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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Getting a right pain in me bollox being nice too ladys only for them too read a message an then delete it.

It only takes 2 mins too say no thanks no wonder the ladys here get abuse because the rudeness is unbelievable when it comes too ladys not replying

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By *llen n SebbCouple  over a year ago

Walkinstown

Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask. "
like I just don't see why it's so hard too type back not intrested after all I put into the mail along with face pics etc it don't bother me if there not intrested but just reading a mail them deleting it is just rude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask. like I just don't see why it's so hard too type back not intrested after all I put into the mail along with face pics etc it don't bother me if there not intrested but just reading a mail them deleting it is just rude "

I think it's safe to assume that a deleted mail means they're not interested.

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself.

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Oh you just have to be patient!!

I sent a message 10 months ago.... haven't had a reply YET!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. "
lol big boy pants are up

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Are you for.feckin real? So what if they don't reply, and from this thread you come across slightly unhinged sooo I don't think you've done yourself any favours

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? "
well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always reply when I'm not interested, but I'd say about 50% of the time that leads to guys asking why not?? Some guys think any reply is a chance. Or guys looking for advice on why they can't get meets, or just plain slinging abuse.

The nasty people on here do make you wonder why you even bothered replying in the first place.

I'm not excusing rudeness or bad behaviour but on this site no reply = not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Are you for.feckin real? So what if they don't reply, and from this thread you come across slightly unhinged sooo I don't think you've done yourself any favours"
haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can only add my bit to this from MY point of view.

Having always tried to reply to people with a polite no thank you all i can say is that the replies i received back were not very nice

I've been abused and called all sorts of nasty names just because i declined.

On top of that i've found that a lot of guys can't just politely accept the polite reply of no thank you as they want to know why and what's wrong with them etc etc

Just because someone has said no thanks does NOT mean that there is something wrong with you,it just simply means that you are not for that person in my opinion.

So now i no longer reply the polite no thank you as it causes less hassle to just delete the mail and i would never want to offend anyone in doing so but it's just how it has to be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes "

Grow up

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up "

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I can only add my bit to this from MY point of view.

Having always tried to reply to people with a polite no thank you all i can say is that the replies i received back were not very nice

I've been abused and called all sorts of nasty names just because i declined.

On top of that i've found that a lot of guys can't just politely accept the polite reply of no thank you as they want to know why and what's wrong with them etc etc

Just because someone has said no thanks does NOT mean that there is something wrong with you,it just simply means that you are not for that person in my opinion.

So now i no longer reply the polite no thank you as it causes less hassle to just delete the mail and i would never want to offend anyone in doing so but it's just how it has to be."

I can handle ah no thanks it's the ignoring part I can't handle yes some guys can't take a no but not all of us are like that this is my hole point of my thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ?"

what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

*Taken from FAQs of the site:

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

It's beyond me how so many people have NEVER read the FAQs or even the rules here...

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By *ohn MingoMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes "

That will definitely make them want to meet you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

Grow up "

sorry did I hit a nerve I'm fully grown up some the women here need growing up and learn how too be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"*Taken from FAQs of the site:

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

It's beyond me how so many people have NEVER read the FAQs or even the rules here... "

yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

That will definitely make them want to meet you. "

hope so

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

Grow up sorry did I hit a nerve I'm fully grown up some the women here need growing up and learn how too be nice "

You just sound like an idiot is all. So you'd rather a "no thanks" message? Why is that any better than no reply at all

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Getting a right pain in me bollox being nice too ladys only for them too read a message an then delete it.

It only takes 2 mins too say no thanks no wonder the ladys here get abuse because the rudeness is unbelievable when it comes too ladys not replying "

Don't message them again,that'll teach them

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ? what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve "

clearly someone hurt you precious little feelings by not replying to your mails. im just sick of the whingy little dopes who cry over not getting replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

Grow up sorry did I hit a nerve I'm fully grown up some the women here need growing up and learn how too be nice

You just sound like an idiot is all. So you'd rather a "no thanks" message? Why is that any better than no reply at all "

it's called being nice too someone in return who messaged you in the first place that's why it's better it's rude too ignore someone who put in effort of mailing an sending photos in the first place

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ? what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve

clearly someone hurt you precious little feelings by not replying to your mails. im just sick of the whingy little dopes who cry over not getting replies "

awww bless ya I'm sick of women who are rude on here so your all good there and btw I ain't no dope or a whingy one like the way u put it

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

then why did you start a whingy dope thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aren't forum threads great

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"then why did you start a whingy dope thread ?"
the only one whinging here is you not me dude but yeh what ever ur smoking

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By *icketyupWoman  over a year ago

dublin

Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ? what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve

clearly someone hurt you precious little feelings by not replying to your mails. im just sick of the whingy little dopes who cry over not getting replies awww bless ya I'm sick of women who are rude on here so your all good there and btw I ain't no dope or a whingy one like the way u put it "

In all fairness no one is obliged to message bk, and it happens to couples and single women as well!! So just suck it up like we all have to, also put away the aul shovel and stop digging a hole for yourself...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ? what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve

clearly someone hurt you precious little feelings by not replying to your mails. im just sick of the whingy little dopes who cry over not getting replies "

Maybe ignore these threads if they annoy you that much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I can only add my bit to this from MY point of view.

Having always tried to reply to people with a polite no thank you all i can say is that the replies i received back were not very nice

I've been abused and called all sorts of nasty names just because i declined.

On top of that i've found that a lot of guys can't just politely accept the polite reply of no thank you as they want to know why and what's wrong with them etc etc

Just because someone has said no thanks does NOT mean that there is something wrong with you,it just simply means that you are not for that person in my opinion.

So now i no longer reply the polite no thank you as it causes less hassle to just delete the mail and i would never want to offend anyone in doing so but it's just how it has to be."

I have to agree with this a lot of men don't accept a simple no thanks so it's easier to just not reply most of the time. It's hard to distinguish between the men who will accept it and move and the men who will ask why not and get abusive

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it."

actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. lol big boy pants are up

clearly they are not if you are butt hurt over not getting a reply. maybe you accidentally bought the big girl pants ? what ever dude I hope I didn't hit a nerve

clearly someone hurt you precious little feelings by not replying to your mails. im just sick of the whingy little dopes who cry over not getting replies

Maybe ignore these threads if they annoy you that much "

yes this mr _aid back

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By *tarbeckCouple  over a year ago

york

Just popped in for a nosey , im leaveing now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys "

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

It is annoying when you have gone to the effort to write a witty and seemingly irresistible email but it comes with the territory and there really ins't much point in getting too worked up about it.

I reply to all myself but no doubt may members get multiples of the mails i receive..... if it's read, it's read that's really all you need to know...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy..."

that's for private mail only and I have no intrest in couples so I don't see a need too give you both any example but I'm very nice when mailing ladys

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone "

nope just stating a fact that some women here are just too dam rude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy... that's for private mail only and I have no intrest in couples so I don't see a need too give you both any example but I'm very nice when mailing ladys "

Well I'm sure that the single lady's get lots and lots of these nice mails, and they probably get a bit repetitive after a while, no matter how unique you think your "nice" mails are, remember there's hundreds of guys who are trying out these nice mails as well

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone nope just stating a fact that some women here are just too dam rude "

If you think they're rude then I'm sure you wouldn't want to meet them anyway.

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

obviously your mails aren't that nice because you can't get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy... that's for private mail only and I have no intrest in couples so I don't see a need too give you both any example but I'm very nice when mailing ladys

Well I'm sure that the single lady's get lots and lots of these nice mails, and they probably get a bit repetitive after a while, no matter how unique you think your "nice" mails are, remember there's hundreds of guys who are trying out these nice mails as well "

very well are u finished now??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy... that's for private mail only and I have no intrest in couples so I don't see a need too give you both any example but I'm very nice when mailing ladys

Well I'm sure that the single lady's get lots and lots of these nice mails, and they probably get a bit repetitive after a while, no matter how unique you think your "nice" mails are, remember there's hundreds of guys who are trying out these nice mails as well very well are u finished now?? "

not quite yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"obviously your mails aren't that nice because you can't get a reply. "
haha like I said above my mails are very nice but hey not my fault u can't follow a simple thread

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am now best of luck in your quest....your gonna need it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone nope just stating a fact that some women here are just too dam rude "

Your first post is whingey

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

Give us an example of what you would write as a nice message from a genuine guy... that's for private mail only and I have no intrest in couples so I don't see a need too give you both any example but I'm very nice when mailing ladys

Well I'm sure that the single lady's get lots and lots of these nice mails, and they probably get a bit repetitive after a while, no matter how unique you think your "nice" mails are, remember there's hundreds of guys who are trying out these nice mails as well very well are u finished now??

not quite yet"

and whys that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone nope just stating a fact that some women here are just too dam rude

Your first post is whingey "

must have also hit a nerve with you too

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am now best of luck in your quest....your gonna need it"
likewise too both of you two

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you're whinging too

I will hold my hands up and admit I'm terrible for replying. But that's because most of the time I get a "why not" back. Plus I have messaged people and received no reply. It's expected here. Happens to everyone nope just stating a fact that some women here are just too dam rude "

How's this for a fact.site rules says that a no reply should be taken as a no thanks.fact

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Stop whinging

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"obviously your mails aren't that nice because you can't get a reply. haha like I said above my mails are very nice but hey not my fault u can't follow a simple thread "

sorry I was replying to all the replies I got from all the mails I sent out lol

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By *icketyupWoman  over a year ago

dublin


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys "

My point was people don't specifically ask you personally to mail them. People are trying to give you advice and a few have explained why people may or may not reply but you're not even attempting to take that on board. Realistically this thread is showing a lot about your character but it also shows you actually didn't post it for anything else but a row.

Before you say it no you've not hit a nerve with me, I reply to everyone who mails me and very nicely too.

But good luck, hopefully you get some replies and if not they're obviously not the type of person you would like to meet anyway as you'd consider them rude!! Good luck op!!

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


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sorry I was replying to all the replies I got from all the mails I sent out lol"

Both of them??

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By *aid backMan  over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


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sorry I was replying to all the replies I got from all the mails I sent out lol

Both of them?? "

actually it was 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it. actually yes they did and some stated on there profile attach photos the only people here are whinging are those who are most likely the ones who ignore genuine nice mails from guys

My point was people don't specifically ask you personally to mail them. People are trying to give you advice and a few have explained why people may or may not reply but you're not even attempting to take that on board. Realistically this thread is showing a lot about your character but it also shows you actually didn't post it for anything else but a row.

Before you say it no you've not hit a nerve with me, I reply to everyone who mails me and very nicely too.

But good luck, hopefully you get some replies and if not they're obviously not the type of person you would like to meet anyway as you'd consider them rude!! Good luck op!!"

very well thanks for that see ya now

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By *oughandCurvyCouple  over a year ago

galway

Oh dear

Okay firstly it's everyone's own choice whether to reply or not so deal with it, it might seem rude but in our case 95% of messages we get are from people who've not read our profile so I've no interest in engaging in conversation let alone anything else.

Secondly you have to consider that maybe yours isn't the only message that couple or lady got today? Im sure people have real life things to be doing rather than replying no thanks to 20+ mails from people they aren't interested in.

And finally just like what many others have said it's rarely as simple as saying "I'm not interested" and that being the end of it 9 out of 10 times There's either the "why not" or the abusive "well I wouldn't want to shag you anyway" messages which is the same crap we get in bars and clubs and everyday life there is never an easy "no thanks" so in future take the silence as our no thanks and go on your merry way!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken "
sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh dear

Okay firstly it's everyone's own choice whether to reply or not so deal with it, it might seem rude but in our case 95% of messages we get are from people who've not read our profile so I've no interest in engaging in conversation let alone anything else.

Secondly you have to consider that maybe yours isn't the only message that couple or lady got today? Im sure people have real life things to be doing rather than replying no thanks to 20+ mails from people they aren't interested in.

And finally just like what many others have said it's rarely as simple as saying "I'm not interested" and that being the end of it 9 out of 10 times There's either the "why not" or the abusive "well I wouldn't want to shag you anyway" messages which is the same crap we get in bars and clubs and everyday life there is never an easy "no thanks" so in future take the silence as our no thanks and go on your merry way!"

well that told me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now "

Hey me again!! One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks

Wouldn't worry about it... Women won't meet guys with a right pain in their bollox anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Hey me again!! One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now..."

yep see ya now

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now..."

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now "

Yeah but women do talk to each other

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other "

ah ha but not all of them maybe behind each other's back or the same owl biddys on the forums might pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!! "

Is that where the clique hang out?

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!!

Is that where the clique hang out?"

They are 1 row back, on the left!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Stop whinging

"

Woohoooo.....

Where would ya get it??

When a whingy thread turns into a barn dance

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

Grow up sorry did I hit a nerve I'm fully grown up some the women here need growing up and learn how too be nice "

The women never asked you to message them, do you reply to all the junk mail you receive through the post or email?? The only rude thing here is you moaning.. get over it

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By *ardy cowboyMan  over a year ago

every wheat field around Midlands

If they reply with a yes or no answer well good , if not, fuck them their not worth the bother.move swiftly along to the next lady that tickles your fancy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So if someone doesn't reply they deserve abuse? well if there rude too someone else they deserve too get rudeness in return in my eyes

Grow up sorry did I hit a nerve I'm fully grown up some the women here need growing up and learn how too be nice

The women never asked you to message them, do you reply to all the junk mail you receive through the post or email?? The only rude thing here is you moaning.. get over it "

ouch

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If they reply with a yes or no answer well good , if not, fuck them their not worth the bother.move swiftly along to the next lady that tickles your fancy."
now ya said fuk the rude women on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wouldn't worry about it... Women won't meet guys with a right pain in their bollox anyway!"

Sooooooo.....

Does that mean they're a right bollox if they have no left testicle??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!!

Is that where the clique hang out?

They are 1 row back, on the left!"

Ah that's what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP u should not take non reply as personal. The recipient obviously doesn't want to interact if it will waste ur time and theirs. Just keep trying and you will get responses from those that are interested. I now have filters on mail so I get no mail from single guys. That keeps my mail manageable, and manages expectations. No point in chatting if I am not in a position to meet.

Be patient and good luck

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!!

Is that where the clique hang out?

They are 1 row back, on the left!

Ah that's what I was thinking"

The Sunday World should have a photo so you can see who is where!

One must keep things in order!

All the newbies sit at the front..

those with Green Flags in Row 2 etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I presume, from your status OP, that the aim of this thread was just to rile people up?

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By *ohn MingoMan  over a year ago

Dublin

Nice going OP. start off with the "look at me" whinge to get some replies, but then when the majority of replies aren't what you agree with you shut em down with short defensive dismissive answers. You blew your load too soon man, you showed your true colours too early.

If you're new, you've already peaked. Tough luck.

If you're our old pal sligo or knickersoaker on another alias profile, fair play, you're adapting.

Troll rating: 4/10. good start, but poor end game.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" One last thing, just because they don't interact doesn't mean the don't look...and women on here chat to each other sooooo....see ya now...

Next you'll be saying there's a grapevine!!

Is that where the clique hang out?

They are 1 row back, on the left!

Ah that's what I was thinking

The Sunday World should have a photo so you can see who is where!

One must keep things in order!

All the newbies sit at the front..

those with Green Flags in Row 2 etc"

The Sunday world are probably working on this already, kinda like the things ya see in mafia movies when the cops are sorting out the hierarchy of the mob, well seeing that swinging is top of their public enemy no.1 list...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"Nice going OP. start off with the "look at me" whinge to get some replies, but then when the majority of replies aren't what you agree with you shut em down with short defensive dismissive answers. You blew your load too soon man, you showed your true colours too early.

If you're new, you've already peaked. Tough luck.

If you're our old pal sligo or knickersoaker on another alias profile, fair play, you're adapting.

Troll rating: 4/10. good start, but poor end game. "

So Fanta has lost his fizz??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have !

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nice going OP. start off with the "look at me" whinge to get some replies, but then when the majority of replies aren't what you agree with you shut em down with short defensive dismissive answers. You blew your load too soon man, you showed your true colours too early.

If you're new, you've already peaked. Tough luck.

If you're our old pal sligo or knickersoaker on another alias profile, fair play, you're adapting.

Troll rating: 4/10. good start, but poor end game.

So Fanta has lost his fizz?? "

Orange ya glad he has, think he's just a fanta-sist

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Nice going OP. start off with the "look at me" whinge to get some replies, but then when the majority of replies aren't what you agree with you shut em down with short defensive dismissive answers. You blew your load too soon man, you showed your true colours too early.

If you're new, you've already peaked. Tough luck.

If you're our old pal sligo or knickersoaker on another alias profile, fair play, you're adapting.

Troll rating: 4/10. good start, but poor end game. "

Na mate I ain't Sligo at least I can spell but hey good too see someone thinking of others that are no longer here well done boy

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

The Sunday world are probably working on this already, kinda like the things ya see in mafia movies when the cops are sorting out the hierarchy of the mob, well seeing that swinging is top of their public enemy no.1 list..."

Oh next week it is "The Rude Women of Ireland".. IN COLOUR!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have !"

well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I presume, from your status OP, that the aim of this thread was just to rile people up? "
not really no I know the spa sticks on the forums that have no intention of swinging or meeting up and just on here too put others down an cause problems for us genuine guys it's not aimed at the genuine swingers

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By *ohn MingoMan  over a year ago

Dublin


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol"

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

The Sunday world are probably working on this already, kinda like the things ya see in mafia movies when the cops are sorting out the hierarchy of the mob, well seeing that swinging is top of their public enemy no.1 list...

Oh next week it is "The Rude Women of Ireland".. IN COLOUR!!"

Written by Fanta...

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have !"

Next you will be saying you have a life outside of FAB!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

"

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office"

Ahh No... that guy is nice!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not, but it works for me. I've rarely had a rude response to a no thanks, and the one time I did I blocked and reported the culprit.

I do think though that if someone asks for a pic then doesn't reply after receiving it, it's extremely rude.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office

Ahh No... that guy is nice!! "

No not him,he's sound, this guy is only the relief gaurd

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

"

Yes and No!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

Yes and No!! "

Hmmm, now I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not, but it works for me. I've rarely had a rude response to a no thanks, and the one time I did I blocked and reported the culprit.

I do think though that if someone asks for a pic then doesn't reply after receiving it, it's extremely rude. "

this is what I'm talking about

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office"

having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

"

sorry auto correct on the phone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills "

Ya I could save your life to, also Im off work sick at the mo and pay all my own bills soooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Oh you sound just like the type of person I want to meet

Look you've said its rude not to reply when you've went to the effort of mailing and attaching pictures BUT did that person/couple ask you to mail them with pictures?? No!! So if it upsets you that much just don't bother mailing. But whatever you decide, stop bloody whinging about it."

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills

Ya I could save your life to, also Im off work sick at the mo and pay all my own bills soooooooooo"

and your point isssss

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Look at all the replies you got OP

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Stop whinging

Woohoooo.....

Where would ya get it??

When a whingy thread turns into a barn dance

"

Love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Look at all the replies you got OP "
I know quite some friendly ones too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 02/03/16 15:16:16]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

2 mins x 100 = how many minutes?

1 min even x 200 messages =?

I love the violin also

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I am off now to work four till two shift so I can pay tax to buy your uniform that you sit around in while you on here all day wondering why other people not have time to answer your mails it do fill my heart with joy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

No reply......tells me no interest,do i realy need to know why there not interested,not realy....if all the people on here messaged me back that their not interested for what ever reason I dont think it would do my ego any good....no reply is a nice way of saying NO....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills

Ya I could save your life to, also Im off work sick at the mo and pay all my own bills soooooooooo and your point isssss "

Weeeeellllll you were bigging yourself up saying you could save my life, I was informing you that I could save your life to, then you implied that the guy in the dole pays his bills, I was informing you that I pay mine also soooooo...oh and I would like to have to rely on you for CPR as you'd probably get in a huff and refuse to do it when the patient doesn't reply when your trying to rouse them

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Look at all the replies you got OP I know quite some friendly ones too "

Wow you are going to be so popular now!!

You're going to need to borrow a wig to disguise yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am off now to work four till two shift so I can pay tax to buy your uniform that you sit around in while you on here all day wondering why other people not have time to answer your mails it do fill my heart with joy "
very well you do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills

Ya I could save your life to, also Im off work sick at the mo and pay all my own bills soooooooooo and your point isssss

Weeeeellllll you were bigging yourself up saying you could save my life, I was informing you that I could save your life to, then you implied that the guy in the dole pays his bills, I was informing you that I pay mine also soooooo...oh and I would like to have to rely on you for CPR as you'd probably get in a huff and refuse to do it when the patient doesn't reply when your trying to rouse them "

if you think so anyway see ya now for the second time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am off now to work four till two shift so I can pay tax to buy your uniform that you sit around in while you on here all day wondering why other people not have time to answer your mails it do fill my heart with joy "

Well to be fair public sector workers pay tax as well

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Look at all the replies you got OP I know quite some friendly ones too

Wow you are going to be so popular now!!

You're going to need to borrow a wig to disguise yourself "

brilliant I like being popular

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"You get the knob heads that not be bothered to read me profile and still mail me anyway to stop mailing me and I be able to answer all mails then .

My profile say mid week meets only and a half hour drive for me max . Three quarters of me mail not seem to be able to grasp what that do mean .

I wish people had to use real town names . I waste a load of time everyday cause I have to check the profile when the mail say he do live in sexytown.

I started off mailing a no thanks but that always just cause another mail Why Not ? . So you say just a two mins to answer so thats 40 mails a day and maybe 38 why not mails as well . So thats two and a half hours a day day to say no thanks . I not have the time we not all have government jobs like the OP have ! well if you do t have the time why u hear then haha but hey your all good thanks for the advice or I dunno lol

...and you claim you can spell?

if this is the calibre of our men in uniform then they country is fucked.

By men in uniform i'd be thinking he's the security guard down the local dole office having fun taken the piss out of someone that could save your life fair play too you. And the guy who works in the dole office ain't me but at least he has a job that pays the bills

Ya I could save your life to, also Im off work sick at the mo and pay all my own bills soooooooooo and your point isssss

Weeeeellllll you were bigging yourself up saying you could save my life, I was informing you that I could save your life to, then you implied that the guy in the dole pays his bills, I was informing you that I pay mine also soooooo...oh and I would like to have to rely on you for CPR as you'd probably get in a huff and refuse to do it when the patient doesn't reply when your trying to rouse them if you think so anyway see ya now for the second time "

3rd time isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I am off now to work four till two shift so I can pay tax to buy your uniform that you sit around in while you on here all day wondering why other people not have time to answer your mails it do fill my heart with joy

Well to be fair public sector workers pay tax as well "

that is very true quite a lot of tax actually

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By *lfieWoman  over a year ago

South Dublin

I rarely reply, says so in my profile though. And if I get the same copy paste message a few times, I block. And if I get asked for a face pic in the first message I block. Just saves it happening again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

Yes and No!!

Hmmm, now I'm confused "

Thank you! Good to know I have SOME effect on females...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone "

Your welcome...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome..."

bar you see ya now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now "

How.rude!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! "

shocking ain't it see ya now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask. like I just don't see why it's so hard too type back not intrested after all I put into the mail along with face pics etc it don't bother me if there not intrested but just reading a mail them deleting it is just rude

I think it's safe to assume that a deleted mail means they're not interested. "

Yep it can be a bummer when someone has a quote from a midsummer nights dream on their profile you send a polite mail in response that is not rude but tongue in cheek from Macbeth in an attempt to stimulate their intelect and they either havnt got the manners or the wit to give some sort of reply.Yes sending polite messages in a fun and humorous way with a modicum of respect and intellect can be a bummer when all you get is the delete button .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now "

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! "

your free too do what you wish

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask. like I just don't see why it's so hard too type back not intrested after all I put into the mail along with face pics etc it don't bother me if there not intrested but just reading a mail them deleting it is just rude

I think it's safe to assume that a deleted mail means they're not interested.

Yep it can be a bummer when someone has a quote from a midsummer nights dream on their profile you send a polite mail in response that is not rude but tongue in cheek from Macbeth in an attempt to stimulate their intelect and they either havnt got the manners or the wit to give some sort of reply.Yes sending polite messages in a fun and humorous way with a modicum of respect and intellect can be a bummer when all you get is the delete button . "

well said dude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I rarely reply, says so in my profile though. And if I get the same copy paste message a few times, I block. And if I get asked for a face pic in the first message I block. Just saves it happening again. "

Wait.... You mean you have a face??

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish "

why thank you kindly

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish why thank you kindly"

yep see ya now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not, but it works for me. I've rarely had a rude response to a no thanks, and the one time I did I blocked and reported the culprit.

I do think though that if someone asks for a pic then doesn't reply after receiving it, it's extremely rude. this is what I'm talking about "

I knew

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

Yes and No!!

Hmmm, now I'm confused

Thank you! Good to know I have SOME effect on females... "

Is that the effect you were aiming for?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish why thank you kindly yep see ya now "

no ya wont

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If we reply were timewasters...

(Why chat get my hopes up if your not interested in meeting...)

If we don't reply were rude....

(Read message then delete,cause were sick of your hi,how's you messages and don't have time to reply)

Your dammed if you do...

Dammed if ya don't....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The vast vast vast majority of messages we get is "hi how r u" or "nice pics, wot u in2" or similar. Those just get deleted straight away. If someone's not going to make an effort in their message, then why should we make the effort to reply.

If someone has put effort into their message then generally we will reply, even if not interested. However sometimes we forget. We get a lot of messages from single guys on here (as do most couples and single women I'm sure) so there are a lot to sift through. You have to stand out. "Nice" messages don't cut it, they're bland. Witty and/or well-written, intelligent ones are the ones that stand out in our book and are the ones we'll generally reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing worse than a right pain in the Bollocks

Not reading the rest. Saw violins Nuff said

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish why thank you kindly yep see ya now

no ya wont"

thank god for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Nothing worse than a right pain in the Bollocks

Not reading the rest. Saw violins Nuff said

"

yep

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, if they don't reply, they're not interested, just move on, might get lucky one day, having said that. SOME women on here think they are so popular with their sarcasm on threads and status updates, one would think on a normal night out, be it a bar or club, they would need a few bodyguards to keep the men back..

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If we reply were timewasters...

(Why chat get my hopes up if your not interested in meeting...)

If we don't reply were rude....

(Read message then delete,cause were sick of your hi,how's you messages and don't have time to reply)

Your dammed if you do...

Dammed if ya don't...."

fairly confusing alright

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish why thank you kindly yep see ya now

no ya wont thank god for that "

Ah now don't be nasty

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside

If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP, if they don't reply, they're not interested, just move on, might get lucky one day, having said that. SOME women on here think they are so popular with their sarcasm on threads and status updates, one would think on a normal night out, be it a bar or club, they would need a few bodyguards to keep the men back.. "
haha there just the attention seekers there the lassies I avoid lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site."

may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yaaaay glad I put this up getting a few mails now off some not so rude females thanks everyone

Your welcome... bar you see ya now

How.rude!!! shocking ain't it see ya now

Maybe I should start a thread about it!!! your free too do what you wish why thank you kindly yep see ya now

no ya wont thank god for that

Ah now don't be nasty "

no one here being nasty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment "

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time?"

that's none of your business

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time? that's none of your business "

Riiiight...each to their own I suppose...ya big charmer ya

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time? that's none of your business "

I think it's pretty safe to assume if you're on a swingers site and someone messages you its for some kind of sexual encounter. I really don't think anyone on this joined to find life long vanilla friends. I could be wrong but I doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other "

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well..

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By *ub_leitrim_guyMan  over a year ago

Out in the sticks


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

Yes and No!!

Hmmm, now I'm confused

Thank you! Good to know I have SOME effect on females...

Is that the effect you were aiming for? "

You're confusing me!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well.. "

Been scorned before eh?

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By *herry_bombshellWoman  over a year ago

northside


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well..

Been scorned before eh?"

This is 1 reason the forums are great. You can quickly suss who to block

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time? that's none of your business

I think it's pretty safe to assume if you're on a swingers site and someone messages you its for some kind of sexual encounter. I really don't think anyone on this joined to find life long vanilla friends. I could be wrong but I doubt it "

iv seen it happen iv also seen people marrying each other an they met on swing sites so it does happen maybe not often but it's out there

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By *isdirtygirlWoman  over a year ago

Dublin

These threads surface time and time again. There was a discussion about this yesterday and last week.Op as much as i and others would like to see a change of attitude on here, i doubt its going to happen.Take it on the chin and move on.Eventually someone out there will get your personality and want to learn more about you. Good luck on your quest

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well..

Been scorned before eh?"

not at all, iv been lucky on here, if you read the thread over the years, you would know what im talking about,

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time? that's none of your business

I think it's pretty safe to assume if you're on a swingers site and someone messages you its for some kind of sexual encounter. I really don't think anyone on this joined to find life long vanilla friends. I could be wrong but I doubt it iv seen it happen iv also seen people marrying each other an they met on swing sites so it does happen maybe not often but it's out there "

Awwww so your looking for love, how cute...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By *lfieWoman  over a year ago

South Dublin


"I rarely reply, says so in my profile though. And if I get the same copy paste message a few times, I block. And if I get asked for a face pic in the first message I block. Just saves it happening again.

Wait.... You mean you have a face??

"

Yeah I have eyes, nose, mouth, the whole shebang. Shocking I know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If you don't get a reply the person/couple is justnot interested. Rude or not re:responding. It doesn't really matter does it. They simply aren't interested in having sex with you. Full stop. Sorry if that sounds harsh but dem da facts.

Ps. Moaning about not getting replies is really drawing attention to that simple fact so I don't know why guys seem to have to post these types of topics unless ofc they want everyone to know they have sand in their vagina bc they can't get a quick fuck on a swingers site. may I ask who mentioned sex?? Cause iv never mentioned it maybe re read the thread and then comment

So why are you messaging people if not for sexy time? that's none of your business

I think it's pretty safe to assume if you're on a swingers site and someone messages you its for some kind of sexual encounter. I really don't think anyone on this joined to find life long vanilla friends. I could be wrong but I doubt it iv seen it happen iv also seen people marrying each other an they met on swing sites so it does happen maybe not often but it's out there

Awwww so your looking for love, how cute..."

where are u getting that from

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well..

Been scorned before eh?

This is 1 reason the forums are great. You can quickly suss who to block"

it sure is cherry

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well..

Been scorned before eh?

not at all, iv been lucky on here, if you read the thread over the years, you would know what im talking about, "

Ah but shur that goes on in all walks of life, not just women but guys as well , especially in cork!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"OP you are doing yourself no favours here if you think you are going to get a reply from women after seeing your attitude on this post you are clearly mistaken sure most of the women I mail don't interact with forms or chat rooms so I'm all good there but thanks though see ya now

Yeah but women do talk to each other

yes they do, it has been proven over the years, they tell lies spread innuendos bout people as well.. "

that I will agree on bin here many of times an iv seen it with women on here not all women but some

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"These threads surface time and time again. There was a discussion about this yesterday and last week.Op as much as i and others would like to see a change of attitude on here, i doubt its going to happen.Take it on the chin and move on.Eventually someone out there will get your personality and want to learn more about you. Good luck on your quest "
thanks for that I knew I could upset some people but hey that's just how I feel at the moment no big deal everyone has a rant

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By *isdirtygirlWoman  over a year ago

Dublin


"These threads surface time and time again. There was a discussion about this yesterday and last week.Op as much as i and others would like to see a change of attitude on here, i doubt its going to happen.Take it on the chin and move on.Eventually someone out there will get your personality and want to learn more about you. Good luck on your quest thanks for that I knew I could upset some people but hey that's just how I feel at the moment no big deal everyone has a rant "

No harm in ranting... its good for the mind to let some steam off. I think we ve all done it at some stage. Concentrate on the sexual steam type.

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By *llen n SebbCouple  over a year ago

Walkinstown


"Have to agree. A brief reply is not much to ask. like I just don't see why it's so hard too type back not intrested after all I put into the mail along with face pics etc it don't bother me if there not intrested but just reading a mail them deleting it is just rude

I think it's safe to assume that a deleted mail means they're not interested. "

How is the sender to know if the mail has been deleted ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"When I joined first, I replied to all mails. Then I discovered filters and had much less mail to answer. These days, I'll reply and of they mail back asking why not, I just ignore. Not sure if that counts me in the rude stakes or not,

Yes and No!!

Hmmm, now I'm confused

Thank you! Good to know I have SOME effect on females...

Is that the effect you were aiming for?

You're confusing me!! "

Aha! So it worked then

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By *llen n SebbCouple  over a year ago

Walkinstown


"whinge whinge whinge. why dont you put on your big boy pants and man up. no reply is actually a reply in itself. "

Such bullshit.

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