use this as a tool in my life yet so I'm not sure how it work. But thanks for the response
So you take your time with the site. Ive a feeling youre like a rabbit caught in the headlights and feel very daunted here. Relax and youll be fine. Youve already taken the step to ask advice. Join in on the topics posted. Theyre a mad bunch here "
Haha, you have that half right, haha, I did get a little bit of a shock to everything on here when I first joined. And because of how helpful this has been today I've started to join in on the forums, there quite fun when you get into it. Definitely a few mad ones thrown in there |
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"Well I just haven't got to use this as a tool in my life yet so I'm not sure how it work. But thanks for the response
So you take your time with the site. Ive a feeling youre like a rabbit caught in the headlights and feel very daunted here. Relax and youll be fine. Youve already taken the step to ask advice. Join in on the topics posted. Theyre a mad bunch here
Haha, you have that half right, haha, I did get a little bit of a shock to everything on here when I first joined. And because of how helpful this has been today I've started to join in on the forums, there quite fun when you get into it. Definitely a few mad ones thrown in there "
Good lad ... and welcome |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!"
Well its not my fault I'm young enough to be there son. Its not there's either but there is people who I am not too young for as well . I'm just wondering on peoples opinion, of someone my age on this , and also for me to see what the issue is that makes me too young. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!"
Partly what Sub said and partly because I just don't think any 18 year old is mature enough to cope with this site. I've had 18 year old boys (boys!) of my own and I wouldn't have wanted them subject to some of the stuff that goes on on here. You've already started to experience it with messages from men 3 times your age. |
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!
Well its not my fault I'm young enough to be there son. Its not there's either but there is people who I am not too young for as well . I'm just wondering on peoples opinion, of someone my age on this , and also for me to see what the issue is that makes me too young. "
Never said it was your fault or anyone's fault!!
You won't be for everyone! Simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!
Partly what Sub said and partly because I just don't think any 18 year old is mature enough to cope with this site. I've had 18 year old boys (boys!) of my own and I wouldn't have wanted them subject to some of the stuff that goes on on here. You've already started to experience it with messages from men 3 times your age. "
Why can't any 18 year old "boy" be mature enough for this site. Not everyone is the same or comes from the same background so you don't know how any specific persons way of living and mindset is mature enough for this site |
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!
Partly what Sub said and partly because I just don't think any 18 year old is mature enough to cope with this site. I've had 18 year old boys (boys!) of my own and I wouldn't have wanted them subject to some of the stuff that goes on on here. You've already started to experience it with messages from men 3 times your age.
Why can't any 18 year old "boy" be mature enough for this site. Not everyone is the same or comes from the same background so you don't know how any specific persons way of living and mindset is mature enough for this site"
Unless he's mature enough to realize and accept many won't meet guys the same age as their children etc etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Going against everyone elses opinion, I do think you are too young.
But I still wish you luck
Why is that?
Because for many you are too young for them!!
Partly what Sub said and partly because I just don't think any 18 year old is mature enough to cope with this site. I've had 18 year old boys (boys!) of my own and I wouldn't have wanted them subject to some of the stuff that goes on on here. You've already started to experience it with messages from men 3 times your age.
Why can't any 18 year old "boy" be mature enough for this site. Not everyone is the same or comes from the same background so you don't know how any specific persons way of living and mindset is mature enough for this site"
You asked for opinions. You got mine. You will never change it I'm afraid |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Block men and block people who aren't photo verified,you will find all these options in your settings, everyone here gets the odd nasty message but at least if you use your filters they will be less frequent...
Your getting fucked up messages from guys who have fantasies about being with young guys,unfortunately there's too many weirdos but at 18 is that really something you want to subject yourself to?
Your only 18 and at that age the world of opportunity is ahead of you,take things slowly and take your time... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Block men and block people who aren't photo verified,you will find all these options in your settings, everyone here gets the odd nasty message but at least if you use your filters they will be less frequent...
Your getting fucked up messages from guys who have fantasies about being with young guys,unfortunately there's too many weirdos but at 18 is that really something you want to subject yourself to?
Your only 18 and at that age the world of opportunity is ahead of you,take things slowly and take your time..."
Thank you for your advice . I appreciate it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm just wondering is 18 too young for one of these sites, I feel I can attract a lot of the wrong attention, I'm just wondering on peoples opinions
If you have to ask, you probably are."
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