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"I also like OP felt uncomfortable reading. I appreciate regular forum members have seen threads from singles like his, over and over and over again however if OP is new to fab he won't know that this is a common grudge from single men. And does everyone know Why guys don't get replies. Newbies may genuinely not know. And my opinion and maybe I'm naive but forums should be used to provide constructive advice and tips in a respectful way. Don't see why any poster should be ganged up against, and shot down in flames, that just my opinion Agreed "   | |||
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? " Ooh! There's a novel thought... | |||
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 ) So if you venture in here, just like any anonymous forum, you have to have a bit of a thick skin and be prepared for abuse, unwarranted as it may be. Just try to ignore it - any other reaction just gives it the fuel it needs.
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? Ooh! There's a novel thought..." Even if that was the case, then he proved exactly what he wanted to achieve: put a regular reoccurring question as a newbie out there and the vultures come in. The amount of aggression on that thread was appaling. I consequently stayed completely away as I don't support nor accept behaviour like this. | |||
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"I also like OP felt uncomfortable reading. I appreciate regular forum members have seen threads from singles like his, over and over and over again however if OP is new to fab he won't know that this is a common grudge from single men. And does everyone know Why guys don't get replies. Newbies may genuinely not know. And my opinion and maybe I'm naive but forums should be used to provide constructive advice and tips in a respectful way. Don't see why any poster should be ganged up against, and shot down in flames, that just my opinion " | |||
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"This has become much more of a problem in the Irish forum than in any other forum on fab to the point that it has been mentioned a couple of times in the UK, lounge and swingers chat rooms. While everyone has seen a thousand why me posts it is beyond some people, many well known fabbers I might add, to pass it by without getting a dig in. Not only that but it's in almost every type of post now. The Irish room is world's apart from the fun it was 12 months ago and that's down to a handful of people forcing their not so positive outlook on the rest of us. One thing is for sure, it ain't gonna change any time soon " | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies." Agreed | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies." These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it... | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it... "No matter if it's a troll posts looking for replies or a newbie thread that bores you endlessly, why do you reply th? | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
No matter if it's a troll posts looking for replies or a newbie thread that bores you endlessly, why do you reply th? "Well most of them ask for advice or a discussion which I will try to engage in. | |||
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? " Possibly,but if that the case and they are seeking reaction and attention, then why give them that attention. Like the real world, there will always be people who like to stir and provoke..so personally if I felt this was the case, I would not be giving airtime/reaction | |||
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? Ooh! There's a novel thought... Even if that was the case, then he proved exactly what he wanted to achieve: put a regular reoccurring question as a newbie out there and the vultures come in. The amount of aggression on that thread was appaling. I consequently stayed completely away as I don't support nor accept behaviour like this. " Exactly my thoughts | |||
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"Simply because it has been done over and over and over again! Everyone knows Why guys don't get replies so many times. It has been explained over and over and over again! So someone... ANYONE moaning about it will get shot down in flames, newbie or not, verified or not!! It's an adult site not a kids play ground so these "moaners" shouldn't act as kids!! Simple as that! " all they have to do is: A read the FAQ for the site B use the search option for the forum and read previous threads about it. | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it... "Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene". | |||
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"Nobody deserves abuse. ...everybody deserves respect....even if u don't agree with their post or comment. Suggest the certain peeps should stop to think before they hit send on that thread post. Peace and love (and sex ! Lol) to all. " | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene". "I am entitled to give my opinion, here's examples, guy asked the other day to have a discussion on why single guys get a bad name, when people tried, not in a nasty way, to engage in discussion he just deflected questions and gave smart little answers, guy puts a thread yesterday saying everyone who doesn't reply to messages deserves abuse, we don't reply to some messages,does that mean we deserve abuse? I was merely standing up for us...anyone that genuinely wants advice usually gets good advice with the first few posts then stops, those that want a reaction and to file people continue whilst completely ignoring any advice given | |||
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"So it's OK to make fun of people's jobs on FAB forums? ....very liberated I must say...." How was his job made fun of? | |||
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"So it's OK to make fun of people's jobs on FAB forums? ....very liberated I must say...." this | |||
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"I didn't contribute to the thread However any thread that contains the wording "Woman deserve abuse". No matter what context it's used should be called out for doing so. " Agree | |||
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"Nice being accused of being a troll pmsl I wouldn't even know how too be one but hey maybe some people should look back on there posts on some threads "yep so should you point in case https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436277 https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436608 you started one the very same as the one yoi did yesterday and then commented on one started by another bloke so its clear that you got the answers on those threads so the one yesterday was just to whinge and hope to get attention. | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene". "Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite' | |||
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"Nice being accused of being a troll pmsl I wouldn't even know how too be one but hey maybe some people should look back on there posts on some threads
yep so should you point in case
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436277
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436608
you started one the very same as the one yoi did yesterday and then commented on one started by another bloke so its clear that you got the answers on those threads so the one yesterday was just to whinge and hope to get attention.
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"It would appear that in the Irish forum in paticular, to denigrate another elevates oneself slightly and imparts a general feeling of well being ...sadly.. .for any society to succeed the strong must protect the weak, on fab many feel the best way to get up the ladder is to shove others down... ..but...thankfully..there are many that see through this tactic ...and end up having some fun!!.. "Agree, and I have lots of fun | |||
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"It would appear that in the Irish forum in paticular, to denigrate another elevates oneself slightly and imparts a general feeling of well being ...sadly.. .for any society to succeed the strong must protect the weak, on fab many feel the best way to get up the ladder is to shove others down... ..but...thankfully..there are many that see through this tactic ...and end up having some fun!!..
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"Nice being accused of being a troll pmsl I wouldn't even know how too be one but hey maybe some people should look back on there posts on some threads
yep so should you point in case
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436277
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/436608
you started one the very same as the one yoi did yesterday and then commented on one started by another bloke so its clear that you got the answers on those threads so the one yesterday was just to whinge and hope to get attention.
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"It would appear that in the Irish forum in paticular, to denigrate another elevates oneself slightly and imparts a general feeling of well being ...sadly.. .for any society to succeed the strong must protect the weak, on fab many feel the best way to get up the ladder is to shove others down... ..but...thankfully..there are many that see through this tactic ...and end up having some fun!!.. "well said | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite' "Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite... | |||
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"It would appear that in the Irish forum in paticular, to denigrate another elevates oneself slightly and imparts a general feeling of well being ...sadly.. .for any society to succeed the strong must protect the weak, on fab many feel the best way to get up the ladder is to shove others down... ..but...thankfully..there are many that see through this tactic ...and end up having some fun!!.. "I agree and I do have plenty of fun, I also think though that if people are getting so wound up over other threads and posts, just log off and take a break, get back to the real world for a while. Always works for me. | |||
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"It would appear that in the Irish forum in paticular, to denigrate another elevates oneself slightly and imparts a general feeling of well being ...sadly.. .for any society to succeed the strong must protect the weak, on fab many feel the best way to get up the ladder is to shove others down... ..but...thankfully..there are many that see through this tactic ...and end up having some fun!!.. "This! And may I add as often peeps say on here whinging is unattractive so is aggressive tone and language | |||
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"I also like OP felt uncomfortable reading. I appreciate regular forum members have seen threads from singles like his, over and over and over again however if OP is new to fab he won't know that this is a common grudge from single men. And does everyone know Why guys don't get replies. Newbies may genuinely not know. And my opinion and maybe I'm naive but forums should be used to provide constructive advice and tips in a respectful way. Don't see why any poster should be ganged up against, and shot down in flames, that just my opinion " Exactly! | |||
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"so you admit that you knew you had already gotten the answer to your post before you even posted your last thread this is why people think you are a troll you posted to get a reaction." seriously what are u smoking dude I asked a fukin question and got heckled by the real trolls Jesus man _aid back yeah right think u should change your username | |||
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"Normal people don't spend all their time talking to anonymous strangers on a sex site so most aren't aware that certain topics keep coming up,whether they are newbies or not And the forum search function isn't great as you have to know exactly what your searching for,any nuance and you won't find the subject I often wonder about the posters who post "use the search function" Are they afraid we are going to run out of bytes and fill the internet?" But the ones who have posted the same question and got answers for it in the past are aware of the topic coming up | |||
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? Possibly,but if that the case and they are seeking reaction and attention, then why give them that attention. Like the real world, there will always be people who like to stir and provoke..so personally if I felt this was the case, I would not be giving airtime/reaction" But you must remember, there are people who actually live on the forums. They spend an unhealthy amount of time on the forums for whatever reason. Maybe it's their only way of interacting with people because they have no social skills in the real world. For some the Fab forums actually is their social life. | |||
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"Couldn't agree more with the op, the forums are swamped with regulars just waiting to pounce on a newbie or someone that has an opinion that varies from theirs. Even if this guy was a troll, why would you give him the attention?? No matter what the "elite" say on here there definitely is a clique and we couldn't be happier not to be in it "this | |||
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"Normal people don't spend all their time talking to anonymous strangers on a sex site so most aren't aware that certain topics keep coming up,whether they are newbies or not And the forum search function isn't great as you have to know exactly what your searching for,any nuance and you won't find the subject I often wonder about the posters who post "use the search function" Are they afraid we are going to run out of bytes and fill the internet?" This ^^^ | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite..."The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day | |||
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"Unfortunately the OP of the 'No Replies' thread isn't a newbie. has already asked the question and got polite replies. ...so Why the need to post again about @No Replies' ?? With the OP being here 6 months... the topic has been answered and answered time and time again! In the 6 months newbies have asked... and got good advice and were treated respectfully!! So to many this reposting by same OP can very easily be viewed, correctly or not, as divisive.. and it certainly has been divisive!! Having already been given good advice etc it begs the question "Why the need to ask again about No Replies?" This thread is doing as much damage as the other 'No Reply" thread so hopefully Admin might close it too. Things were bad enough on FAB before the 'No Replies' thread!!!!" and there could be other advice and tips an btw my previous thread a few months back I was tips an advice this time round I was having a rant like most people do on the forums that's a big difference mate | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day "No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created | |||
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"Unfortunately the OP of the 'No Replies' thread isn't a newbie. has already asked the question and got polite replies. ...so Why the need to post again about @No Replies' ?? With the OP being here 6 months... the topic has been answered and answered time and time again! In the 6 months newbies have asked... and got good advice and were treated respectfully!! So to many this reposting by same OP can very easily be viewed, correctly or not, as divisive.. and it certainly has been divisive!! Having already been given good advice etc it begs the question "Why the need to ask again about No Replies?" This thread is doing as much damage as the other 'No Reply" thread so hopefully Admin might close it too. Things were bad enough on FAB before the 'No Replies' thread!!!!" I disagree. This post is not doing damage. Just people expressing different views. Who cares if OP has posted it before or if OP is being divisive. Only can be divisive if respondents let it be | |||
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"Unfortunately the OP of the 'No Replies' thread isn't a newbie. has already asked the question and got polite replies. ...so Why the need to post again about @No Replies' ?? With the OP being here 6 months... the topic has been answered and answered time and time again! In the 6 months newbies have asked... and got good advice and were treated respectfully!! So to many this reposting by same OP can very easily be viewed, correctly or not, as divisive.. and it certainly has been divisive!! Having already been given good advice etc it begs the question "Why the need to ask again about No Replies?" This thread is doing as much damage as the other 'No Reply" thread so hopefully Admin might close it too. Things were bad enough on FAB before the 'No Replies' thread!!!! I disagree. This post is not doing damage. Just people expressing different views. Who cares if OP has posted it before or if OP is being divisive. Only can be divisive if respondents let it be" Just like the last thread done no damage, it wasn't closed for nastiness, it was just a few people having a rant at each other, nothing wrong with a good aul rant...the only ones that seem to take issue with the last one are people who weren't even involved | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day
No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created "Lol fair point!!! Thats not what we are trying to do though, we dont care for clicks.. Only dead fish go with the flow, im merely pointing out that its intimidating for anyone to put something up here. Esp the single guys, really feels like theres a foodchain here or have i completly got the wrong end of the stick?? Ooohhh annnnd we have messaged ye when we just started up and you did say come back when your verified!! Shows my whole point that you yourself have done, not having a go though  | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day
No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created
Lol fair point!!! Thats not what we are trying to do though, we dont care for clicks.. Only dead fish go with the flow, im merely pointing out that its intimidating for anyone to put something up here. Esp the single guys, really feels like theres a foodchain here or have i completly got the wrong end of the stick?? Ooohhh annnnd we have messaged ye when we just started up and you did say come back when your verified!! Shows my whole point that you yourself have done, not having a go though "It is intimidating to post here, but if you have a look over threads that have been single guys just saying hi and introducing themselves they are received very well, and the reason I say come bk when your verified is because we have been fucked around by so many fakes, have had our pics stolen and fake accounts set up that we find it very hard to take people on face value, no offence meant by it, and trust me ye will find out for yourselves how many fakes and wasters are on here, and they can be very convincing... | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day
No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created
Lol fair point!!! Thats not what we are trying to do though, we dont care for clicks.. Only dead fish go with the flow, im merely pointing out that its intimidating for anyone to put something up here. Esp the single guys, really feels like theres a foodchain here or have i completly got the wrong end of the stick?? Ooohhh annnnd we have messaged ye when we just started up and you did say come back when your verified!! Shows my whole point that you yourself have done, not having a go though
It is intimidating to post here, but if you have a look over threads that have been single guys just saying hi and introducing themselves they are received very well, and the reason I say come bk when your verified is because we have been fucked around by so many fakes, have had our pics stolen and fake accounts set up that we find it very hard to take people on face value, no offence meant by it, and trust me ye will find out for yourselves how many fakes and wasters are on here, and they can be very convincing..."Oh and I also said photo verified which takes two minutes and ye never got back to us | |||
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"Many of my UK friends read the Irish forums... Most of them tell me they wouldnt see as much drama on eastenders as they would here... Yes we have trolls... Yes we have the shit throwers... Plenty of bitching... And yes I'm guilty of bitching too... But it's simple you don't like what you see or it annoys you don't comment! Read a different thread! If it pisses you off don't read the forums let alone comment... The forums were mighty craic and always gave me a good laugh reading them but those days are long gone... Cj and McCarthy and even willie mc fuckbucket have always brought a laugh to the place,they are a bit like the father the son and the holy ghost! But I don't think even them can resurrect the forums now..." It can be saved if a certain standard of behaviour is expected and anything less is not tolerated. If they tried it on some of the other forums i visit they'd be hit by the lifetime banhammer so fast their head would spin | |||
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day
No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created
Lol fair point!!! Thats not what we are trying to do though, we dont care for clicks.. Only dead fish go with the flow, im merely pointing out that its intimidating for anyone to put something up here. Esp the single guys, really feels like theres a foodchain here or have i completly got the wrong end of the stick?? Ooohhh annnnd we have messaged ye when we just started up and you did say come back when your verified!! Shows my whole point that you yourself have done, not having a go though
It is intimidating to post here, but if you have a look over threads that have been single guys just saying hi and introducing themselves they are received very well, and the reason I say come bk when your verified is because we have been fucked around by so many fakes, have had our pics stolen and fake accounts set up that we find it very hard to take people on face value, no offence meant by it, and trust me ye will find out for yourselves how many fakes and wasters are on here, and they can be very convincing...
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"Many of my UK friends read the Irish forums... Most of them tell me they wouldnt see as much drama on eastenders as they would here... Yes we have trolls... Yes we have the shit throwers... Plenty of bitching... And yes I'm guilty of bitching too... But it's simple you don't like what you see or it annoys you don't comment! Read a different thread! If it pisses you off don't read the forums let alone comment... The forums were mighty craic and always gave me a good laugh reading them but those days are long gone... Cj and McCarthy and even willie mc fuckbucket have always brought a laugh to the place,they are a bit like the father the son and the holy ghost! But I don't think even them can resurrect the forums now... It can be saved if a certain standard of behaviour is expected and anything less is not tolerated. If they tried it on some of the other forums i visit they'd be hit by the lifetime banhammer so fast their head would spin"
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"I have to say after reading one particular thread tonight that this will be my only post in the forums. A single guy posted how upset he was that he never gets replys to his messages. Yes I saw he said 'no wonder ladies get abusive messages' totally wrong to say that or think that but the amount of abuse he got from so called adults was shocking. Taking the piss of his job and ridiculing him was really shocking. He held his own and fair play to him and some people gave him great advise, others were in my opinion, bullying him and should be ashamed of themselves. There is a really bad element of people on these forums who think it's just for them and their so called fab mates and it's mostly the same people who have a need to comment on every thread they see. I'm really not surprised that people, especially 'newbies' would find it intimidating to put a thread up here. It's disgusting and a lot of you should grow up. It's an adult site not a kids playground. And yeah before the Calvary charge in, its a public forum and I can express my opinion as some of us will stand up to the bullies. These people who put up these single guy posts are just looking for a reaction, as you can clearly see by the amount that have popped up in the last few days, most of them are posted by trolls, as you can see they vanish just as quickly as they appear. As you can also see some of these threads go onto good discussions once the trolls have left, if you feel someone is being bullied report the thread and it will be closed, that thread yesterday was only closed because it got to big so must not have violated any rules, there was threads closed last night because trolls were trying to rile people into an argument, so how about aiming your thread at the ones who put up theses sob stories just to get a reaction? And yes it happens a lot more in the Irish one because that's where the trolls get the response, surely if these people were genuinely upset by no getting replies then they would know that putting a thread about it wouldn't end well...anyway moral of the story is if ya don't like the forum don't look at it and if ya think theres bullying going on report it...
Who are you to say that they're trolls or that they're looking for a reaction. They seem to be genuine people coming to the forum looking for advice....isn't that a large part of what the forum is for? And for the regulars who see these threads all the time, do you not realise that newbies don't know the lay of the land? It's embarrassing how hostile this forum is at times. There are a lot of very unwelcoming people on it. It should be a proper little community. Ireland's small, most of us are here for the same reasons, so I don't know why there has to be such bitchiness. And it mostly seems to be from older/longer-serving members. Don't get me wrong, the majority of people we've spoken to on Fab have been lovely but there's a nasty, bitchy undertone constantly present in the forum. It's like these "regulars" are irked that new people want to join their "scene".
Have to agree.. We have sound it very intimidating to reach out and try to join the 'elite'
Who is this elite? Having read over your posts I didn't see anything that would give you the idea that you were being pushed away by said elite...
The only post i have made is about nimhneach asking people have they have gone.. We havent posted about anything else ie tips, opinions on profile how to actually get started here other than setting up the fab site!! We are only her a few weeks but from even flicking through some of the other posts the way some people talk to others asking for advice etc is shocking!! As newbies its it feels like until we are meet verified by someone who is known on the forums, we are automatically considered fake profiles or time wasters.. I wouldnt put anything up here... Dont get me wrong there are some lovely people here just in my opinion unless your with the 'in' crowd you can forget about it.. Hence we have stuck with other newbies. Ireland swinging is very small, cliques and other such nonsense will be why it stays so small. We are all here for naughty fun at the end of the day
No ye have only put up one thread but have done a few posts, and as far as cliques go I can tell ya we are involved in no clique, we have actually never met anyone off the forums and have only chatted to one person privately thru messages, we too are only noobs, I very rarely put up.a thread but I do give my opinion on posts if someone asks for opinions, most times people don't agree with my opinion but that's not my fault, in my opinion if you put up a thread looking for peoples input then you should be able to take both the good and the bad..oh and also if all newbies stick together is that not in itself a clique ye have created
Lol fair point!!! Thats not what we are trying to do though, we dont care for clicks.. Only dead fish go with the flow, im merely pointing out that its intimidating for anyone to put something up here. Esp the single guys, really feels like theres a foodchain here or have i completly got the wrong end of the stick?? Ooohhh annnnd we have messaged ye when we just started up and you did say come back when your verified!! Shows my whole point that you yourself have done, not having a go though
It is intimidating to post here, but if you have a look over threads that have been single guys just saying hi and introducing themselves they are received very well, and the reason I say come bk when your verified is because we have been fucked around by so many fakes, have had our pics stolen and fake accounts set up that we find it very hard to take people on face value, no offence meant by it, and trust me ye will find out for yourselves how many fakes and wasters are on here, and they can be very convincing...
Oh and I also said photo verified which takes two minutes and ye never got back to us
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"Many of my UK friends read the Irish forums... Most of them tell me they wouldnt see as much drama on eastenders as they would here... Yes we have trolls... Yes we have the shit throwers... Plenty of bitching... And yes I'm guilty of bitching too... But it's simple you don't like what you see or it annoys you don't comment! Read a different thread! If it pisses you off don't read the forums let alone comment... The forums were mighty craic and always gave me a good laugh reading them but those days are long gone... Cj and McCarthy and even willie mc fuckbucket have always brought a laugh to the place,they are a bit like the father the son and the holy ghost! But I don't think even they can resurrect the forums now..." I want DNA Proof if I am the father On the other hand if I am the son where's my pocket money for all those years u bastard
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" IF YOU ACT LIKE AN ASSHOLE, BE PREPARED TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE. " I disagree with this one. It's eye for an eye philosophy and goes in line with saying a rude woman deserves abuse. A very wise man (which also happened to be my father) taught be once if someone treats you with disrespect, keep your standards up and under no circumstances let them slip, because the moment you do so you've lost the battle and you put yourself on the same level as they are. The best way to fight a troll is to ignore them. An aggressive and ignorant poster should get a polite but firm answer. | |||
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"Nobody deserves abuse. ...everybody deserves respect....even if u don't agree with their post or comment. Suggest the certain peeps should stop to think before they hit send on that thread post. Peace and love (and sex ! Lol) to all. "Funny you say no one deserves abuse yet on your previous post above you call other posts shite | |||
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"Oops, sorry..... Can someone tell me where the 'Kiss, Fuck, Pass thread is??
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" IF YOU ACT LIKE AN ASSHOLE, BE PREPARED TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE. I disagree with this one. It's eye for an eye philosophy and goes in line with saying a rude woman deserves abuse. A very wise man (which also happened to be my father) taught be once if someone treats you with disrespect, keep your standards up and under no circumstances let them slip, because the moment you do so you've lost the battle and you put yourself on the same level as they are. The best way to fight a troll is to ignore them. An aggressive and ignorant poster should get a polite but firm answer. " You're right of course. I'm just sick of dealing with assholes | |||
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"Yes yosser. ..cos it was shite. ...but I didn't abuse anybody "Thats hardly fair, if it's someone's opinion and you disagree fair enough.no need to abuse (i use the term lightly ) their comment. | |||
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" IF YOU ACT LIKE AN ASSHOLE, BE PREPARED TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE. I disagree with this one. It's eye for an eye philosophy and goes in line with saying a rude woman deserves abuse. A very wise man (which also happened to be my father) taught be once if someone treats you with disrespect, keep your standards up and under no circumstances let them slip, because the moment you do so you've lost the battle and you put yourself on the same level as they are. The best way to fight a troll is to ignore them. An aggressive and ignorant poster should get a polite but firm answer. " I couldn't have put it better myself but the unfortunate thing is a lot of the trolls are well respected and well known members who really don't give a rats about being disrespectful. This is as much a female problem as male. I suppose another classic saying is "if you have nothing good to say, say nothing at all" | |||
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"What is the thread called that the OP is talking about in the original post? " It's called 'Not replying'. | |||
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" IF YOU ACT LIKE AN ASSHOLE, BE PREPARED TO BE TREATED LIKE ONE. I disagree with this one. It's eye for an eye philosophy and goes in line with saying a rude woman deserves abuse. A very wise man (which also happened to be my father) taught be once if someone treats you with disrespect, keep your standards up and under no circumstances let them slip, because the moment you do so you've lost the battle and you put yourself on the same level as they are. The best way to fight a troll is to ignore them. An aggressive and ignorant poster should get a polite but firm answer. "
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"Not condoning the extent of the repsonses on that thread, but do you not think perhaps that the OP was trying to elicit those responses? Ooh! There's a novel thought... Even if that was the case, then he proved exactly what he wanted to achieve: put a regular reoccurring question as a newbie out there and the vultures come in. The amount of aggression on that thread was appaling. I consequently stayed completely away as I don't support nor accept behaviour like this. " | |||
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"Normal people don't spend all their time talking to anonymous strangers on a sex site so most aren't aware that certain topics keep coming up,whether they are newbies or not And the forum search function isn't great as you have to know exactly what your searching for,any nuance and you won't find the subject I often wonder about the posters who post "use the search function" Are they afraid we are going to run out of bytes and fill the internet?" ^^^ this
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"Personally I think it comes down to how the question is asked how good or bad the reactions will be. I saw on the UK forum last week that a guy pretty much asked the same question but it was how he asked it. He basically just asked the members to give him feedback on his profile as he wasn't having much success and stated he was willing to listen to criticism. From the parts I read it seemed to be a very civilized discussion. Because he wasn't doing the 'poor me' act the members seemed happy to help him out." Very succinct. Most long term members here will help out a genuine query. | |||
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"Personally I think it comes down to how the question is asked how good or bad the reactions will be. I saw on the UK forum last week that a guy pretty much asked the same question but it was how he asked it. He basically just asked the members to give him feedback on his profile as he wasn't having much success and stated he was willing to listen to criticism. From the parts I read it seemed to be a very civilized discussion. Because he wasn't doing the 'poor me' act the members seemed happy to help him out. Very succinct. Most long term members here will help out a genuine query." | |||
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"Personally I think it comes down to how the question is asked how good or bad the reactions will be. I saw on the UK forum last week that a guy pretty much asked the same question but it was how he asked it. He basically just asked the members to give him feedback on his profile as he wasn't having much success and stated he was willing to listen to criticism. From the parts I read it seemed to be a very civilized discussion. Because he wasn't doing the 'poor me' act the members seemed happy to help him out. Very succinct. Most long term members here will help out a genuine query. "Apart from this guy.... | |||
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